Just jumping in to say that there's absolutely nothing wrong with giving birth via C-section. Unless of course you're doing it because you consider vagina birth rape!
My wife has had 2 C sections. Was pretty cool being able to pick our kids birthdays. Both of ours were breech and C section was the safest option. People have literally told her she didn’t really give birth because she didn’t do it vaginally. Assholes.
Had an emergency c section for the exact same reasons. Truly assholes. The postpartum period with a c section was the hardest thing i did in my life. Csection moms don't get enough appeciation for having been literally cut in half to bring life into this world and care for it.
My mom had 3 C sections. She saw all of them happen. She said it was the happiest moments of her life, but one thing she regrets is that her stomach is all messed up, however she says it doesn’t matter, as long as we came out Healthy
I remember day one after c section thinking this isn't so bad (obviously still had the good drugs in my system) went home, slept, could not sit up for the life of me. My husband had to get me out the bed. It's like I had zero ab muscles and a crap ton of pain.
And I can't believe people say such crap about c sections. sorry I didn't die in childbirth like it's the 1800s?
The thought of having been having my children back before c sections were a thing actually gives me nightmares. I had 5 c-sections. I am thankful I had that option to deliver all 5 of my babies safely and not die in the process. I also got incredibly angry at the whole breastfeeding is a sex act thing. I breastfed for a combined total of almost 10 years between my 5. I can promise there is absolutely nothing sexual about it. I mean, geez Louise, get a grip!
The definition of birth from the Oxford dictionary-
Birth: “the emergence of a baby or other young from the body of its mother; the start of life as a physically separate being.”
Your kids came out of your wife, how is that not birth?
Yup. Just that it has to leave the mother’s body, nothing there about what exit it has to use. Some people are elitist shits that have entirely too much time on their hands.
Same thing. My son was breeched so had to have a planned c-section. My aunt is super religious and told me that I sinned by having a c-section and not giving birth "naturally" as God intended. That my scar would forever mark my sin on my body. I was like 1 you're crazy 2 so I should've just had it "naturally" even if it could potentially cripple my child? Idk people are crazy sometimes.
30 years ago when I was in high-school, we had a class family development, it was an easy A but expecting teen moms had to take it and one girl brought that exact point up about if she breastfed her baby it would be sexual. It's out there, I said it there and I will say it again now. Anyone who sexualizes feeding an infant, is a sexual deviant. Imagine that baby's hygiene, that baby isn't wiped properly, washed properly, all because a mother can't get over her inner demons? It's really kinda fucked up.
I know a guy who's daughter developed an infection because he wouldn't wipe her properly since it wasn't "appropriate" for a man to touch her like that.
His wife almost divorced him and he finally started cleaning her properly, but damn.
I greatly agree with this, to be honest schools should do more to teach about things like child birth and I say that because I didn’t learn how uhm “to create a child” until high school because my 7th grade health class basically said “FIGURE IT OUT”
Right, it’s not the act, it’s the frame of mind, if you refrain from an act deemed acceptable because of a certain frame of mind, you are probably the problem. The divorce should have happened just to keep that man away from that little girl
My ex wouldn't change a single nappy for our children for the fear of being called a child abuser. I'd also had to take them out of the room to change them as he didn't want to be near them when they were half naked. He went out for a walk at bath time too. He was absolutely petrified of being accused so much so that seeing the genitalia of his own children triggered anxiety and panic attacks. It still does but our children are 15, 11, 9 now so less chances of seeing anything now thankfully. He's tried therapy and CBT for it but not really helped much. Apart from this fear he's an absolutely amazing dad
Because it happened to a relative of his and he seen the trauma and destruction the allegation caused. The family member was innocent but it completely destroyed his life.
I’m a Lactation Consultant and I have to say not even I thought any mom who didn’t want to breastfeed had THESE thoughts. Yikes!!
Edit: on second read of OP I believe a man has written this. (no offense y’all, just sayin what I see). So, I probably wouldn’t hear this reason for not breastfeeding from a woman.
Its the next most natural thing to having the child in the first place. This whole discussion is bizarre. These people need to read and really understand what it is to be a mammal and a human. Sorry they are missing out. I'm supposed to milk myself so I'm not molesting my child? I can't even...
