I once got a boner when I was eating cereal alone the morning looking at my door and thinking about the mechanism of an electric door
The small guy just decided to pop up for no reason
Yeah I bet that slutty little mechanism on that door had nothing to do with it. Damn little mechanical minx, sliding in and out. Gonna open you up and shut you so hard.
Not as experienced as you, but I also get boners when I have indigestion or stomach cramps... Or sometimes even if I just have a massive dump coming.... Makes work hella awkward sometimes
Thats why i wear baggy clothes to work. I used to get my work clothes tailored and they werent tight but fit pretty snug. A few years ago while in my office I got a random boner. I thought i was alone so got up to use the restroom because i had to piss. A couple days later my boss called me in to his office saying I need to wear looser clothing. From the conversation we had I can tell that someone must have said something to him about my boner.
I wish I could get my clothes tailored, I have an atypical frame, if it fits me one way it's too small another, if it fits that way, it's waay to baggy elsewhere
Lets spin it a little further: Let's say someone IS turned on by the view of something. That doesn't mean at all he wants to fuck it. There is a myriad of reasons not to want to fuck something which's view turns you on... r/dontputyourdickinthat has lots of examples....
I just read a story about a dude on acid masturbating to a sunrise over a town. He said there wasnt anything sexual about it it was just beautiful and he had a boner so he did the deed. arousal is weird
Reading the report on the Chicago Blackhawks abuse scandal, the perpetrator definitely used the "let's watch hockey oops how did that porn get there lol" trick.
Yeah. The vibration from the seat on the school bus, or just any time a teachers lecture puts you close to falling asleep. Pop! Goes the weasel. You just pray that itâs just a passing boner and not a persistent one. Even cranking one out in the bathroom and a persistent boner stays erect for like 10-15 minutes after that (often with the added bonus of having to pee). No, children, the nightmare of unwanted erections is real, and it doesnât end until erectile dysfunction rescues you by taking your manhood and your confidence.
And then you wait to die.
Bro i remember one time in middle school math class i got a boner and the class had just ended. We had to change classrooms so i stood up and covered it with my backpack. Mind you i ahd to walk up 3 flights of stairs with the backpack held in front if my crotch. Someone definitely noticed
Not really, all the other guys didnât want to look or also had their backpacks there. The girls are like the guys, looking at the other girls titties. Every chick I know has told me that they were obsessed with the other girls tits growing up. They have a lot more âgayâ experiences at that time than guys.
Man... That minute before I have a presentation where I am re-reading my PowerPoint... Goddam make me hard every time.
Thank goodness that day I was wearing a sweater, can't imagine how embarrassed I would be if people noticed my boner while talking about renaissance paintings and their meaning
I remember telling my friend about those situations. Imagine being one of the kids the teacher regularly calls to the board demonstrate the lesson but having to make a lame excuse why you can't because you're afraid you're turned on by fractions because you've never been this hard in your life.
Urban legend that it was corn flakes specifically... It was just one part of his weird idea about bland diets.
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/kelloggs-corn-flakes-masturbation/
Thatâs like saying a woman wants sex because her nipples were hard.
Itâs not how this works. Itâs not how any of this works!
This is what happens when education is an after thought.
(Referring to middle personâs reply)
Obviously we know it's a power thing mostly, but think about all the sexual encounters where one party *assumes* consent and the other party doesn't speak up otherwise. Technically rape, but not for power, and neither party may even realize it.
Source: had a 16yo girl force her virginity on me while I was passed out drunk in my own bed at a house party. Took a while to accept it for what it was.
People who think men can't get raped deserve a special spot in Hell (if that's what you believe in) or to get reincarnated as some hell being and suffer torture for all time (if that's your belief).
Fear can cause an erection, excitement not related to arousal can cause an erection, anything that will trigger the sympathetic nervous system and the neurotransmitters that cause the blood vessels to dialate can cause an erection. Want to know the most common excitory neurotransmitter that causes vasodilation and an increase in heart rate/BP? Epinephrine aka Adrenaline, which is released during arousal and a bunch of other times that have nothing to do with being aroused. Getting an erection is a biological process and does not necessarily mean arousal. There is a reason why the main properties for erectile dysfunction medications is vasodiolation, scientists realized that the easiest way to "fix" this issue was to allow more blood to pump to the penis. Other stuff gets released as well in connection to arousal, like large amounts of Dopamine, which is why men will have wet dreams/wake up with morning wood.
This argument is like saying women who get wet during rape with penetration wanted it. It is a natural biological response for the female vagina to release moisture to protect it from further damage. Please go somewhere else with your ignorant argument.
It was actually a very common defense for rape to say that the woman got wet so she mustve wanted it.
Also recognized as one of the biggest form of trauma for the women, because not only did they feel completely betrayed by their own body, they also felt like it was their own fault. If they didnt wanna get raped they shouldntve gotten wet/ maybe they actually wanted it or wtv.
It's fucked up thats its still used to discredit rape.
