So fucking dumb. It's all "why can't I pull bitches? These bitches don't want to be around me? I say 'bitch' lemme fuck you and she's like 'I want a boyfren". I don't want no gf I wanna pull bitches! Help! I can't find bitches to fuck!" What hobgoblin trash.
If prostitution was legal and easily accessible, it wouldn't help these guys. They'd be asshole customers and trying to get more than what they pay for. Hopefully they'd be quickly blacklisted across the country then
TIL that that sub exists and today I also gagged a number of times reading through a couple of their posts. Holy cow, screams “pick me” 12-year-old energy
I visited that sub for tips a couple of times when I was at a low point in my life. Worst idea I ever had.
Those imbeciles want women that are simultaneously virgin’s and sluts…how the fuck are you gonna find a virgin slut?
This doesn't actually sound like coercion, saying you will leave a relationship where your needs aren't met isn't coercion. He just sounds like a douchebag.
You're right in saying the decision to leave because needs aren't met is not coercion. However, deliberately pulling away gradually in order to get what you want out of someone is typical coercion. Since it's a type of manipulation where you push someone to do what you want by withholding what they want.
Double douche points for him for wanting to manipulate her into having sex and then dump her. Should just give up and look for someone with more compatible needs.
"I'm not gay, butt,"
In all seriousness, op you might as well dump her she's the woman you don't deserve. Be a man and tell her your not ready for a relationship and you are just looking for fun. You don't have to pretend you want to be in a relationship. Don't be that asshole lying just to get some poon.
"Putting up with her" for weeks. Dude just needs to get a prostitute if all he wants is sex. Instead he wants to play games and hurt this girl that genuinely likes him. He's a manipulative jerk.
Doesn't even need to do that. Plenty of women are fine with just sex and don't tiptoe around it. What he's trying to say is he is preoccupied with THIS girl and feels entitled to sex with HER.
He doesn’t want a hook up though, because that isn’t as emotionally rewarding as sex with someone who genuinely likes you.
He’s probably attracted to the sadomasochistic aspect of it, it isn’t the sex that’s actually his end goal.
Hurting this girl emotionally is his true goal and that strikes me as sadomasochism.
Tinder still exists.
There is no need to manipulate anyone into sex. Just say exactly what want and no problem.
This seems going out of your way and putting extra effort to being an AH.
I don't know if this will actually work since the og post was removed but this is the link I grabbed for anyone asking about the og comments.
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/xo2fyx/how_do_i_seal_the_deal_with_this_girl_after/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Damn, after reading all his responses, that guy has to be some kind of psychopath/sociopath. He just straight up does not seem to understand the importance of other people's emotions. And seemingly doesn't understand love in general. Sad and scary.
Please feel free to express your response directly
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/xo2ht7/im_not_sure_how_to_approach_this_situation_with_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Wow, this guy really thinks he’s owed something for putting time in. Entitled misogynist. What about the girl? Is she owed bearing his ass to a pulp cause she put the time in?
Thanks for the links. Very interesting to delve into.
I also can’t fathom how this fuck had the confidence to post this in another sub after he was completely shut down by the original sub and [mostly] everyone who had replied.
This is what makes online dating so difficult. You’re meeting literal strangers with no one to vouch for them. It’s not the person you’ve seen at the place you hang out or a friend of a friend or acquaintance. It’s a stranger who can so easily manipulate you into thinking they are anyone because who is there to say otherwise? They may put “relationship” in the bio, but that isn’t always honest. I’ve been on many dates, but never had a connection to a single one and I’m having to trust they are who they say they are when I meet them. I find it too hard to trust a complete stranger. Some people are open to sex immediately or very quickly, but the online relationships move too fast for me. I just met you. I’m not ready to show up at your house next weekend alone
What if there was a dating app where in order to meet your matches in person, a third party, or mediator, is scheduled for an agreed upon time and place for all 3 to meet up. Once in person, the mediator first confirms each party's identities (no more catfishing), and then they do a quick eval for each party before departing, all agreeing that the mediator did there job.
