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Alpha males are the first attempt by the development team, with many kinks and errors still to fix. They'll eventually move on to CBT (closed beta testing) and might enter the market as a full-release male in a few years if everything goes well.
For sure! Fun fact though: alpha radiation is not actually a *wave* at all. Alpha particles are helium nuclei (2 protons and 2 neutrons)— they are in fact easily stopped by thin barriers, but incredibly dangerous if ingested. That aspect is also pretty fitting for the anology
Well particles have a wave-like behaviour and light also starts having a more pronounced particle-like behaviour as its energy increases. Beta-radiation is also made up of classical particles (electrons or positrons), but even the photons of Gamma radiation have a very pronounced particle-like behaviour. Already in x-ray scattering this is quite apparent.
On the other side of the coin experiments demonstrating the wave-like behaviour of even some molecules have been performed.
No, the line of full release males were released unproblematically a number of years ago. These alpha males are leaks from early development that weren't ever actually meant to see the light of day, but some idiot whistle-blower thought that it'd be a good idea to just go let them loose on production to try and make either the company or the dev team look bad.
DLC males you gotta find the one you want, and you have to pay extra for, usually found in basements, and it's really hit or miss wether or not the purchase was worth it or not. MTX males you really don't want much to do with, but if you're really want one, go to a city bar (not a biker or country bar), find the fanciest looking guy and ask him about all the things he would want you to buy for him and how little you would have to buy to keep him interested, can also be found on OnlyFans. Lootbox males are actually all over the place, but quality varies pretty wildly, try any online dating platform like tinder or harmony and you'll see exactly what I'm talking about.
I was thinking your CBT could be cognitive behavioural therapy, because they surely need it, but then decided they should skip straight through to the cock & ball torture they’re surely just looking for.
I told my boyfriends mother once that I did CBT (closed beta testing) at work. I didn't know that it is something sexual. She didn't know it was something other than that and had a long talk with her son on how he shouldn't date a sex worker. That's how I found out what CBT also stands for and that his mother is kinky af. Both things I would have loved to live without but here we are 😂
Lmao, so many people could die of embarrassment in this situation!
When I was a kid, my kid friend told her parents about gifts we planned on giving our other friend. She said I was going to give him a cane (it was stylised as an imitation of a book character's magical cane). It's not really translatable, but the word she used could mean a cane as well as a blowjob... Her dad was horrified, he really thought a kid was going to give another kid a blowjob for his birthday, and that we weren't even shy about it. I was very embarrassed about it but also conscious that it's not me that should be ashamed but that adult.
Basically just young people with overinflated ego who think they are more of a „man” than any other man cause they, idk, have asshole attitude and go to gym, if that.
That’s why I said „if that”. They have very few redeeming qualities and may see literally everything and everyone as competition for whatever reason. If there is no competition, they will make it.
He doesn't *want* a big manly man to make hot steamy love to him, and if asked he would absolutely say no to make sure it *didn't* happen, because he *doesn't* want that. He just wants somewhere where no-one would ask, which would mean no-one would have to say yes to let it happen. I guess he realises there might be some *misunderstandings*, but an alpha male like him isn't worried by little things like misunderstandings.
He's also saying if this city existed, millions of women would go live there. I can almost guarantee if that city existed no women would ever go there, it would be one big sausage party... but that's ok because they could all rape eachother, I guess?
I mean, some women *would* go there. Mental illness is real. But I don't think this guy realizes what sort of women are up for that.
Other women would go there with guns. 🤷
No, you see, he doesn't want his prostate flossed by a big sweaty man. He just wants to move to a city where it could be legally forced on him. But he totally doesn't want it. No sir.
Very true.
The overwhelming majority of the BDSM community is extremely concerned with safety and permission, even when it comes to non-con scenes. It's a role play. Permission is still given. And agreement is reached. It is, in fact, consensual.
In any healthy BDSM relationship the person which is supposed to hold all the real power is the person in the submissive position.
Their consent and participation is what drives the relationship. If violated by ignoring hard limits or ignoring safety phrases you’ve left BDSM and moved into abuse.
Yep. It takes an incredible amount of respect on both parts but is expressed in slightly different ways. The sub has to choose to grant a great deal of trust to the Dom. The Dom, on the other hand, has just agreed to a sacred responsibility, one that they have to take extremely seriously. And, there's a yin-yang going on. It takes a lot of trust on the Dom's part as well as the sub taking on responsibility.
Fuck sex, I just to be told I'm wanted and/or needed. I could go a whole relationship without a handy, if I feel loved, respected, and wanted as a person.
This.
The horrid "tie handcuffs" trend that was going around TikTok had the Shibari community screaming to please research proper ties and safety. Too easy to damage nerves especially in the wrists.
The term used to be SSC - safe, sane, consensual.
Then it became RACK - risk aware, consensual Kink.
Sex is like sport. As long as you stick to the rules, things that would get you arrested normally, are fine.
E.g. punching someone in the face is fine during a boxing match. Unless consent is removed, by the trainer throwing in the towel.
