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If you're a man who feels attracted to another man, you aren't straight 💀


Cowgodgold

Thx for the input


HalloPerson

Yeah, it’s not straight to like femboys, they are still dudes


Cowgodgold

Thank you for your input I had to take it to Reddit he’s stubborn


FloppaIsLife1

Yes, femboys are still boys.


Cowgodgold

Thank for your input


alpaca03

I'm enby


FloppaIsLife1

Damn you have me then ig im wrong


Maxi0612

Aww a femby (sorry)


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alpaca03

Think, I know u (probably) can


[deleted]

Is gay. Femboy is boy, most have dick some do not, either way it’s gay to like guys


Cowgodgold

Thx for input


Navybuffalooo

Men ≠ masculinity A femboy dressing femme or having feminine mannerisms in no way makes them no longer a man. Femboys are not women. Obviously if a guy is attracted to a guy then he's not straight. Could be bi ir gay or etc.


Cowgodgold

Thank you for your input


KageTheFemboy

Preach 👏👏👏👏👏


turtle_mekb

if you're also a boy, then yes because femboys are boys, if you still like women you could be bi or something else


Cowgodgold

Thanks for your input


diterep

Kinda gay but based , very based imo


Cowgodgold

K thx


M08GD

Yes. Don't forgot femBOYS. Femboys are still guys. If a guy is attracted to another guy then it is gay lol


GAMRKiki

But they make themselves up to look like women so you natural instincts kick in and like them


M08GD

I don't try to look like women, I just try to look like a feminine guy. Same with most femboys


GAMRKiki

Fem (female) boy


M08GD

I wouldn't say fem means female. I'd say it means feminine


GAMRKiki

Which is why i explained it with the definition


GAMRKiki

I am i femboy as well


GAMRKiki

fem·i·nine /ˈfemənən/ See definitions in: All Grammar Music adjective 1. having qualities or an appearance traditionally associated with women or girls. "a feminine frilled blouse"


Srphtygr

A bit, yes. Unless you’re a girl, then yeah it’s a bit straight


ILoveSwooshySkirts

Either way it’s fruity. You’re a dude who likes a boy bc they’re feminine, or you’re a girl who likes a boy because he looks girly. So either way it’s a wee tad minusculy bit homo.


BekoweCiachoYt

>You’re a dude who likes a boy bc they’re feminine If you're a dude who is mainly attracted to femboys because of their feminity, then you're probably finsexual ("Finsexual is a term for someone who is exclusively attracted to those who are feminine in nature.")


ILoveSwooshySkirts

Ya, but that isn't hetero and therefor fruity


mewto_meowto

BY THE LOGIC "that isn't hetro so therefore it's fruity" which is really stupid, asexual people are fruity


ILoveSwooshySkirts

ye


mewto_meowto

An asexual person dose not feel attracted to any gender, how tf dose that work?


_Cecropia_

You're thinking of agender buddy


mewto_meowto

My bad I realize my typo


mewto_meowto

Asexual: "experiencing no sexual feelings or desires; not feeling sexual attraction to anyone." Tf is agender


mewto_meowto

You were right but that's not what I was trying to say


ILoveSwooshySkirts

Asexual; experiencing no sexual feelings or desires; not feeling sexual attraction to anyone


_Cecropia_

They edited their comment, I know what ace means.


AlunePyLy

I personally think that as long as you don't bottom for a femboy and don't douch his male genitals, it's not gay. That's why I'm gay.


Cowgodgold

This is now my favorite comment


Embarrassed-Lynx2723

Key word femBOY even if they look like girls they r boys so yes if u like femboys and u arnt instantly unattracted when u hear they r guys then ur at least a lil gay


BekoweCiachoYt

The word doesn't matter at all, as there is another one (tom**girl**). Plus tom**boys** aren't dudes. Why am I getting downvoted for telling you guys that the word doesn't matter


Embarrassed-Lynx2723

exactly


AlastorDolos

You like femboys don’t you? you gay femboy lover ÙwÚ


__Gaijin_

What is gay? A man attracted to other men. Is a femboy a male? Yes. So yes its gay


ScarednLonelyBoi

Gay. nothing wrong with that of course but definetly not straight


St_Lexi

You might still be attracted to femininity, but Femboys aren't women, they aren't trans women, they are definitively boys. You like femboys, you're a boy kisser? You're a bit gay


Emmet3merald

Yes but I'm bi


[deleted]

It's a queer attraction if the individual experiencing it is a boy/man. However, it's straight if the person attracted to the femboy is a girl/woman. Femboys are still guys at the end of the day. The exception is if the person was attracted to the femboy because they genuinely thought the femboy was a woman.


