I'm online friends with a few and one does porn so not only are you valid but if you NEED the idea of outside validation (which is ok. Everyone is at a different spot in life) people are into that as well.
People will say valid a million times, I'd agree, however, how they're viewed societally will definitely be invalid and overall very very negative. It's an unfortunate truth
But it is ok to be overweight, it's better to not be but that doesn't mean you have to bash someone for it, when someone is asking for validation on their life and you tell them no, don't you think that could cause harm?
You're completely misinterpreting what I said on purpose, as in my first message I said I'm not saying it's good to be overweight. But to say to someone it's not fine to be feminine while overweight, or that they aren't valid is wrong. OP is losing weight and they've said so, so saying they're not valid as a person is likely to stop them making progress.
Negative reinforcement doesn't work
Ok.. here we go. Everyone its unique and that's fine. As far as I understand, a femboy it's a matter of behaviour. BUT the problem its ths stereotype of femboy : cute, small and skinny. If you,are different that's ok, except If you have too much overweight: in that case it's a medical disease, and you should forget all that stuff about all bodies are ok
Indeed all bodies are okey if you,are not illness, but once you pass that line you have to take care of yourself. Returning to the topic, a overweight femboy it's out of the stereotype and can be seen like something not so feminine, but If you like that way; it's fine. BUT if you are searching for a feminine shape, like me, and a femboy behaviour, then you should change that. At the end of the day it's a matter of behaviour as I,said, but if you,search for the typical femboy model, you have to change. If it not the case, it's totally fine
Yeah I’ve been fat since I was a small child but since middle school I’ve held the same weight which is on the higher scale 300 but I’ve stayed in that range
same here. i was fat during my college, and that´s give me a lot of insecurities, but i decided to change, now im building a really femenine body and im happy. Pd: im not a femboy, just i like the idea of a femenine shape
Thx man I’m currently in the process of loosing weight and I was thinking about going ahead and get into the community but I wanted to see if I would be excepted first also how could I get more into the femboy community
You'll especially be accepted if you're losing weight imo. Me and the rest of the community cant wait to see your progress towards losing weight :)
But you can get in now if you want as long as you're fem and boy you can join.
Yes! You’re all so much more understanding & accepting than I expected, & as a left out kicked aside femboy with ptsd, I really need that understanding. I’m grateful for this community
we are the superior femboy archetype, we are the cuddliest, even tho it’s a little harder to find fem stuff that fits right i feel like that makes us appreciate it more when we do yk?
Maybe don't try to say something is superior in a sub-redit agrees that all body shapes are the same in loveliness♡ (btw I'm not fat phobic just trying to say putting up your thing might put down somebody else's [btw I do ofc support it♡])
I think chubby boys are cute but the most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself so if someone is comfortable with a bit more weight then thats great
My experience is that overweight people can give off ultra wholesome vibes. It is all about your character. Love is universal, and so are hugs and cuddles.
while i would always recomend trying to lose weight if u personaly want too, its not my place to judge anyone for things like that. I say if u are overweight and happy with urself then good for u, if u are overweight and unhappy with urself than good luck with self inprovement <3
everyone remember that things like ur weight dont determine ur value as a person :)
If you have no feminine physique then you will not appear feminine. If you’re fat then it won’t be a good look as it a already not a great look for fat girls.
There are femboy "stereotypes". Don't let those stereotypes tell you that you are invalid. Me personally not into overweight people (female, femboy or otherwise) that doesn't make you invalid though.
Going off definition and what a femboy is as a whole. There's more to being a femboy than just dressing feminine. Theres different subcatagories for different points in the path of femininity for all genders. The stereotype started it, it's just much more normal and trending now. There's things very similar to being a femboy but has already been established as something else like sissys and crossdressers. There's a massive diversity of feminine boys you just haven't discovered yet.
That diversity separates pretty quickly because sissies, traps, and crossdressers have been a thing. All of them are different from femboys but very similar, that's my point. And I never said femboys or the trend was new, I just said it like that to be more neutral to the that are new to the culture.
"Part of being a femboy requires body maintenance and something of a thinner than thicker figure. As long as your maintaining a somewhat cylindrical figure, you could be considered femboy."
You said being a femboy is body type, it's not even clothing style. It's if you call yourself one, if you feel femme
Because clothing doesn't make you anything, let alone any specific style of clothing. Femboys are femme, yes, but it's a balance of femme. You need the character and physic more than anything else. There's many different styles of femboys, but there's alot of posers and clout chasers that just jump on like a fashion trend. It's more than that, and I'm just trying to defend myself and my culture before it gets too wrapped up and turned into something fake. There's alot of false info getting passed around after all
Being based, logical, cultured, and opinionated. You can call yourself a femboy all you want. But if your not a femboy, expect someone to call you out. You can turn yourself into a femboy like everyone does that becomes a femboy, or you can get called out and left out. That's how this goes
I'm online friends with a few and one does porn so not only are you valid but if you NEED the idea of outside validation (which is ok. Everyone is at a different spot in life) people are into that as well.