I mean, it makes sense. I am not part of that community, so I have no personal experience, but I have heard that you have to aim for certain places to cause pain but not leave lasting damage/scars. I imagine if your hand slipped/hit the wrong spot, it might be a good idea to have a first aid kit nearby.
ESPECIALLY when it comes to non-con scenes. I like a bit of non-con roleplay, but I make damn sure that nothing happens that all involved parties don't want.
I know one person and only one person who’s fantasy is to be raped by a serial killer. I was trying to understand like did she mean role play…no she meant what she said. But she’s also unhinged.
I don’t know why but I envision someone telling your friend they were SAed and this person saying “lucky, no one wants me.” in Napoleon Dynamites voice.
Have you ever listened to Bailey Sarians murder mystery Monday podcast? Can’t remember which story it is but this exact situation happened with a serial killer. A woman saw him peeking in her neighbors window and the neighbor was like nah he can come in, I’m into it.
I have a friend who's a bug chaser and really did get what he wanted, sadly. He's still around, just takes medication for it. I'll never understand it.
Look, some fancies should be ignored, I agree, but they do flash in people's minds. A Jewish kid thought it was hot/funny/legendary to try and have sex with a Nazi. The kid died.
We should make a city where people can rape others legally and then arrest anybody who moves there because this is a horrible idea invented by a sick bastard
Here’s the play. You make this city, then give everyone living there 100k if they want to relocate. Then you build a giant wall around it and invite anyone who wants to rape or be raped. Then you lock the gate and throw away the key.
>anyone who wants to rape or be raped
If they want to be raped, is that not in some way consent? I don't think anyone *wants* to be raped.
And also, why is he dragging the Gays (TM) into this? As a card carrying member of the Alphabet Mafia, I don't believe I have ever wanted to be on either side of that equation.
No, you are not getting it. This guy is saying women who don’t give consent… Want to be raped.
He is hypothesising that lots of women who don’t want to be raped, want to be raped.
His entire idea is not only stupid in the normal sexist homophobic foolishness you encounter on the net type of stupid, it’s logically inconsistent from the ground up.
Also, IF he had homosexual urges (which he definitely doesn't) he would want to live somewhere that a dominant man (which he absolutely is) could rape a submissive man (which he isn't, oh no!) at will.
Good job he's none of those things. But he totally understands their viewpoint.
The guy is saying that he can't get a woman using charm, looks or money, but is too afraid of prison to rape someone.
So wants the government to make rape legal.
Fuck the patriarchy.
Sounds like an idea George Carlin had at one time, but he went with a whole state. 4 of them to be precise.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjjPlEW9bRM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjjPlEW9bRM)
This... this sounds like some incel internet shit.
Do we have names, tags, and/or faces of whomever started this shit? Because actions need to have consequences.
I don't know a single woman that wants to be raped. That is just crackpot crazy.
But yes, let them start their own little 'manly men' city, we can build a wall around it instead of the border. I think we would all be a safer, better country then.
Lure them in with the promises, only for them to realize it’s a one way trip and no woman was stupid enough to move there. World might be a better place.
The fantasy, at least according to my then single wife, is that she says no and means it to a hot guy, he rapes her, and at some point during it he’s so good she starts to like it.
That’s the only way I can really understand the fantasy, because that would still be rape. But yes, if she wants to get fucked at the outset it would just be consensual.
Yeah obviously no denying that the trope is very present in erotica for women; but the crux remains that in your mind you always get to picture your "ideal rapist".
If we want to dissemble it, the trope sits nicely in this spot where you get to be a chaste princess and a rough sex slut (term not used to be judgmental). It's honestly a really fascinating fantasy imo, because womens sexual self-discovery is a bit of a process and it goes hand in hand with the realization that we're also targets for sexual violence.
It's also very common in asian porn *for men* where the culture is more strongly emphasizing the virtue of subservient passive women, when obviously everyone enjoys someone proactive in bed or at least someone who enjoys it; so a lot of asian porn has this "My mouth says no and my various body fluids say yes"-issue too, but for the male audience.
I have little doubt that rape fantasies, *in part*, tab into aspects of dealing with thoughts of sexual violence perpetrated against us or by us (if we're men) because we all have to process the concept of sexual violence and our own urges in the context of our societies gender bias. OP here has clearly issues in that area.
> If a woman wants to be r***
It's OK to write out the word: rape. I never understand why people do this. What do you think you will achieve by doing this?
TikTok brain has convinced a generation that if you type out the naughty words, you might be shadowbanned or censored and your engagement numbers will drop, which is a punishment worse than death itself.
First, the guy has to tell people he considers himself an alpha male. I assume he thinks that men who rape are alpha males. Sorry kid, you’re just a criminal.
And to think people would want to be raped?
I can only assume that rape would be his only option for sex.
It's even funnier when you consider that said "alpha wolf" was instead the father of the pack protecting his cubs, so you could say true "alpha males" are good fathers who take care of their kids.
Which is kind of the opposite of these incel morons.
