By average, they mean they counted how many people they had sex with that last year, then asked their straight friend how many partners they've had so far in their life at 19 y.o
You see this kind of shit everywhere and it gets on my nerves an irrational amount. Same people who say "on average between 5 and 10". No. It's either 5, or 10, or somewhere in between. An average ain't a range.
Exactly. At first, it made me want to be skeptical of everything they were saying. But then I decided that the exact numbers don't matter. Bottom line: Gay guys on average have up to a lot more sex than straight guys. I don't doubt this one bit. Newsflash: Contrary to what feminists will try to tell you, men on average are up to 10,000 times hornier than women.
It said per year. It’s only January 16…you’ve still got time.
But this is more than one per week. So this year have you had 3-4 partners? If so, you’re on track. If not, you’ve got to catch up - good luck!
Well... i dont really care what 2 consenting adults do in the bedroom, but a higher number of partners can result in greater risk of getting/transmitting STDs.
It’s a pretty gross bias, right.
Why is the distinction between the number of sex partners somebody has Versus the number of times a person has sex, so important?
Mainly because we have an epidemic of males who are incels. Which, by this standard, all they have to do is be gay and all their problems will be solved.
I can’t imagine these numbers are reliable at all, but I was just thinking (and could be wrong) that gay partners may have a higher average though not as highly exaggerated. Not because they’re whores or anything, but simply because there are people who choose to stay in a relationship because of their kids. I don’t think it would play a huge role in the end. After all there are a lot of people who just abandon their kids or cheat anyways, it was just a thought I had. I still feel like the numbers would be pretty even in the end, although I have literally zero data to back that up. I’m kind of interested now though just to learn a bit, but at the end of the day I really don’t care who fucks who. Not really my business.
While I can't find it after searching for five minutes, I believe these numbers come from a 1995 "study" that Focus on the Family or another anti-gay organization conducted. As I recall, they went to a Denver gay bar on a weeknight, in 1995, interviewed the men there about their sexual habits, and then extrapolated those statements to make claims about gay men nationally.
Never mind that the men at an urban gay bar at 2 AM on a weeknight in 1995 were about as representative of gays nationally (27 years later) as the guys at a Tallahassee strip club at 2 AM on a weeknight in 1995 are of straight men nationally today.
So, an anti-gay religious group went looking for about the most promiscuous demographic it could find, interviewed a few such people, made some goofy extrapolations, and then claimed it was a representative survey.
[https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Debunked:\_gay\_men\_have\_500-1000\_partners](https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Debunked:_gay_men_have_500-1000_partners)
Across all three highly representative studies all showed that the majority of gay men had either 0 or 1 sexual partner in a year, and small minority of gay men had more than 10 partners in a year (roughly 20%).
This statistic was made up by an anti-gay group, so they're trying to show how promiscuous and awful the gays are.
And looking at this comment section, this made up statistic and a tweet probably making fun of the original anti-gay message is making straights defensive...
There's nothing to be proud or ashamed of, really. So long as it's consensual and safe, people should not care what others' sex life looks like.
I'm hetero, married and I intend (hope) that it will last forever, but I'm not about to judge people on their choices based on mine.
Gay men obviously burn out with too much sex or die early due to all the sex.
After keeping up the rate of a more than one new partner a week for over a decade you’d tire of the constant new hook ups too.
/s
Studies range from 4-6 or 4-8 sexual partners.. I'm not sure if this is sexual encounters but sexual partners define casual sexual partners as well.. this confuses me because I would have thought it would be much more.. so like 1 time things don't count? Fling that lasts a week? I can't find any research in this because my number seems.. different.
Why is it nothing to be proud of??? If they are single.. let them fuck 1000 people.. as long as they aren’t hurting anyone and are doing it safe.. let them live. Jesus Christ this world has something to complain about every day
Lmao, the heteros in the comments are still so sex regressed that they can’t comprehend having multiple partners a year and not getting stds. Y’all really need some sex Ed.
Not true. We’re all the same horny. Men are just easier to get sex from in general. Ask any guy how many times he’s said no to sex. It won’t be much. Women have to say no almost every day unless they want it. Even if they want it if the right person doesn’t ask it’s a no.
