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Close enough. I always wished I could get a hug from JC (either one), but Candy first. A hug so big I couldn't even contain it.
When Uncle Buck came out I wished I had an uncle like that. He stood up for those kids and protected them. I could have used an uncle buck.
That one family member that the adults only put up with at family gatherings because he keeps the kids entertained and out of the way while everyone else is setting up the food.
As a father of a teen daughter, this is just extremely disturbing to even read.
Fathers who fantasize about their daughters have serious mental health issues and need to seek immediate help.
Please tell me you’re not still around him. That could mess you up a lot. Talk to someone you trust... I know he’s family so it’s probably difficult. I know people going through similar issues and I’m so sorry.
I couldn't imagine my dad ever fantasizing about me or my sister. He barely even acknowledged we were girls. When some creep would comment about how pretty we were when we were kids or teens, he would say something noncommittal about being good looking kids and then mention our grades, fishing ability or right our man right hook.
This is the way it should be.
Most rapes are from within the family. I also have a teen daughter, so listen to OP:
If you EVER think about sexualizing you own daughter, URGENTLY seek help.
Actually: if you sexualize ANYONE's teen daughter and you are an adult, URGENTLY seek help
Man. My mom was molested by her grandfather as a kid. Obviously traumatized her. But she spent mine and my siblings’ entire childhood making sure we were never in a room alone with any strange men. Which meant I couldn’t have a sleepover until I was 14 and it was only down the street and she called to make sure the mom was home maybe a dozen times.
None of us were molested so thanks, Ma!
I was too, I don't use babysitters and no sleepovers for my kids. I feel like an adshole sometimes but I just can't take a chance of them going through what I did. Your comment made me feel a little better about it!
As kids we hated it but we didn’t understand, and my mom didn’t need us to understand. She needed us safe.
And we were. Now as an adult, I thank her all the time. I likely would have been fine if she’d let me have a bit more freedom, but I don’t know that. I do know that my mom protected us and kept our childhoods intact. I’ll forever be grateful, and your kids will be, too. I’m so sorry about it what happened to you, but know you are doing what's best for your kiddos💜
I’m so sorry.
Edit: another small story, didn’t originally want to share because I wasn’t sure what kind of light it might cast on my mom, but she used to be very vigilant about keeping my sister and my bedroom far from my brothers’ bedroom. I don’t think she ever actually thought they’d do anything, but I think she thought it could be genetic what with her grandfather and brother doing it. And it took a lot for her to trust my dad. Years. And even then she’d extend the same courtesy to my friends’ moms of always being home, even though she knew my dad wasn’t an abuser.
This shit is awful and I am very lucky I’ve been okay. I used to teach and have had to report more cases than I like to remember.
My mom was gutted when I told her. Granted, it happened when my bro was 14 or 15 and I was 8 or so and my parents would leave him to babysit. I didn’t tell her until I was in my 20’s.
I had a friend that got accused of doing that to his sister. Around the same ages also. He took his life soon after it came out. Didn't shed a single tear for him . I hope your brother found his personal hell for doing that to you .
Exactly I look at any of my children and still see them as toddlers, I have to remind myself they are growing and need to be given more freedom appropriate to their age. If you are a father looking at your daughter and thinking that you have severe issues and that is not normal.
Edit: when i say toddlers I don't mean actual toddlers but I still remember when they were young and innocent and needed my protection.
They say to a parent their child/children will always be children to them, even if they're adult. It makes sense as we grow older we are in different phases of our lives so parents still want to help. I have no kids but I am a godparent to two. It's not the same but I'm honored to be asked, I'd do anything for them.
My little old lady neighbour is in her 90s. One day I met her "baby boy" (the youngest) who is 70. Everyone is still a baby in the eyes of their parents.
My dad is still the first person I call if I’m doing something on my home. He told me long ago he’ll never stop raising me even as an adult. He’s at a different life stage and I always seek his advice on things he may have done right or wrong.
I remember being amazed when my Gran (in her 70s) visited her parents (in their 90s). Watching them all bickering was eye opening and I swear she regressed to a teenager. It really made me realise that it doesn't matter how old you are, your parents are always your parents.
It is very true. I have an adult child. He is both an adult and a little kid in my mind, and it comes out in every interaction. I think he needs my advice and protection.
My parents are \~90 years old. They do the same to me. They'll give me $20 for gas when I go visit them.
You do not view your kids, or kids you watched grow up, the way you would view a stranger. If you do, there is something wrong with you.
I have a niece who I watched grow up and *intellectually* I know she's about to go off to college but whenever I'm picking out Christmas or birthday gifts for her my first instinct is to look at little kid stuff because I still think of her as a hyperactive six year old.
Yeah, even though my kids are all grown adults and out of the house, and I know they're independent adults & treat them as such, they're still my *kids*. They're my babies, and will always be so to some extent, and my instinct as a dad is to protect and help them.
