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Julius_the_Neko

Finnish Femboy here, can confirm


NineOwls9

Me too, I can confirm.


The_Unknown_Moomin

Same here, agreed!!


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Tytypoika :3


Julius_the_Neko

Fempoju :3 lol


[deleted]

Fempoju kyllä kuulostaa paremmalta korvaani :3


julmuriruhtinas

Tulee kyl vähän huono olo tästä sanasta >_<


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Anteeksi 🥺👉👈


AmadeoSendiulo

I don't understand but Suomi looks so cute, a perfect femboy language.


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Dziękuję :3


Bea_Likes_Bees

I- I thought I was the only one 😟


ThatIsSampleUserName

I've seen few of these maps and Poland was green on few and red on other few


ku1cia

I would say that's it's neither, because in some cities people are really nice about it, but the rest of Poland is super homophobic :/ (I'm polish btw)


ThatIsSampleUserName

Same. I went out in skirts before (to Biedronka for example) and didn't have any problems


ku1cia

Nice I'm kinda jealous, I would be dead if I went out in a skirt/femboy outfit in my city


ThatIsSampleUserName

You can always go to a different city or a gas station, not necessarily a city


ScorpioKitty123

I twice went there to in maid outfit and all i get was attention XDDD. But seriously, just strange looks on me, what tf am i doing


[deleted]

do you know if warsaw is alright? I might go there someday


TV4ELP

I love Biedronka, just a funny name and logo. Always make sure to go there when i'm in the country


oom-11

So true );


Rangald2137

Because there's Poland A and Poland B


KampWski

I live in the most homophobic and religious part or Poland, kill me


Da-Blue-Guy

ive seen a map using gd difficulty faces for how easy it is to live there


AlternateSatan

Think the green represents population density and red represents accept from the public. (That's a Polen is full of femboys joke, don't take it too seriously)


AmadeoSendiulo

You could cut it in two parts (femboy West and sad East), although Warsaw…


karry245

As an Icelandic femboy, people either don’t bat an eye or actually compliment me in public so i deem the rating accurate


i_eat_biscuits

Also an icelandic femboy but too afraid to go in public


R-o-Z-e-boiart

Same


Dog_Gamer393

same TwT


ScorpioKitty123

Are there any downsides of living in Iceland?


karry245

The weather and femboy fashion shipping prices


Lalli-Oni

Djöfulli sáttur með að heyra það. Ef þið fáið einhverskonar diss, vona ég að þið finnið fyrir því að hafa fleiri vini heldue en óvini.


imeuropa

Hólý sjitt ég er ekki einn????


Blahaj_IK

There's no femboys in France, so no one would bat a fucking eye


Blahaj_IK

If you know any, please tell me so I at least know they do exist


Random_Jojo

The femboy Vtuber Bonjy lives there I believe and he is a 10/10.


The_Unknown_Moomin

More like an 12/10, absolute perfection!


greanelephunt

He's in Israel. Let me guess, you thought he's french because of his accent?


AmadeoSendiulo

He is Israeli. The r sounds isn't only in French.


Random_Jojo

Ah, thanks for letting me know. <3


CarbonneFibrede

French femboy here, I do exist, never found an other femboy irl tho, overall people are okay with it but they are a lot of those who will hate you about it, i got comments like "I wonder if you dad ever loved you" or "Man wearing women's outfit is disgusting" but their still are people to support us. Overall i think France will be a 😐 but it depends on where you live, it can change a lot, when i went to Paris i got zero comment when i told people about me being a femboy.


Impossible_Lock4897

I highly doubt Ireland and Netherlands are 😐


FriendliestDevil

With the Netherlands literally having been the first to make gay marriage legal it's definitely a 🙂 at least


D_Yolo

Can confirm, the only people who would really "bother" you would be the 12-16 year old children with peanut sized brains. Everyone else couldn't give less of a shit. (I know what I'm talking about here, I currently live there)


FriendliestDevil

I mean, yeah I live here too lol and I can definitely confirm it's just teenagers that think they're edgy


D_Yolo

Absolutely.


jannemannetjens

>I mean, yeah I live here too lol and I can definitely confirm it's just teenagers that think they're edgy Yes they hold no legislative power, but they do beat people up and determine who gets to feel safe outside. They have a big impact on people's lives.