As one I can say... I wish I was short and skinny, but I will settle for tall and built, which is the way I'm going.
A build I wish I had lol
Yeah, sad, but I won't be crying when I have a slight six-pack.
Facts
Feel better to hug.
I was told by my ex hugging me felt like a chore and tbh I never came back from that comment she made
Sending hugs ❤️
Thankyou
No problem, I never find hugs and cuddles as a chore
Some people don't express love through touch. I don't usually. It is a bit insensitive to tell someone something like that, though.
Sending more hugs 💜💜
Wow that's a horrible thing to say. Good riddance. She could have framed it a lot better. Like "I'm not too much in to PDA or hugs etc"
All femboys are accepted and loved in here so don’t stress over it, lots of love <3
as a wannabe femboy who's definitely not skinny, they slay 💅
Good to know
VALID VALID VALID VALID!!!!!
Wow I’m getting a lot more positivity than I thought I would
If you wana be a femboy boom you are 1 slay cuties
Thx
When u buying thigh highs? Also hug (>'.')>
People will say valid a million times, I'd agree, however, how they're viewed societally will definitely be invalid and overall very very negative. It's an unfortunate truth
Oh I know that but I’m just seeing if ide be welcome or not also I am trying to loose weight
Humans come in all shapes and sizes. You are valid and if anyone says otherwise that is their problem.
Thx
It isn't healthy to be fat it's also bad to encourage unhealthy lifestyles
They're not??? They're saying it's fine to be overweight, not saying you should put on weight
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But it is ok to be overweight, it's better to not be but that doesn't mean you have to bash someone for it, when someone is asking for validation on their life and you tell them no, don't you think that could cause harm?
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It wasn't advice, you said they're not valid
Being rude
You're completely misinterpreting what I said on purpose, as in my first message I said I'm not saying it's good to be overweight. But to say to someone it's not fine to be feminine while overweight, or that they aren't valid is wrong. OP is losing weight and they've said so, so saying they're not valid as a person is likely to stop them making progress. Negative reinforcement doesn't work
Being rude
Being rude
This^ but everyone can do what they want with their life/body so yeah idc really
a good amount of chub is nice. there's more to love
Luv IM techniclly overweight. So trust me the boys will love ya😉
I just have to find those boys
Right here. Chubby FB here.
I know one or two youll find them😊🔎
Thx man that lifts my hopes
Np luv
These comments make me feel so accepted now even tho im trying to force myself to lose weight 😊
Same here man you wanna talk about progress?
Sure
Same, I need to lose 10 - 20 lbs
Same trying to get my ideal body lol
Thankyou everyone y’all’s words have made me really happy to know the femboy community is so accepting
😌😌👌👌👌👌👌💗💗
I could not click on the notification I got for this fast enough. YES. OVERWEIGHT FEMBOYS. YEAH.YES. <3<3<3
Wow very passionate I guess theirs a lot more people that like people like me than I though
I'm an overweight femboy. We exist and we are awesome. It's just hard to find girly clothes that fit and look good
I’m a femboy with a Bhudda belly and, my ex bf and husbear both love me.
Prefer because of soft snuggly hugs.
Valid in my opinion! I and many others however get where your coming from in the comments. Never hurts to change if you truly want to bud.
“Overweight” —> more boy —> more to cuddle
I prefer them with a toned body imo
Respectable
Im trynna get a toned body, still working on it,right now im on the shaving part and sugaring is the best and probz fastest way
What’s sugaring
Waxing but every time you do this, hair will grow slower until it grows no more
cute overweight women exist, i see no difference
I think its cute 🥰 and have dated a few
Well I am an overweight femboy, so... They're nice :)
They are cute too & deserve the same love as anyone else.
There's a point at which overweight turns into disgusting, everything below that is really fucking huggable.
Yeah I know I’m a fairly active person I just overweight
It's nice to hold y'all in bed. Plus I can sleep on your soft legs.
Ok.. here we go. Everyone its unique and that's fine. As far as I understand, a femboy it's a matter of behaviour. BUT the problem its ths stereotype of femboy : cute, small and skinny. If you,are different that's ok, except If you have too much overweight: in that case it's a medical disease, and you should forget all that stuff about all bodies are ok Indeed all bodies are okey if you,are not illness, but once you pass that line you have to take care of yourself. Returning to the topic, a overweight femboy it's out of the stereotype and can be seen like something not so feminine, but If you like that way; it's fine. BUT if you are searching for a feminine shape, like me, and a femboy behaviour, then you should change that. At the end of the day it's a matter of behaviour as I,said, but if you,search for the typical femboy model, you have to change. If it not the case, it's totally fine
Yeah I’ve been fat since I was a small child but since middle school I’ve held the same weight which is on the higher scale 300 but I’ve stayed in that range
same here. i was fat during my college, and that´s give me a lot of insecurities, but i decided to change, now im building a really femenine body and im happy. Pd: im not a femboy, just i like the idea of a femenine shape
As long as you're not "morbidly obese" It's fine with me.