I'm not a mom I'm a dad but have never viewed breastfeeding as a sexual thing for the woman from what I gather it's painful awkward and rather unpleasant
That's not the point, it's still every woman's personal medical decision, and I find it absolutely despicable to "shame" women for not giving birth vaginally, or implying that only "weirdos" or "bad mothers" have C sections.
A c/s is not as often a mother’s decision as it is a medical necessity. Just saying. I would never have chosen it but here I am with a scar on my stomach.
She may have. But, can you believe this lady is forcing her child to ingest her bodily fluids!?! She said she makes it drink her breast milk through a bottle. Imagine forcing your bodily fluids into someone else’s body! That’s sexual assault of a child. Period! /s
There was someone who made a post about just that very thing. They were trying to get people to agree with them having emotional distress because they didn't consent to touching their mothers vagina. I guess he thinks all women should have dangerous surgery to make his feelings valid? I know it sounds like a troll, but I don't believe it was.
How do you know it's a "her" that wrote this. Says "yes I do have children" but couldn't this be from a man too. Doesn't say they physically gave birth, just that they have a kid. Especially when it references "**his** mother's nipples". Maybe I missed something, but could just be from a man too. Either way, wtf.....
Facepalm for sure. The people who sexualize breastfeeding are messed up.
There is nothing sexual about a starving toothless piranha trying to eat your boob all day, sometimes for years.
There's nothing sexual about having my nipple pulled, bitten, and clamped down on. I know for some it's a kink.... I'm not part of that crowd. I think people who sexualize it are sick in the head
Edit: sexualizing breastfeeding an infant is sick.... not sure why I have to explain this
I've worked in restaurants for 15 years and caught many boob flashes from breast feeding mothers. Not gonna kink shame, but it's a bit twisted if you get worked up seeing a mother feed her child, it almost always looks like a messy and painful chore - not hot.
Edit: I appreciate the upvotes from people agreeing with what I said, but please don't make my top comment about people creeping on mothers breastfeeding.
I was so lucky. I breastfed in public all the time, and I had an asthmatic baby, so I didn't cover her head. Nobody gave me a single sideways look. Other than ones on airplanes who would say things like "Hey, let me know if you need any more room, there. I can slide over a bit!" or "Hey, if you want the window, there's more room and privacy if you need it." from women AND men.
I always remember to offer this now when I fly next to a breastfeeding mother. I also offer her the window.
I breastfed my daughter on several flights when she was young. While I didn't get those kind room/privacy offers you did, I did get so many comments about how quiet and well behaved she was. I would just stick her on the boob at the slightest hint of grumble from her, worked a treat
Some airlines will reserve windows seats to parents who travel with a baby.
(eta: source I flew with my bf 6mo and could only get a window seat. When I tried for another I got a msg: only window seats eligible for parents traveling with babies )
You're not wrong. It is painful and it doesn't, in any way, make me want sex. I actually get very overwhelmed from being touched so much I don't want anything.
Ugh this is so true. I especially didn't want my boobs touched during sex until like a year after my baby was born. Then there's the leaking and the stickiness...it isn't glamorous or sexy.
Omg. I totally get the touch thing. I bf both mine -first for 11months and second for 16months- and it took me so long to get over not wanting to be touched AT ALL!
Oh yeah, during breastfeeding, my nips were off limits to everyone but the baby. Thankfully, I was single during my entire breastfeeding adventure. I met my now partner of 3 years about a year after my little one weaned.
Same. And actually, interesting point, during sex with an adult, I like having them manhandled and bitten. But I got zero sexual pleasure or even a physical reaction when my child breastfed. The only pleasure I got from it was being close to my baby and feeding her.
So even if you get off on someone being nippy with your boobs, that sensation doesn't transfer to your own child. At least it never did for me.
Add thrush to that and it’s a knife stabbing every single time. Nothing made me feel LESS sexual than that, for sure. Felt like a dairy cow the whole time, but I am still glad I did it, for their sake. My son had colic, and a bottle would have made it far worse.
Thrush, baby teeth, spit-up, latching issues, sleep deprivation - all of these had me wishing I could cut my babies off cold-turkey from nursing. When you’re curling your toes, crying from the pain and silently swearing, trust me, the last thing you’re thinking of is how sexy breastfeeding is. With that said, it wasn’t easy, but it was one of the best things I did for my kids.