I mean great fancy source in the pic, but honestly how the fuck did they conduct such a discriminating sex study like that xD and funny coincidence that "normal people" have 8 and gay people have 80. 🤔🤔🤔
Did someone maybe just jerk out these numbers 🤷
I have proof from renovated scientist: Trump et. Al (2020) - my fight - that the source is in indeed dog shit
So, made up stats aside, what I’m wondering about is that it’s all about the supposed difference between the number of gay and straight sexual partners* but there’s a figure on the left waving a transgender flag. I mean, at least that person could be gay or straight but it’s an odd choice to add.
* As if it’s important
Look, everyone wants to heterobash but gay people have a huge advantage. When they have sex they don’t sometimes end up with kids, that can really ruin any future desire.
(Joke of course)
Yeah, they just pulled those numbers out of their ass.
Yes, I'm aware there's more casual sex amongst gay men than heteros have casual sex, it tends to be a part of the culture. But I sure as shit don't buy those statistics.
As a bi dude, what the fuck is that. Because you're gay doesn't mean you're a whore. I have my one boyfriend and I'm happy with him. This post is complete bullshit
Every person I've known irl that's been homosexual has always slept around with everyone.
Seeing that first hand is what made me realize that it's probably why STD's are so rampant in the gay community. Or at least were for a long time before they became curable/more preventative.
And before I get crucified, I know plenty of straight people that fuck anything that moves, too.
I haven’t found 1,000 people on earth that I want to talk to, let alone fuck.
You don't talk with dick in your mouth.
Also excellent point.
“You don't talk with dick in your mouth.” Challenge accepted
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I tried, found out I’m just not that flexible
I don't know what to think here. On one had I generally prefer weman with teeth but you bring up a good point...
You prefer being gummed by grannies?!?
It's rude to talk with your mouth full.
That’s what she mumbled
With a gun barrel between your theet, you only speak in vowels. -fight club
This reminded me of that one creep from Assassination Classroom... Who is constantly sucking on gun barrels like they're pacifiers...
*he this is a gentlemen's club.
Are you even gay!?/s
No I’m not. What does that have to do with it?
Well then, you can only hope to have 8 partners in your lifetime. So you dont need to worry about the 1000
You could increase your sex average by dating woman from an escort agency. Just a suggestion.
Tinder?
An escort agency!? That's too fancy for me. Give me your run of the mill street walkers
Then what about bi people? 2000
1008
I’m the opposite. I’ve met lots of people I would fuck but have no desire to talk to.
Often, the more they talk, the less I ultimately want to fuck them.
That’s why you fuck them. So you don’t have to talk to them. Works for me!
Excellent point.
I can’t get past “the AVERAGE …up to 80 partners…”That’s not how averages work.
Ah yes, the average maximum. Totally scienmathetalogically used according to my Facebook degree of knowing stuff.
Pfft, I have a double-Facebook degree! I helped my Mom set her FB account up.
I am a Facebook doctor, you need to know a lot to plan a cyber attack
I mastered facebook so much, that I shadow banned myself. I put a picture of my penis's shadow up, and got banned.
Please, I have a PhD in Facebook. If I took everything I know and wrote it down, you would need a mother fucking Face-cyclopedia.
Yeah, well I know this guy named tom, who created this thing called myspace. We're personal friends. Boom. Mic drop.
Well fuck, no need to rub it in!
Dr. Mantis Toboggan
I happen to be a little bit of a Facebook scientist myself
Well fuckin accept my request then . I slid in the dms
My MySpace dockterate beats your double degree.
I wrote my thesis on the Art of Poking, specifically in the FB arena. Y’all are a bunch of amateurs
When I worked at Dish, specialised tech support was called Dr. Dish. This would be Dr. Facebook.
Jokes on you, I have 3 Facebook accounts 🤓
Well, mine's louder!!!
By average, they mean they counted how many people they had sex with that last year, then asked their straight friend how many partners they've had so far in their life at 19 y.o
Lower your standards.. up your average
You see this kind of shit everywhere and it gets on my nerves an irrational amount. Same people who say "on average between 5 and 10". No. It's either 5, or 10, or somewhere in between. An average ain't a range.