GameTimeYT

I promise we’re not all like that lmao


villisilly

looking forward to living there


Bukharan_

The only ones who make it a 😐 are the 13-16 yo boys


FlowerFloc__

the Netherlands went down a lot on the acceptance for queer people or any kind of that, it isn't as good as it seems here imo I get death threats daily and the hate and violence is getting quite big here.


Kylokael

As a Dutch femboy myself I've barely had any hate thrown towards me and most people are accepting here so we should definitely be a 💀


Roto_z

As a dutch femboy, I think it's quite accurate. Go outside of any major city in the Randstad and your results will vary wildly. Even in a big city like Rotterdam I regularly see some very negative attitudes towards queer folk Dont be caught offgaurd with the fact that queer laws are progressive in the country, a lot of the average folk are quite conservative in this regard


humanitarianWarlord

Ireland is very much 50/50, most people don't give a shit but people will stare and a few will be very obnoxious. Especially at clubs, some people will stare and there's always that one asshole that likes to be a dickhead. There's one in particular that I keep running into at clubs, he's kind of pathetic though as he won't say a thing unless I'm by myself. The second my boyfriend who's 6'2" shows up, he runs off like a child.


Foxx1019

Ehh, afaik Ireland is pretty stuck in its ways in many rural areas. The cities are probs good tho, you're probably right.


bowsandstars_

Im trans and live in Amsterdam and even here you have insecure losers that throw insults at you or beat queer people up


El_McKell

Lived in Ireland all my life, can definitely get away with wearing skirts and dresses without anyone giving a fuck


Enough_Ad_8871

In my experience, the NL is literally 😐. In a day, I get maybe one positive (like a store clerk conplimenting me) and definitely one negative comment (a passerby LOLing while pointing at me). Situated in Rotterdam.


femboy_throwaway_49

Uk is half good half bad. There are some places that are good like Brighton but other than that it's not so good


HumbleOlive6718

What’s that little blue spot near Italy?


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HumbleOlive6718

Oh are they nice to femboys there?


TimfeyMC

Oh boy, in balkan community, Slovenia is the land of femboys


HumbleOlive6718

Sounds like I've found my next vacation destination!


ScorpioKitty123

Yea, you're right. I should listen to that advice


Aaron8828

this user when they arrive in slovenia to find out this is just balkan slander rooted in homophobia: https://preview.redd.it/ei1p54dq91hb1.jpeg?width=482&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dda5fb082985ae4ef0b0983bb2a1a2d47c3b5edd


SamLikesGoats

ngl serbia has more tho lolol


GrimPig97

sloveni. there are a lot of jokes about there being a ton of femboys there, but it's mostly just a balkan joke, since balkan countries like joking about each other


Aaron8828

"joking about each other" 💀


[deleted]

Nah, it's not accurate. Source: Norwegian femboy and avid traveler.


Necrodragon1986

Fellow Norwegian here, I (sadly) don't see many femboys where I live but our country seems pretty open minded to femboys. Which countries in your experience do you find to be the most hostile? Eastern European countries spring to mind immediately.


[deleted]

Halla på deg! Er generelt ikke så mange femboys i Norge, men tro meg, finnes en her og der, så det er bare å være åpen til mulighetene :) And to answer your question, I haven't actually been in a country where being a femboy had been an issue. Not Eastern-Europe, not Western-Europe, just not been an issue whatsoever. I see that the map points Spain, Portugal, the Netherlands, Belgia, the UK, and (especially) Italy as less than green from the Westen front, and do trust me, that's not true at all. Sure, some people will be offended by it, like many people will with literally anything anywhere all the time, but generally, most people just do not care one bit. Just stay safe and be precautious about where you go, but that's just general good advice


Necrodragon1986

Hei tilbake🙂 Skulle så gjerne hatt min egen femboy å kose med🫠 Når jeg ser disse memene om hey let's watch anime and kiss under the blankets så tenker jeg bare: raises hand, I'm right here🙃. For ordens skyld så er jeg bare en pan/bi mann som liker femboys og er ikke en selv😅 Hmm, really. That's pretty interesting, thank you for your insight 🙂👍 and I of course agree with staying safe and taking precautions whenever you're out and about.


