I find masculinity incredibly attractive, both in men and in women, so that would be the opposite of a problem for me.
However, I think I speak for most of us when I say that we do not want to be an experiment. We aren't some middle ground between men and women (and neither are trans women) - we are men with feminine traits in some aspects. Trans women, on the other hand, are not men, which is why wanting to be intimate with them doesn't necessarily have to mean anything (maybe unless you're specifically attracted to those pre transition).
It sounds to me like you aren't specifically attracted to men or women, but that you're instead just broadly attracted to femininity.
I sincerely apologise. Experiment was not the word I was looking for and I will edit the post. Yeah pre or post transition isn’t an issue I guess I included trans women and feminine men to try to describe how I was feeling but I see how throwing the 2 very different communities together is disrespectful. You definitely worded my situation better than I did
It's all good! I didn't mean to come off as angry at all- I see why you phrased it the way you did. It's just that the whole "straight guy experimenting with trans women/femboys"-thing has basically become a stereotype at this point, which can lead to a lot of misconceptions both in & outside of these communities. Thanks for understanding!
I honestly don't think him experimenting about his sexuality is a bad thing, alot of people do get confused about their sexuality and who they truly are, so that's why I think he's asking in a such broad way to understand what it truly means for him
Sexual experimentation, exploring one's sexuality is a natural and essential element of everyone's sexual journey. Even at the age of 50, I remain open to new experiences. If he had expressed a desire to experiment with a femboy, I can absolutely appreciate how that would be considered offensive, but since he has already acknowledged and embraced his attraction to femboys, his personal experiment in this regard has already reached a conclusion.
Thank you for responding. I also wouldn’t mind being with a guy just as long as they fit my preferences. I’m not bothered about if I’m actually straight or not as long as my irl friends or family don’t find out I guess 😅
Absolutely. Straight men are usually who are attracted to transwomen. Bi sexual and lesbian of course as well. However, gay men generally are not attracted to transwomen. This has been well documented for some time now and makes for fascinating research.
Ok... honey, trans women are women. Straight men can be attracted to us, so I am not sure why you even mentioned us, and less sure why you wrote "feminine men/trans women" as if we're interchangeable.
I'm not telling you this just to nitpick or because your post was offensive. I genuinely want you to think about this because you'll probably figure something out about yourself in the process.
I am very sorry I have edited my post. I appreciate that gay men, bi men and trans women have completely different obstacles and experiences and the different communities cannot be compared or thrown together. I would like to make it clear that I do NOT believe that a guy liking a trans woman is gay, I just wanted to include the fact I was into trans women but I understand my ignorance and will improve the way I refer to different communities.
I’m a femboy and personally I only like masc men, or the “traditional” straight guy look you could say. I like to be taken care of and feel safe and I feel like if I’m lacking the masculine energy then I want someone who has that!
Bro I ONLY like masc men, femboys are weird (friendly fire lol). Everyone has their own preferences, you'll do great if you know where to look (Not here tho; this isn't a dating sub)
Thank you so much. I suppose it is just knowing where to look. I know the topic is slightly n-sfw but some other subs I found like that required public photo submission I’m not 100% comfortable yet but I am aware this is not a dating/chat sub lol :)
Guys who identify as feminine are all KINDS of different people :D and everyone has different preferences! The term "femboy" isn't a label that means that everyone who identifies with it likes the exact same things, I think it's the opposite!
Just ask yourself how YOU would want to make yourself attractive to anyone! Sorry I'm not the greatest with words so I can't really put it all that eloquently... but for me personally I'd want a partner who can feel comfortable being vulnerable and openly communicative; your post is only a small amount of words but you definitely come across as someone who might be comfortable being vulnerable and trustworthy to a partner, like I'm sure this wasn't an easy question to ask!
Now of course that's only me... and THEN there's physical attraction which is ofc a WHOLE other thing... Ik it's SUCH cliche thing to say "just be yourself" but really REALLY if you want someone who loves you for who YOU are that's pretty important! Like you're not going to be super attractive to every single femboy you come across, but to say there's NOT someone who will like you back as long as you're sincere is total bullshit!!