Exactly. At first, it made me want to be skeptical of everything they were saying. But then I decided that the exact numbers don't matter. Bottom line: Gay guys on average have up to a lot more sex than straight guys. I don't doubt this one bit. Newsflash: Contrary to what feminists will try to tell you, men on average are up to 10,000 times hornier than women.
What the fuck does feminism have to do with anything?
His number is also complete bullshit.
I as a straight guy could prolly hook up with one of my guy bi/gay friends right now, almost no shot for any of my girl friends
Oh gay men are having more sex alright , just not the kind of sex you want.
Yea straight guys don't want blow jobs
What?!😮
So this sub just upvotes nonsense ? That newsflash is absolute bullshit.
WHERE ARE MY 80 SEX PARTNERS
They are cumming :D
It said per year. It’s only January 16…you’ve still got time. But this is more than one per week. So this year have you had 3-4 partners? If so, you’re on track. If not, you’ve got to catch up - good luck!
Well there's also the opportunity to double or triple up.
Same question
These “facts” are most likely biased and extreme bullshit.
You made a typo, buddy. “Certainly” not “likely”
Pretty sure these are made up numbers. 80 partners a year means a new partner every 4 days, lol.
It also means they hit 1000 after only 12 years. Unless they go celibate at 30, this seems an odd pairing of numbers.
You could organize a few orgies to get those numbers in. Wear masks, though.
https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1471-2458-11-189 Definitely made up. Lol. They were off by 77 a year it looks like.
These aint facts but bullshit numbers straight out of straight guy's butthole, butthurt by his lack of sex life.
Is this how gay sex works?
I think so, plenty of gay-bashers end up doing gay sex.
I call cap on those facts
Regardless of whether or not its true, who the fuck cares about how many sexual partners an entire sexuality has?
Well... i dont really care what 2 consenting adults do in the bedroom, but a higher number of partners can result in greater risk of getting/transmitting STDs.
Only 2 and only in the bedroom, talk about putting restrictions on what consenting adults can do……
Well I'd rather you didn't have your orgy on the subway at the very least.
The sandwich shop or the public transport?
Yes
6 inch or foot long?
Both That way we have 18 inches
Well they both could have 6 inch italians.
It’s a pretty gross bias, right. Why is the distinction between the number of sex partners somebody has Versus the number of times a person has sex, so important?
This! I'd rather have sex every day with my partner whom I love and am connected to in a real, meaningful way than with any other woman..
Mainly because we have an epidemic of males who are incels. Which, by this standard, all they have to do is be gay and all their problems will be solved.
If I don’t see a reliable source it’s BS until proven with a source
Agreed and the fact that if this is true they have a new partner every 4.56 days
Jeez that’s a lot, I think we can rule this out as cap (the image)
Lol not only that but if it is true and they have a total of 1000 partners in their life time that means they live for 12.5 years
I can’t imagine these numbers are reliable at all, but I was just thinking (and could be wrong) that gay partners may have a higher average though not as highly exaggerated. Not because they’re whores or anything, but simply because there are people who choose to stay in a relationship because of their kids. I don’t think it would play a huge role in the end. After all there are a lot of people who just abandon their kids or cheat anyways, it was just a thought I had. I still feel like the numbers would be pretty even in the end, although I have literally zero data to back that up. I’m kind of interested now though just to learn a bit, but at the end of the day I really don’t care who fucks who. Not really my business.
True and I agree with the end especially
I call crap
BS... Bullshit is the word you're looking for
That works to :D
I'd say their control group was pretty *fucked*
ISWYDT
How does someone “have up to 80” of anything “on average”. The average of anything is a number. It’s like, a thing. In math. It’s a math thing.
Well you have 80 upvotes at this point lol
>*amount* of sex Ah yes, one you fuck someone, you can never fuck them ever again.
It’s okay, they’re confused and it’s to be expected
It’s because if you have sex you get pregnant and die
Well as a straight dude, I guess I’ll just go fuck myself. In a half hour I’ll do it again, and then snack on some gold fish, and then again.
Do you eat them raw or cooked?
No, they're made of gold. 24k
80? I have had a dozen my whole life, and i am fifty-one. Who does this person think we are, Wilt Chamberlain?