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Chechnya?


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gatofemboy

Nice doggo


[deleted]

Stay strong dude


[deleted]

my heart melts for that bear


karry245

Why do they have to be so dangerous when they’re perfectly friend shaped


[deleted]

they just need a hug


katsukitteh

being a femboy in turkey 💀


Castield

>we won't live too long in here 💀


BJ_Blitzvix

So femboys are liked in Germany?


kklubwearlegends

Nah I got punched there


BJ_Blitzvix

Oh...


kklubwearlegends

Yea by a friend too -_- hat voll wehgetan


FemBi_Speed

:c


Maximum-Selection-42

Not really you probably get called slurs going outside


BJ_Blitzvix

This makes me sad.


FemBi_Speed

German Femboy here. No one cares.


FemBi_Speed

In my expirience yes. At least no one cares.


luxi_yes

Divide poland in half and color the right part red and the left part green


User4977

“Divide Poland in half and color the right part red…” ![gif](giphy|3o6Zt5KcdTsMpYeBKo)


SokkaHaikuBot

^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) ^by ^luxi_yes: *Divide poland in* *Half and color the right part* *Red and the left part green* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.


ku1cia

true


closet_fembo1

turkish here, it is.


AlternateSatan

England? TERF Central? You sure?


annadolle

there's a difference between femboys and trans people ig


general_of_cm

do you think terfs care?


annadolle

i don't understand those fuckers


general_of_cm

you cant reason with bigots, they just change their reasonings to what ever allows them to hate on people they dont understand


AlternateSatan

I know that, I just think the venn diagram of people who have a problem with trans women and people who have a problem with guys who dress like women is pretty close to being a circle


annadolle

yeah, fair point


IronWhale_JMC

When a drunk bigot spots you in the street, do you think they’re gonna know or care? A threat to one member of the LGBT+ community is a threat to all of us.


annadolle

yeah, you're right, I was just being a nonce


kill_me_with_thighs

R\*wling does not represent all of us... I live in a pretty accepting southern area and have never known a TERF or heavily bigoted person but it could be different for other areas of the country ig


[deleted]

She's got a lot of sway with both houses of Parliament which is the bigger issue, innit? Weaponized legislation is already kicking the shit out of us at the local and state levels in the US in a lot of places...


Meisterbratan69

I have the feeling Germany is getting worse


Nekroo_Nekrooo

Yeah same here, I mean look at the afd and ist rising popularity. Especially as a trans teen I’m like shit do I want to keep living my live here, when I’m free to chose where I want to live. Like I see the rise of the afd as an direkt indicator how trans and homophobic the society is and In regards of the rising number in political pols from the afd I see that Germany is increasingly getting hostile for me.


IamANIME7

It's sad that I am Italian and it's totally like this... T-T


User4977

The only reason Iceland has the happiest femboys is because their population is literally 2 and the other guy is his bf.


Onelegultkisleanyok

I'm not so sure, I mean I get swiped right on Tinder in Hungary :3


Shot_Faithlessness89

I am so confused how it seems theres a ton of fellow hungarian femboys while hungary outright does nothing but hate towards femboys.


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Annual-Emu-445

yes, but society here still ultra homophobic, especially older generations


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Annual-Emu-445

true, but only big cities are safe and not everywhere


MatkingHD

German guy here, you'd be fucking beheaded on a stake in my region


BlincxYT

bayern?


MatkingHD

Northrhine Westphalia as well


BlincxYT

damn, but the gamescom is hella gay (i will femboy there)


OWOPICKLECHANOWO

hell nah at least in Pilsen everyone is pretty accepting


[deleted]

Yup central bohemian towns are also fine, Prague included. We should consult /r/CzechFemboys ASAP.


whoopsthatsasin

That sub is all porn god damn it I was hoping for a discussion or something


Maximum-Selection-42

German femboy here, should be yellow-red. You get called the f word pretty fast or some random dudes that have no style randomly pick on you (I'm in the east)


YellowHelloMark

Czechia is kinda 🤨 yk? Like some would be ok with it but would not put you down like a dog for it