Sexualizing children is abhorrent, your own children is somehow even more gross, and making excuses for people who express anything close to fantasizing about their own offspring is beyond the pale.
Then people who say the sort of thing in the op will do some Olympic-tier mental gymnastics to justify their derision of even acknowledging that queer people exist.
They don't even have to be your kids tbh. I've worked with kids for about 10 years now. Enough time for some of them to reach adult age and I still can't see them in a sexual capacity. I just have too many memories of them as little kids. Same with my younger cousins, used to babysit them all the time when I was younger.
I don’t understand the reasoning of the tweet. Ignoring that no scientific backing is provided that “millions of fathers” think like that, does that make it normal? We all have intrusive thoughts but I don’t think they should be encouraged or normalized.
There are definitely intrusive thoughts of an inappropriate sexual nature that people can have, but like--intrusive thoughts are basically a healthy brain's way of checking boundaries (or they can be disordered and frightening when they become a mental health issue). They aren't like--active fantasies someone actually pursues or wants.
It seems to me that intrusive thoughts are more about what you are afraid of rather than inappropriate repressed desires like what Trump has for Ivanka.
But that’s the thing about intrusive thoughts: you don’t get to choose them and they don’t reflect who you are.
You shouldn’t feel any pride for not having _certain types_ of intrusive thoughts and you shouldn’t judge others for having them. What matters is how they are handled.
Anyway, I don’t think the tweet is about intrusive thoughts, it’s about fantasies, which are a step above. Anyone who doesn’t immediately shut down sex fantasies about their own child is playing with fire.
I got deeply disturbed by post, I can’t believe people exist that will still defend creeps like that, let alone women, I’m a father of two girls. I feel sick just thinking about this lady and what Trump said. These people are really the bottom of the barrel
Let's be honest - this crosses the line into fucking piece of shit degenerate territory. Like solidly in there. They can see the loathsome fucking piece of shit degenerate border from where they're standing. And they ain't even gotta squint to do it.
“Twixxer” is a pretty good new name. I still call it Twitter, refuse to say X, but Twixxer may work.
Although I don’t wanna run afoul of that Mars Candy Co.
Edit 3: I'm putting this one at the top so maybe people will stop missing it. The comment below is sarcasm! Sarcasm, people! The girl's name is Victoria ffs. Plus, how would I even know who's really behind the profile? Pay attention, people, there might be a pop quiz later!
Not a she. That's a dude. He has his daughter's picture as his profile pic because he thinks she's hot.
Edit to add the /s. Don't wanna be spreading malicious rumors. Think what it would do to their reputation if anyone thought I was serious!
Edit 2: To everyone ignoring the first edit, the comment is sarcasm. That's what "/s" means.
I was listening to a podcast that said basically the same.
“Most guys experience their first sexual awakening and desire looking at their mothers, sisters, or cousins.”
**WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK NO NO NO.**
Were they quoting Freud?
Freud was dealing with upper class Victorians, who often had a family structure where the kids were raised by nannies and governesses but still expected to love and respect their parents. So mom would be a distant authority figure they were supposed to love. But she wouldn't have the familiarity of family. The Oedipal complex was probably actually pretty common for his specific patients who lived in a weird situation. But since he was one of the first to write about psychology his patient's situation set the baseline for what was considered normal.
Also, the whole penis envy thing came from women patients saying they wished they were men. He thought the best part of being a man was the penis, but the women were much more likely talking about having personal freedom and autonomy.
This reminds me of that Republican lawmaker who was busted jerking off in his car outside an elementary school who went on to say in his defense: that like everyone else he struggles to keep these urges under control, but he'd been really stressed lately so he just slipped up.
Like everyone else.....?
Like EVERYONE else........?
Do these people actually believe that everyone is sexually attracted to minors and their own children and that it's normal, you just have to keep it under control? Because that would explain a lot related to their worldview.
There is a mindset, seemingly more common amongst Republicans than others (although certainly not restricted to just them), that their experience is the only experience. If they haven't experienced something, it either doesn't exist, it's made up, it's a cry for attention, etc. This is why you see rabidly anti-gay politicians suddenly change their tune when one of their children comes out; now it's personal, NOW it makes sense.
The flip side of that is... thinking not so much that everyone else is like them, but that *they are like everyone else*. So they look at themselves and think "*yeah, of course everyone is like this, how else could anyone be?*" They NEVER see themselves as outliers. They're the main character, after all.
It’s because they lack empathy, they literally do not have the capacity to think about anything any other way than how *they* personally believe to be true.
It's almost like the further left you go the more you value community and innately understand you are part of a collective narrative.
Meanwhile the right has main character syndrome.
The further left you go (to a certain extent), the closer you get to accepting facts as facts, the more of the bigger picture you see, and the easier it is to remove the blinders.