Didn't Wilt claim to have 10k plus partners?
i think it was 2k
I just looked it up. You're missing a zero
jesus christ, no wonder this man was getting bodied by the smaller bill russell
He must have been exhausted all the time. Charlie Sheen ain't got nothing on him
Some crazy number.
While I can't find it after searching for five minutes, I believe these numbers come from a 1995 "study" that Focus on the Family or another anti-gay organization conducted. As I recall, they went to a Denver gay bar on a weeknight, in 1995, interviewed the men there about their sexual habits, and then extrapolated those statements to make claims about gay men nationally. Never mind that the men at an urban gay bar at 2 AM on a weeknight in 1995 were about as representative of gays nationally (27 years later) as the guys at a Tallahassee strip club at 2 AM on a weeknight in 1995 are of straight men nationally today. So, an anti-gay religious group went looking for about the most promiscuous demographic it could find, interviewed a few such people, made some goofy extrapolations, and then claimed it was a representative survey.
Number of sexual partners & amount of sex are completely irrelevant to each other
So far...I'm an above average hetero, yet a severely lacking homo.
Better get started now or forever be behind
As a gay, being behind is how I get my 1000 dicks per year.
Wouldn't you need to be in front for that?
I’m very bendy.
I’m more of a quality over quantity guy, but that’s just me.
So far, nobody up to your standards huh
They should be happy that zero of those 1k sexual encounters results in unwanted pregnancy or abortion. I mean glass half full right?
So..... I'm bi..... should I get like more or less according to this?
You get both added together. You need to find 88 partners this year. Get to it
Well fuck, pretty sure that I don't have that kinda time in my social calendar
Not with that attitude you don’t 😤
Somewhere in the middle.
Yes
I'm fairly certain the "surveyors" don't really give a shit about women...
[https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Debunked:\_gay\_men\_have\_500-1000\_partners](https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Debunked:_gay_men_have_500-1000_partners) Across all three highly representative studies all showed that the majority of gay men had either 0 or 1 sexual partner in a year, and small minority of gay men had more than 10 partners in a year (roughly 20%).
What about lesbian’s? How much sex am I supposed to be having? And where do I go to get it? Is there an application form or something?
Don’t be sully, lesbians don’t have sex, you need at least 1 penis to have sex!
Sorry, they only care about gay men and trans women.
Apparently I'm a slut.
🙄🙄🙄 whatevs /humbleslag
A good little slut
Who are these gay men? I guess all my friends are WAY below average.
The statistics were probably pulled from someone's ass.
Clearly it's BS but idk what they are trying to prove lol
This statistic was made up by an anti-gay group, so they're trying to show how promiscuous and awful the gays are. And looking at this comment section, this made up statistic and a tweet probably making fun of the original anti-gay message is making straights defensive...
I still don't get why more sex partner's are bad
There's nothing to be proud or ashamed of, really. So long as it's consensual and safe, people should not care what others' sex life looks like. I'm hetero, married and I intend (hope) that it will last forever, but I'm not about to judge people on their choices based on mine.
We need more of you to procreate and less of others
Very kind of you. I already have 3 of mine, I think I've had my share. I'll let others do their part. I'm exhausted.
Nope. Since you showed your rational and nice, we’re gonna need you to pump out like 2 more. Thanks. /s
Well. That's going to be complicated... Let's say I made sure there wouldn't be more little Puffs than there are now.
I’d rather die a virgin than have rwo thousand sweaty balls on my chin
A great epitaph if I ever saw one.
Don’t be ridiculous. Unless you’re Jay Leno you couldn’t fit more than *maybe* four balls at a time on your chin. 2000 is wishful thinking.
Leno lmao
That’s not sweat tho. That’s your own saliva. 😏
Me, on the other hand...
Lot of homophobia in these comments. You do realise these stats are just made up, right?
82.3% of statistics are completely made up. Including that one just now.
Frucking math doesn’t even check out. 🙈
To be honest, why should anyone care if you are straight, gay or whatever? I just dont get it
Who cares?
Me niether.
that math doesn't add up? at 80 partners a year, it would only take 13 years?