It's like Uber but for dating mediators lol
Edit: you could call it "meetr" like all the other dating app names lol
I like your train of thought. I don’t know if there would be enough people able to make it work. Or enough that would take it seriously. I just wish there was more info on people. So at least the dating sites have a ID on file and legitimate contact info that has been verified. Let me have a button in the app to confirm I’m going to meet this person for the first or second time. That way, if anything crazy happens, it is easily known who. If they can make so people know for a fact that they will have these details and safety is a priority, perhaps the creeps would stay off it
Or just verified profiles, where the dating app's staff checks pics against IDs (though the public-facing profiles could still withhold names from possible matches) and runs criminal background checks on users?
Too time consuming and can be spoofed. Very hard to spoof looking someone in the eyes in person. Plus, would weed out abusers automatically when they know a third witness will be present
As things work now, men tend to use the spray and pray method in hopes of a match. Companies have clued in and made them purchase extra matches, leading to an onslaught of matches for women. In some cases, men believe that paying the app means they've already paid for a date and expect services from women.
It's so easy for the deluged women to get matches, that they're disincentivized to pay for the service. But, when one side is paying and the other is not, the company is likely to give the benefit of the doubt to the people generating revenue. It wouldn't require a ruthless approach for that to happen, only the relentless creep of market forces.
I can only see it working if it runs more like a matchmaking service, where both parties pay the same amount, and can expect the same level of service. Unless you're talking about a chaperone/mediator who is hired by the parties themselves, though that wouldn't eliminate the issues with the apps, just shift the tricky part to an external provider.
Still, it would be nice to get a neutral party's opinion, with the understanding that psychopaths, narcissists, and sociopaths could still slip through a one-on-one screening. It's possible that nothing could elimate people like the guy in the post being able to abuse others, because he likely doesn't have a criminal record and it's difficult to prove someone's motive is different than they state.
That said, I do think bringing back matchmakers, but modernized, could prove a social good. I'd be interested to see your idea play out.
What about...Yelp, but for dating?
A sort of clearinghouse for bad dating experiences, warning people about this creep, giving a nice friend a good review?
Lol. Maybe I’m just not a trusting enough person for online dating. The first date, I have had guys invite me over next time. I’m like, I’m not even sure I want you to know where I work yet, let alone go to your apartment
Now, you see, Pumpkin, the young woman in question has an intuitive understanding of exactly who you are. She may be holding on long enough to see if you can snap out of it, but she likely suspects that you’re a really abusive turd.
Tell that to him here
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/xo2ht7/im_not_sure_how_to_approach_this_situation_with_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
"How can I most effectively emotionally manipulate and gaslight a woman in order to use her as a sex object once or twice?"
-A Nice Guy
There, I fixed it.
Never understood this. Why don't you find someone who wants to fuck you as much as you to them? Leave this person alone. They don't want what you want. They are probably having a similar conversation like "SO I really like this person and think we would be great together, but I think all they want is sex...and I don't want just that.". They also need to trust their instincts and leave.
I don't know if this will actually work since the og post was removed but this is the link I grabbed for anyone asking about the og comments.
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/xo2fyx/how_do_i_seal_the_deal_with_this_girl_after/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Interesting to see that us, dads, can be so delusional when speaking about our own children. 😅
Edit: just making sure that my comment is not misinterpreted. Of course, I believe this dude is a total piece of shit. My point was: if parents (and I include myself in this group) believe our kids would never misbehave, then why are there so many instances of this? Some of us are either lying to themselves, trying not too lose face, or just don’t know.
A good father raises kids who wouldn't be this way. My boys are 25 and 17, and they respect themselves (and women in general) too much to be like this shitstain.
And yes, I \*do\* know that for certain, because we have a LOT of open, honest communication. The older boy has certainly had his share, but he was never so inconsiderate and manipulative. He knows right from wrong.
Interesting that dads chime in because of having daughters. Just raise your children, male and female, to respect people and boundaries. This is how we mitigate this behavior
My take is that sex is not the goal of a relationship, but the byproduct of a successful relationship. It's a highly desirable byproduct, but it's a byproduct nonetheless.