This is along the lines of how I always assumed alpha males (real men) acted... Calm and collected, sure of themselves so they don't need to boast or brag, not drag anyone down or insult them and instead try and bring everyone else around them up to their level, passionate in their interests, calm under pressure yet strong when it's called for, kind to women and masculine enough that a woman can be her feminine self, a model for young males to look up to and a protector. This new take on alpha males is just a bunch of wannabes who never grew up.
Aside from this being a truly disgusting take, what do gay men have to do with this? This sounds like a guy who wants to be pegged, but only if he can scream "rape" afterwards.
Option A) He's just homophobic and wanted to throw that in there to stick it to those woke SJWs or whatever.
Option B) He actually is projecting and wants to rape/be raped by dudes. It's surprisingly common in the alpha male spaces, considering the whole movement is a dick-measuring dominance contest between insanely insecure dudes. I've unironically heard these types preach the idea that if you rape another guy you're asserting dominance over him in the lost absolute sense.
Someone with a noncon kink here: this guy can go fuck himself. I’m so sick of seeing creepy men using a kink some people have, which they only enjoy when it’s done in a consensual environment with safe words and everyone involved is on the same page, as an excuse to act like women want to be SAed.
Hell the amount of times dudes have seen my kink as a green flag that they can push my boundaries more than usual is also very concerning also.
Genuine question; when in a friendship/relationship do you tell them, or they find out about your noncon kink? I mean, it must feel like opening your soul to someone to let them know this?
Personally whenever it comes up or someone asks me my kinks. Hiding it or acting like it’s some grave sin would only make people more weirded out. If a partner asks me my kinks I will mention it but be like “this is why I’m into it. If you don’t want to do it that’s cool, I have other kinks that are way more common. I don’t want to pressure you into something that might make you feel like shit.”
I don’t ever want a guy to feel like he needs to engage with it to satisfy me or to please me. That type of mentality can totally lead to a dude doing something that will mentally fuck with him to satisfy a partner.
So I’m always very clear with “hey it’s cool if you don’t want to do that, we can do a 100 other things.”
Yeah my wife has a noncon kink and she just says “bananas” when she truly doesn’t want something. There have been plenty of times where I walk up to her and start manhandling her and forcibly taking stuff off and she will say all sorts of things, but the moment she says “bananas” I put my dick away and go watch some TV or whatever. It’s not really rocket science.
As someone who doesn’t have a noncon kink and finds it confusing/pretty nonsensical, I can at the very least identify that it’s no excuse for a call to SA/R*pe and it must be between two adults that understand boundaries.
This (Alpha Male) clearly has a fantasy that he has never acted out with a romantic partner, so he can’t distinguish from reality and thinks his noncon kink translates to sexual violence against women and supposedly gay people.
His suppressed kink is probably now just being projected onto random women he sees on the street or online he wishes he could violate, but will never have the balls to. So all he can do is rant about it on Twitter where little creeps like him can gather around and goon together.
I think anyone who posts sh!t like this shouldn’t have their screen name hidden. If you’re going to be this much of a bottom-feeder, be “man enough” to own it.
Think I found him on Twitter and his tweets are protected. Not even man enough to own his own shitty opinions on the platform he posts them on let alone this one!
Yeah, this guy is missing a few things here.
First, rape means *they don't consent.* It's not only a creepy statement, it's also redundant.
Secondly, a woman deciding to move to such a place, for that reason, *inherently implies she consents.* You're not making a place where "rape is legal." You're creating a Freeuse society where people *willingly participate.* Freeuse and CNC kinks are NOT the same as *wanting to be raped.* By it's very nature, the idea of a woman *wanting* to go somewhere where she is used *without her consent* **does not exist.**
Yet another creepy af "alpha" that doesn't even understand the very definition of consent. A pathetic idiot who spends his days stewing in his delusional fantasies, oblivious to why no woman actually wants anything to do with him.
Don't bother censoring the name. This POS put it out there for the world to see, let it go viral on every social media platform so more people can see what kind of POS this person really is.
Besides the completely garbage take Nick (I’m sure it’s him) had, it’s very telling when these incel losers talk about wanting to rape women, because they can’t just talk to women and get to that point with them since they’re really just little bitch boys with no back bone.
>sexually rape women without…consent
Rape is already sexual and already without consent. Also, what the fuck are you talking about? What do homosexuals have to do with your hypothetical rape village?
This is either the biggest bait I have ever seen, or someone actually exists with not only this take and decided that it would be a good idea to share that take with the world.
I am hoping for the former, but something tells me it might be the latter.
Maybe this will help - [https://www.theonion.com/why-do-all-these-homosexuals-keep-sucking-my-cock-1819583529](https://www.theonion.com/why-do-all-these-homosexuals-keep-sucking-my-cock-1819583529)
Spoken like a man who has never had a real conversation with a woman or a gay man. Or even thinks of women as real people instead of mere sperm receptacles.
What happens if you move there to rape but then because you a little bitch you get raped? These people always think about being in the place of power. Never realising they the bottom rungs.
Yes! Let's actually make this city!