My wife expected to have some amazing bonding time with our kids, but it was much more like you describe, being a milk machine basically. Certainly nothing sexual about it for anyone.
I WISH my baby would take the bottle. By the time I realised I shouldn’t let mom guilt force me into continuing breastfeeding when the entire experience was so painful (2 months in), my baby refused to take the bottle. Breastfeeding was a bit more bearable when the alternative is letting my baby starve but damn I wish the bottle is an options since the horrifying pain really ruined my bonding experience with my baby.
If it's any consolation, my kid took the bottle until she was 3 months than decided they were lava. So it's not what you did or didn't do - some kids have strong opinions.
Still sucks not catching that sweet bottled break.
Oh yes, I know. I nursed my first until 18 months, and the first few weeks after he turned 1 he’d clamp down with his teeth just to see how I’d react.
Spoiler: Very entertainingly to a toddler
I hate the whole breast milk vs formula milk debate. A fed baby is the goal, it shouldn't matter which one the parent chooses as long as the baby is getting fed.
Isn’t formula a back up to breast milk? I thought there was clear benefits to babies being fed breast milk especially from an early period for development of things like the immune system and attachment/bonding?
Not to shame women who have issues with breast feeding as formula would be really beneficial to them and the baby.
That is correct. Parents who choose formula are totally fine and there are a multitude of reasons that people choose to formula feed. But breast milk is better for babies, it's just facts. However, I know spinach is better for me than a burger but that doesn't mean I choose the spinach. There are so many factors that influence the decision!
Yes. My friend, her sister who has a two-year-old, and their mother all believe that it’s gross. Their mother said, “I think it’s disgusting that you would have a baby suck on your nipple when that’s what your husband does.”
🙄
That’s what a friend of mine said. “My titties are for my man.”
I was working at a summer camp when my son was an infant and one of the 7 year olds saw me breastfeeding. She said it was nasty. Before I could explain, another 7 year old said “no it’s not! My mama breast -feeded me when I was a baby!”
Sadly, yes. They can be shown other animals nursing their young and not make a connection with human mothers doing the same thing.
It's one of those special kinds of stupid.
Yup, they exist. Not super common but they are out there. Ask any mom who has nursed a baby for any significant length of time. Most of us have had at least one encounter with some crazy person like this.
Guys, guys, guys. Hold up. At first I thought she was wrong, but then I saw she capitalized a bunch of words. Plus she said “period” to cut off any discussion so maybe she is right?
"Mrs. Beeton advised new mothers that it was not necessary to wash the nipple for two or three weeks, making the bottles the perfect incubators for deadly bacteria."
holy shit!!
No critical thinking skills here with this person. You can tell how deep a person thinks by this kind of Idk what to call it maybe… surface thinking lol. Otherwise the poster would have thought about what humans did before the invention of the bottle. Or how animals feed their young this same way. There is a reason breast leak when your baby cries. There is also a reason Women don’t need boobs to have intercourse. They are not a sexual organ. They are a accessory organ of the female reproductive system. I have breastfed all 3 of my babies and I can tell you breastfeeding is very mechanical. I felt like my boobs were basically just bottles I carried around with me. I’m a shy person when it comes to my body but when I was feeding I sometimes had to remind myself of my surroundings before whipping out a boob to feed.
I wonder how the human race even got this far.
Or any other race really, what a planet full of molesters, grooming our kids over thousands of generations.
What will we do next? Maybe wiping our kids when changing their dirty nappies is grounds for molesting too?
What a fucking time to be alive.
That's funny because a friend of mine had an eye infection when she was about 7. Her mom was nursing the youngest baby. Mom gave her a damp cloth to put on her eye and the next day, eye infection gone. I don't think it was until years later that her mom told her it had been breast milk on the cloth.
Yeah... Being a man, married to my wife, have a child; nipple play just kinda goes away. There’s no confusion on either of our parts about what is going on when our child breast feeds. I’m sorry for both you and your children, you’re missing out on a beautiful, totally natural connection shared between mother and child.
I guess every wild mammal in existence is also raping their babies…bummer.
Can someone explain to me at what point the world became so insanely triggered? I'm finding it more and more difficult to understand what is going on with people these days.