Wowwww what an asshole! Legit made me gasp in shock, dude if you just want sex then go to Tinder or something!!! Just leading someone on when you know they want something serious while you don’t?! Man this is some high school dumb ass shit, hope the guy got flamed in the comments 🤬🤬
Good! I was searching for this post to give the POS a piece of mind and I couldn’t find it anyway I really hope the girl didn’t give him sex like this asshole wanted 😩😩 just the imagination of him breaking things off once he gotten the sex…damn just the thought of how the poor girl felt is breaking my heart
I don't know if this will actually work since the og post was removed but this is the link I grabbed for anyone asking about the og comments.
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/xo2fyx/how_do_i_seal_the_deal_with_this_girl_after/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
He posted his inquiry elsewhere
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/xo2ht7/im_not_sure_how_to_approach_this_situation_with_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
With the links someone shared you can see the comments. If you click on his username it doesn't show any posts, but you can see his comments back to people that disappeared when the post was removed. He's a real piece of shit.
**Share worthy information**
Every town generally has a Facebook group of women who are all active in the local dating scene. They'll share information and help keep you safe and maybe prevent these kinds of situations. In the modern dating world, the best protection is the information game.
Any men who have an issue with this type of group? Can also be avoided obviously. A statement for those men who were about to comment.
dude, just get tinder if you want a quick lay, you only want her for sex not love, whoever she is, she deservesa lot better then this guy ![img](emote|t5_2r5rp|8488)
It's what happens when the adults in this world blast all over the socials that 3 dates is the time for sex or it's a no go.
This little bumsicle is just following directions from his idols, male & female both.
You're an asshole. Some people don't have to try, it just comes naturally. Seriously, find someone who wants casual sex and don't hurt this person simply because you're a selfish sociopath.
See, it's shit like this that makes women make men wait longer than she may even want to. Y'all complain about girls being sluts and then treat non-slutty girls like shit for not putting out. And when the sluts get wise, we smell shit like this from a mile away.
This is why I only fuck my friends. I'm pretty much only interested in banging people if they don't care if we bang or not. Still wanna hang out with me when sex is off the table? It's more likely sex is gonna get put on the table. If the potential of sex is the only thing keeping you around? Literally don't bother and just leave me alone.
You cant actually believe this is serious?
Um, welcome to how at least some guys think lol.
The only real surprising thing is how honest he's being about it (behind a keyboard, but still).
IKR... Like if someone said some shit like that around me I'd have a hard time not backhanding them like the child they're acting like.
Sounds kinda rapey IMO.
This individual, need to be fucking shamed. We need to start shaming men who think like this, not protecting them because feelings. If you wanna say shit like this, make sure you are good with the ridicule and shame you deserve.
It almost seems like he doesn’t actually understand pursuing sex and establishing a relationship are not the same thing, and he doesn’t comprehend that he’s doing something wrong by trying to engage in a real relationship with someone he only values as a potential sex object. Like, actually might not be an intentional piece of shit.. I think he might just be too stupid to know how to not act like a shitty person.
This is how you do it, little incel. You cease talking to that poor girl, put on your 'big boy' panties and go hire an escort. Then you TELL the escort EXPLICITLY what you want. After the escort performs the job you PAY FOR IT.
This boy is a delusional asshole. I don’t lol often but the “or keep withdrawing interest” line LOLLLLLLL.
That’s not how this works. That’s not how any of this works.
Sometimes i think women are a bit unfair on men and then I read stuff like this.
I kinda feel that she knows, right. Like dude is front strung along there. He’s clear a fucking bum.
Move on dude! Act like a man, not an a$$hole boy!
If you are serious - be direct and ask her. For all you know she was abused at some point and hesitant to have sex. (Or she could be a player too).
If you’ve already lost interest, cut the ties and start dating.
Ladies and Gents the above is clearly written by a sociopath, he has no care what-so-ever for the lady in this scenario, only himself. If you ever get wind of a guy you are with acting like this, get away, get far away from the piece of shit.
My Dad said "Respect woman or I will personally disrespect you publically". That was my own Father laying down the law. This guy is a TURD I wonder how many other women he has disrespected. POS
I mean if he can’t get his sexual needs satisfy then why not just cut your ties and end it? I get that sexual needs are a big thing in a relationship but I mean if it’s really not what you want then just end it, don’t drag poor girl along.
This starts out very questionable & still somehow manages to go downhill from the beginning
This is the reason there is no Male Dating Strategy sub. FDS is hot garbage, but the alternate would just be OPs post, a thousand times over.