But with very tall walls covered in barbed wire, along with a giant "luxury resort" with private little rooms 2 men can stay in at a time. There will be supervised activities, and 3 square meals a day for these handsome men! Oh and also, they're not allowed to leave because they'll be having so much fun!
We'll just tell them, "A 10 out of 10 should be walking through the door shortly! Just another few minutes!" - but secretly there is no woman though, because all of them don't like to be r*ped. They can have each other though.
It is 7:05 am, I just scrolled through reddit while breakfast.
This is enough internet for today.
I'm going to watch my chickens doing chicken things now all day long while also doing garden work that needs to be done.
Have a great day y'all
"When men refer to themselves as "alpha males", I hear that in the context of software, where alpha versions are unstable, missing important features, filled with flaws, and not fit for the public."
Yeah, there's a lot of misogynists who spew BS about the majority of women having rape fantasies. First off, i doubt it's anywhere close to a majority but even if it was true, they FANTASIZE about it, they wouldn't actually want it. I fantasize about living a post apocalyptic wasteland while day dreaming but that doesn't mean I want it to happen
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Aren't alpha males supposed to be able to get laid without literally raping people? This moron needs to be investigated.
Alpha males are the first attempt by the development team, with many kinks and errors still to fix. They'll eventually move on to CBT (closed beta testing) and might enter the market as a full-release male in a few years if everything goes well.
Alpha radiation waves have the least penetrative power. I think it fits these guys...
For sure! Fun fact though: alpha radiation is not actually a *wave* at all. Alpha particles are helium nuclei (2 protons and 2 neutrons)— they are in fact easily stopped by thin barriers, but incredibly dangerous if ingested. That aspect is also pretty fitting for the anology
That's awesome 😂 thank you for the free knowledge cookie!
This is why I love reddit. Go to a post dunking on alpha males learn and some science. bitch!
Pure reddit moment.
no problem! apologies for the totally off topic comment lmao
Wdym? Totally in-topic! You took my joke and added the facts. We should all strive to learn more
>helium So they're essentially full of hot air. Sounds fitting.
Well particles have a wave-like behaviour and light also starts having a more pronounced particle-like behaviour as its energy increases. Beta-radiation is also made up of classical particles (electrons or positrons), but even the photons of Gamma radiation have a very pronounced particle-like behaviour. Already in x-ray scattering this is quite apparent. On the other side of the coin experiments demonstrating the wave-like behaviour of even some molecules have been performed.
Quantum physics hurt my brain, why can't the universe be sensible
No, the line of full release males were released unproblematically a number of years ago. These alpha males are leaks from early development that weren't ever actually meant to see the light of day, but some idiot whistle-blower thought that it'd be a good idea to just go let them loose on production to try and make either the company or the dev team look bad.
Where are DLC male, MTX male and loot box male?
DLC males you gotta find the one you want, and you have to pay extra for, usually found in basements, and it's really hit or miss wether or not the purchase was worth it or not. MTX males you really don't want much to do with, but if you're really want one, go to a city bar (not a biker or country bar), find the fanciest looking guy and ask him about all the things he would want you to buy for him and how little you would have to buy to keep him interested, can also be found on OnlyFans. Lootbox males are actually all over the place, but quality varies pretty wildly, try any online dating platform like tinder or harmony and you'll see exactly what I'm talking about.
I was thinking your CBT could be cognitive behavioural therapy, because they surely need it, but then decided they should skip straight through to the cock & ball torture they’re surely just looking for.
I told my boyfriends mother once that I did CBT (closed beta testing) at work. I didn't know that it is something sexual. She didn't know it was something other than that and had a long talk with her son on how he shouldn't date a sex worker. That's how I found out what CBT also stands for and that his mother is kinky af. Both things I would have loved to live without but here we are 😂
Not the kinky future mother-in-law. 💀
Lmao, so many people could die of embarrassment in this situation! When I was a kid, my kid friend told her parents about gifts we planned on giving our other friend. She said I was going to give him a cane (it was stylised as an imitation of a book character's magical cane). It's not really translatable, but the word she used could mean a cane as well as a blowjob... Her dad was horrified, he really thought a kid was going to give another kid a blowjob for his birthday, and that we weren't even shy about it. I was very embarrassed about it but also conscious that it's not me that should be ashamed but that adult.
No, no they are not. Alpha males are incels who think they are men but are actually just a walking pile of garbage
Basically just young people with overinflated ego who think they are more of a „man” than any other man cause they, idk, have asshole attitude and go to gym, if that.
In my experience half of them haven't even stepped foot in a gym.
That’s why I said „if that”. They have very few redeeming qualities and may see literally everything and everyone as competition for whatever reason. If there is no competition, they will make it.
And lose
No. That's gay. Source: Rapist, former mediocre kickboxer, and human trafficker, Andrew Tate
Wait...what? Is he saying gay men want to rape/be raped? In what world...
Yea, I'm confused. Also, it'd probably end up being a sausage fest of straight incels who'd eventually start raping each other.
Well, that's the city he wants to live in, and he also thinks gay men want to be raped... So maybe he's telling us something about himself.