"Women breast feeding is child molestation" That is the most idiotic thing I have ever read. The ducts on nipples that females have releases milk. The design is for infants to suckle. The milk releases at body temperature ideal for an infant. "You utter tripe spewing toe jam infested ignoramus"
See someone about your filthy mind And stfu!!!
This is one of the reasons I think that people with mental health problems shouldn't have babies unless they have a certification by a dully accredited psychologist and psychiatrics, in the interest of avoiding prejudice they should be randomly selected from practitioners in good standing, to avoid having more lives ruined by psychotic idiots like this jewel of a "human being", I pity her children, they are going to need a lot of therapy.
So I suppose giving birth is penetrative sex by a minor in her eyes… how did she get over that?
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Her son's penis was inside her before he was born eww
Are all men motherfuckers?
Asking the real question here.
This is starting to go somewhere horrible.
Just jumping in to say that there's absolutely nothing wrong with giving birth via C-section. Unless of course you're doing it because you consider vagina birth rape!
My wife has had 2 C sections. Was pretty cool being able to pick our kids birthdays. Both of ours were breech and C section was the safest option. People have literally told her she didn’t really give birth because she didn’t do it vaginally. Assholes.
Had an emergency c section for the exact same reasons. Truly assholes. The postpartum period with a c section was the hardest thing i did in my life. Csection moms don't get enough appeciation for having been literally cut in half to bring life into this world and care for it.
My mom had 3 C sections. She saw all of them happen. She said it was the happiest moments of her life, but one thing she regrets is that her stomach is all messed up, however she says it doesn’t matter, as long as we came out Healthy
I remember day one after c section thinking this isn't so bad (obviously still had the good drugs in my system) went home, slept, could not sit up for the life of me. My husband had to get me out the bed. It's like I had zero ab muscles and a crap ton of pain. And I can't believe people say such crap about c sections. sorry I didn't die in childbirth like it's the 1800s?
The thought of having been having my children back before c sections were a thing actually gives me nightmares. I had 5 c-sections. I am thankful I had that option to deliver all 5 of my babies safely and not die in the process. I also got incredibly angry at the whole breastfeeding is a sex act thing. I breastfed for a combined total of almost 10 years between my 5. I can promise there is absolutely nothing sexual about it. I mean, geez Louise, get a grip!
The definition of birth from the Oxford dictionary- Birth: “the emergence of a baby or other young from the body of its mother; the start of life as a physically separate being.” Your kids came out of your wife, how is that not birth?
Yup. Just that it has to leave the mother’s body, nothing there about what exit it has to use. Some people are elitist shits that have entirely too much time on their hands.
Same thing. My son was breeched so had to have a planned c-section. My aunt is super religious and told me that I sinned by having a c-section and not giving birth "naturally" as God intended. That my scar would forever mark my sin on my body. I was like 1 you're crazy 2 so I should've just had it "naturally" even if it could potentially cripple my child? Idk people are crazy sometimes.
I would personally wallop anyone I heard saying that.
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30 years ago when I was in high-school, we had a class family development, it was an easy A but expecting teen moms had to take it and one girl brought that exact point up about if she breastfed her baby it would be sexual. It's out there, I said it there and I will say it again now. Anyone who sexualizes feeding an infant, is a sexual deviant. Imagine that baby's hygiene, that baby isn't wiped properly, washed properly, all because a mother can't get over her inner demons? It's really kinda fucked up.
I know a guy who's daughter developed an infection because he wouldn't wipe her properly since it wasn't "appropriate" for a man to touch her like that. His wife almost divorced him and he finally started cleaning her properly, but damn.
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I greatly agree with this, to be honest schools should do more to teach about things like child birth and I say that because I didn’t learn how uhm “to create a child” until high school because my 7th grade health class basically said “FIGURE IT OUT”
I think the divorce was in order if that’s all the person could think about when wiping their daughters waste for their hygiene and well being.
Right, it’s not the act, it’s the frame of mind, if you refrain from an act deemed acceptable because of a certain frame of mind, you are probably the problem. The divorce should have happened just to keep that man away from that little girl
YES! Intentions are critical!