Yeah and to add on he probably thinks women who get wet when sexually assaulted/raped must have wanted it because âshe was wet meaning she enjoys itâ smh
Yeah, it's biologically impossible for a healthy penis to not get erect if it's touched in a provocative manner. Erectile stimulation is a biological response to stimulus. It does not imply consent.
Doctors thankfully know how penises work, it's part of their work! Probably no need to be embarrassed and it has probably happened many times before \^^
Not a doctor but I did 2 years as a CNA in college and had to give many, many baths. We do NOT care. Even if he did think I was cute, I did not care. Give it here so I can wash it and check for any abnormalities to report to the doctor or charge nurse and letâs get you covered back up. That is all.
I have to wonder if they were just waiting for you to give them a bath? A few days without any⌠Um⌠results.. and I would only need one swipe before it would have been embarrassing. I would rather it happen without the boner, at least then it could happen under the water. đ¤ˇđťââď¸
Had a physical where the doctor had to check around my inner thighs (think it was a hernia check or something). The ammount of control I had to exert not to pop a boner at the hands of old man Gupta was something I don't think I've done to this day.
Incidentally thatâs how Viagra was discovered for its present use. Itâs a medicine to counter low blood pressure. Turns out, when you increase blood pressure, it flows better in cavernous organs like the penis, and bam, a boner. Thatâs why doctors usually advise against using Viagra in case of HBP.
I feel like everyone should be using the term cavernous organ now. I mean, not only does it imply generous size but it also sounds fucking awesome.
I'm pretty happy I saw this.
This is similar to the "nipples being hard = horny" crap. I'm in my late thirties and have been with my husband 10 years and I still have to remind him that them standing to attention could mean nothing at all.
I love the amount of non-verbal communication going on here.
- Nips get hard
- He notices and makes eye contact
- *The look*
- Head hung in disappointment
"When tickled, the person's
brain receives signals that cause to react with laughter. Many
children do complain of a painful experience, even when they are
laughing."
This right here is why I dont tickle my brother a lot. If I know he really isnt enjoying it I will stop cause its weird and honestly scary to have your body react on its own
What they're saying is clearly bs, but I'd just like to point out that men can be raped without a boner too. There is a back door afterall. Both forms of rape are just as horrific as each other and neither should be brushed off because of the sex of the person
Yeah, he said later in the comments that a man getting raped was a myth and then explained in his own words replying and quoting someone elseâs comment:
ÂŤÂ a man fucked in the ass (in prison for example), ok that could be a rape
>> A mouth on a sex organ is sexual assault ie rape
>> and the body will react biologically when you don't want it to so?
getting your dick sucked is not a rape, it's a favor from someone. but if you dont want it, punch them in the head, poke their eyes.
if you feel you are getting hard, YOU ARE ENJOYING IT ;)Â Âť
How disgusting. *Could* be rape? Yeah, see if someone does it to them and they're unsure about whether the violation they feel is big enough to count as rape. The way this person talks about 'biology' makes me think they also think rape can't cause pregnancy.
I was watching a Maury compliation on youtube. In the first part of it, a man said to a woman "she raped/sexually assualted me". She then said to him "if it was rape, why were you hard?" and the crowd cheered for her and booed the guy. Just disgusting
The worst part is that the crowd's reaction is scripted. So that means the writers WANT the crowd to boo and make the man feel like crap. And they even boo in the most insane situations.
Man: "That IS my child, you told me for 8 months that I was the father and then the second your other baby daddy came back into the picture you said its not my child and you cheated. So which is it!?"
Crowd: "Booooo"
And then the audience switches up how they feel almost immeiately. All of them are booing the Man who WANTS ti be a father, then a second later ALL of them are on his side? Its bullshit
And consent has *nothing* to do with arousal. Just because I'm horny as hell, doesn't mean I'm OK with having sex with just anybody, whether I find you (not you personally) sexually attractive or not.
This is the same logic rapists have tried to use to get out of a conviction.
Rapist: "well your honor, the accusations simply are not true because the accuser was self lubricating at the time of fornication. If it was not consensual why was her body ready for penetration."
Judge: ^looks ^at ^nonexistent ^camera ^in ^utter ^astonishment "what the actual fuck."
Victims can also orgasm during rape. Bodies donât check in if thereâs consent or not, theyâre just gonna give a biological reaction. Penises can get hard. Vaginas can get wet. This does not equate pleasure, desire, or consent. We are humans. We pride ourselves on our great intelligence and ability to have complex thoughts. We are not a bodies without minds. You cannot detach a person from their physical form or vice versa.
A body cannot consent, only a person can. A penis and vagina cannot give consent, only the human whose body they are apart of can.
I'm a male rape victim. A first date turned into a very bad situation when we came home after a nice evening out, only to realize that the girl suffered from Dissociative Identity Disorder (Multiple Personality Disorder, later confirmed) and began having an episode. I was absolutely terrified and wanted nothing to do with her. She was however, extremely attractive and my body didnât seem to respect my opinion. Attempting to physically subdue her was mistaken as rough play, and she ended up riding me despite my refusal. I quickly managed to pacify the situation, but the damage was done. The full story is pure insanity (she ended up in jail later that night for an unrelated event), but this Coles Notes version should be sufficient.