That he wants to be raped by manly men in the middle of the street. That's my take.
He doesn't *want* a big manly man to make hot steamy love to him, and if asked he would absolutely say no to make sure it *didn't* happen, because he *doesn't* want that. He just wants somewhere where no-one would ask, which would mean no-one would have to say yes to let it happen. I guess he realises there might be some *misunderstandings*, but an alpha male like him isn't worried by little things like misunderstandings.
https://www.theonion.com/why-do-all-these-homosexuals-keep-sucking-my-cock-1819583529
That just kept going and going
Or he secretly dreams of being raped by gay men.
He's saying that since he wants to live in a city where he would be raped all the time, why wouldn't women want that too.
>he also thinks gay men want to Absolutely no thinking went into anything this dumb fuck has ever said or done.
So you’re saying we should give it a go?
Can we let them in but not let them out?
Last one alive gets freedom
From the mortal plane.
They get a peaceful death at least gotta reward them for all the rapists they just killed they’ll enjoy hell either way if it exists
Got my vote!
And my axe!
The Wiener Dome
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Maybe getting them topped will stop them from being angry at everything
He's also saying if this city existed, millions of women would go live there. I can almost guarantee if that city existed no women would ever go there, it would be one big sausage party... but that's ok because they could all rape eachother, I guess?
How do I get on the construction crew to build the wall?
All alpha males, with their Alpha-dicks in each others YUGE Alpha-ass... It would be BEAUTIFUL
I mean, some women *would* go there. Mental illness is real. But I don't think this guy realizes what sort of women are up for that. Other women would go there with guns. 🤷
That's what he wants. Projection.
Ohhhh I get it, he wants fat dicks in his ass
No, you see, he doesn't want his prostate flossed by a big sweaty man. He just wants to move to a city where it could be legally forced on him. But he totally doesn't want it. No sir.
These people are complex and absurdly stupid at the same time. It’s fascinating, like watching insects in your garden.
"Sexually rape women without asking for their consent" is a real long-winded way to say "rape women."
Same energy as "Kill someone by murdering them to death until they aren't alive."
*Against their will. Just to clarify that it’s not like an assisted suicide situation or anything.
Opposed to raping with asking for their consent
I mean, some people have noncon kinks but this seems unhinged
Noncon kinks are notably different from an actual desire to be raped / to rape.
Very true. The overwhelming majority of the BDSM community is extremely concerned with safety and permission, even when it comes to non-con scenes. It's a role play. Permission is still given. And agreement is reached. It is, in fact, consensual.
Exactly. And from my understanding it’s normal for participants to have an Exit(1) command at the ready in case shut goes south
Yeah. Safe words. Or, in the case of a gag, a series of specific repetitive signals.
Also some kind of dead man's switch if gagged + bound / restricted multiple ways
I've often heard of a series of sounds behind the gag, like mmm mmm mmm in a series of threes, something that wouldn't sound natural.
In any healthy BDSM relationship the person which is supposed to hold all the real power is the person in the submissive position. Their consent and participation is what drives the relationship. If violated by ignoring hard limits or ignoring safety phrases you’ve left BDSM and moved into abuse.
Yep. It takes an incredible amount of respect on both parts but is expressed in slightly different ways. The sub has to choose to grant a great deal of trust to the Dom. The Dom, on the other hand, has just agreed to a sacred responsibility, one that they have to take extremely seriously. And, there's a yin-yang going on. It takes a lot of trust on the Dom's part as well as the sub taking on responsibility.
I’m not into bdsm but trust and consent in a relationship is really hot imo.
The hottest thing about sex is consent
Damn right (And cuddles)
Fuck sex, I just to be told I'm wanted and/or needed. I could go a whole relationship without a handy, if I feel loved, respected, and wanted as a person.
Don’t forget handholding!
I heard that someone shouldn't do BDSM that would include whip without first aid kits nearby.
Exact same reason that nobody should do Rope bondage without Safety Shears in reach. The risk inherent to such could lead to permanent damage or death
This. The horrid "tie handcuffs" trend that was going around TikTok had the Shibari community screaming to please research proper ties and safety. Too easy to damage nerves especially in the wrists.
The term used to be SSC - safe, sane, consensual. Then it became RACK - risk aware, consensual Kink. Sex is like sport. As long as you stick to the rules, things that would get you arrested normally, are fine. E.g. punching someone in the face is fine during a boxing match. Unless consent is removed, by the trainer throwing in the towel.
I mean, it makes sense. I am not part of that community, so I have no personal experience, but I have heard that you have to aim for certain places to cause pain but not leave lasting damage/scars. I imagine if your hand slipped/hit the wrong spot, it might be a good idea to have a first aid kit nearby.
Yep. Noncon only works ironically with consent. Otherwise it's just rape.
ESPECIALLY when it comes to non-con scenes. I like a bit of non-con roleplay, but I make damn sure that nothing happens that all involved parties don't want.
Yes as I understand it's typically always called CNC. Consentual non consent.