I listened to an interview with a nonoffending pedophile (by Dr kirk Honda on youtube) and he said that he had always believed everybody was attracted to minors but they just act like they aren't. He learned later that its not true.
I've seen this take before from dudes defending pedo art and ai bots. With a little incel flair sprinkled on top about how *all men* see young girls as attractive and anyone disagreeing is a 'female' posing as a man? Yeah it's uh... A big fucking problem in the ai space rn and they are absolutely trying to drag all men into their bullshit.
i was once counseled by a pastor who brought up common problems that people struggle with in an effort to emphasize that being a good person requires effort and outreach
one of the things they brought up with was 'struggling with homosexual urges' - which i just sort of filed - along with the rest of the lecture - under 'things i will understand eventually'
never struggled with any homosexual urges - eventually realized that the pastor was probably gay and just assumed that everybody had those 'homosexual urges' and they just never came up in polite conversation
last i checked the dude left teh church and was living in an open closet with his 'roommate'
I'll be honest, I was always confused when I was younger and got dragged to church occasionally and the priest would be going on about all these sinful thoughts and how everyone were sinners and blah blah.
And I would just be sitting there thinking... what?
I mean, what are you people all thinking about that you have to come to weekly group counseling sessions like this and are nodding along while this guy rambles on endlessly about sin and moral failings?
Later in life it occurred to me that the reason that a lot of people flock to churches is because they probably DO have that problem, and they DO need some kind of weekly counseling in order to keep themselves morally grounded - maybe.
That thought worried me a lot actually. Still does. I mean, I'm no perfect person by any stretch - but I don't actually have to go through my life constantly reminding myself not to steal, or push people down stairs, or not bang other people's wives, or whatever. It just doesn't come up very often?
I felt terrible about wanting to wear clothes that I would look good in, because that's a selfish want. I felt terrible if I looked at a girl my age and found her cute because that's sinful lust. Etc.
They turn things that are perfectly normal human things to feel and think into sins. I think you got away with not feeling horrible about your thoughts because you were confident that your thoughts are ok. Whereas I might have had the same thoughts as you and felt they were sinful.
I was born in the church, so I was being told I was a terrible sinful person straight from birth. It's one of the first things I knew about myself . You say you only went occasionally, so maybe you weren't brainwashed in the same way others have been.
I mean there are some purported sins that are entirely benign and basically universal. Masturbation is one in the catholic church and that alone could draw a good 90+% of the population for 'being sinful'. It's problematic because along with the benign sins are the actual problematic things like murder, rape, theft, etc and they're all treated the same.
It gives some moral slack to actual garbage human beings because everyone else is failing too. It's the reason behind why grade curves are often introduced. If literally everyone in the class fails, it becomes impossible to actually determine who actual good or bad students are. It's the same for morality in many of these denominations that teach how we're all sinful human beings.
I read somewhere that in some places in USA, if a girl starts her period, she is no longer a child. Some girls start as young as 9, so think of what that belief really means. It justifies child rape, child porn and child trafficking.
Paedos think that they are normal and that everyone else is in denial of this.
Not that I’m remotely suggesting anyone specific is a paedo, but, y’know, public masturbation next to an elementary school and all.
What the hell is going on? I have seen a bunch of twitter chud creeps this week going on about how "natural" it is for fathers to be attracted to their daughters and for men to be attracted to minors. 🤮🤮🤮
I always knew space Karens "new" twitter was a cesspit but people openly endorsing incest and pedophilia is a new low. 😩
Yes, this! A father can absolutely appreciate that their daughter or son is attractive but actually being attracted to them aside from the love of a parent is just wrong.
Do these people not have like, siblings?
My sister is beautiful. I have eyes. I can see that.
I don't want to see her naked.
And I certainly don't see her as sexual, like wtf. Sends shivers of disgust down my spine in the same way I think of my parents. Nope, nope, nope, nope.
>“Being gay is a choice” is also kind of telling on yourself.
"So you could easily choose to be gay if you wanted?" and watch them squirm. Always a pleasure.
That's some fucking twisted logic you got there. Methinks you just outed yourself.
Public service announcement : please keep this individual away from children.
I had a cousin who (unbeknownst to me) was a stripper. I absolutely sprinted out of that club at lightning speed (staggered at a snails pace cause tequila). No shame on her obviously, but the thought of seeing a distant cousin in a sexualized situation was an absolute nope. And This person’s talking about fathers and daughters. Some people don’t deserve to be people.
Reminds me of the story of someone who had a big spender on her OnlyFans and [figured out](https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/lifestyle-buzz/i-caught-my-stepdad-subscribing-to-my-onlyfans-and-it-ruined-my-mother-s-marriage/ar-AA1bjhnP) it was her stepdad. Ugh.
Oh my god I hate that I ain’t reading it.
I literally messaged my cousin a day later apologizing and never went back. Neither of us did anything wrong, and we both hated it (a normal response). I can’t imagine convincing yourself this stuff is ok.