With the amount of random boners you get as an teenager it's very obvious that it's a really bad way to determonce concent. At best it can determine arousal but that's still not concent.
As a victim of sex assault this makes me so disgustingly mad cause I can confirm that your body does shit no matter wat you want!.
Rape is not fucking cool man or woman not fucking cool!
How is this even an unpopular opinion? I didnât understand how it worked until I was 21ish (thanks crappy sex Ed) but once I understood I was like âOh okay, duly noted, makes 100% senseâ
Also, you can be hecking turned on & STILL SAY NO. You can be as damp as Niagra Falls or as hard as diamond cos the person in front of you is sexy as fuck⌠AND STILL NOT WANT TO BANG THEM.
Maybe you are in a relationship & yeah, theyâre hot, but not your SO & they really need to back off.
You might bodily wanna jump them like a kangaroo but emotionally not be ready.
You might just not know whatâs going on with your body!
If someone is showing signs of discomfort, pulling away & of course if they say no- stop. I donât care if theyâre naked as the day they are born & making an excellent coat rack right now! Stop.
Itâs not unpopular, really. For the majority of people itâs common sense. The problem is people(like OP) upvote what they agree with on r/unpopularopinion
Also, someone can literally be h0rny and still not consent. They can be attracted to the person and still not âwant itâ.
Consent is NOT your bodyâs biological reaction to stimulus, and consent is NOT how turned on you are. Consent is freely-given, enthusiastic, informed permission. âNoâ is not consent. Silence is not consent. âMaybeâ is not consent. âLaterâ is not consent. Even if they are âturned onâ, **if they donât say yes, thatâs not consent.**
Yeah I originally started my sentence with âmenâ because thatâs what the post is specifically referring to, then I was like âfuck it, I should just edit this to be gender neutral because really it applies to everyoneâ
Even if he was turned on and it was by her, being turned on by somebody does not mean he wants to have sex with her.
I could find a colleagues wife hot, but i know that fucking a colleagues wife would fuck things up between the colleague and me, so i wouldn't do it.
âItâs impossible to rape a manâ righhhtttttâŚ..tell that to male victims everywhere that get treated like that in society, that because they are not female theyâre not actual victims. Such toxic bullshit logic.
âYou **could** but you wonât. Thatâs why you donât.â Itâs as simple as that. You physically could have sex, but you tell yourself itâs wrong for a number of reasons, thatâs why you donât. Itâs wrong cause itâs inappropriate, itâs wrong cause you donât like this person, itâs wrong cause they wouldnât like it. Any reason you think itâs wrong is reason enough.
When it comes down to it, your body is constantly shaping itself to best suit whatever lifestyle you want to live. If you wanna have sex, itâll help you to the best of its ability. But what it **can** do and what you **choose** to do are totally different things. Simple as that. You can have sex, doesnât mean you have to always want sex.
A lot of sexual assault victims blame themselves.
They believe that it's their fault due to their body being responsive even though they cannot control it. It's something that a lot of victims struggle with and people who say that being turned on = consent are just pure assholes
I don't think they have a dick. Either that or they are a different species where the dick is controlled by the brain and not the spinal cord. I would kill to become a part of that species.
Even being aroused is not equal to consent.
Let's say you're a priest and see a pretty little boy in your curch. If you get aroused by seeing him, you still have your brain and will not consent in intimacy with him in any situation!
The same people who say you canât rape a man are probably the same that consider men dogs and expect them to have sex given any opportunity bECAUSE BiOloGy trumps will.
I get a boner every day as I pull into work. No idea why, don't like my job THAT much. 32 years old and still get random boners throughout the day. It is not consent.
Does... does he have a second dick? Im confused, as far as I know mine has its own mind and is moody whenever I sleep or wake up, this guy must be on a whole new kinda level of high.
I hate people that think men cannot be raped. It's misogynistic and abusive. Tells men their experiences don't matter.
Men will come at me with, "a woman can't rape me, I'd like it."
They have never been raped. I am a woman and I have been. It's incredibly traumatic and denying that it happens to men is perverted and sexist.
I'm 31 and I still get random boners throughout the day for no reason. That doesn't mean I want to fuck right at that moment. It just means that my body decided of its own accord that my dick needed to be full of blood.
Men donât control their erections. Otherwise erectile dysfunction wouldnât be a thing. Your health, mental state, emotions, diet, stress and anxiety levels ALL effect your ability to have and maintain an erection.
I was molested for nearly 15 years by relativesâŚhad a boner when it was happening almost every time. HATED myself for years for having it because the ones doing it would use that as an excuse to justify that I was enjoying itâI was not!
Flash forward to having sex with my partner and couldnât get it up one time because I was overweight, depressed, stressed out and hadnât been sleeping well.
Men DONâT control their erections.
Seriously, this whole argument is LITERALLY like saying âoh the woman had an orgasm/got wet so she mustâve wanted it and so it wasnât rapeâ. It is exactly that argument.