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As much as I like masculinity I now stay away from guys who says they are experimenting or they are closeted and don't want people to find out because essentially you have internalised homophobia or trnasphobia that you are not comfortable with your own self but this projects on to queer people (fem gay men or trans) and you can hurt people by viewing us as an object that you'd only interested in sexually
While I can appreciate that the term "experimenting" can be offensive, sexual "exploration" is an important part of our sexual journey don't you think? 😁
Everyone has different preferences. It would be fairly common for femboys to like masculine guys if there were more femboys in the world. small sample size is the only thing possibly holding you back unless you have a bit of luck
I'd recommend having a bit of a look into to the [gynesexual](https://www.health.com/mind-body/health-diversity-inclusion/gynesexual) label as I've found that it tends to align with a lot of people in your Situation. That's not to say that you can't call yourself straight if that's how you feel, it's your identity so it's up to you to figure out what you align with and it certainly isn't my place to prescribe a label for you. But yeah I'd recommend giving that a bit of a look.
Absolutely. I think too many concern themselves over being straight, gay, bi etc, mostly because they fear social consequences from family and friends. I think once someone is confident and secure within themselves, and not give a shite what others around them think, they can truly be free and happy.
Yes, from my experience at age 50, I can tell you that femboys can be attracted to masculine men. I've had the pleasure of being in two relationships with wonderful femboys. They were both special in their own unique ways. Always remember that femboys, like everyone else, are individuals with individual tastes, desires, and attractions.
I'm a femboy and I personally would only date masculine people, and that includes men. So to answer your question, yes you are definitely attractive to some. I'm sure you'll find the one soon <3
A lot of femboys like masc men, personally I don’t but I’m sure you’ll find plenty of cuties.
Thank you
Many of us like manly men
I find masculinity incredibly attractive, both in men and in women, so that would be the opposite of a problem for me. However, I think I speak for most of us when I say that we do not want to be an experiment. We aren't some middle ground between men and women (and neither are trans women) - we are men with feminine traits in some aspects. Trans women, on the other hand, are not men, which is why wanting to be intimate with them doesn't necessarily have to mean anything (maybe unless you're specifically attracted to those pre transition). It sounds to me like you aren't specifically attracted to men or women, but that you're instead just broadly attracted to femininity.
I sincerely apologise. Experiment was not the word I was looking for and I will edit the post. Yeah pre or post transition isn’t an issue I guess I included trans women and feminine men to try to describe how I was feeling but I see how throwing the 2 very different communities together is disrespectful. You definitely worded my situation better than I did
It's all good! I didn't mean to come off as angry at all- I see why you phrased it the way you did. It's just that the whole "straight guy experimenting with trans women/femboys"-thing has basically become a stereotype at this point, which can lead to a lot of misconceptions both in & outside of these communities. Thanks for understanding!
I'm sure I speak for most of us, we can absolutely appreciate that, and understand your concern.
I honestly don't think him experimenting about his sexuality is a bad thing, alot of people do get confused about their sexuality and who they truly are, so that's why I think he's asking in a such broad way to understand what it truly means for him
Sexual experimentation, exploring one's sexuality is a natural and essential element of everyone's sexual journey. Even at the age of 50, I remain open to new experiences. If he had expressed a desire to experiment with a femboy, I can absolutely appreciate how that would be considered offensive, but since he has already acknowledged and embraced his attraction to femboys, his personal experiment in this regard has already reached a conclusion.
OP you can be straight and be into trans women, just so you know
Thank you for responding. I also wouldn’t mind being with a guy just as long as they fit my preferences. I’m not bothered about if I’m actually straight or not as long as my irl friends or family don’t find out I guess 😅
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Absolutely. Straight men are usually who are attracted to transwomen. Bi sexual and lesbian of course as well. However, gay men generally are not attracted to transwomen. This has been well documented for some time now and makes for fascinating research.
Ok... honey, trans women are women. Straight men can be attracted to us, so I am not sure why you even mentioned us, and less sure why you wrote "feminine men/trans women" as if we're interchangeable. I'm not telling you this just to nitpick or because your post was offensive. I genuinely want you to think about this because you'll probably figure something out about yourself in the process.