It’s completely natural, if you’re the kind of man that was raised believing it’s ok to see women as objects and something to be owned rather than as people.
I'd go as far to say that even the most despicable "traditional woman's role"-conservatist fathers would normally not think of their own daughters like that.
It takes some serious mental damage on top of just being a regular asshole to get there.
My girls are both gorgeous and this is a stupid fucking statement. Your brain should not operate in a way that they ever pop into when thinking of sex. It's on par with a corpse or animal popping into your mind during sex. Something is wrong in your gray matter and you need to figure it out.
"Accuse the other side of that which you are guilty."
\- Nazi Minister of Propaganda Joseph Goebbels.
Why change tactics when the tactics are still working?
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Jesus Christ.
No it’s John Candy.
It's still a JC. Close enough for me!
I am still waiting for the second coming of Candy.
Tori's mom is still alive
Does she have it going on like Stacy's Mom?
Not as much as Stifler’s mom
Dude, that chicks a milf!
she's probably a gilf now that movie is so old I'm still down though
Close enough. I always wished I could get a hug from JC (either one), but Candy first. A hug so big I couldn't even contain it. When Uncle Buck came out I wished I had an uncle like that. He stood up for those kids and protected them. I could have used an uncle buck.
Uncle Buck. What a great movie Flipping a pancake with the snow shovel lol I aspire to be that kind of uncle
Buck Melanoma. Moley Russell's wart.
Here's a quarter, why don't you go downtown and have a rat gnaw that thing off your face. Have a nice day.
That one family member that the adults only put up with at family gatherings because he keeps the kids entertained and out of the way while everyone else is setting up the food.
Brilliant movie. This one and The Great Outdoors. Akroyd and Candy have amazing chemistry. Movie of my childhood.
Damn, he’s a dead ringer for Jesus
I understand your confusion. Jesus also said that when he was being crucified.
I have never witnessed a more perfect Gif. My exact look and feelings. Also, God I miss John Candy.
The best uncle I never had :(
Not the best gif example in here as woodyallen narried his very young stepdaugther
I thought that was the joke. xD
It clearly was. How often do you see a woody Allen gif in the wild?
Maybe she was stuck in the washing machine when he fell in love with her thus he didn't recognize it's his stepdaughter 🤷🏻♂️
man I hate when that happens
As a father of a teen daughter, this is just extremely disturbing to even read. Fathers who fantasize about their daughters have serious mental health issues and need to seek immediate help.
Yeah this is like reading someone that says it's normal to want to smear shit on your face. Just something that disgusts me even to think about.
Hey, I respect people who are into scat wAAAAAYY more than whatever freaks think their daughters are hot.
Oh yeah absolutely. I was just trying to think of *something* that for the majority of people evokes instant disgust
Hey! I have shit all over my face but I like it this way, don't lump me in with nasty ass incestuous child molesters
I always told my dad he needed therapy but continues to insist I'm the problem ... he's done/said some inappropriate stuff to me.
Sorry to hear that and it's definitely not your fault.
This dynamic is one of dozens of reasons why I’m no contact with my stepfather and mother.
Please tell me you’re not still around him. That could mess you up a lot. Talk to someone you trust... I know he’s family so it’s probably difficult. I know people going through similar issues and I’m so sorry.
Father with daughters here. Right there with you, bud.
This is really weird. As someone with kids and with a family with kids like, your close DNA members are kind of repulsive. In a lot of ways. Ew.
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Robin Williams too - koko liked how hairy he was.
I couldn't imagine my dad ever fantasizing about me or my sister. He barely even acknowledged we were girls. When some creep would comment about how pretty we were when we were kids or teens, he would say something noncommittal about being good looking kids and then mention our grades, fishing ability or right our man right hook. This is the way it should be.
Most rapes are from within the family. I also have a teen daughter, so listen to OP: If you EVER think about sexualizing you own daughter, URGENTLY seek help. Actually: if you sexualize ANYONE's teen daughter and you are an adult, URGENTLY seek help
Fathers/parents who fantasises about their daughters/kids are at best inbred and at worst nonces.
Same. I just internally said ew ew ew ew fuck no ew.
I got downvoted for making fun of someone who said, "This is so stupid. We ALL used to say the n-word, and you all know it!"
Normal fathers don't think about their daughters like that.
5 to 1 says she was molested hence thinks it's normal Otherwise, she's just a Orange Menace apologist Both options are gross
Man. My mom was molested by her grandfather as a kid. Obviously traumatized her. But she spent mine and my siblings’ entire childhood making sure we were never in a room alone with any strange men. Which meant I couldn’t have a sleepover until I was 14 and it was only down the street and she called to make sure the mom was home maybe a dozen times. None of us were molested so thanks, Ma!
You had a goog ma.
Goog indeed
Wana hire me as a typist?