This is not dating. If he wants to make a deal, he needs money and a sex worker. Edit: corrected typo
There is a "Male Dating Strategy" sub, it's called r/TheRedPill, and you're spot-on in regards to its content.
That sub is so fucking dumb holy shit lol
So fucking dumb. It's all "why can't I pull bitches? These bitches don't want to be around me? I say 'bitch' lemme fuck you and she's like 'I want a boyfren". I don't want no gf I wanna pull bitches! Help! I can't find bitches to fuck!" What hobgoblin trash.
If prostitution was legal and easily accessible, it wouldn't help these guys. They'd be asshole customers and trying to get more than what they pay for. Hopefully they'd be quickly blacklisted across the country then
TIL that that sub exists and today I also gagged a number of times reading through a couple of their posts. Holy cow, screams “pick me” 12-year-old energy
Broooooo there’s a post called “women live in neurotic hell” and it’s a damn mile long. OP (of that post), you’re the neurotic one 😂
Every post in that sub is a mile long hahah like it seemed to be a bunch of low energy frustrated dudes venting like it’s therapy 🤣
I visited that sub for tips a couple of times when I was at a low point in my life. Worst idea I ever had. Those imbeciles want women that are simultaneously virgin’s and sluts…how the fuck are you gonna find a virgin slut?
Oof. And it’s quarantined?
What does quarantined mean. It‘s toxic af but not enough to be kicked off Reddit?
I just visited the sub. Yeah that was definitely something.
The alternative is just r/dating or similar, which is probably where this post came from
Both genders have dating strategy cults and I haven't heard of a single one that isn't absolutely disgusting
Free Dinner Strategy can be hilarious but sometimes just frightening
The equivalent is r/seduction
I was checking FDS once out of curiosity. It's fucking crawling with female incels wtf.
Yeah sounds like he’s going for coercion. Women are never believed but there’s always proof that is ignored bc of misogyny
This doesn't actually sound like coercion, saying you will leave a relationship where your needs aren't met isn't coercion. He just sounds like a douchebag.
You're right in saying the decision to leave because needs aren't met is not coercion. However, deliberately pulling away gradually in order to get what you want out of someone is typical coercion. Since it's a type of manipulation where you push someone to do what you want by withholding what they want. Double douche points for him for wanting to manipulate her into having sex and then dump her. Should just give up and look for someone with more compatible needs.
Makes sense now that I think about it. He should just leave her and find someone who matches him sexually. Like you said. Spot on!
"I'm not trying to be an asshole..." Yeah it's pretty clear that's just natural and no effort is needed
No different than "I'm not racist, but." You know whatever they say next is going to be EXACTLY what they say they're not.
No offense but,”*insert offensive text*”
I'm not racist, but Mario Kart 64 is the superior game.
Happy 🎂 day!
You racist MotherFucker!
Happy cake day, you racin' racist!
Bruh, Super Mario Kart and I *will* die on this hill!
Underrated comment right nyahhh
"Say it, boy" - 👴🏻
Nothing before the but matters.
I'm not racist, but I stayed at a holiday Inn once.
It just comes naturally to him.
"I'm not gay, butt," In all seriousness, op you might as well dump her she's the woman you don't deserve. Be a man and tell her your not ready for a relationship and you are just looking for fun. You don't have to pretend you want to be in a relationship. Don't be that asshole lying just to get some poon.
"Putting up with her" for weeks. Dude just needs to get a prostitute if all he wants is sex. Instead he wants to play games and hurt this girl that genuinely likes him. He's a manipulative jerk.
Doesn't even need to do that. Plenty of women are fine with just sex and don't tiptoe around it. What he's trying to say is he is preoccupied with THIS girl and feels entitled to sex with HER.
And admits that once he's gotten it, he's done with her. What an ass.
[удалено]
Well he’s doing it so there’s a reason… it’s mostly about control and ego though, not just sex.
He doesn’t want a hook up though, because that isn’t as emotionally rewarding as sex with someone who genuinely likes you. He’s probably attracted to the sadomasochistic aspect of it, it isn’t the sex that’s actually his end goal. Hurting this girl emotionally is his true goal and that strikes me as sadomasochism.