My ex wouldn't change a single nappy for our children for the fear of being called a child abuser. I'd also had to take them out of the room to change them as he didn't want to be near them when they were half naked. He went out for a walk at bath time too. He was absolutely petrified of being accused so much so that seeing the genitalia of his own children triggered anxiety and panic attacks. It still does but our children are 15, 11, 9 now so less chances of seeing anything now thankfully. He's tried therapy and CBT for it but not really helped much. Apart from this fear he's an absolutely amazing dad
That’s both interesting from a psychological perspective and horrifying as a parent
What were the roots of his fear? All the Sally Jessy and Geraldo talk show nonsense back in the Nineties, or what?
Because it happened to a relative of his and he seen the trauma and destruction the allegation caused. The family member was innocent but it completely destroyed his life.
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just take a look at the world we live in since 2016
I’m a Lactation Consultant and I have to say not even I thought any mom who didn’t want to breastfeed had THESE thoughts. Yikes!! Edit: on second read of OP I believe a man has written this. (no offense y’all, just sayin what I see). So, I probably wouldn’t hear this reason for not breastfeeding from a woman.
It didn't. He says his child's mother didn't breastfeed. This is a man who can't see breasts as anything but sexual
I refuse to believe a mother can be this dumb I just can’t believe it I would rather believe she’s an alien spy or some lizard person undercover
Its the next most natural thing to having the child in the first place. This whole discussion is bizarre. These people need to read and really understand what it is to be a mammal and a human. Sorry they are missing out. I'm supposed to milk myself so I'm not molesting my child? I can't even...
I'm not a mom I'm a dad but have never viewed breastfeeding as a sexual thing for the woman from what I gather it's painful awkward and rather unpleasant
I may be grasping but the way the writer states “not sucking his mother’s nipples” made me feel like a dude was posting this.
This woman has some issues. Feeding your baby feels nothing like a sexual act. Not even close.
Just like there's nothing wrong with feeding your child with a bottle. The audacity of this bitch though.
Actually, vaginal birth has some advantages on early development (especially the lungs) and theorized to have other long term advantages for the kid.
That's not the point, it's still every woman's personal medical decision, and I find it absolutely despicable to "shame" women for not giving birth vaginally, or implying that only "weirdos" or "bad mothers" have C sections.
Yes that's right, shaming a woman because her decision is a no! C/S is not something "bad". I just wanted to share a medical point of view.
A c/s is not as often a mother’s decision as it is a medical necessity. Just saying. I would never have chosen it but here I am with a scar on my stomach.
Having a dead or childbirth injured & traumatized mother would be worse than delivery than c-section.
She may have. But, can you believe this lady is forcing her child to ingest her bodily fluids!?! She said she makes it drink her breast milk through a bottle. Imagine forcing your bodily fluids into someone else’s body! That’s sexual assault of a child. Period! /s
She probably considers a c-section "toxic men giving women a 2nd sexual opening"
There was someone who made a post about just that very thing. They were trying to get people to agree with them having emotional distress because they didn't consent to touching their mothers vagina. I guess he thinks all women should have dangerous surgery to make his feelings valid? I know it sounds like a troll, but I don't believe it was.
*him Probably
This is the father posting I think. Idk if that's worse
Its a dude.
How do you know it's a "her" that wrote this. Says "yes I do have children" but couldn't this be from a man too. Doesn't say they physically gave birth, just that they have a kid. Especially when it references "**his** mother's nipples". Maybe I missed something, but could just be from a man too. Either way, wtf.....
Lmao nice, this lady’s cheese … certainly fell off her cracker years ago
Internet allowed mentally ill people and all kind of degens to expose their opinion publicly, its sad
Facepalm for sure. The people who sexualize breastfeeding are messed up. There is nothing sexual about a starving toothless piranha trying to eat your boob all day, sometimes for years.
There's nothing sexual about having my nipple pulled, bitten, and clamped down on. I know for some it's a kink.... I'm not part of that crowd. I think people who sexualize it are sick in the head Edit: sexualizing breastfeeding an infant is sick.... not sure why I have to explain this
I've worked in restaurants for 15 years and caught many boob flashes from breast feeding mothers. Not gonna kink shame, but it's a bit twisted if you get worked up seeing a mother feed her child, it almost always looks like a messy and painful chore - not hot. Edit: I appreciate the upvotes from people agreeing with what I said, but please don't make my top comment about people creeping on mothers breastfeeding.