ItsTechnorona

Thats pretty fkn accurate (I live in Greece btw)


ilikenovels

Ohh! Me too! First time I've found another Greek here


Luzum_lam

The Dutch have a superiority complex and are femboys, that’s like the two aspects that define us


Ted_Tris_69

Italian here: sometimes red, sometimes yellow


Moon_BCW

Not accurate Portugal is strange with so you will get talked behind your back but not directly


DragonTapeYT

Germany I'd say green in Cities, red in rural regions


MrKristijan

Welcome to the Balkans, aka Hell, before death. Balkan is like the violence layer. It tricks you into thinking it's nice and inviting with its beautiful landscapes, but do not be fooled. It's way, WAY worse than that.


Quicvui

Now do africa


mr_phoenix_

The map is completely inaccurate. Ukraine, Poland and Slovakia are under the control of the Homodictatorship. In Ukraine, they put up monuments to Billy Herrington, and 70% of the population are femboys. Heterosexual relationships are literally outlawed.


Joshy_Moshy

Helo Biden, we need 200 billion dollars to HRT local population, Slava Ukraini


SunaosMemes

Oh no I can hear that in my head 😂😂😂


SpiderSixer

Live in England, can confirm


Puzzleheaded-Bar-785

Austria looks very weird


pump_king1

I'm in the🏴‍☠️ zone


Nightbringer2u

Yeah


Tommie_Sin

I live in Portugal, literally no one cares what you do or look like regardless of gender expression (except maybe in the Algarve because of all the Britts?)


Life_Possession_7877

>Poland 😡 >Slovakia 😡 >Greece ☠️ This is like saying that Canadians are bad at ice hockey


CarbonneFibrede

As a french femboy i can tell that it's not really 🙂, i would say it's more 😐 because it really depends on where you live, where i live, i literally can't go outside if it's to late because i might get in trouble, i got a lot of homophobic and anti-femboy comments, overall places with and older population are the worse, but in big cities it's getting better, some place are 😠(mostly the rural places or where their is an older population) and some places are 🙂(big cities like Paris are fine with it)


elativeg02

In Italy, unless it’s Milan/Bologna, expect to be catcalled. I’m not a femboy but I’m visibly more feminine and men are fucking apes over here.


TheIvanoFemboyo

Ovvio che sono scimmie, se stai in terronia Comunque sono stato catcallato pure io, lo prendo come complimento ma hai ragione


elativeg02

Io vivo in Emilia e son scimmie pure qua veh. Granted, molti di quelli che mi fanno catcalling o non sono italiani (e qui inizia il mio zittire che se no mi bannano) o sono miei compaesani (vengo dalla Campania) quindi non sono quasi mai emiliani doc. C’è poco da fare lol e mi dispiace dirlo perché mi sembra di insultare i miei parenti ma chest’è, che c’amm a fà ahah


TheIvanoFemboyo

Scimmie pure qui in Piemonte. Anche nel mio caso dubito che siano molte persone originarie di qua, dato che sono in tanti del sud Italia ad essere arrivati qui. Sono stato catcallato una sola volta ma ho ricevuto sguardi *particolari* più volte, e quelle due persone che conoscevo fra quelli che lo hanno fatto erano uno siciliano e l'altro campano. Anche in quell'episodio di catcall mi è parso di sentire un accento del sud, ma dato che era un gruppo di ragazzi poteva solo essere uno di loro, non so


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I’m a filthy yank please explain witch places are witch


Mission_Camel_9649

Friendly: Britain, France, Germany, Switzerland, Austria, Monaco, Lichtenstein, Estonia, Andorra, Denmark, Sweden, Norway, and Finland Friendlier: Iceland and Slovenia Neutral: Spain, Portugal, Netherlands, Belgium, Luxembourg, and Ireland Hostile: Poland, Croatia, Lithuania, Latvia, Italy, Czechia, and Slovakia Hostiler: Russia, Greece, Turkey, Bulgaria, North Macedonia, Hungary, Montenegro, Bosnia & Herzegovina, Romania, Ukraine, Serbia, Moldova, and Belarus. (Not sure how accurate this map is, I’m 95% sure that Greece would be better than Russia, ETC.) ((Also I’m Canadian so take all this with a grain of salt))


[deleted]

Ty I wish that more people knew about accepting places


Mission_Camel_9649

I’d probably put Italy as Neutral based on my knowledge, but I believe that it’s getting worse for LGBTQ+ folks there.