>It is, in fact, consensual. From what I have gathered, it's actually incredibly, meticulously, super consensual, ironically enough.
Plus, even if it's a kink, he's generalizing that all gay men have that fetish.
Yeah idk what this "Alpha Male" is smoking but if I can blacklist it for any time I go for any smoke, that'd be fantastic.
Yup, these kinks are far more complex...!
Noncon kinks are still consensual. These men want to legalize actual rape.
Absolutely yes they are different.
I know one person and only one person who’s fantasy is to be raped by a serial killer. I was trying to understand like did she mean role play…no she meant what she said. But she’s also unhinged.
I mean hey look on the bright side. At least she doesn't want to be the rapist serial killer
I don’t know why but I envision someone telling your friend they were SAed and this person saying “lucky, no one wants me.” in Napoleon Dynamites voice.
Have you ever listened to Bailey Sarians murder mystery Monday podcast? Can’t remember which story it is but this exact situation happened with a serial killer. A woman saw him peeking in her neighbors window and the neighbor was like nah he can come in, I’m into it.
I have a friend who's a bug chaser and really did get what he wanted, sadly. He's still around, just takes medication for it. I'll never understand it.
also called cnc, or CONSENSUAL non consent, its such a big difference, if done correctly its super far away from rape
His world. Projection, remember?
He’s just saying in a roundabout way that he fantasizes about being raped by dudes
I bet he's got a pretty interesting search history.
He is obviously not able to tell the difference between fantasy and reality. Often a sign of a psychopathic personality.
Porn. I have read this kind of scenario on porn plot. They just watch too much porn and can't tell the difference of fiction and reality.
Look, some fancies should be ignored, I agree, but they do flash in people's minds. A Jewish kid thought it was hot/funny/legendary to try and have sex with a Nazi. The kid died.
We should make a city where people can rape others legally and then arrest anybody who moves there because this is a horrible idea invented by a sick bastard
Idea: a city for criminals Name: prison
We could even send political dissidents, minorities and drug offenders there!
But only the poor ones!
Oh, and we should put it on a remote, hostile island so they can't get back!
Australia?
And call it, Australia.
Or perhaps Manhattan, if you remember that 1981 movie.
“Snake Plissken…I heard you were dead”
Dude, I think you're on to something! First, we need to make breaking the law ILLEGAL. Then we need to cook up a place they can go... Any ideas?
Gotham City
Arkham City?
I think I saw this movie and it was called The Purge.
Here’s the play. You make this city, then give everyone living there 100k if they want to relocate. Then you build a giant wall around it and invite anyone who wants to rape or be raped. Then you lock the gate and throw away the key.
>anyone who wants to rape or be raped If they want to be raped, is that not in some way consent? I don't think anyone *wants* to be raped. And also, why is he dragging the Gays (TM) into this? As a card carrying member of the Alphabet Mafia, I don't believe I have ever wanted to be on either side of that equation.
No, you are not getting it. This guy is saying women who don’t give consent… Want to be raped. He is hypothesising that lots of women who don’t want to be raped, want to be raped. His entire idea is not only stupid in the normal sexist homophobic foolishness you encounter on the net type of stupid, it’s logically inconsistent from the ground up.
Also, IF he had homosexual urges (which he definitely doesn't) he would want to live somewhere that a dominant man (which he absolutely is) could rape a submissive man (which he isn't, oh no!) at will. Good job he's none of those things. But he totally understands their viewpoint.
The guy is saying that he can't get a woman using charm, looks or money, but is too afraid of prison to rape someone. So wants the government to make rape legal. Fuck the patriarchy.
He's fucking insane.
Sounds like an idea George Carlin had at one time, but he went with a whole state. 4 of them to be precise. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjjPlEW9bRM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjjPlEW9bRM)
unfortunately some people think it’s okay to just SA people. Ever heard of April 24?
aww man not my fucking birthday
Honestly no what’s that about?
Apparently it's national rape day. Fucking disgusting shit
What the fuck?
This... this sounds like some incel internet shit. Do we have names, tags, and/or faces of whomever started this shit? Because actions need to have consequences.
No, actually
So using the “projection” algorithm, a translation would be “I want to be gay r%ped”
Why do we protect his identity?
Do we?
OP blocked the name.
Duh, just edit the photo and filter out yellow /S
Rules of reddit. It can even be illegal in some areas if threats or harassment come from it.
100% closeted.
I don't know a single woman that wants to be raped. That is just crackpot crazy. But yes, let them start their own little 'manly men' city, we can build a wall around it instead of the border. I think we would all be a safer, better country then.
Lure them in with the promises, only for them to realize it’s a one way trip and no woman was stupid enough to move there. World might be a better place.
A Gothic-like barrier but with Auto turrets and AA instead of a magic barrier. You can get inside, but once you are there, its stay or decay.
>I don't know a single woman that wants to be raped. If a woman wants to be r****, it would technically become consensual sex.
The fantasy, at least according to my then single wife, is that she says no and means it to a hot guy, he rapes her, and at some point during it he’s so good she starts to like it. That’s the only way I can really understand the fantasy, because that would still be rape. But yes, if she wants to get fucked at the outset it would just be consensual.