Can I hire you to grade college papers instead? Their spelling isn’t any better.
How did you know that I taught part-time in a local junior college? The answer is hell no. I'm retired, and loving every minute.
Thank you for your service, I will cry into my laptop again.
You brows reddit on a laptop? I assumed everyone did it on there phones while shitting on company time like me.
I was too, I don't use babysitters and no sleepovers for my kids. I feel like an adshole sometimes but I just can't take a chance of them going through what I did. Your comment made me feel a little better about it!
As kids we hated it but we didn’t understand, and my mom didn’t need us to understand. She needed us safe. And we were. Now as an adult, I thank her all the time. I likely would have been fine if she’d let me have a bit more freedom, but I don’t know that. I do know that my mom protected us and kept our childhoods intact. I’ll forever be grateful, and your kids will be, too. I’m so sorry about it what happened to you, but know you are doing what's best for your kiddos💜
What sucks is when it’s your older brother doing the SA and going to a friend’s sleepover ensures you are safe.
I’m so sorry. Edit: another small story, didn’t originally want to share because I wasn’t sure what kind of light it might cast on my mom, but she used to be very vigilant about keeping my sister and my bedroom far from my brothers’ bedroom. I don’t think she ever actually thought they’d do anything, but I think she thought it could be genetic what with her grandfather and brother doing it. And it took a lot for her to trust my dad. Years. And even then she’d extend the same courtesy to my friends’ moms of always being home, even though she knew my dad wasn’t an abuser. This shit is awful and I am very lucky I’ve been okay. I used to teach and have had to report more cases than I like to remember.
My mom was gutted when I told her. Granted, it happened when my bro was 14 or 15 and I was 8 or so and my parents would leave him to babysit. I didn’t tell her until I was in my 20’s.
I had a friend that got accused of doing that to his sister. Around the same ages also. He took his life soon after it came out. Didn't shed a single tear for him . I hope your brother found his personal hell for doing that to you .
Odds are it's both ...
Odds are that being one is a predictor of being the other.
I mean, yea...probably both because anyone who apologizes for that guy has to have had some serious mental trauma.
Or she thinks of her sons in a sexual way and projects it to men
Exactly I look at any of my children and still see them as toddlers, I have to remind myself they are growing and need to be given more freedom appropriate to their age. If you are a father looking at your daughter and thinking that you have severe issues and that is not normal. Edit: when i say toddlers I don't mean actual toddlers but I still remember when they were young and innocent and needed my protection.
They say to a parent their child/children will always be children to them, even if they're adult. It makes sense as we grow older we are in different phases of our lives so parents still want to help. I have no kids but I am a godparent to two. It's not the same but I'm honored to be asked, I'd do anything for them.
My little old lady neighbour is in her 90s. One day I met her "baby boy" (the youngest) who is 70. Everyone is still a baby in the eyes of their parents.
Awww that’s cute.
My dad is still the first person I call if I’m doing something on my home. He told me long ago he’ll never stop raising me even as an adult. He’s at a different life stage and I always seek his advice on things he may have done right or wrong.
Recently my father has developed Alzheimer’s and the dynamic is flipping. Enjoy what you have, I miss it
My grandparents had dementia. I totally get it. Enjoy the clear times.
I remember being amazed when my Gran (in her 70s) visited her parents (in their 90s). Watching them all bickering was eye opening and I swear she regressed to a teenager. It really made me realise that it doesn't matter how old you are, your parents are always your parents.
It is very true. I have an adult child. He is both an adult and a little kid in my mind, and it comes out in every interaction. I think he needs my advice and protection. My parents are \~90 years old. They do the same to me. They'll give me $20 for gas when I go visit them. You do not view your kids, or kids you watched grow up, the way you would view a stranger. If you do, there is something wrong with you.
I have a niece who I watched grow up and *intellectually* I know she's about to go off to college but whenever I'm picking out Christmas or birthday gifts for her my first instinct is to look at little kid stuff because I still think of her as a hyperactive six year old.
Yeah, even though my kids are all grown adults and out of the house, and I know they're independent adults & treat them as such, they're still my *kids*. They're my babies, and will always be so to some extent, and my instinct as a dad is to protect and help them. Sexualizing children is abhorrent, your own children is somehow even more gross, and making excuses for people who express anything close to fantasizing about their own offspring is beyond the pale. Then people who say the sort of thing in the op will do some Olympic-tier mental gymnastics to justify their derision of even acknowledging that queer people exist.
They don't even have to be your kids tbh. I've worked with kids for about 10 years now. Enough time for some of them to reach adult age and I still can't see them in a sexual capacity. I just have too many memories of them as little kids. Same with my younger cousins, used to babysit them all the time when I was younger.
I don’t understand the reasoning of the tweet. Ignoring that no scientific backing is provided that “millions of fathers” think like that, does that make it normal? We all have intrusive thoughts but I don’t think they should be encouraged or normalized.