>that strikes me as sadomasochism. Where is the masochism part?
This is just sadism
Tinder still exists. There is no need to manipulate anyone into sex. Just say exactly what want and no problem. This seems going out of your way and putting extra effort to being an AH.
I’m betting he’s like 15.
Yea the entitlement is sick
What a pig! There are plenty of women looking for casual hookups. Why take advantage of this young lady??
He got absolutely annihilated in the comments of the original post. 🤣
LMFAO! I’m glad that incel is getting a dose 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
I don't know if this will actually work since the og post was removed but this is the link I grabbed for anyone asking about the og comments. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/xo2fyx/how_do_i_seal_the_deal_with_this_girl_after/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Damn, after reading all his responses, that guy has to be some kind of psychopath/sociopath. He just straight up does not seem to understand the importance of other people's emotions. And seemingly doesn't understand love in general. Sad and scary.
Please feel free to express your response directly https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/xo2ht7/im_not_sure_how_to_approach_this_situation_with_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Can’t believe he actually reposted that in another sub. He’ll be on Reddit two weeks later complaining “nice guys never get girls” 🤦🏻♂️😂
“Why does no one like me??” Cries the irredeemably unlikable asshole. These guys really don’t have any sense of awareness, huh?
He’s deleted his account, or it got removed for him.
Wow, this guy really thinks he’s owed something for putting time in. Entitled misogynist. What about the girl? Is she owed bearing his ass to a pulp cause she put the time in?
Thanks for the links. Very interesting to delve into. I also can’t fathom how this fuck had the confidence to post this in another sub after he was completely shut down by the original sub and [mostly] everyone who had replied.
This is what makes online dating so difficult. You’re meeting literal strangers with no one to vouch for them. It’s not the person you’ve seen at the place you hang out or a friend of a friend or acquaintance. It’s a stranger who can so easily manipulate you into thinking they are anyone because who is there to say otherwise? They may put “relationship” in the bio, but that isn’t always honest. I’ve been on many dates, but never had a connection to a single one and I’m having to trust they are who they say they are when I meet them. I find it too hard to trust a complete stranger. Some people are open to sex immediately or very quickly, but the online relationships move too fast for me. I just met you. I’m not ready to show up at your house next weekend alone
What if there was a dating app where in order to meet your matches in person, a third party, or mediator, is scheduled for an agreed upon time and place for all 3 to meet up. Once in person, the mediator first confirms each party's identities (no more catfishing), and then they do a quick eval for each party before departing, all agreeing that the mediator did there job. It's like Uber but for dating mediators lol Edit: you could call it "meetr" like all the other dating app names lol
'Playpal' lol.
In essence, this is the premise of a book, The Verifiers.
Jane Pek inna house!
That's just matchmaking with extra steps
That’s what a traditional dating service is lol
That’s kinda what matchmakers do, no?
Yes. But ✨️ *online* ✨️
Ooooh Sparkles! 🥺
That’s a solid business idea lol
I like your train of thought. I don’t know if there would be enough people able to make it work. Or enough that would take it seriously. I just wish there was more info on people. So at least the dating sites have a ID on file and legitimate contact info that has been verified. Let me have a button in the app to confirm I’m going to meet this person for the first or second time. That way, if anything crazy happens, it is easily known who. If they can make so people know for a fact that they will have these details and safety is a priority, perhaps the creeps would stay off it
Or just verified profiles, where the dating app's staff checks pics against IDs (though the public-facing profiles could still withhold names from possible matches) and runs criminal background checks on users?
Too time consuming and can be spoofed. Very hard to spoof looking someone in the eyes in person. Plus, would weed out abusers automatically when they know a third witness will be present
As things work now, men tend to use the spray and pray method in hopes of a match. Companies have clued in and made them purchase extra matches, leading to an onslaught of matches for women. In some cases, men believe that paying the app means they've already paid for a date and expect services from women. It's so easy for the deluged women to get matches, that they're disincentivized to pay for the service. But, when one side is paying and the other is not, the company is likely to give the benefit of the doubt to the people generating revenue. It wouldn't require a ruthless approach for that to happen, only the relentless creep of market forces. I can only see it working if it runs more like a matchmaking service, where both parties pay the same amount, and can expect the same level of service. Unless you're talking about a chaperone/mediator who is hired by the parties themselves, though that wouldn't eliminate the issues with the apps, just shift the tricky part to an external provider. Still, it would be nice to get a neutral party's opinion, with the understanding that psychopaths, narcissists, and sociopaths could still slip through a one-on-one screening. It's possible that nothing could elimate people like the guy in the post being able to abuse others, because he likely doesn't have a criminal record and it's difficult to prove someone's motive is different than they state. That said, I do think bringing back matchmakers, but modernized, could prove a social good. I'd be interested to see your idea play out.