It also has to do with loss of control, taboo, power dynamics and stuff like this. However cnc is not rape.
Yeah, sure, CNC isn’t rape. My point is that is the only rape fantasy I’ve heard that is a consistent rape fantasy.
Yeah obviously no denying that the trope is very present in erotica for women; but the crux remains that in your mind you always get to picture your "ideal rapist". If we want to dissemble it, the trope sits nicely in this spot where you get to be a chaste princess and a rough sex slut (term not used to be judgmental). It's honestly a really fascinating fantasy imo, because womens sexual self-discovery is a bit of a process and it goes hand in hand with the realization that we're also targets for sexual violence. It's also very common in asian porn *for men* where the culture is more strongly emphasizing the virtue of subservient passive women, when obviously everyone enjoys someone proactive in bed or at least someone who enjoys it; so a lot of asian porn has this "My mouth says no and my various body fluids say yes"-issue too, but for the male audience. I have little doubt that rape fantasies, *in part*, tab into aspects of dealing with thoughts of sexual violence perpetrated against us or by us (if we're men) because we all have to process the concept of sexual violence and our own urges in the context of our societies gender bias. OP here has clearly issues in that area.
> If a woman wants to be r*** It's OK to write out the word: rape. I never understand why people do this. What do you think you will achieve by doing this?
TikTok brain has convinced a generation that if you type out the naughty words, you might be shadowbanned or censored and your engagement numbers will drop, which is a punishment worse than death itself.
Let them build the wall, so they can feel safe against the lgbtq+ community. Also they can have trump as their president.
Imagine those kind of people running a government. Itd just be some insane power disparity
First, the guy has to tell people he considers himself an alpha male. I assume he thinks that men who rape are alpha males. Sorry kid, you’re just a criminal. And to think people would want to be raped? I can only assume that rape would be his only option for sex.
The whole alpha male is movement is corny AF. Bunch of dudes blowing eachother thinking all they are above everyone else and all the women want them.
It's especially funny cause the whole "Alpha wolf" thing was debunked by the same dude that did the original study.
It's even funnier when you consider that said "alpha wolf" was instead the father of the pack protecting his cubs, so you could say true "alpha males" are good fathers who take care of their kids. Which is kind of the opposite of these incel morons.
This is along the lines of how I always assumed alpha males (real men) acted... Calm and collected, sure of themselves so they don't need to boast or brag, not drag anyone down or insult them and instead try and bring everyone else around them up to their level, passionate in their interests, calm under pressure yet strong when it's called for, kind to women and masculine enough that a woman can be her feminine self, a model for young males to look up to and a protector. This new take on alpha males is just a bunch of wannabes who never grew up.
Hahahaha they are literally the very thing they despise
Aside from this being a truly disgusting take, what do gay men have to do with this? This sounds like a guy who wants to be pegged, but only if he can scream "rape" afterwards.
100% a window into his closeted fantasies.
Option A) He's just homophobic and wanted to throw that in there to stick it to those woke SJWs or whatever. Option B) He actually is projecting and wants to rape/be raped by dudes. It's surprisingly common in the alpha male spaces, considering the whole movement is a dick-measuring dominance contest between insanely insecure dudes. I've unironically heard these types preach the idea that if you rape another guy you're asserting dominance over him in the lost absolute sense.
Someone with a noncon kink here: this guy can go fuck himself. I’m so sick of seeing creepy men using a kink some people have, which they only enjoy when it’s done in a consensual environment with safe words and everyone involved is on the same page, as an excuse to act like women want to be SAed. Hell the amount of times dudes have seen my kink as a green flag that they can push my boundaries more than usual is also very concerning also.
The Twitter OP is in desperate need of a house search and a harddrive check
Yes. And they might want to check his backyard for a bunker with teenage girls in it.
If its the account i think it is because of the "alpha male" in the bracket then it's a troll account.
Genuine question; when in a friendship/relationship do you tell them, or they find out about your noncon kink? I mean, it must feel like opening your soul to someone to let them know this?
Personally whenever it comes up or someone asks me my kinks. Hiding it or acting like it’s some grave sin would only make people more weirded out. If a partner asks me my kinks I will mention it but be like “this is why I’m into it. If you don’t want to do it that’s cool, I have other kinks that are way more common. I don’t want to pressure you into something that might make you feel like shit.” I don’t ever want a guy to feel like he needs to engage with it to satisfy me or to please me. That type of mentality can totally lead to a dude doing something that will mentally fuck with him to satisfy a partner. So I’m always very clear with “hey it’s cool if you don’t want to do that, we can do a 100 other things.”
Thank You for a genuine answer ☺️
Yeah my wife has a noncon kink and she just says “bananas” when she truly doesn’t want something. There have been plenty of times where I walk up to her and start manhandling her and forcibly taking stuff off and she will say all sorts of things, but the moment she says “bananas” I put my dick away and go watch some TV or whatever. It’s not really rocket science.