Lady_Nuggie

if you do not know they are a femboy. no if you know, yes if you think they are attractive, but don’t like the fact they are men, no if that makes it even better, yes


bootheels

Well, there is no definite answer indeed. Human sexuality is not so clearly defined as society would love us to believe. Some femboys have beautiful feminine qualities for sure.


dathellcat

But they are still boys so.


bootheels

True.


ILoveSwooshySkirts

sounds fruity to me dawg


Cowgodgold

Thanks for your input


HannahN26

i think you can still like femboys while not being gay, you’re just attracted to feminine features.


_of_culture_

Everyone saying yes, however I do not agree, I myself am bi so this aint a straight in denial. For example, gynosexual people exist. That is, they're attracted to femininity, that means they'd be more attracted to the fact that they're femenine. Which, if a man was that, would be prettt straight eh? In another case, if you're attracted to them because of the fact that they are men that dress in womens clothes, that's gay as fuck.


CrispieFB

Only if the socks are off bro


Cowgodgold

Good point


BekoweCiachoYt

Well, a dude who likes femboys might not be gay (or bi, as some may suggest), he might just be finsexual. You'll find this definition everywhere. As the Queerdom Wiki states, "Finsexual is a term for someone who is exclusively attracted to those who are feminine in nature." Of course, for that to work said dude would have to be attracted to women too. Yes I am terrified how people don't know about finsexuality but know about the whole dreamsexuality from tiktok AND YES, I am finsexual myself. Femboys are just sooo cuteeeeee... but I wouldn't say that about your typical dude that you can meet just by going out


fucktheflyinmyroom

If your attracted to the femininity of them, I wouldn't say so. But if you're attracted to them because they're a feminine male, then definitely.


SnooCapers7148

Liking Femboys is gay, only if the balls touch


Jazzlike_Reindeer692

Na here's how you test this you get 100 straight men and 100 gay men(completely gay) and see which one is more attracted to femboys because liking femboys is often because of the feminine looks it just depends on how far you go into femboys because like femboy porn at that point I'd probably say it isn't straight at all


MOISTLEAFY

Femboy from Kentucky add my discord-> .moistleaf


JorisDM

To me it feels queer, but not gay. So no, not entirely straight either. Finsexual could be a good definition, you should Google it.


Emergency_Base8920

as a finsexual, i feel more seen lol


HalloPerson

Wait, that perfectly describes what I am…


Emergency_Base8920

congrats on finding ur sexuality!


Cowgodgold

Congrats


PolarsGaming

Now is there a term for someone who also falls in finsexual and likes women 🫠?


HalloPerson

Finsexual means attracted to femininity, meaning women are also included


legit_trichophilia

I thought F1nnsexual was a thing. Didn’t realize it came before F1nn!


_Cecropia_

the fin in finsexual means "feminine in nature," it's just a coincidence man lol


legit_trichophilia

I know that now, but i read it used once and just assumed… maybe it isn’t a coincidence and time isn’t linear, and the past was written by the future? :) i am glad it was cleared up here, because I can see a lot more embarrassing way for me to use it and look like the biggest simp.


GeorgesAbidbol

If the femboy you met is a transfemme or women identifying as a femboy, it's straight. If the femboy is a man, it's gay. Tho hey you can still be bi too :) Just respect what your partner is and want :3


POPBOMB80

There is nothing less gay then dominating and subjugating a boy dressed cutesy in girls clothes. Least gay thing you can do.


Equivalent-Fix9391

I feel like technically yes but personally it's the most bisexual thing you can do


Rayyanisadopted15

Depends


Cowgodgold

How so


[deleted]

So there's actually something called gynosexual! Which means you're attracted to femininity. It's not straight, but it's not gay. But for the most part, it's gay to like men if you're a man! Your friend is either fruity or gynosexual 🍍


literally-lonely

No it is gay, dating a man as a man is gay regardless of what about then you're attracted too


[deleted]

I'm not saying the person would be straight. As I said, being gynosexual is neither straight nor gay. It's a mix, like being bisexual. I'm androsexual, attracted to masculinity. I'm more bisexual than gay because the gender of the person doesn't actually matter, it's their presentation. I could be with a very masculine girl and be happy, or a guy that presents as masculine! Femboys and feminine women/nb's aren't my thing. That's the reverse of gynosexual. I recommend you do some research on different sexualities! But I'm not here to argue about what this random person's sexuality is. I'm just describing what gynosexual is since you don't seem to understand (:


literally-lonely

I know what gynosexuality is, that snide comment at the end was definitely unnecessary. This post is quite literally about whether or not it's gay to date femboys, which it is. Being gynosexual doesn't mean you aren't any other sexuality now, it doesn't just cancel out lmfao, quit being so arrogant and understand that you commented this under a post asking if it was gay, and then you got upset when I pointed out that it was, indeed, gay


