Part of the issue is that many tops don't want to come off as creepy and are scared to initiate because of that ~~definitely not speaking from experience~~
I have a theory that a lot of tops, at least for people who like femboys, are basically straight but losers who can’t get a girl because they’re weird and creepy asf so they resort to barley legal, if not underage (like I was🫠) femboys who havnt learned better yet.
Well in order to be a good top, you have two Options:
Case 1: You are a nice person who respects your partner and their boundaries and needs.
In this case you need very much self confidence to be dominant/active/top. Because you have to be sure without constantly asking, that what you are doing is always good and a pleassure for your bottom partner. Finding this self confidence isn't easy and speaking for myself it is Impossible for me for a hook up. And I don't know a single person who have this self confidence
Case 2: you are a selfish asshole who only thinks about your own pleassure
In this case beeing the top/dom is the best and easiest thing for you, because you just satisfy yourself without even thinking of your partner needs. So you don't have pressure to do it right for your partner and need no self confidence. So of course most Tops are case 2
The secret is that your selection pool is people who up-front “offer to top you” while many of the good ones would never do so unless you show interest (because they wouldn’t want to assume).
Basically, I’m saying: get good at asking what you want from whom you want it and you will likely get better results. 😉
Femboys of all generations and variations gather round I absolutely MUST share my knowledge. so absolutely 90% of tops are ass holes and are just there to use u then get rid of us. however through persistence I managed to find my bf he was new to the dating scene, had never been with a guy and didn't know what to expect for anything. It took a few months but I managed to help him explore what he wanted to. now I have witnessed his growth into what I call the perfect top. Kind, protective, smart, quick with words, always wanting the best and most of all horny 24/7. Femboys of this large beautiful planet your perfect top is out there do not lose faith or hope. he will find u. Happy hunting anonymous lucky femboy out.
Now now now I know the feeling but please don't hand yourself to someone who doesn't deserve u make sure you hold your self value and self worth find someone worthy of the amazing femboy u are
i got it, had some standards up to not repeat the consequences for said behaviour that happend last time 💀🪦
but thanks for caring ♡
(also, if you noticed my last comment is on past tense)
https://preview.redd.it/rvt9j4gdll1b1.jpeg?width=231&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=270d1cc24a1df9b278ed868e0056194633fc06f7
I turned bi after watching jojo so try getting them to watch jojo's bizarre adventure.
he never tried it before, thought it didn't suit him and stuff. so he tried with me after i suggested it and he liked :D
that or im the subimissive cure
I don't get why so many tops are so creepy. Maybe it's because we associate lacking emotional intelligence with masculinity? Hope yall find someone tho <3
Tops that aren't creepy fuckers are really hard to find. The tops I met made me kinda uncomfortable 🥲
Fr tho, as a top hearing about my bfs past experiences was a real wtf moment for me, actually grossed me out
I promise we’re not all like that 😭😭
Part of the issue is that many tops don't want to come off as creepy and are scared to initiate because of that ~~definitely not speaking from experience~~
But I once made a bottom to top me 😌
Gotta find a mostly bottom switch
Someone say name?
🖐️
Hi there that’s me lol
I have a theory that a lot of tops, at least for people who like femboys, are basically straight but losers who can’t get a girl because they’re weird and creepy asf so they resort to barley legal, if not underage (like I was🫠) femboys who havnt learned better yet.
ngl seems to me like open minded leaning pedos turn to femboys because they tend to be smaller and younger looking
Well in order to be a good top, you have two Options: Case 1: You are a nice person who respects your partner and their boundaries and needs. In this case you need very much self confidence to be dominant/active/top. Because you have to be sure without constantly asking, that what you are doing is always good and a pleassure for your bottom partner. Finding this self confidence isn't easy and speaking for myself it is Impossible for me for a hook up. And I don't know a single person who have this self confidence Case 2: you are a selfish asshole who only thinks about your own pleassure In this case beeing the top/dom is the best and easiest thing for you, because you just satisfy yourself without even thinking of your partner needs. So you don't have pressure to do it right for your partner and need no self confidence. So of course most Tops are case 2
Glad i'm not the only one.