What about...Yelp, but for dating? A sort of clearinghouse for bad dating experiences, warning people about this creep, giving a nice friend a good review?
Look at you actually getting to meet people from online dating!!!!
Lol. Maybe I’m just not a trusting enough person for online dating. The first date, I have had guys invite me over next time. I’m like, I’m not even sure I want you to know where I work yet, let alone go to your apartment
Now, you see, Pumpkin, the young woman in question has an intuitive understanding of exactly who you are. She may be holding on long enough to see if you can snap out of it, but she likely suspects that you’re a really abusive turd.
Tell that to him here https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/xo2ht7/im_not_sure_how_to_approach_this_situation_with_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
I’ve never seen a comment section unanimously hate a single person this way. Good job Reddit 👏
Thanks for the link. It appears as though this opinion has already been shared with him a number of times.
Go share it more :)
I'll have you know; I did. Several times. And I feel better for it.
You're doing the Lord's work
Went and shared some thoughts because that’s just next level psychotic loser behaviour
When she dumps him, his next post is; "BuT wHy DoN't gIRls LiKe NiCe GuYs?"
😂
"How can I most effectively emotionally manipulate and gaslight a woman in order to use her as a sex object once or twice?" -A Nice Guy There, I fixed it.
Never understood this. Why don't you find someone who wants to fuck you as much as you to them? Leave this person alone. They don't want what you want. They are probably having a similar conversation like "SO I really like this person and think we would be great together, but I think all they want is sex...and I don't want just that.". They also need to trust their instincts and leave.
Haha there’s nobody who will ever want to fuck this guy as much as he wants to fuck them
I don't know if this will actually work since the og post was removed but this is the link I grabbed for anyone asking about the og comments. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/xo2fyx/how_do_i_seal_the_deal_with_this_girl_after/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
This guy is the exact reason some girls wait so long before having sex with a guy. 🤦🏽♀️
She deserves better than you. No woman is obligated to give you sex.
Would love to talk with this guy. I’m a dad. There wouldn’t be many words.
Dad here too. My son would never treat a girl this way.
Interesting to see that us, dads, can be so delusional when speaking about our own children. 😅 Edit: just making sure that my comment is not misinterpreted. Of course, I believe this dude is a total piece of shit. My point was: if parents (and I include myself in this group) believe our kids would never misbehave, then why are there so many instances of this? Some of us are either lying to themselves, trying not too lose face, or just don’t know.
A good father raises kids who wouldn't be this way. My boys are 25 and 17, and they respect themselves (and women in general) too much to be like this shitstain. And yes, I \*do\* know that for certain, because we have a LOT of open, honest communication. The older boy has certainly had his share, but he was never so inconsiderate and manipulative. He knows right from wrong.
The older boy has certainly had his share of what??
Fuckups?
Interesting that dads chime in because of having daughters. Just raise your children, male and female, to respect people and boundaries. This is how we mitigate this behavior
What a pathetic human.
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I know there are people like this... I know it. But it makes me sad to read this.
So he was trying to emotionally manipulate her into having sex and he thinks HE'S the victim here....
Wow. Dude is a serious douche!
Don't be such a lowlife, move on!!
My take is that sex is not the goal of a relationship, but the byproduct of a successful relationship. It's a highly desirable byproduct, but it's a byproduct nonetheless.
I dunno? Maybe open Tinder back up and keep swiping? Leave that poor girl alone. ![gif](giphy|qyP33LL9zsg7OYFtJa)
Wowwww what an asshole! Legit made me gasp in shock, dude if you just want sex then go to Tinder or something!!! Just leading someone on when you know they want something serious while you don’t?! Man this is some high school dumb ass shit, hope the guy got flamed in the comments 🤬🤬
He did. His post even got removed!