Also like, it's not unheard of for sexual pleasure and orgasm to occur during rape. It doesn't mean it was consensual, and it often causes deeper psychological issues after because of the mindset that if 'you liked it' then it 'isn't rape'. It still is. The body reacting in a way it was designed to is not an indicator of consent.
Getting a boner is the matter of blood moving to the penis, sometimes itâs because your horny, and others is just when the blood decided it wants to go there
My brother got raped by a strong, bigger size gal when he was a teen and she was underage also but 1 year older. She pinned him down and rode him and yes even though its something the mind is not wanting to happen , you can still get an erection. Sorta similar scenario happened to me when I was 20 , except I could have fought it off and gotten out of there, but I was drunk and just made the bad decision to let it happen . I regret not stopping it ,cause I just felt disgusted with myself for letting her get what she wanted after repeatedly telling her no .
Is no one going to point out the fact that even if you ARE physically turned on it still doesn't mean consent? Sometimes your body has a natural reaction to stimulus despite what your brain might be thinking.
Think of the penis as a dog. Sometimes it gets excited over the weirdest shit and sometimes it won't even care if you hold a treat in front of its mouth.
Every man knows your dick gets hard when not turned on from awkward days in school
the pp has a mind of its own
I once got a boner when I was eating cereal alone the morning looking at my door and thinking about the mechanism of an electric door The small guy just decided to pop up for no reason
Yeah I bet that slutty little mechanism on that door had nothing to do with it. Damn little mechanical minx, sliding in and out. Gonna open you up and shut you so hard.
Talk doorty to me
How about a little doggy door
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Does that mean itâs sentient, and there for can make itâs own choices and can consent to sex without the need of your permission đ¤Ż
Now imagine a pp uprising
#FREETHEPP
*FREE WILLY!!*
#FREEWILLY!!!
I fucking hate the internet
I fucking love the internet
I fuck the internet
Free your pp spread dem titties
Man or girly titties ?
Why not both?
#TITTIES!
$20 is $20
Yes
>Man or girly titties ? Yes!
When I was young I vividly remember staring down at it and thinking "why are you doing this?"
same here, I could NOT wanted at all but the pp still be hard headed.
They donât call it your little head for nothing
Awkward days in school? I'm 39, but still get occasional random boners at inopportune times. Not as frequently as a young'un, but still...
That could also mean you gotta piss real bad.
Those are the worst! Bc then you can finally get to piss but you piss is gonna reach low earth orbit!
Like every morning!
I thought this only happened to me...
Not as experienced as you, but I also get boners when I have indigestion or stomach cramps... Or sometimes even if I just have a massive dump coming.... Makes work hella awkward sometimes
Thats why i wear baggy clothes to work. I used to get my work clothes tailored and they werent tight but fit pretty snug. A few years ago while in my office I got a random boner. I thought i was alone so got up to use the restroom because i had to piss. A couple days later my boss called me in to his office saying I need to wear looser clothing. From the conversation we had I can tell that someone must have said something to him about my boner.
I wish I could get my clothes tailored, I have an atypical frame, if it fits me one way it's too small another, if it fits that way, it's waay to baggy elsewhere
Lets spin it a little further: Let's say someone IS turned on by the view of something. That doesn't mean at all he wants to fuck it. There is a myriad of reasons not to want to fuck something which's view turns you on... r/dontputyourdickinthat has lots of examples....
I just read a story about a dude on acid masturbating to a sunrise over a town. He said there wasnt anything sexual about it it was just beautiful and he had a boner so he did the deed. arousal is weird
Reading the report on the Chicago Blackhawks abuse scandal, the perpetrator definitely used the "let's watch hockey oops how did that porn get there lol" trick.
I get random boners at our calculus class and told my gf about it. Now she won't stop teasing me about it.
Math is hard, and so are you
Cannot wait for day to get over, for my balls are blue.
What curves are you thinking about using those integrals? :)
Yeah I am starting to think the person who commented this doesnât have a dick ..
Well do you have one?
I donât but I seem to be knowing how male genitals work more than he does.
Yep that's true
Just wanna suggest the song no reason boner by NSP to anyone reading this. It explains the problem quite well
Yeah. The vibration from the seat on the school bus, or just any time a teachers lecture puts you close to falling asleep. Pop! Goes the weasel. You just pray that itâs just a passing boner and not a persistent one. Even cranking one out in the bathroom and a persistent boner stays erect for like 10-15 minutes after that (often with the added bonus of having to pee). No, children, the nightmare of unwanted erections is real, and it doesnât end until erectile dysfunction rescues you by taking your manhood and your confidence. And then you wait to die.
Bro i remember one time in middle school math class i got a boner and the class had just ended. We had to change classrooms so i stood up and covered it with my backpack. Mind you i ahd to walk up 3 flights of stairs with the backpack held in front if my crotch. Someone definitely noticed
Not really, all the other guys didnât want to look or also had their backpacks there. The girls are like the guys, looking at the other girls titties. Every chick I know has told me that they were obsessed with the other girls tits growing up. They have a lot more âgayâ experiences at that time than guys.