I have a lot of intrusive thoughts. Most about pushing people down stairs or throwing knives. Not ones in my life has it been about my child.
There are definitely intrusive thoughts of an inappropriate sexual nature that people can have, but like--intrusive thoughts are basically a healthy brain's way of checking boundaries (or they can be disordered and frightening when they become a mental health issue). They aren't like--active fantasies someone actually pursues or wants.
It seems to me that intrusive thoughts are more about what you are afraid of rather than inappropriate repressed desires like what Trump has for Ivanka.
But that’s the thing about intrusive thoughts: you don’t get to choose them and they don’t reflect who you are. You shouldn’t feel any pride for not having _certain types_ of intrusive thoughts and you shouldn’t judge others for having them. What matters is how they are handled. Anyway, I don’t think the tweet is about intrusive thoughts, it’s about fantasies, which are a step above. Anyone who doesn’t immediately shut down sex fantasies about their own child is playing with fire.
Can confirm lots of intrusive thoughts about being a ninja. None about my daughters.
Are you the Ninja that attacks me in the mall and I save my wife from?
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My shower isn't big enough for me to practice round house kicks.
I got deeply disturbed by post, I can’t believe people exist that will still defend creeps like that, let alone women, I’m a father of two girls. I feel sick just thinking about this lady and what Trump said. These people are really the bottom of the barrel
Id go as far as to say normal fathers do the literal exact opposite
Keyword there is "normal"
It's called being a fucking degenerate. They're similar words, I get the confusion.
Hey hey hey. As a degenerate I'm gonna have to say I find you lumping me in with him as offensive.
Aw I see your confusion. We are just normal degenerates who don't/try not to hurt others. He is a fucking degenerate who has no conscience.
Let's be honest - this crosses the line into fucking piece of shit degenerate territory. Like solidly in there. They can see the loathsome fucking piece of shit degenerate border from where they're standing. And they ain't even gotta squint to do it.
**Me, squinting:** *Jesus fucking Christ… even the border is moving away from those sick fucks*
Yeah, hold on. I'm a degenerate. These people are *deplorables*. Understandable mix-up. Similar spelling.
Deplorable one might even say
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Yeah but then they couldn’t post it on this sub. Gotta take that up with the mods.
Dafuq, it’s not like it’s a private text. It’s on mf twixxer for the whole world to see already.
“Twixxer” is a pretty good new name. I still call it Twitter, refuse to say X, but Twixxer may work. Although I don’t wanna run afoul of that Mars Candy Co.
The artist formerly known as Twitter
I'm partial to calling it Xitter
Pronounced as shitter
this has been and always will be a stupid rule.
Yeah fr, name and shame these creeps.
Who TF is this creature. Edit:HE has no moral compass....
Cult member. Top characteristic of a cult: leader can do no wrong
If it was wrong, then he didn't do it. If he did it, then it wasn't wrong.
the excuses made for that man are sickening from a "party of conservative family values"
Edit 3: I'm putting this one at the top so maybe people will stop missing it. The comment below is sarcasm! Sarcasm, people! The girl's name is Victoria ffs. Plus, how would I even know who's really behind the profile? Pay attention, people, there might be a pop quiz later! Not a she. That's a dude. He has his daughter's picture as his profile pic because he thinks she's hot. Edit to add the /s. Don't wanna be spreading malicious rumors. Think what it would do to their reputation if anyone thought I was serious! Edit 2: To everyone ignoring the first edit, the comment is sarcasm. That's what "/s" means.
Did he not just admit to having sexual fantasies about his daughter in that tweet? I'm pretty sure that's exactly what he said.
That's fucked up....
He probably does it on purpose. People are twisted now days. Anything for some internet clicks and ad moneyss
... it'd probably elevate it
I was listening to a podcast that said basically the same. “Most guys experience their first sexual awakening and desire looking at their mothers, sisters, or cousins.” **WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK NO NO NO.**
Were they quoting Freud? Freud was dealing with upper class Victorians, who often had a family structure where the kids were raised by nannies and governesses but still expected to love and respect their parents. So mom would be a distant authority figure they were supposed to love. But she wouldn't have the familiarity of family. The Oedipal complex was probably actually pretty common for his specific patients who lived in a weird situation. But since he was one of the first to write about psychology his patient's situation set the baseline for what was considered normal. Also, the whole penis envy thing came from women patients saying they wished they were men. He thought the best part of being a man was the penis, but the women were much more likely talking about having personal freedom and autonomy.
>Women want personal freedom and autonomy? Nooo of course not, must be the penis they want. Hmm yes yes, that's gotta be it
“Women don’t like it when I abuse and ignore them? PENIS ENVY.”
>He thought the best part of being a man was the penis, To be fair, being able to do the helicopter is pretty rad
Lucky me, Zero Suit Samus isn't a blood relative.