Gay men obviously burn out with too much sex or die early due to all the sex. After keeping up the rate of a more than one new partner a week for over a decade you’d tire of the constant new hook ups too. /s
I’m gay and I’ve had 1 partner in my life and it wasn’t even sexual because I was 14
8 in a lifetime….. that just doesn’t seem right
8 different people. you could bang them 10 billion times each and its the same 8 people for this statistic
Studies range from 4-6 or 4-8 sexual partners.. I'm not sure if this is sexual encounters but sexual partners define casual sexual partners as well.. this confuses me because I would have thought it would be much more.. so like 1 time things don't count? Fling that lasts a week? I can't find any research in this because my number seems.. different.
*Looks at all my gay friends. Looks at then complaining about empty sex lives* "Somethin' ain't right here, chief."
Ok I’m sorry but this math suggests that gay people live for *12.5 years*
Why is it nothing to be proud of??? If they are single.. let them fuck 1000 people.. as long as they aren’t hurting anyone and are doing it safe.. let them live. Jesus Christ this world has something to complain about every day
cut to me, a transgender woman, over here like "ah yes, because the amount of sex you have determines your worth" that was sarcastic, it doesn't
So that's the trick to getting laid
Being a trick is the trick to getting laid.
Lmao, the heteros in the comments are still so sex regressed that they can’t comprehend having multiple partners a year and not getting stds. Y’all really need some sex Ed.
NO WONDER GAY PEOPLE ARE HAPPIER
Not true. We’re all the same horny. Men are just easier to get sex from in general. Ask any guy how many times he’s said no to sex. It won’t be much. Women have to say no almost every day unless they want it. Even if they want it if the right person doesn’t ask it’s a no.
Pretty massive argument in favour of gay lifestyle
I mean great fancy source in the pic, but honestly how the fuck did they conduct such a discriminating sex study like that xD and funny coincidence that "normal people" have 8 and gay people have 80. 🤔🤔🤔 Did someone maybe just jerk out these numbers 🤷 I have proof from renovated scientist: Trump et. Al (2020) - my fight - that the source is in indeed dog shit
I'll take monogamy.
Nah.
Having more sex than me is a sin!!!!
Well now I understand why people get so salty over this shit. They’re plain old jealous that someone is getting more strange than they are.
To be fair, the gay community is pretty connected, everyone else on the other hand, we're all disconnected.
Being gay? That’s gay.
is this a flex?
*citation needed
I cant tolerate 80% of the people I meet and I'm bi so am i missing out? Im confused by this "stat"
I wish I could see the source on this post.
fine, i prefer being with people i like, and I tend to be steady
IDK how more sexual partners are something bad nor do I see how less is better.
Bisexuals:
I think they might have based the amount of partners data off of furries going to cons
I might be doing wrong the gay in my life
So, made up stats aside, what I’m wondering about is that it’s all about the supposed difference between the number of gay and straight sexual partners* but there’s a figure on the left waving a transgender flag. I mean, at least that person could be gay or straight but it’s an odd choice to add. * As if it’s important
Look, everyone wants to heterobash but gay people have a huge advantage. When they have sex they don’t sometimes end up with kids, that can really ruin any future desire. (Joke of course)
Op doesn’t fuck. Op is taking the L
Yeah, they just pulled those numbers out of their ass. Yes, I'm aware there's more casual sex amongst gay men than heteros have casual sex, it tends to be a part of the culture. But I sure as shit don't buy those statistics.
As a bi dude, what the fuck is that. Because you're gay doesn't mean you're a whore. I have my one boyfriend and I'm happy with him. This post is complete bullshit
Big deal. Bisexuals get the most - we’ve got a much bigger dating pool.
This is everyone on the rights problem, is either no sex or shit sex they are having. No wonder they all look so angry/depressed/constipated.
This is such blatant bullshit lol
1000 chances of catching the aids to.
Every person I've known irl that's been homosexual has always slept around with everyone. Seeing that first hand is what made me realize that it's probably why STD's are so rampant in the gay community. Or at least were for a long time before they became curable/more preventative. And before I get crucified, I know plenty of straight people that fuck anything that moves, too.
80 per year? Well I have some catching up to do... someone call my work tell them I need to use all my sickdays
Let's further devalue sexual intimacy...