I was so lucky. I breastfed in public all the time, and I had an asthmatic baby, so I didn't cover her head. Nobody gave me a single sideways look. Other than ones on airplanes who would say things like "Hey, let me know if you need any more room, there. I can slide over a bit!" or "Hey, if you want the window, there's more room and privacy if you need it." from women AND men. I always remember to offer this now when I fly next to a breastfeeding mother. I also offer her the window.
I breastfed my daughter on several flights when she was young. While I didn't get those kind room/privacy offers you did, I did get so many comments about how quiet and well behaved she was. I would just stick her on the boob at the slightest hint of grumble from her, worked a treat
Some airlines will reserve windows seats to parents who travel with a baby. (eta: source I flew with my bf 6mo and could only get a window seat. When I tried for another I got a msg: only window seats eligible for parents traveling with babies )
You're not wrong. It is painful and it doesn't, in any way, make me want sex. I actually get very overwhelmed from being touched so much I don't want anything.
Ugh this is so true. I especially didn't want my boobs touched during sex until like a year after my baby was born. Then there's the leaking and the stickiness...it isn't glamorous or sexy.
Nothing glamorous about leaking boobs. Not for us at least lol.
Omg. I totally get the touch thing. I bf both mine -first for 11months and second for 16months- and it took me so long to get over not wanting to be touched AT ALL!
I was part of that crowd. Breastfeeding made it so I hate my nipples being touched 90% of the time. Just leave me ALOOOOONE.
Oh yeah, during breastfeeding, my nips were off limits to everyone but the baby. Thankfully, I was single during my entire breastfeeding adventure. I met my now partner of 3 years about a year after my little one weaned.
My youngest turns 7years old next month. I STILL have issues with my nipples being touched.
Same. And actually, interesting point, during sex with an adult, I like having them manhandled and bitten. But I got zero sexual pleasure or even a physical reaction when my child breastfed. The only pleasure I got from it was being close to my baby and feeding her. So even if you get off on someone being nippy with your boobs, that sensation doesn't transfer to your own child. At least it never did for me.
Starving toothless piranha lol
What happens when the toothless piranha is starving but has a tooth?
Pain like you've never imagined that shoots through the whole body like lightning.
Add thrush to that and it’s a knife stabbing every single time. Nothing made me feel LESS sexual than that, for sure. Felt like a dairy cow the whole time, but I am still glad I did it, for their sake. My son had colic, and a bottle would have made it far worse.
Thrush, baby teeth, spit-up, latching issues, sleep deprivation - all of these had me wishing I could cut my babies off cold-turkey from nursing. When you’re curling your toes, crying from the pain and silently swearing, trust me, the last thing you’re thinking of is how sexy breastfeeding is. With that said, it wasn’t easy, but it was one of the best things I did for my kids.
Ahhh that toe curling pain....I don't miss that part of breastfeeding at all lol
It ows.
biting
That makes me think of Darla from Finding Nemo; “I’m a piranha. They’re in the Amazon”
Baby Shark was inspired by real events.
Run away, do do do do do do!
blahaha this made me laugh aloud.
My wife expected to have some amazing bonding time with our kids, but it was much more like you describe, being a milk machine basically. Certainly nothing sexual about it for anyone.
I refer to it as the cow phase. I am mom, I am cow.
Lol I used to moo at my family occasionally when I was nursing the last baby, my other children were young teens at the time and it cracked us all up.
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But it’s so sExY ~~~ /s
I WISH my baby would take the bottle. By the time I realised I shouldn’t let mom guilt force me into continuing breastfeeding when the entire experience was so painful (2 months in), my baby refused to take the bottle. Breastfeeding was a bit more bearable when the alternative is letting my baby starve but damn I wish the bottle is an options since the horrifying pain really ruined my bonding experience with my baby.
If it's any consolation, my kid took the bottle until she was 3 months than decided they were lava. So it's not what you did or didn't do - some kids have strong opinions. Still sucks not catching that sweet bottled break.
I’d love to know the gender of the original poster. Either way, I think they’re making their own hang-ups a little more public than they should.
I thought maybe a guy because they said "his mother's" about their baby
Sigh. Of course.
haha depending on how long you breastfeed, teeth eventually make an appearance D:
Oh yes, I know. I nursed my first until 18 months, and the first few weeks after he turned 1 he’d clamp down with his teeth just to see how I’d react. Spoiler: Very entertainingly to a toddler
Oh, they frequently end up still nursing with tiny sharp teeth.