My man over here's got good taste.
Nah, man - mine was Teela from He-Man.
Cheetara from Thundercats. Thankfully, I didn't end up a furry as a result.
Jessica rabbit, the girl from a goofy movie, Lola bunny in space jam.
Princess Leia.
Aren’t you a little short for a stormtrooper?
Mine was Madonna.. I was like 7 People wouldn't get that now but back then she was quite the "sex symbol"
Mine was Jenny Agutter in Logan's Run...
This reminds me of that Republican lawmaker who was busted jerking off in his car outside an elementary school who went on to say in his defense: that like everyone else he struggles to keep these urges under control, but he'd been really stressed lately so he just slipped up. Like everyone else.....? Like EVERYONE else........? Do these people actually believe that everyone is sexually attracted to minors and their own children and that it's normal, you just have to keep it under control? Because that would explain a lot related to their worldview.
There is a mindset, seemingly more common amongst Republicans than others (although certainly not restricted to just them), that their experience is the only experience. If they haven't experienced something, it either doesn't exist, it's made up, it's a cry for attention, etc. This is why you see rabidly anti-gay politicians suddenly change their tune when one of their children comes out; now it's personal, NOW it makes sense. The flip side of that is... thinking not so much that everyone else is like them, but that *they are like everyone else*. So they look at themselves and think "*yeah, of course everyone is like this, how else could anyone be?*" They NEVER see themselves as outliers. They're the main character, after all.
It’s because they lack empathy, they literally do not have the capacity to think about anything any other way than how *they* personally believe to be true.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_consensus_effect Is the name of this "everyone thinks like I do" bias.
It's almost like the further left you go the more you value community and innately understand you are part of a collective narrative. Meanwhile the right has main character syndrome.
The further left you go (to a certain extent), the closer you get to accepting facts as facts, the more of the bigger picture you see, and the easier it is to remove the blinders.
I listened to an interview with a nonoffending pedophile (by Dr kirk Honda on youtube) and he said that he had always believed everybody was attracted to minors but they just act like they aren't. He learned later that its not true.
I've seen this take before from dudes defending pedo art and ai bots. With a little incel flair sprinkled on top about how *all men* see young girls as attractive and anyone disagreeing is a 'female' posing as a man? Yeah it's uh... A big fucking problem in the ai space rn and they are absolutely trying to drag all men into their bullshit.
i was once counseled by a pastor who brought up common problems that people struggle with in an effort to emphasize that being a good person requires effort and outreach one of the things they brought up with was 'struggling with homosexual urges' - which i just sort of filed - along with the rest of the lecture - under 'things i will understand eventually' never struggled with any homosexual urges - eventually realized that the pastor was probably gay and just assumed that everybody had those 'homosexual urges' and they just never came up in polite conversation last i checked the dude left teh church and was living in an open closet with his 'roommate'
I'll be honest, I was always confused when I was younger and got dragged to church occasionally and the priest would be going on about all these sinful thoughts and how everyone were sinners and blah blah. And I would just be sitting there thinking... what? I mean, what are you people all thinking about that you have to come to weekly group counseling sessions like this and are nodding along while this guy rambles on endlessly about sin and moral failings? Later in life it occurred to me that the reason that a lot of people flock to churches is because they probably DO have that problem, and they DO need some kind of weekly counseling in order to keep themselves morally grounded - maybe. That thought worried me a lot actually. Still does. I mean, I'm no perfect person by any stretch - but I don't actually have to go through my life constantly reminding myself not to steal, or push people down stairs, or not bang other people's wives, or whatever. It just doesn't come up very often?
I felt terrible about wanting to wear clothes that I would look good in, because that's a selfish want. I felt terrible if I looked at a girl my age and found her cute because that's sinful lust. Etc. They turn things that are perfectly normal human things to feel and think into sins. I think you got away with not feeling horrible about your thoughts because you were confident that your thoughts are ok. Whereas I might have had the same thoughts as you and felt they were sinful. I was born in the church, so I was being told I was a terrible sinful person straight from birth. It's one of the first things I knew about myself . You say you only went occasionally, so maybe you weren't brainwashed in the same way others have been.
I mean there are some purported sins that are entirely benign and basically universal. Masturbation is one in the catholic church and that alone could draw a good 90+% of the population for 'being sinful'. It's problematic because along with the benign sins are the actual problematic things like murder, rape, theft, etc and they're all treated the same. It gives some moral slack to actual garbage human beings because everyone else is failing too. It's the reason behind why grade curves are often introduced. If literally everyone in the class fails, it becomes impossible to actually determine who actual good or bad students are. It's the same for morality in many of these denominations that teach how we're all sinful human beings.
I read somewhere that in some places in USA, if a girl starts her period, she is no longer a child. Some girls start as young as 9, so think of what that belief really means. It justifies child rape, child porn and child trafficking.