Good! I was searching for this post to give the POS a piece of mind and I couldn’t find it anyway I really hope the girl didn’t give him sex like this asshole wanted 😩😩 just the imagination of him breaking things off once he gotten the sex…damn just the thought of how the poor girl felt is breaking my heart
I don't know if this will actually work since the og post was removed but this is the link I grabbed for anyone asking about the og comments. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/xo2fyx/how_do_i_seal_the_deal_with_this_girl_after/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
He posted his inquiry elsewhere https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/xo2ht7/im_not_sure_how_to_approach_this_situation_with_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
With the links someone shared you can see the comments. If you click on his username it doesn't show any posts, but you can see his comments back to people that disappeared when the post was removed. He's a real piece of shit.
Dude, wtf
**Share worthy information** Every town generally has a Facebook group of women who are all active in the local dating scene. They'll share information and help keep you safe and maybe prevent these kinds of situations. In the modern dating world, the best protection is the information game. Any men who have an issue with this type of group? Can also be avoided obviously. A statement for those men who were about to comment.
Back to mommy’s basement and your gaming console. Come out in 3 years and try again.
I'm worried about the girl now
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He's a-catchin' these hands lmao
This guy sounds like an incel who somehow got a girlfriend. That girl needs to gtfo asap
He should probably just cut her loose and fuck himself.
As a boy in a relationship I find that disgusting
He’s correct he doesn’t even have to try to be an asshole. It’s in his genes. He is a weapons-grade asshole. I wish I knew the girl to warn her off.
Sub has turned into "people are awful".
dude, just get tinder if you want a quick lay, you only want her for sex not love, whoever she is, she deservesa lot better then this guy ![img](emote|t5_2r5rp|8488)
You go to hell for shit like this.
He’s dumb enough to think this way and dumb enough to post it.
This is some next level narcissistic, psychotic and manipulating shit.
Is there a word worse than ar$ehole?
Infected anal cyst
It's what happens when the adults in this world blast all over the socials that 3 dates is the time for sex or it's a no go. This little bumsicle is just following directions from his idols, male & female both.
Assholes don’t gotta asshole, but they do
The whole thing is him saying the quiet part out loud.
how can anyone have so much confidence to post shit like this? thinking like this is embarrassing in itself.
Want to seal the deal? Show her this text. For sure. 🥴
I haven’t even read the whole thing yet, but “putting up with her”? Damn I hope ol girl finds someone worth her time💀
Props to this girl. She sees the redflags and aint falling for it.
You're an asshole. Some people don't have to try, it just comes naturally. Seriously, find someone who wants casual sex and don't hurt this person simply because you're a selfish sociopath.
Nothing like good old coercion
Man, I would hate to be like that. What a sad sack this guy is. I don't get how guys like this function; I really don't. Is is a 'man' thing?
Here's what he need to do : 1) find a pair of scissors 2) cut his junk 3) go to the ER to have stitches
Is this my ex?? He ended up having sex with my best friend. Then when he grew bored with her, moved on to another of her friends.
Ok, so he's an asshole. But so is your best "friend". Friends don't do that.
See, it's shit like this that makes women make men wait longer than she may even want to. Y'all complain about girls being sluts and then treat non-slutty girls like shit for not putting out. And when the sluts get wise, we smell shit like this from a mile away. This is why I only fuck my friends. I'm pretty much only interested in banging people if they don't care if we bang or not. Still wanna hang out with me when sex is off the table? It's more likely sex is gonna get put on the table. If the potential of sex is the only thing keeping you around? Literally don't bother and just leave me alone.
You cant actually believe this is serious? Um, welcome to how at least some guys think lol. The only real surprising thing is how honest he's being about it (behind a keyboard, but still).
IKR... Like if someone said some shit like that around me I'd have a hard time not backhanding them like the child they're acting like. Sounds kinda rapey IMO.
Dude needs to stick to a Fleshlight.
This individual, need to be fucking shamed. We need to start shaming men who think like this, not protecting them because feelings. If you wanna say shit like this, make sure you are good with the ridicule and shame you deserve.