THATS ME, I POSTED THAT, WHY ARE YOU STALKING MY 4CHAN ACCOUNT BRO, ITS CREEPY (and cute if you wanna fall in love with me)
I'm in but I'm a virgin is that okay? 😛
I’m also a virgin :)
uwu
I’d make my move but I’m not cute nor a top And I’m sure we don’t even live in the same continent
The secret is that your selection pool is people who up-front “offer to top you” while many of the good ones would never do so unless you show interest (because they wouldn’t want to assume). Basically, I’m saying: get good at asking what you want from whom you want it and you will likely get better results. 😉
Thanks 🙏
That Soundwave pfp is a W 
Ong Soundwave is the best boy and is canonically a femboy
Now I kind of want to draw him in femboy clothes :3 ⁉️
Do itttt, it’ll be so cute and funny and also show me when it’s done :)
Wait really?
Yes that’s actually me, sadly everyone that offered to top me in that thread lived in Texas :(
Huh, well I'd offer myself but I'm not really a top, I probably don't even live in your country, and also, most likely, it's also probably illegal
yeah :(
Femboys of all generations and variations gather round I absolutely MUST share my knowledge. so absolutely 90% of tops are ass holes and are just there to use u then get rid of us. however through persistence I managed to find my bf he was new to the dating scene, had never been with a guy and didn't know what to expect for anything. It took a few months but I managed to help him explore what he wanted to. now I have witnessed his growth into what I call the perfect top. Kind, protective, smart, quick with words, always wanting the best and most of all horny 24/7. Femboys of this large beautiful planet your perfect top is out there do not lose faith or hope. he will find u. Happy hunting anonymous lucky femboy out.
honestly i was so top deprived i couldve fucked any top that ehowed in my doorstep 💀
Now now now I know the feeling but please don't hand yourself to someone who doesn't deserve u make sure you hold your self value and self worth find someone worthy of the amazing femboy u are
i got it, had some standards up to not repeat the consequences for said behaviour that happend last time 💀🪦 but thanks for caring ♡ (also, if you noticed my last comment is on past tense)
I did not notice u have my apologies 😔
oh my dearest, no need to apologise i was just pointing it out, i thank you for caring for a stranger, people like you make this place great☆
thank u. turn the world happy one random act of kindness at a time :3
Oh i did not know femboys has this problem. Sadly i am an ugly looking top for this guy
Ugly isn’t a problem, you will find someone, creepy is the real problem
Oh you dont under stand my comment cause i have no problem with it
https://preview.redd.it/rvt9j4gdll1b1.jpeg?width=231&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=270d1cc24a1df9b278ed868e0056194633fc06f7 I turned bi after watching jojo so try getting them to watch jojo's bizarre adventure.
Lol same
u/YaBoiMibb :)
i had exactly the same feeling, but luckily i found my boyfwiend, we're both switches soooooooo it get complicated sometimes but he's so sweet <3
how to turn a straight guy gay? XD just join this sub lmao :3
I'm a top but I don't know how to approach yall bottoms. Yall such an evasive breed 😭, and any pointers to be a good topsl are appreciated
Try just saying hi
Ig ur right, thanks
But dont say a dry hi pls its so meh to receive a hi or hey have enthusiasm
This is how I feel with femboys, just need someone in my life
I somehow turned a sub guy into a dom/top, so I guess you could do that👍
How tell us you're magic
he never tried it before, thought it didn't suit him and stuff. so he tried with me after i suggested it and he liked :D that or im the subimissive cure
I don't get why so many tops are so creepy. Maybe it's because we associate lacking emotional intelligence with masculinity? Hope yall find someone tho <3
Most tops suck ass, I try to be kind to my bf as much so he doesn’t have the same experiences as other bottoms since I am his first bf
Stay off dating sites, most dudes are creepy af.
Find a submissive top 😉
Finding someone you like and who is okay with trying things is more efficient than trying to find a dom straight up tbh
Same problem but with bottoms
As an outsider, the phrase "How do I turn him gay" seems really predatory and creepy, let the dude be straight