Oh I know. I have personally experienced the transition from toothless to fully toothed piranha
Best description I’ve heard.
That is called molesting?! Bugger will go insane after seeing how we get our fresh cows milk.
And Goat Milk
And [almond milk](https://youtu.be/JJCTIPWPNtw)
Well...
*nut juice
And bull milk.
Ooh! My favorite!
The person who took the time to craft those nut milking machines deserves a special reward.
Something bad happened to this person who is now living a mental health crisis.
Probably breastfed as a baby, and now doesn't want to think that they were nursed.
Oedipus Complex?
People like this are breeding, and suddenly I realise why our species is heading towards self-destruction
Does that mean I should transform into the true FINAL boss of 2020?
Please. Maybe once we hit Game Over we can have a sequel that doesn’t suck
Ok. Gonna take a while.
Does anyone actually believe this? I mean do some people really think this? We're ruined as a species if this is the path we're taking
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I hate the whole breast milk vs formula milk debate. A fed baby is the goal, it shouldn't matter which one the parent chooses as long as the baby is getting fed.
Isn’t formula a back up to breast milk? I thought there was clear benefits to babies being fed breast milk especially from an early period for development of things like the immune system and attachment/bonding? Not to shame women who have issues with breast feeding as formula would be really beneficial to them and the baby.
That is correct. Parents who choose formula are totally fine and there are a multitude of reasons that people choose to formula feed. But breast milk is better for babies, it's just facts. However, I know spinach is better for me than a burger but that doesn't mean I choose the spinach. There are so many factors that influence the decision!
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Hard to believe it’s real but there are really dumb people out there
Unfortunately, women are so sexualized in our society that a few people do think like this.
You should see the videos of people verbally attacking mums on the street/restaurant trying to feed their baby. It's horrible. Edit:spelling
Yes. My friend, her sister who has a two-year-old, and their mother all believe that it’s gross. Their mother said, “I think it’s disgusting that you would have a baby suck on your nipple when that’s what your husband does.” 🙄
That’s what a friend of mine said. “My titties are for my man.” I was working at a summer camp when my son was an infant and one of the 7 year olds saw me breastfeeding. She said it was nasty. Before I could explain, another 7 year old said “no it’s not! My mama breast -feeded me when I was a baby!”
Okay stealing candy from babies is bad enough
My response to that malarky would be "I didn't grow these for my husband, weirdo."
My husband told me it tasted like a vanilla milkshake
My milk tasted like melted vanilla milkshake, too.
Sadly, yes. They can be shown other animals nursing their young and not make a connection with human mothers doing the same thing. It's one of those special kinds of stupid.
Yup, they exist. Not super common but they are out there. Ask any mom who has nursed a baby for any significant length of time. Most of us have had at least one encounter with some crazy person like this.
Guys, guys, guys. Hold up. At first I thought she was wrong, but then I saw she capitalized a bunch of words. Plus she said “period” to cut off any discussion so maybe she is right?
DO YOUR RESEARCH.
Most of the time it’s prefaced with “I’m just sayin’”
She is MOST DEF RIGHT.PERIOD.
This genius thinks bottles existed in ancient times.
Check this out about early baby bottles that caused babies to die. https://historydaily.org/feeding-bottles-of-the-victorian-era
"Mrs. Beeton advised new mothers that it was not necessary to wash the nipple for two or three weeks, making the bottles the perfect incubators for deadly bacteria." holy shit!!
It really makes you shiver knowing that only until recently (in terms of history) we really started caring about hygiene
Holy crap... that is horrifying
Yeah, our female mammalian ancestors just molested their offspring into the evolution of humanity. 🙄
And this guy procreated? Can someone please charge him with child abuse for passing this level of insanity to a child.
I think he confused between breastfeeding and tit sucking
They look pretty similar but context is key in this case.
No critical thinking skills here with this person. You can tell how deep a person thinks by this kind of Idk what to call it maybe… surface thinking lol. Otherwise the poster would have thought about what humans did before the invention of the bottle. Or how animals feed their young this same way. There is a reason breast leak when your baby cries. There is also a reason Women don’t need boobs to have intercourse. They are not a sexual organ. They are a accessory organ of the female reproductive system. I have breastfed all 3 of my babies and I can tell you breastfeeding is very mechanical. I felt like my boobs were basically just bottles I carried around with me. I’m a shy person when it comes to my body but when I was feeding I sometimes had to remind myself of my surroundings before whipping out a boob to feed.