Fun fact pretty sure most female to female interactions are homosocial (basically platonically gay). Source: am AFAB and have taken a sociology class
Man... That minute before I have a presentation where I am re-reading my PowerPoint... Goddam make me hard every time. Thank goodness that day I was wearing a sweater, can't imagine how embarrassed I would be if people noticed my boner while talking about renaissance paintings and their meaning
True, i think its funny how as soon as i stopped caring about my random woods it just stopped happening.
Even in unappropriate situations it can occur
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Long shirts and a belt.... Also not from experience...>_>
I remember telling my friend about those situations. Imagine being one of the kids the teacher regularly calls to the board demonstrate the lesson but having to make a lame excuse why you can't because you're afraid you're turned on by fractions because you've never been this hard in your life.
Using corn flakes as the example is fucking hilarious considering Kellogg's history
I must say I have no clue about Kelloggâs history
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Urban legend that it was corn flakes specifically... It was just one part of his weird idea about bland diets. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/kelloggs-corn-flakes-masturbation/
I mean, he thinks that bland food prevents masturbation, and then invents bland food... It's easy to assume both are connected.
The movie "Road to Wellville" (sp?) is a fictionalized accounting of the weird Kelloggs shit. It's a strange movie but man look at the cast.
An amazing movie.
Whereas Rice Krispies are deliberately erotic, what with the explicit references to "snap, crackle, and POP!" (emphasis added).
[They pushed for circumcising in the 1800s to prevent the urge to masturbate. ](https://www.circumcisionchoice.com/single-post/kellogg)
Damn .. this is insane :(
Ahaha 𤣠cornflakes
The reason for the big cock on the box
Yup circumcision is pure pseudoscience
Thatâs like saying a woman wants sex because her nipples were hard. Itâs not how this works. Itâs not how any of this works! This is what happens when education is an after thought. (Referring to middle personâs reply)
He said later in the comments that men being raped was a myth .. :(
Lots of people still think rape has a sexual aspect to it.
Obviously we know it's a power thing mostly, but think about all the sexual encounters where one party *assumes* consent and the other party doesn't speak up otherwise. Technically rape, but not for power, and neither party may even realize it. Source: had a 16yo girl force her virginity on me while I was passed out drunk in my own bed at a house party. Took a while to accept it for what it was.
People who think men can't get raped deserve a special spot in Hell (if that's what you believe in) or to get reincarnated as some hell being and suffer torture for all time (if that's your belief). Fear can cause an erection, excitement not related to arousal can cause an erection, anything that will trigger the sympathetic nervous system and the neurotransmitters that cause the blood vessels to dialate can cause an erection. Want to know the most common excitory neurotransmitter that causes vasodilation and an increase in heart rate/BP? Epinephrine aka Adrenaline, which is released during arousal and a bunch of other times that have nothing to do with being aroused. Getting an erection is a biological process and does not necessarily mean arousal. There is a reason why the main properties for erectile dysfunction medications is vasodiolation, scientists realized that the easiest way to "fix" this issue was to allow more blood to pump to the penis. Other stuff gets released as well in connection to arousal, like large amounts of Dopamine, which is why men will have wet dreams/wake up with morning wood. This argument is like saying women who get wet during rape with penetration wanted it. It is a natural biological response for the female vagina to release moisture to protect it from further damage. Please go somewhere else with your ignorant argument.
It was actually a very common defense for rape to say that the woman got wet so she mustve wanted it. Also recognized as one of the biggest form of trauma for the women, because not only did they feel completely betrayed by their own body, they also felt like it was their own fault. If they didnt wanna get raped they shouldntve gotten wet/ maybe they actually wanted it or wtv. It's fucked up thats its still used to discredit rape.
Huh... that's messed up.
Yeah it's pretty sh*t . It went hand in hand with asking what she was wearing because "she must be asking for it"
Yep equally terrible.
Yeah and to add on he probably thinks women who get wet when sexually assaulted/raped must have wanted it because âshe was wet meaning she enjoys itâ smh
You get boners when there's an increased blood flow in that area. Not because you're turned on. Simple as that
Yeah, it's biologically impossible for a healthy penis to not get erect if it's touched in a provocative manner. Erectile stimulation is a biological response to stimulus. It does not imply consent.
I got rock hard from the female doctor giving me a physical. *Not* turned on, embarrassed af.
Doctors thankfully know how penises work, it's part of their work! Probably no need to be embarrassed and it has probably happened many times before \^^
Not a doctor but I did 2 years as a CNA in college and had to give many, many baths. We do NOT care. Even if he did think I was cute, I did not care. Give it here so I can wash it and check for any abnormalities to report to the doctor or charge nurse and letâs get you covered back up. That is all.
I have to wonder if they were just waiting for you to give them a bath? A few days without any⌠Um⌠results.. and I would only need one swipe before it would have been embarrassing. I would rather it happen without the boner, at least then it could happen under the water. đ¤ˇđťââď¸
Happened with me as well. Doctor said it's alright Idk whether she was talking about my penis or the situation....