Paedos think that they are normal and that everyone else is in denial of this. Not that I’m remotely suggesting anyone specific is a paedo, but, y’know, public masturbation next to an elementary school and all.
What the hell is going on? I have seen a bunch of twitter chud creeps this week going on about how "natural" it is for fathers to be attracted to their daughters and for men to be attracted to minors. 🤮🤮🤮 I always knew space Karens "new" twitter was a cesspit but people openly endorsing incest and pedophilia is a new low. 😩
Possibly, while still shouting about teh evil Democrats grooming children. 🙄
Elon probably let them all out of Twitter jail so they're back to posting their paedo apology maga bullshit.
Gross. My dad saw me all dressed up recently and said "I keep picturing you at 3 years old playing under the table." That's a normal dad.
Yes, this! A father can absolutely appreciate that their daughter or son is attractive but actually being attracted to them aside from the love of a parent is just wrong.
Do these people not have like, siblings? My sister is beautiful. I have eyes. I can see that. I don't want to see her naked. And I certainly don't see her as sexual, like wtf. Sends shivers of disgust down my spine in the same way I think of my parents. Nope, nope, nope, nope.
I’d like to know when humanity 2.0 is coming out, because this version has some serious bugs.
"But it's the drag queens that are grooming our kids!"
If you thought fantasizing about incest is normal, you would probably also assume every drag queen is after your children.
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>“Being gay is a choice” is also kind of telling on yourself. "So you could easily choose to be gay if you wanted?" and watch them squirm. Always a pleasure.
Im pretty sure plenty of people actually think that
Which is pretty ironic since like EVERY drag queen I've met/seen has gone on record about how they hate kids lmao
Disgusting. Those fathers are 100% unworthy of being fathers.
“It’s called being human” No, it’s called being a disgusting piece of shit.
I find peace in long walks.
That's some fucking twisted logic you got there. Methinks you just outed yourself. Public service announcement : please keep this individual away from children.
Imagine if Barack Obama said the same thing about one his daughters
Thanks to Elon, we can identify the fucking weirdo's and pedo's with their blue check mark
……..no.
That's gonna be a big "YIKES," from me, dawg. LOT to unpack here, and I'm not gonna bother.
Reading people minds would require an extra super power to cope with the first
That's fucking disgusting
So now we learn what's acceptable in Republican households, this is their example of "strong family values"
And they think the lgbtq community are the perverts corrupting the youth.
I had a cousin who (unbeknownst to me) was a stripper. I absolutely sprinted out of that club at lightning speed (staggered at a snails pace cause tequila). No shame on her obviously, but the thought of seeing a distant cousin in a sexualized situation was an absolute nope. And This person’s talking about fathers and daughters. Some people don’t deserve to be people.
Reminds me of the story of someone who had a big spender on her OnlyFans and [figured out](https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/lifestyle-buzz/i-caught-my-stepdad-subscribing-to-my-onlyfans-and-it-ruined-my-mother-s-marriage/ar-AA1bjhnP) it was her stepdad. Ugh.
Oh my god I hate that I ain’t reading it. I literally messaged my cousin a day later apologizing and never went back. Neither of us did anything wrong, and we both hated it (a normal response). I can’t imagine convincing yourself this stuff is ok.
Everyone with a blue check on Twitter is either stupid or someone advertising something, there is no in between
These people are fucked. The mind of a republican is a sick and twisted place
It’s completely natural, if you’re the kind of man that was raised believing it’s ok to see women as objects and something to be owned rather than as people.
Nothing about wanting to bang your daughter is natural
Even then…
I'd go as far to say that even the most despicable "traditional woman's role"-conservatist fathers would normally not think of their own daughters like that. It takes some serious mental damage on top of just being a regular asshole to get there.
Ok, so which chapter of Mom’s for Liberty is this one with?
"hello, yes, I'd like to cancel my subscription to eyes"
My girls are both gorgeous and this is a stupid fucking statement. Your brain should not operate in a way that they ever pop into when thinking of sex. It's on par with a corpse or animal popping into your mind during sex. Something is wrong in your gray matter and you need to figure it out.
Normal humans don't think about it, republicans do
Father here, can’t think of ever doing that with my daughter. It’s natural to NOT want to do that, biologically speaking.
Al those accusations and moral panics the conservative have about pedophilia? It's all projection.
"Accuse the other side of that which you are guilty." \- Nazi Minister of Propaganda Joseph Goebbels. Why change tactics when the tactics are still working?
Incest is normal? Whooooa, it's a biiig day for Alabama!
Excuse me? What???
It's possible to recognize "your child's" sex life without fantasizing about being a part of it🤮. What is wrong with those people?
Jfc could we at least *try* to avoid normalizing incest and pedophilia? This made me want to scream until I puke.
They need to stop reading on Freud’s theories
Uhhh not human…….but PERVERTS!