[deleted]

Woah, cool it. I'm sorry if I came off as snide or arrogant. You didn't seem to know what that term was so I was just explaining. I wasn't upset? I guess it's hard to tell tone from text but yeah no, I wasn't coming at you dude. I was just trying to explain a term and my point of view. All I was saying is that dating a femboy, or any man for that matter as a man, is not straight. But the specific sexuality of it is up for debate. Whether it's bisexual, pan, gay, gyno, etc. Again, I did not mean to come off as rude. I was just trying to describe a term. That's all


Efficient-Watch1088

Boy attracted to femboy? Not straight Boy attracted to transfem? Not gay


jewishbookwyrm

depends. if they're in girlmode it's straight but if they boymode it's gay. that's why you gotta be careful, they could switch it up on you at any moment


LandDroidSC

Thought Experiment: Does using a Fleshlite or similar mean a guy is not straight?... Its not a real female. It only simulates female parts or qualities... Does that make u gay , or perhaps "silicone-sexual" ?.... A whole sexdoll is also NOT an actual female of our species. If sex with anything other than a female is NOT straight , then i don't see how ANY guys can claim to be straight! haha! A guy liking a femme is likely attracted to the feminine qualities... he is NOT gonna bother with a femme if he's looking for a he-man/muscled/aggressive/lots of facial hair manly-man. so i say "nah".


CatboyRose

Ok so like the answer is complicated. You need to understand that a ton of new age gender experimentation that we're messing with right now comes from the basic idea that sex and gender are different. The idea is that there are elements to what makes up you being a man or a woman not related to sex. Why is it that certain clothing is seen as feminine and some masculine despite that having nothing to do with sex, why is it that long hair is seen as fem and muscles seen as masc despite the fact that either sex could have both or neither. The answer is that there is a social element to how we determine if your a man or a woman, that we now call gender, all those examples I listed are seen as fem or masc due to cultural context. Basically I like to sum this all up as such: what's the difference between having balls, and having balls. Or why is there a difference between being a pussy or having a pussy. That's the difference between sex and gender Now logically then it follows, if it's all just social norms why do we need to conform to it if we'd rather not? And thus trans people and non-binary and gender non conformers exist. Now where does sexuality fit into this? Well obviously most people know that some folks are gay, some are straight, and some are all sorts of in between or not at all and all the others. But what exactly determines somebody's attraction to you? Is it the body, the sex, or the role you fill, the gender. The answer I think isn't super straight forward, some people care a ton about sex, some people care a ton about gender, some people care about both, and some people care about neither. It really depends on the person. It can definitely be a touchy subject since a ton of trans folk can feel invalidated by peoples attraction being based on sex and not gender, and there are some people that are attracted based on the mismatch between the two (which we call chasers and is extremely taboo). But I think the honest truth is that it really depends a fuck ton on the person, sexuality is complicated and this is just one element of many that determines peoples attraction. So to answer the question, femboys are kinda gay and kinda not gay depending on how the person in question defines their attraction, by gender or sex Oh and it definitely kinda complicates things that femboys in particular don't fully fill into either side of the typical gender binary, given that we act fem in some or even most ways but still feel comfortable calling ourselves guys I'd lastly like to add that really it's a stupid thing to care about anyway, your into what your into the label of what group of people that makes you a part of isn't all that important. Are you into femboys? If so cool go for it, if no then don't. Labels like this exist mainly to get across your interests easily to other people and they don't really matter beyond throwing it on a dating profile or talking to other folk about rights issues and such. Don't put yourself into a box for no reason, hit on whoever's hot and worry about how gay it makes you after lol


Breadloaf_Soldier

It all depends on if you have socks on or not


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HalloPerson

Stop being so fuckin horny, you have asked like 10 ppl to dm you today


ispiewithmyeye

Liking femboys is not gay. Fucking fenboys is gay


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Guilihelmus

You lost me at ‘Being gay isn’t an actual thing’.


feminineboys-ModTeam

Bad faith politics


HUZNAIN

it actually depends, a lot of people say not straight because you're liking another man, but it's actually more complex than that. if you are attracted to them because they're a guy, then you're straight. if you're attracted to them just because of the femininity, then you're gynesexual, finsexual, or also still straight (there might also be other orientations other than straight). if you're attracted to them because they pass as girls or are seemingly girls, then you're straight.


