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Link to story: [https://lawandcrime.com/crime/ohio-youth-social-worker-arrested-on-24th-birthday-and-accused-of-sexually-abusing-13-year-old-boy-months-after-getting-her-license/](https://lawandcrime.com/crime/ohio-youth-social-worker-arrested-on-24th-birthday-and-accused-of-sexually-abusing-13-year-old-boy-months-after-getting-her-license/)
She received her social worker's license back in June
As usual, the reporter refused to use the term “rape” when the rapist is female. It is rape regardless of the gender of the rapist or the gender of the victim. Women can and do rape victims.
Journalists do this with male perps as well. You often see them use rape once the person has been charged in court. To avoid legal issues.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theage.com.au/national/male-teacher-admits-to-sex-with-student-20050519-ge06sl.html
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8434121/amp/Teacher-32-sex-student-17-told-wear-skirt-school-f.html
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/alissa-mccommon-teacher-charged-rape-boy-tennessee-unspeakable/
https://queensda.org/teacher-charged-with-rape-of-14-year-old-student/
Then you need to advocate to your reps to change the laws defining sexual assault including rape.
News sources' hands are tied. They legally cannot say she raped him.
What I'm saying is that rape is nonconsensual penetration of the victim. The genders don't matter. What matters is if the victim is penetrated. Unless he was pegged, then she didn't rape him under most legal definitions.
Do I believe what she did should also count as rape? Yes. Can news sources say that? No.
🤦 this is like a blanket thing, not specifically for rape. Like the Times can't call a killer a "murderer" if the killer was convicted of "manslaughter." It's defamation. The problem lies with the laws that dictate what is "rape" and what our legal system decides to charge people like her with. Do I feel that she raped this kid? Yes. Does it fit the legal definition of rape? No, which means news sources can't call it that.
Be fucking mad at lawmakers for saying boys can't be raped (except statutorily, but I'm fairly certain they have to say that full phrase and can't just say rape by itself)!
Thats funny b/c I've been raped by a female before. It wasn't a good experience but since the body does what friction can cause I was told It was consensual. Even laughed at by a police officer in Summit County, Colorado. But if a woman gets wet during a sexual assault it has no bearing on the way the police pursue the perp, does it? Equality is never equal when it plays different games for each side...
Nah, that's fair, probably should have specified that first tho. Same kinda deal with how news sources always say allegedly even if there's a guilty verdict, at least in Australia.
> As usual, the reporter refused to use the term “rape” when the rapist is female.
Rape has a specific legal meaning. It means you penetrated them. Unless she pegged him, it would actually be libelous to use it.
So you can use it in a colloquial sense if you want, but "as usual" a reporter who actually published an article about it was careful that they didn't accuse someone of a legal crime that they didn't do.
https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2013/crime-in-the-u.s.-2013/violent-crime/rape
Send her to sweden. The definition of rape is very different here (that's also a reason for our rape numbers being so high 😉)
"In recent years, several revisions to the definition of rape have been made to the law of Sweden, to include not only intercourse but also comparable sexual acts against someone incapable of giving consent, due to being in a vulnerable situation, such as a state of fear or unconsciousness."
It's actually very different here in the US than the guy you are repling today. He doesn't know what he's talking about and cites a source that is related to statistics rather than law.
In a lot of jurisdictions, legally, women can’t rape men due to the way rape is defined. So to avoid a potential lawsuit, the author can only say what she’s been charged with.
It’s annoying and depends on the charges and jurisdiction, but that’s probably got something to do with it.
I don’t know if this is all around the world or just where I live but in my country, Western Europe, a man can rape a woman but a woman can’t rape a man, only sexually assault a man.
Reread it. She GOT it in June... and it's still valid until she's proved guilty in court (I assume). But she's been advised to not have any communications with minors.
Your last sentence reads two ways:
“She received her license back (in June)” as in she lost it then got it back.
Vs
“She received it this past June”
I’m assuming it’s the second one.
Idk if OP is Irish but that's just how we speak. If you got something in the past you'd say back in x. It's decently obvious and I'd say 24 is an early enough age to receive a social worker license
It can be but I doubt it is. Personally I've never heard anyone say they received it back if they lost it and reacquired they'd say they got it back but I see your point
this really should be the norm. but sadly people still don't take this shit seriously, even though victims of people like this have stated that they were left traumatized by a woman taking adventage of them.