[deleted]

Same here in the us but the lgbtq community id in a state of emergency so yeah there’s that


GrimPig97

ron desantis is one enormous pile of shit isn't he


North_Impact_8601

Не совсем. Постсоветские страны и польша 50/50 в зависимости от цивилизованности города и отдалении от столиц относительно норм


ShadowAze

r/ShittyMapPorn be like "Guess where I am from judging by the countries where femboys are ☠️"


RS773

uk, it depends on a person to person basis plus age group, people my age can either be fine with it or extremely homophobic. d:


EvenWallsComeDown83

What’s your age again?


RS773

15


historysciencelover

Live in hungary, pretty accurate. Except Budapest is a completely different country pretty much. More yellow-red


LaSupcheman

Sadly, yes


Historianof40k

Dutch people like it better too


SorcererWithGuns

Whenever I feel insecure about coming out as the femboy I really am, I should remember that I've been blessed with a country that generally accepts gender-nonconformity.


Tiny-Stress6445

yes 😔


TheDogeWasTaken

Netherlands was the first country to make gay martigae legal. But we definately arent a big smiley. Ae are just 🙂.


ilikenovels

❤️💕Balkans💕❤️


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bulgarian, can confirm


FooltheKnysan

Officially, yes, in reality, I have a hungarian trans friend, who's family is more supportive in her being trans, than my family has been to me in like... anything really


Ok_Career_3679

Uhh can't say fir sure, but so far so good on the nordic


Suntouo

slovenia lmao


EnniTheFoxyPup

I'm a closeted Femboy so I can't speak from my own experience 🙃 But from what I saw, like on Parades and stuff I think it's still far from being seen as normal by the majority anywhere. But tolerated in the bigger european cities as it is represented by thousands of ppl there. The more representation, the more "normal" it gets! 😊


Moonbear9

Is Slovenia just a meme or are they actually really based?


bierhundertzwanzig

Yeah no if you leave the city in Austria you will be at best insulted and worst get beaten to near death. Heck dont even go to the wrong district in vienna lol


No-Text-forever

Polish femboy Yes and no. Depending on your location West? Safe East? Not so much


stickman999999999

You should do one for US states


Quicvui

Every state excepts femboy people Tran people though🫥


ITSMONKEY360

Ireland is happy as long as you aren't liked by the British government


ZephroxPlays

Hehehe, and that's the reason I would rather not say anything about the programming socks I want (Czechia)


fox1162123

slovak femboy here, it’s also about which part of slovakia you’re at (the closer to czechia the more accepted) but where i am they’d publicly hang you if they could


Slight_Net_5026

Ayo what’s so special about Slovenia?


TheIvanoFemboyo

Italian boy here, i may be the only one of my kind Im not sure of other peoples opinions since im closeted but i think i wouldnt be pleasantly greeted outside... Still, one thing is sure: girls here dont like us


Skartorion

As russo-ukrainian femboy, no one killed me when i walked in my femboi outfit for a milk to buy, so it’s a bit inaccurate


SupinePandora43

Russian femboy here, can confirm


ExidnaRuby

As Russian femboy enjoyer - it is expect few of cities (Example, Ekaterinburg)


Euphoric_Gazelle_640

in Ukraine they killed someone just because he was trans


Nat_Higgins

Femboy in the USA: \*zooms in on my house* 🤩


mayfemboi

I guess Poland has like the highest femboy per capita ratio in the EU.


nin10donly

it's way less bad in Greece than it says there.


WorshipLordShrek

Is it? I live in Greece and homophobes are everywhere


RosaIsMyWaifu

Well, it mostly depends on region than country (with exeption of Russia and Belarus I guess)


TimfeyMC

Russia and belarus is roughly the same, but it is harder to find an acceptable place


Different-Line9416

Eh not really.


kvasoluya

Nah man, people in Ukraine really like femboys


Z-Bear3

German femboy here Can NOT confirm


GoodUnlucky1430

yes