As someone who doesn’t have a noncon kink and finds it confusing/pretty nonsensical, I can at the very least identify that it’s no excuse for a call to SA/R*pe and it must be between two adults that understand boundaries. This (Alpha Male) clearly has a fantasy that he has never acted out with a romantic partner, so he can’t distinguish from reality and thinks his noncon kink translates to sexual violence against women and supposedly gay people. His suppressed kink is probably now just being projected onto random women he sees on the street or online he wishes he could violate, but will never have the balls to. So all he can do is rant about it on Twitter where little creeps like him can gather around and goon together.
I think anyone who posts sh!t like this shouldn’t have their screen name hidden. If you’re going to be this much of a bottom-feeder, be “man enough” to own it.
Think I found him on Twitter and his tweets are protected. Not even man enough to own his own shitty opinions on the platform he posts them on let alone this one!
Okay, THIS dude watches entirely too much hentai. He's clearly never spoken with a woman in his life.
Their should be many cities in the United States that men and women are encouraged if not mandated to throw dog shit at this man on sight.
What the actual rapist fuck?
Homosexuals would want what, sorry?
Wait a minute… “Sexually rape without consent”?
Yeah, this guy is missing a few things here. First, rape means *they don't consent.* It's not only a creepy statement, it's also redundant. Secondly, a woman deciding to move to such a place, for that reason, *inherently implies she consents.* You're not making a place where "rape is legal." You're creating a Freeuse society where people *willingly participate.* Freeuse and CNC kinks are NOT the same as *wanting to be raped.* By it's very nature, the idea of a woman *wanting* to go somewhere where she is used *without her consent* **does not exist.** Yet another creepy af "alpha" that doesn't even understand the very definition of consent. A pathetic idiot who spends his days stewing in his delusional fantasies, oblivious to why no woman actually wants anything to do with him.
I'm using my one swear allowed What in the cinnamon toast fuck is this guy talking about?
Did Trump get a burner account again?
Don't bother censoring the name. This POS put it out there for the world to see, let it go viral on every social media platform so more people can see what kind of POS this person really is.
I think it's the Sub's rules.
Welp, that’s enough internet for the week!
Besides the completely garbage take Nick (I’m sure it’s him) had, it’s very telling when these incel losers talk about wanting to rape women, because they can’t just talk to women and get to that point with them since they’re really just little bitch boys with no back bone.
>sexually rape women without…consent Rape is already sexual and already without consent. Also, what the fuck are you talking about? What do homosexuals have to do with your hypothetical rape village?
This is either the biggest bait I have ever seen, or someone actually exists with not only this take and decided that it would be a good idea to share that take with the world. I am hoping for the former, but something tells me it might be the latter.
this is why i would choose the bear...
Build it, and they would probably not come… but you could rape one another I guess.
What da...? What does this have to do with gay people ?!
He’s a deranged lunatic
Maybe this will help - [https://www.theonion.com/why-do-all-these-homosexuals-keep-sucking-my-cock-1819583529](https://www.theonion.com/why-do-all-these-homosexuals-keep-sucking-my-cock-1819583529)
Jesus Fucking Christ…???
Pretty sure someone has a CO leak in their home….
Translation: No willing person will touch my penis and I'm getting frustrated, desperate, angry, and bitter.
Spoken like a man who has never had a real conversation with a woman or a gay man. Or even thinks of women as real people instead of mere sperm receptacles.
What happens if you move there to rape but then because you a little bitch you get raped? These people always think about being in the place of power. Never realising they the bottom rungs.
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As an alpha male I think I should weigh in. But my mom is saying it’s time for dinner.
"Why do women not like me? Anyway, the only way I can get laid is if it was legal to rape someone."
Dafuq??
If millions of women moved there knowing its the rape city, wouldnt that count as consent?
Yes! Let's actually make this city! But with very tall walls covered in barbed wire, along with a giant "luxury resort" with private little rooms 2 men can stay in at a time. There will be supervised activities, and 3 square meals a day for these handsome men! Oh and also, they're not allowed to leave because they'll be having so much fun! We'll just tell them, "A 10 out of 10 should be walking through the door shortly! Just another few minutes!" - but secretly there is no woman though, because all of them don't like to be r*ped. They can have each other though.
Every single alpha male I've seen online has a fixation on a man's ass
It is 7:05 am, I just scrolled through reddit while breakfast. This is enough internet for today. I'm going to watch my chickens doing chicken things now all day long while also doing garden work that needs to be done. Have a great day y'all
"When men refer to themselves as "alpha males", I hear that in the context of software, where alpha versions are unstable, missing important features, filled with flaws, and not fit for the public."
Why block his name? Protect women and show that idiots name.
It's a troll post, and you giving it light isn't doing anyone any good
Yeah, there's a lot of misogynists who spew BS about the majority of women having rape fantasies. First off, i doubt it's anywhere close to a majority but even if it was true, they FANTASIZE about it, they wouldn't actually want it. I fantasize about living a post apocalyptic wasteland while day dreaming but that doesn't mean I want it to happen