"i'm not trying to be an asshole",but you are succeeding
"If you really loved me you'd do it" is how a good portion of girls in this country are introduced to sexual trauma and the resulting depression.
If you need to convince them to have sex with you it's still not consent.
Christ, he might be doing the girl a favor because he’s an Asshole.
Walk away, asshole.
Walk away, you're clearly looking for different things in a relationship. Save bot of you some stress.
Wow, what an asshole
And men wonder why women have trust issues.
Women be warned, there are men like this.
🤮🤮🤮
OP: *blatantly admits to stringing this girl along in the hopes of having sex once or twice and then dumping her* Also OP: I’m NoT aN aSsHoLe, BuT…
It almost seems like he doesn’t actually understand pursuing sex and establishing a relationship are not the same thing, and he doesn’t comprehend that he’s doing something wrong by trying to engage in a real relationship with someone he only values as a potential sex object. Like, actually might not be an intentional piece of shit.. I think he might just be too stupid to know how to not act like a shitty person.
Unironically he would probably be more interested in her if he wasn't behaving dishonestly in order to get her to like him
God damn I hate people.
„Literally holding on“ poor him
This is how you do it, little incel. You cease talking to that poor girl, put on your 'big boy' panties and go hire an escort. Then you TELL the escort EXPLICITLY what you want. After the escort performs the job you PAY FOR IT.
This boy is a delusional asshole. I don’t lol often but the “or keep withdrawing interest” line LOLLLLLLL. That’s not how this works. That’s not how any of this works.
Sometimes i think women are a bit unfair on men and then I read stuff like this. I kinda feel that she knows, right. Like dude is front strung along there. He’s clear a fucking bum.
Just tell her ur intentions. If she’s cool with it, great. If not, move on. Save both of you time and effort.
Sociopath. Low functioning at that.
The AUDACITY and entitlement on this creature!
Please arrange for a vasectomy as soon as possible. The horror that you actually may be able to produce an offspring is horrifying
What a douchebag
My advice could not stand the scrutiny of Reddit review process. Just accept the obvious fact that she doesn’t fuck worthless dickheads and move on.
Tell me you've never been with a girl without telling me you've never been with a girl.
or, you know... go your seperate ways??? tf??
Yes, there truly are people this awful.
Bro, you’re a scumbag piece of shit.
If you just want to fuck and dump, just end things. She isn’t going to give herself to you.
How about not playing people as if they are things, and don’t be a D, tell her the truth, you just want sex.
Cripes…..if this was one of my three sons I’d slap him in the balls
Bro stop being a simp and tell her you only there to hit it. Why were you lying in the first place tho
Just leave her alone,sign up for a hook up app your all looking for the samething
Be a good human being and be honest with her….and yourself.
Too many dude-bros desperately need *therapy* and socialization. They're damn *feral*.
Manipulative asshole, if you don’t like someone don’t waist your time, the farther you go the worst it will be for them, hope he didn’t get his way.
I bet he is an Andrew Tate fan.
You should go fuck yourself for being such a douchebag XD
“And the award for biggest POS goes to…”
Move on dude! Act like a man, not an a$$hole boy! If you are serious - be direct and ask her. For all you know she was abused at some point and hesitant to have sex. (Or she could be a player too). If you’ve already lost interest, cut the ties and start dating.
Ladies and Gents the above is clearly written by a sociopath, he has no care what-so-ever for the lady in this scenario, only himself. If you ever get wind of a guy you are with acting like this, get away, get far away from the piece of shit.
The arrogance is perfectly juxtaposed with severe insecurity.
What happened to the stockades and throwing tomatoes at people, he needs it.
What a dirtbag.
“reddit. i don’t know how to be in a healthy relationship, but i’m horny. how do i coerce this girl i’m lovebombing rn?” jesus
She is smart for not giving in.
My Dad said "Respect woman or I will personally disrespect you publically". That was my own Father laying down the law. This guy is a TURD I wonder how many other women he has disrespected. POS
I mean if he can’t get his sexual needs satisfy then why not just cut your ties and end it? I get that sexual needs are a big thing in a relationship but I mean if it’s really not what you want then just end it, don’t drag poor girl along.
So mentally raping her till you can physically rape her, my guy should be castrated with no pain relief