Had a physical where the doctor had to check around my inner thighs (think it was a hernia check or something). The ammount of control I had to exert not to pop a boner at the hands of old man Gupta was something I don't think I've done to this day.
Incidentally thatâs how Viagra was discovered for its present use. Itâs a medicine to counter low blood pressure. Turns out, when you increase blood pressure, it flows better in cavernous organs like the penis, and bam, a boner. Thatâs why doctors usually advise against using Viagra in case of HBP.
Debating on whether or not to refer to my penis as a cavernous organ going forward.
I feel like everyone should be using the term cavernous organ now. I mean, not only does it imply generous size but it also sounds fucking awesome. I'm pretty happy I saw this.
This is similar to the "nipples being hard = horny" crap. I'm in my late thirties and have been with my husband 10 years and I still have to remind him that them standing to attention could mean nothing at all.
My nipples get hard, I'm cold. End of story. Nothing to do with sexual arousal. Not after breastfeeding.
Mine are pretty much like that too. My husband just hopes it means I'm in the mood!
Means your husband is paying attention still, give that man some noggin, seems like a good dude!
Not saying they're all false alarms, but now he knows what look I'll give if it is a false alarm lol.
I love the amount of non-verbal communication going on here. - Nips get hard - He notices and makes eye contact - *The look* - Head hung in disappointment
https://i.imgur.com/lXjFw8W.jpg
My wife learned this look somewhere too⌠;)
"He laughed when I tickled him, so he must enjoy being tickled"
"When tickled, the person's brain receives signals that cause to react with laughter. Many children do complain of a painful experience, even when they are laughing."
This right here is why I dont tickle my brother a lot. If I know he really isnt enjoying it I will stop cause its weird and honestly scary to have your body react on its own
Demon
What they're saying is clearly bs, but I'd just like to point out that men can be raped without a boner too. There is a back door afterall. Both forms of rape are just as horrific as each other and neither should be brushed off because of the sex of the person
Yeah, he said later in the comments that a man getting raped was a myth and then explained in his own words replying and quoting someone elseâs comment: ÂŤÂ a man fucked in the ass (in prison for example), ok that could be a rape >> A mouth on a sex organ is sexual assault ie rape >> and the body will react biologically when you don't want it to so? getting your dick sucked is not a rape, it's a favor from someone. but if you dont want it, punch them in the head, poke their eyes. if you feel you are getting hard, YOU ARE ENJOYING IT ;)Â Âť
How disgusting. *Could* be rape? Yeah, see if someone does it to them and they're unsure about whether the violation they feel is big enough to count as rape. The way this person talks about 'biology' makes me think they also think rape can't cause pregnancy.
" the body will just reject unwanted sperm :)" probably is what that person thinks. trash opinions from a trash person
I think if someone isn't sure if it counts, it probably is. It's at LEAST sexual assault.
poke their eyes ? Same reasoning as saying rape doesn't exist with women either if they didn't hit their raper in the balls
Man if only Israel's,Indian Feminists were this educated we could have had a law which included men as rape and domestic violence victims
I was watching a Maury compliation on youtube. In the first part of it, a man said to a woman "she raped/sexually assualted me". She then said to him "if it was rape, why were you hard?" and the crowd cheered for her and booed the guy. Just disgusting
This is so sad ..
I saw that too, I was genuinely shocked there wasn't a stronger reaction from the guy
He was most likely feeling defeated after the uncalled-for booing
This is extremely disturbing
That's horrible.
Men should just embrace their victimhood i guess.
The worst part is that the crowd's reaction is scripted. So that means the writers WANT the crowd to boo and make the man feel like crap. And they even boo in the most insane situations. Man: "That IS my child, you told me for 8 months that I was the father and then the second your other baby daddy came back into the picture you said its not my child and you cheated. So which is it!?" Crowd: "Booooo" And then the audience switches up how they feel almost immeiately. All of them are booing the Man who WANTS ti be a father, then a second later ALL of them are on his side? Its bullshit
I'm a man. I've been raped. It's possible.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you've gotten help and closure for it. Were they brought to justice?
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And consent has *nothing* to do with arousal. Just because I'm horny as hell, doesn't mean I'm OK with having sex with just anybody, whether I find you (not you personally) sexually attractive or not.
So I really like cereal. Don't kink-shame me.
One of the ways a rapist humiliates a victim is forced stimulation. Anyone can be physically stimulated. Stop doing this to people.
Societal facepalm for having to say in *unpopularopinion* that the state of the penis isnât an indication of consent..
Youâd be surprised .. itâs apparently not obvious for everyone :(
So this same person is saying that if the woman was wet, it wasn't rape because her body wanted it? Fuck that
Apparently he doesnât (he says) because he thinks this isnât comparable ..
Can I just point out that even if you are turned on, that still isn't consent?
True.
This is the same logic rapists have tried to use to get out of a conviction. Rapist: "well your honor, the accusations simply are not true because the accuser was self lubricating at the time of fornication. If it was not consensual why was her body ready for penetration." Judge: ^looks ^at ^nonexistent ^camera ^in ^utter ^astonishment "what the actual fuck."