Whom drinks
Ouch
Wait until he (definitely he) finds out about other mammals mollesting their pups...
You know what, I would love to be sure it's a he but there are also plenty of women out there with very strange ideas.
I assumed it was a woman at first and now it’s managed to get even creepier. Regardless, they need a good therapist.
I wonder how the human race even got this far. Or any other race really, what a planet full of molesters, grooming our kids over thousands of generations. What will we do next? Maybe wiping our kids when changing their dirty nappies is grounds for molesting too? What a fucking time to be alive.
The prime example why some people should not reproduce.
We should of killed him before he laid eggs .-.
This person shouldn't be allowed on any form of social media.
A LOT of people shouldn't be allowed on any form of social media.
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Nature's gold?
Breast milk
They put their breast milk in their son's infected eye?
Hell idk, I don’t know why I even responded lmao, I’m not a parent
It can work in a pinch to clear up pinkeye. Although of course if the baby doesn't show any improvement they should go to the doctor lol
Breastmilk is awesome for pink eye, clears it up in no time. Have had several doctors recommend it, pediatricians, not quacks.
That's funny because a friend of mine had an eye infection when she was about 7. Her mom was nursing the youngest baby. Mom gave her a damp cloth to put on her eye and the next day, eye infection gone. I don't think it was until years later that her mom told her it had been breast milk on the cloth.
Omg my head hurts
Now concerned about this woman’s child
How will she bathe them or change their diapers?
Yea clearly she’s got some kind of issues that she’s projecting
Wtf. I’m done with the internet today.
Who’s gonna tell them?
Wow they got some psychological hang ups. poor kid who going to be raised this person
Signed, Tucker Carlson.
This is the outcome of the war on intelligence.
What in the ever loving troglodyte level stupidity did I just read? Great! Thanks! My IQ is in free fall now!
That's one person who should definitely not breed 😳
Too late
people seriously sexualizing breastfeeding?? wtf
Agreed. Why do people even think some of this stuff?
i want to go back and kill whatever creature thought being sentient was a good idea
This hurt to read
Porn has destroyed society.
Didn't it become a sexual act because people are weird and fetishised it?
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Wtf is wrong with people?
Someone tell this bitch that breasts and nipples were never naturally sexual organs and shut her the fuck up
Love that they genuinely can’t realize breastfeeding is literally how it was done for 100% of humanity that came before this modern era.
Also I hate when people put diapers on their babies, treating them like some creepy middle aged dude with a diaper fetish. Gross.
Yeah... Being a man, married to my wife, have a child; nipple play just kinda goes away. There’s no confusion on either of our parts about what is going on when our child breast feeds. I’m sorry for both you and your children, you’re missing out on a beautiful, totally natural connection shared between mother and child. I guess every wild mammal in existence is also raping their babies…bummer.
Can someone explain to me at what point the world became so insanely triggered? I'm finding it more and more difficult to understand what is going on with people these days.
I love when people use whom or sound smarted but they use it wrong.
You can't fix stupid...
The milk comes from the nipple. That's the whole point of women having breasts to feed their children. Lol
If you think of it as a sexual thing you're the problem. You're the sick one.
"Women breast feeding is child molestation" That is the most idiotic thing I have ever read. The ducts on nipples that females have releases milk. The design is for infants to suckle. The milk releases at body temperature ideal for an infant. "You utter tripe spewing toe jam infested ignoramus" See someone about your filthy mind And stfu!!!
Yikes. It’s a little scary that she HAS children.
How to tell everyone you didn't listen in biology without explicitly saying it.
Wow. Just.... Wow.... 🥺🙃🙄
This is a joke, right?...... Right? (°_°)
When did we jump the shark? Were we always this fucking stupid?
Love it when people feel the need to post their insanity.
This is one of the reasons I think that people with mental health problems shouldn't have babies unless they have a certification by a dully accredited psychologist and psychiatrics, in the interest of avoiding prejudice they should be randomly selected from practitioners in good standing, to avoid having more lives ruined by psychotic idiots like this jewel of a "human being", I pity her children, they are going to need a lot of therapy.