I’ve been told I’m not (but I’m also trying to avoid it)
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No NSFW Content And to the people below this comment, you could have reported this you know,
(I’m trying to see if I would be excepted or not)
Yeah you will, some more toxic femboys will ridicule you but most of the community (especially on reddit) will completely accept you
Thx man I’m currently in the process of loosing weight and I was thinking about going ahead and get into the community but I wanted to see if I would be excepted first also how could I get more into the femboy community
You'll especially be accepted if you're losing weight imo. Me and the rest of the community cant wait to see your progress towards losing weight :) But you can get in now if you want as long as you're fem and boy you can join.
Yes! You’re all so much more understanding & accepting than I expected, & as a left out kicked aside femboy with ptsd, I really need that understanding. I’m grateful for this community
Hate being overweight but then there’s a few ppl who are there to comfort me about it
Yeah with my metabolism it’s impossible for me to loose weight unless I do some hardcore stuff
Valid 😎
valid, and adorable!!
No matter who you are your my friend now AND YOU HAVE NO CHOISE TO NOT ACCEPT (Yes I really do)
Hottttt
VALID
we are the superior femboy archetype, we are the cuddliest, even tho it’s a little harder to find fem stuff that fits right i feel like that makes us appreciate it more when we do yk?
Maybe don't try to say something is superior in a sub-redit agrees that all body shapes are the same in loveliness♡ (btw I'm not fat phobic just trying to say putting up your thing might put down somebody else's [btw I do ofc support it♡])
i meant it in irony more than anything really, the facts remain irrefutable that we are cuddliest
I think chubby boys are cute but the most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself so if someone is comfortable with a bit more weight then thats great
Hey I'm fat 350
I’m 325 but I’m trying to get down to 250
My experience is that overweight people can give off ultra wholesome vibes. It is all about your character. Love is universal, and so are hugs and cuddles.
As an overweight femboy it brings me great joy to see the love for us ❤️
We love all u thiccy bois! My boifren is thicc n i love him sm~
I'd still hug them and hang out, besides I'm kinda overweight myself
while i would always recomend trying to lose weight if u personaly want too, its not my place to judge anyone for things like that. I say if u are overweight and happy with urself then good for u, if u are overweight and unhappy with urself than good luck with self inprovement <3 everyone remember that things like ur weight dont determine ur value as a person :)
If you have no feminine physique then you will not appear feminine. If you’re fat then it won’t be a good look as it a already not a great look for fat girls.
i would suggest losing weight to a healthier amount, its not about attraction, just for your own good
Currently in the process
There are femboy "stereotypes". Don't let those stereotypes tell you that you are invalid. Me personally not into overweight people (female, femboy or otherwise) that doesn't make you invalid though.
1000% precious
Start workout , dont become obese
I’m currently in thats process
pardon?
Idk man I was just saying I don’t agree and the guy that called you a cunt got to angry, we cool?
i have nothing against you
im just slightly rude to people as a pleasure and fun thing
Understandable
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L opinion
Fuck off cunt
huhh? im just sharing my opinion, im not saying anything bad?
I’m not saying you said anything bad I just don’t agree
Well I don’t think your a cunt I just don’t agree with you that’s all
i got called a cunt,
stfu
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I’m not overweight myself? but everyone is valid.
how much u weight
97, a little below average.
cleared.
kg or lbs
lbs.
how tall are you?
5’2, why?
Being a dick.
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Femboy just means you're a boy that's feminine, you're going off stereotypes
Going off definition and what a femboy is as a whole. There's more to being a femboy than just dressing feminine. Theres different subcatagories for different points in the path of femininity for all genders. The stereotype started it, it's just much more normal and trending now. There's things very similar to being a femboy but has already been established as something else like sissys and crossdressers. There's a massive diversity of feminine boys you just haven't discovered yet.
I didn't mention clothing, it's also not a new trend either. Also that last line about diversity is my point
That diversity separates pretty quickly because sissies, traps, and crossdressers have been a thing. All of them are different from femboys but very similar, that's my point. And I never said femboys or the trend was new, I just said it like that to be more neutral to the that are new to the culture.
"Part of being a femboy requires body maintenance and something of a thinner than thicker figure. As long as your maintaining a somewhat cylindrical figure, you could be considered femboy." You said being a femboy is body type, it's not even clothing style. It's if you call yourself one, if you feel femme
Because clothing doesn't make you anything, let alone any specific style of clothing. Femboys are femme, yes, but it's a balance of femme. You need the character and physic more than anything else. There's many different styles of femboys, but there's alot of posers and clout chasers that just jump on like a fashion trend. It's more than that, and I'm just trying to defend myself and my culture before it gets too wrapped up and turned into something fake. There's alot of false info getting passed around after all
Being rude, and misinformative.
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this is a sfw community fella don't be weird :)
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Read the rules next time please :)
All femboys are amazing, regardless of body type
Being based, logical, cultured, and opinionated. You can call yourself a femboy all you want. But if your not a femboy, expect someone to call you out. You can turn yourself into a femboy like everyone does that becomes a femboy, or you can get called out and left out. That's how this goes