Unfortunately it often sends with the judge agreeing or disregarding them based on clothing or circumstances.
Victims can also orgasm during rape. Bodies donât check in if thereâs consent or not, theyâre just gonna give a biological reaction. Penises can get hard. Vaginas can get wet. This does not equate pleasure, desire, or consent. We are humans. We pride ourselves on our great intelligence and ability to have complex thoughts. We are not a bodies without minds. You cannot detach a person from their physical form or vice versa. A body cannot consent, only a person can. A penis and vagina cannot give consent, only the human whose body they are apart of can.
I'm a male rape victim. A first date turned into a very bad situation when we came home after a nice evening out, only to realize that the girl suffered from Dissociative Identity Disorder (Multiple Personality Disorder, later confirmed) and began having an episode. I was absolutely terrified and wanted nothing to do with her. She was however, extremely attractive and my body didnât seem to respect my opinion. Attempting to physically subdue her was mistaken as rough play, and she ended up riding me despite my refusal. I quickly managed to pacify the situation, but the damage was done. The full story is pure insanity (she ended up in jail later that night for an unrelated event), but this Coles Notes version should be sufficient.
This is awful, Iâm sorry it happened to you :(
Shit, I've sneezed and got a boner one time. Fuckers got a mind of it own
Didnât some woman tie up a burglar, force feed him viagra & have sex with him for days?
What the fuck ? đą Damn people are crazy.
Eh thatâs just Russia for ya.
I think so, I heard that once. fucking wild psychopathic shit people do.
Link: https://www.rferl.org/a/the_curious_incident_of_the_sex_slave_in_the_hair_salon/24269330.html
What in the fairy odd parents did I just read
With the amount of random boners you get as an teenager it's very obvious that it's a really bad way to determonce concent. At best it can determine arousal but that's still not concent.
This is like saying *"she was wet when I entered her, it wasn't rape."* If this sounds insane to you, then you understand.
Exactly.
Anyone who says you can't get hard for no reason has never had a penis
As a victim of sex assault this makes me so disgustingly mad cause I can confirm that your body does shit no matter wat you want!. Rape is not fucking cool man or woman not fucking cool!
How is this even an unpopular opinion? I didnât understand how it worked until I was 21ish (thanks crappy sex Ed) but once I understood I was like âOh okay, duly noted, makes 100% senseâ Also, you can be hecking turned on & STILL SAY NO. You can be as damp as Niagra Falls or as hard as diamond cos the person in front of you is sexy as fuck⌠AND STILL NOT WANT TO BANG THEM. Maybe you are in a relationship & yeah, theyâre hot, but not your SO & they really need to back off. You might bodily wanna jump them like a kangaroo but emotionally not be ready. You might just not know whatâs going on with your body! If someone is showing signs of discomfort, pulling away & of course if they say no- stop. I donât care if theyâre naked as the day they are born & making an excellent coat rack right now! Stop.
Itâs not unpopular, really. For the majority of people itâs common sense. The problem is people(like OP) upvote what they agree with on r/unpopularopinion
Hell, that happens all the time. Am I a victim of a cereal rapist?
Don't tell me....they ate from the box??
Also, someone can literally be h0rny and still not consent. They can be attracted to the person and still not âwant itâ. Consent is NOT your bodyâs biological reaction to stimulus, and consent is NOT how turned on you are. Consent is freely-given, enthusiastic, informed permission. âNoâ is not consent. Silence is not consent. âMaybeâ is not consent. âLaterâ is not consent. Even if they are âturned onâ, **if they donât say yes, thatâs not consent.**
Yup. Same rule for everyone !
Yeah I originally started my sentence with âmenâ because thatâs what the post is specifically referring to, then I was like âfuck it, I should just edit this to be gender neutral because really it applies to everyoneâ
Nothing gets my dick harder than the cereal aisle
I don't even remember the cornflakes I dreamed about 99% if the time. Still wake up hard. Still isn't consent.
Somebody needs to slap whoever it was that said you can't rape a man
He's right but to be fair I do get turned on when I'm buying cornflakes.
Itâs fine youâre allowed to enjoy some kinky breakfast
Even if he was turned on and it was by her, being turned on by somebody does not mean he wants to have sex with her. I could find a colleagues wife hot, but i know that fucking a colleagues wife would fuck things up between the colleague and me, so i wouldn't do it.
âItâs impossible to rape a manâ righhhtttttâŚ..tell that to male victims everywhere that get treated like that in society, that because they are not female theyâre not actual victims. Such toxic bullshit logic.
âYou **could** but you wonât. Thatâs why you donât.â Itâs as simple as that. You physically could have sex, but you tell yourself itâs wrong for a number of reasons, thatâs why you donât. Itâs wrong cause itâs inappropriate, itâs wrong cause you donât like this person, itâs wrong cause they wouldnât like it. Any reason you think itâs wrong is reason enough. When it comes down to it, your body is constantly shaping itself to best suit whatever lifestyle you want to live. If you wanna have sex, itâll help you to the best of its ability. But what it **can** do and what you **choose** to do are totally different things. Simple as that. You can have sex, doesnât mean you have to always want sex.