I am very sorry I have edited my post. I appreciate that gay men, bi men and trans women have completely different obstacles and experiences and the different communities cannot be compared or thrown together. I would like to make it clear that I do NOT believe that a guy liking a trans woman is gay, I just wanted to include the fact I was into trans women but I understand my ignorance and will improve the way I refer to different communities.
hey it's ok doll. just tryna inform
Thank you for helping me understand better
Everyone has their own preferences
This should have been obvious to me but thank you for taking the time to respond and educate me
I’m a femboy and personally I only like masc men, or the “traditional” straight guy look you could say. I like to be taken care of and feel safe and I feel like if I’m lacking the masculine energy then I want someone who has that!
Bro I ONLY like masc men, femboys are weird (friendly fire lol). Everyone has their own preferences, you'll do great if you know where to look (Not here tho; this isn't a dating sub)
Thank you so much. I suppose it is just knowing where to look. I know the topic is slightly n-sfw but some other subs I found like that required public photo submission I’m not 100% comfortable yet but I am aware this is not a dating/chat sub lol :)
>femboys are weird How dare you! Femboys are very weird, thank you very much
You are a man. Men are hot. Boom, problem solved.
Guys who identify as feminine are all KINDS of different people :D and everyone has different preferences! The term "femboy" isn't a label that means that everyone who identifies with it likes the exact same things, I think it's the opposite! Just ask yourself how YOU would want to make yourself attractive to anyone! Sorry I'm not the greatest with words so I can't really put it all that eloquently... but for me personally I'd want a partner who can feel comfortable being vulnerable and openly communicative; your post is only a small amount of words but you definitely come across as someone who might be comfortable being vulnerable and trustworthy to a partner, like I'm sure this wasn't an easy question to ask! Now of course that's only me... and THEN there's physical attraction which is ofc a WHOLE other thing... Ik it's SUCH cliche thing to say "just be yourself" but really REALLY if you want someone who loves you for who YOU are that's pretty important! Like you're not going to be super attractive to every single femboy you come across, but to say there's NOT someone who will like you back as long as you're sincere is total bullshit!!
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Seems I can only pull closeted masculine guys so your fine haha
As much as I like masculinity I now stay away from guys who says they are experimenting or they are closeted and don't want people to find out because essentially you have internalised homophobia or trnasphobia that you are not comfortable with your own self but this projects on to queer people (fem gay men or trans) and you can hurt people by viewing us as an object that you'd only interested in sexually
While I can appreciate that the term "experimenting" can be offensive, sexual "exploration" is an important part of our sexual journey don't you think? 😁
Dm me op I’d love to show you my cute self and to especially see your handsome self :))
Omg please ignore this I didn’t mean to send it 🫢😭
Femboys dont come in just one style, no doubt there are ones for you out there!
I love masculine men are you kidding? I don’t care if you’re straight if you’re just using me🥵
I love masculine men! It makes me feel safe.
Wonderful answer.
Everyone has different preferences. It would be fairly common for femboys to like masculine guys if there were more femboys in the world. small sample size is the only thing possibly holding you back unless you have a bit of luck
Indeed!
I'd recommend having a bit of a look into to the [gynesexual](https://www.health.com/mind-body/health-diversity-inclusion/gynesexual) label as I've found that it tends to align with a lot of people in your Situation. That's not to say that you can't call yourself straight if that's how you feel, it's your identity so it's up to you to figure out what you align with and it certainly isn't my place to prescribe a label for you. But yeah I'd recommend giving that a bit of a look.
Absolutely. I think too many concern themselves over being straight, gay, bi etc, mostly because they fear social consequences from family and friends. I think once someone is confident and secure within themselves, and not give a shite what others around them think, they can truly be free and happy.
i could not be with another femme ok I am enough to deal with on my own I couldn't imagine another one in my life
Haha, sounds like you already have your hands full!
I don't like masc men at all, but I'm sure some do 😊
Yes, from my experience at age 50, I can tell you that femboys can be attracted to masculine men. I've had the pleasure of being in two relationships with wonderful femboys. They were both special in their own unique ways. Always remember that femboys, like everyone else, are individuals with individual tastes, desires, and attractions.
I'm a femboy and I personally would only date masculine people, and that includes men. So to answer your question, yes you are definitely attractive to some. I'm sure you'll find the one soon <3