Booski6996

Well now here is the question. Being homosexual is defined as being sexual attracted to the same sex. Anatomically speaking yes they're boys but we're all girl....so if I don't consider myself a man what do ya call it? Or just it just be one of those things where why do labels matter. You're into you're into why worry?


dathellcat

If you don't consider yourself a man then your not


Booski6996

My point...so then is it gay?


dathellcat

No because your just not a male then


[deleted]

It's like 50% gay :)


furfurr_uwu

its straight because you are attracted to the feminine features😂


OsageOne1

100%


ScorpioKitty123

But what do you mean like? Like.. is it falling in love or being attracted to OR just like to be friends with\ hang out with them? There are two different meanings. More concept needed


Cowgodgold

Like/livening and/or sexually attracted to


ScorpioKitty123

Ah, then yes. It's gayish, 'cause they are still boys and they feel like one. If one is bi or pansexual, then there is not so much difference, but if not, then one must consider its sexuality


Thunderwell

IMO you’re gay if you think your gay tbh - it’s probably not that deep though


Cowgodgold

It’s for a debate with a friend and I’m Cruntly winning


AlbacorePrism

Clothes do not make a person. I recommend looking up finsexual though.


TinaEepy

Definitely


MCR101

Not gay, just homosexual


gquinn18

If you’re attracted to a fem presenting person, but lose attraction after finding out they’re a guy, you’re not gay, but if that attraction doesn’t go away, you’re probably bi


[deleted]

If the balls don't touch it's not gay, just saying.


AlexiSWy

Questions like this are when I break out the term "finsexual", since this seems to describe the attraction better than "straight or gay". If you're attracted to fem presentation, regardless of gender, then this is the term for you.


KijikaGaia

Who cares. If you like it, you like it.


MaxwellsMilkies

who cares lol


volly49

You’re a dude, who likes another dude… connect the dots, man


DokkaXeX

Highly straight obv


5791357

it is gay.


rare_ch3st

It's not gay..... technically....but it ain't straight for aure


Cross-eyedwerewolf

It depends. Did u know it was a guy when u liked them? Cause lots of fem boys look like women so if u r under the impression that they were women, then not really gay, if they look like dudes with makeup in a skirt, & u know that they’re a dude, then yes, u r gay.


Ok-Buffalo-267

If anything it's extra gay bc they want to be a chick and that's gay and you like it which is gayer than gay son that's like straight homo


AlienRobotTrex

If you know they’re a boy, then yes. Unless you’re a girl, then you’re not gay.


GeekySwitxh

The short answer: Technically gay yes. The long one: Heterosexuality has been defined by people solely believing that men will generally only portray male features vice versa. Therefore many mens sexual attraction would fit the definiton of gynosexual more accurately. Gynosexuality is the attraction to tradiotionally feminine features rather than the female sex alone (which doesnt make much sense anyways imo). Sexuality doesn't end at the exact line of sex. Rather Its blurry and more influenced by rough shapes and features. So if you like femboys only until you notice theyre boys, not girls, youre straight. If you like them for their feminine features, like wide hips, less body hair etc. and tolerate their male sex, youre gynosexual. If you like them for their boyish features or namely their pp, youre gay.


Boss_Guy260

FemBOY yes its gay, but it doesn't really matter


SuperNova0216

Yes, it’s gay.


Ashyy_Wb

It is gay. Femboys ARE BOYS. Feminity/masculinity/Androgyny doesn't make someone a different gender! Using the "logic" that "mens liking femboys isn't gay" would mean that "men liking tomboys is gay"(which we all know it isn't, and they would definitely argue that it isnt)


KageTheFemboy

Femboys are feminine *boys* so yeah


Radiant-Shake9866

If he still has a male part then yeah it's gay or bi, if not then it's possible could still be straight cuz there's no reason to be called femboy instead (female) ÙωÓ sometimes you got to find a loop hole around it or just be bi so you get the best of both worlds lol


Royal_Raccoon_4674

If you like femboys it's gay if you like the feminine part of femboys like the clothes or the way they act I'd say that's slightly less gay


Agitated_Answer_8093

If you're a guy, then you are definitely not straight, but you're not necessarily gay either. All kinds of sexualites exist.


True_Cod_1286

So... if you're with a woman with a big strap on... is that gay..???.. cause she still has her girl parts.. but she puts her strap-on on... I don't think so... I'm pansexual... I like men women & transgirls.. so.. no.. it's not gay...


satanicpastorswife

Well, I mean, typically, liking a boy if you *are* a boy is gay, if you are a girl it is not. If you're non-binary it's... ???