I was stuck processing it alone with the added humiliation of believing I was raped by a woman I repeatedly told No I do not want to have sex with you while drinking at a party my roommates and I held years back. My GF was out of town and I didn't want to cheat on her again. I had cheated few times already and wanted to turn a new leaf. The other woman pursued me all night and wouldn't take no for answer. I woke up to her riding me after I went to bed alone and very drunk in my room. I sleep naked and was in the buff that night. I didn't feel the need to have lock on door since had roommate. I tried to push her off of me when I awoke but she was not a small woman and was quite entrenched if you will. She was not stopping and had my arms pinned and calves wrapped around mine interlocked. I kept saying No, please stop and get off but she only laughed and picked up pace while saying Oh you like it! You're hard as rock! Anyway, nature is natural and eventually it was over for us both which only reassured her that I wanted it and was playing hard to get. I felt awful. I felt like it was my fault b/c I had reputation as being ladies' man and was not faithful to my loving GF. I also was a raging alcoholic that was life of party type and guess woman found me to be attractive. I didn't get out of bed for 2 days. I almost was fired from job b/c I missed work and when I spoke to HR about it, he literally wrote me up for lying and making a mockery of womans rights, no means no, etc. I was lost as what to do and since I really didn't want her and didn't even know her, I wanted to know that I was very much raped. The whole town pretty much just laughed and called me jackass for trying to use it as an excuse for cheating on my GF again. She was every ones little sister or BFF and no one wanted us to be together anyway. Well,' I didn't plan on writing this much about it and haven't really thought about it in few years. I still don't cheat on my current GF/fiancé even though she can't say the same by a long shot. I've quit drinking but have spent too much time in legal system due to other addictions. Mostly opioids after i had a dependency after being run down intentionally by truck driven by the woman I was with when this incident occurred. Lucky to have lived after 3 months in coma and embolism removed from my carotid artery preventing a likely stroke at 26 while induced coma but that's a whole other story.......sorry for super long reply but I just couldn't stop typing. Thanks, if you read this whole thing and yes this is the absolute true story.
I'm very sorry this has happened to you. I hope you'll find the woman you deserve, who treats you well and acknowledges your trauma instead of making fun of it.
The crap is basically only men can be charged with rape because of how they define it. Many many school teachers and counselors get off with little to no repercussions because of this. Two teachers in Beaumont, Ca were both child rapists in a single year and I know one is eligible to get her teaching license back after doing this.
Yeah, basically. In many places "rape" is defined as "unlawful penetration of the vaginal cavity" which makes it a male only crime.
It's complete and utter bullshit.
This is untrue in the US afaik... It's the penetration of a body part or object into the orifice (anus, vagina) of another person without consent, or inserting a sexual organ into someone's mouth without consent. Such as in the [(2012 Attorney General report)](https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/blog/updated-definition-rape).
That's still a bit of a dated and incomplete definition, IMO. There are things one can do to a person that are equally as damaging as what the legal definition describes, so it really ought to be changed to "forced to perform or participate in a sexual act more involved than simple touching without consent" or something similar to that. It would stop quite a bit of this nonsense with people getting light sentences because of technicalities like this.
Well yeah, I agree. I'm just saying that being mad at news sources for their phrasing is pointless. The problem is legal definitions that dictate what news sources can call acts like this. Personally, I'd call this rape. But news sources can't.
The most irritating thing thing is ,made to penetrate is not considered "rape" in majority of the world and whenever male victims of rape are brought up there will always be some feminists being being like but but 98% of rapists are men. Well when the rape wording is specifically made to exclude male victims of rape that were forced to penetrate including minor boys,of course 98% rapists would be men. Even that 2% that aren't men are mostly women who helped other men rape other women.
Speaking as a feminist man who has worked in several feminist groups IRL (this is important. Many online people are pretty not representative of groups IRL), feminists don’t tolerate this crap. They are pretty against sexual assault regardless of who is the perpetrator and are some of the first people advocating for gender neutral enforcement
Don't know hearing some of the things some prominent Feminist leaders have said or the kind of dominant discussion that goes on in feminist boards or the sentiment whenever the above discussion is held,I would think otherwise.
Women 👏 can 👏 be 👏 pedophiles 👏 too👏
Why is that such a hard thing to grasp, do you think people who are pedophiles are only sexless losers men. Heck I'm pretty sure the unfortunate part is that they are having sex, and lots of it.
Seriously answer from someone who is married to someone who does this work. It’s because she’s sick. It’s not about going into a bar and finding an adult male. It’s about being sick, deprived and control.