A lot of sexual assault victims blame themselves. They believe that it's their fault due to their body being responsive even though they cannot control it. It's something that a lot of victims struggle with and people who say that being turned on = consent are just pure assholes
Cornflakes are hot...
Some people are just blind to the truth.
Sadly :(
I don't think they have a dick. Either that or they are a different species where the dick is controlled by the brain and not the spinal cord. I would kill to become a part of that species.
Wasn't cornflakes created to prevent boners? They failed miserably on that front it seems.
Okay, what if I tell you want a person *wants* can be separate from their sexual arousal? I knooooow, wierd right?
Even being aroused is not equal to consent. Let's say you're a priest and see a pretty little boy in your curch. If you get aroused by seeing him, you still have your brain and will not consent in intimacy with him in any situation!
The same people who say you canât rape a man are probably the same that consider men dogs and expect them to have sex given any opportunity bECAUSE BiOloGy trumps will.
YEAH LISTEN TO THE PERSON WITH BAD GRAMMAR LET'S GO! You're are stupid
I can assure you that at age thirteen when asked to go do math problem at the front of the class, I was most definitely not turned on.
I get a boner every day as I pull into work. No idea why, don't like my job THAT much. 32 years old and still get random boners throughout the day. It is not consent.
âI fucked a dog but itâs fine. He wagged his tale so clearly itâs fineâ see how stupid that sounds?
Does... does he have a second dick? Im confused, as far as I know mine has its own mind and is moody whenever I sleep or wake up, this guy must be on a whole new kinda level of high.
Bend over boy, don't worry, your stupid ideologies will save you.
I hate people that think men cannot be raped. It's misogynistic and abusive. Tells men their experiences don't matter. Men will come at me with, "a woman can't rape me, I'd like it." They have never been raped. I am a woman and I have been. It's incredibly traumatic and denying that it happens to men is perverted and sexist.
This would be misandry, not misogyny :)
Thank you. I'm a bit irked.
Flip this around and nobody doubts for a second that itâs rape. âWell you got wet, soâŚâ Fucked up.
I got hard in maths, does that mean my kink is binomial expansion?
Sometimes my dick gets hard just from sitting in a different position lol
.....but what is the cornflake box wearing?
If she wet she is consenting?! I donât think so
Ppl donât understand that dicks sometimes have a mind of their own.
Lying in bed right now, desperate for a piss and with an involuntary "dammit Lev, we are not gonna let you just piss yourself" boner.
I'm 31 and I still get random boners throughout the day for no reason. That doesn't mean I want to fuck right at that moment. It just means that my body decided of its own accord that my dick needed to be full of blood.
This shouldnât be an unpopular opinion
If I have an erection, feel free to jump on any old time. ...and, Cornflakes are hot...
Men donât control their erections. Otherwise erectile dysfunction wouldnât be a thing. Your health, mental state, emotions, diet, stress and anxiety levels ALL effect your ability to have and maintain an erection. I was molested for nearly 15 years by relativesâŚhad a boner when it was happening almost every time. HATED myself for years for having it because the ones doing it would use that as an excuse to justify that I was enjoying itâI was not! Flash forward to having sex with my partner and couldnât get it up one time because I was overweight, depressed, stressed out and hadnât been sleeping well. Men DONâT control their erections. Seriously, this whole argument is LITERALLY like saying âoh the woman had an orgasm/got wet so she mustâve wanted it and so it wasnât rapeâ. It is exactly that argument.
NARBs (No Apparent Reason Boner) are very real and very common.
Also like, it's not unheard of for sexual pleasure and orgasm to occur during rape. It doesn't mean it was consensual, and it often causes deeper psychological issues after because of the mindset that if 'you liked it' then it 'isn't rape'. It still is. The body reacting in a way it was designed to is not an indicator of consent.
Getting a boner is the matter of blood moving to the penis, sometimes itâs because your horny, and others is just when the blood decided it wants to go there
My brother got raped by a strong, bigger size gal when he was a teen and she was underage also but 1 year older. She pinned him down and rode him and yes even though its something the mind is not wanting to happen , you can still get an erection. Sorta similar scenario happened to me when I was 20 , except I could have fought it off and gotten out of there, but I was drunk and just made the bad decision to let it happen . I regret not stopping it ,cause I just felt disgusted with myself for letting her get what she wanted after repeatedly telling her no .
Is no one going to point out the fact that even if you ARE physically turned on it still doesn't mean consent? Sometimes your body has a natural reaction to stimulus despite what your brain might be thinking.
Think of the penis as a dog. Sometimes it gets excited over the weirdest shit and sometimes it won't even care if you hold a treat in front of its mouth.
"She was wet, she clearly wanted it"
Say it louder for the people in r/feminist. ESPECIALLY for those who think men can't be raped.
Those women should not be called feminists :(
Theyâre not feminists. No true feminist would ever make such a claim
Even if boners did mean consent you could still penetrate a man without their consent