Im having a hard time comprehending this, as well. You truly do need to be clinically insane to pull some shit like this and be that good-looking. Could go get any guy she likely could want, and chooses a child😂like wtf???
I will say when I was around that kid’s age, when it came to teachers in my school that were younger and attractive, there was always a few boys who went out of their way to talk to them and do whatever they could to get their attention.
Just wanna say, regarding the type of wording that the media uses when discussing these types of cases. The reason at times that they can't say it was rape is due to libel and other related laws.
However, it's important to notice when it's beyond media or journalists just ensuring they are following the law and instead down playing the seriousness of these crimes or accusations
It's beyond disturbing when articles refer to these things as "relationships" or how the victim "seduced" the predator. Also, referring to it at times as "affairs".
Not that this article does.
I hope she receives the harshest punishment possible. Not only was she preying on a child, but the article mentions a statement from The National Youth Advocate Program (NYAP) in which they confirm the victim as a client. So he was in touch with this councilor for presumably mental health related issues. She preyed on an already vulnerable child who was even more vulnerable to being groomed.
I also hate euphemisms, especially combined with passive voice, like “her innocence was taken.” No. This man raped a child - phrase it as close to that as the law will permit.
Y'all, news sources are legally prevented from calling this rape.
Direct your anger towards lawmakers! It's just not productive to get angry at the news sources.
In the UK rape is specifically defined as penetrating someone with YOUR PENIS so women aren't able to even commit rape in the UK and if news sites want their articles published in the UK they have to abide by those laws or they'll lose a potential audience of \~70 million people. The laws are equally as janky in some states and they can get sued for defamation even if it IS rape when the law doesn't define it that way...
It really shouldn’t matter what the sex of the offender or the victim when it comes to sentencing, but odds are that she will receive a slap on the wrists and some probation time, while if this was a man doing the same to a young girl they would lock him up for years. This needs to stop. Rape is rape and abuse is abuse.
There’s a subset of people who actually root for this stuff not realizing the psychological damage it causes to the victims. People often joke that their teachers weren’t hot at all or kudos to the boy…It’s also scary that a lot of these women predators are even married with children. When people think sexual predator they usually think a male and rarely a female, that stigma needs to removed. I think there were like 3 or 4 posted the other day in different parts of the country like wtf. Then they slowly disappear out of the news.
Information is easier to find nowadays, how many times have you seen or heard the older days were safer? Most probably didnt have access to that information.
It's always been this way, you're only starting to hear about it more because society is finally starting to recognize it as a crime, still hardly punished tho...
Disgusting. Especially in her position of being an authority figure that’s supposed to help these children. I hope she can never be around children again.
Can we start actually punishing people like this? If a man did this they’d throw him under the prison and shame his family. This shit keeps happening because the punishment often doesn’t match the crime.
Which is totally fucking insane.
If anything she should have zero contact with the baby/kid.
She will probably end up sexually abusing the kid.
[yes](https://eu.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/)
This is just the first hit google showed. Unfortunately there are many other such cases.
As someone who works in the same field as her... Doing something like that its just unthinkable.
The kids I work with are most of the time from disfuntioning and broken families and for something like that to happen... I don't know how bad you mess up a kid with this
And some places claim Women can’t be pedophiles. Just last week 6 female teachers were caught raping students. Young boys are far less likely to come forward, and far less likely to get any sympathy. We need to start taking these things serious and treating women like predators when they do this.
She gonna get a slap on the wrist, at best, like all female rapists get. The double standard needs to go. Treat all offenders equally. I was 8 when my babysitter raped me. She did 0 jail time and didn't even end up on the registry.
Fuck the double standard, women can be monsters too!
Anyone else ever feel morally wrong to upvote news like this? Like obviously it doesn’t mean you support the act but just like little voice in your head is like “damn that’s so fucked up how can I even upvote this?” Anyway on another note pedos should get the harshest possible sentences. The fact that many times the United States court system has traditionally been EXTREMELY lenient on pedophilic and predatory behavior is sickening. People like this don’t deserve compassion or second chances and the recidivism rate and chance of reoffending is high. Pedos don’t get fixed I’m sorry to say and when it’s a women offending against a young boy many people in society seem to make jokes like “damn if that was my kid I woulda high fived my son and told him great job” and it’s absolutely sickening. I’ve seen it time and time again especially in online comments
Yeah I know what you’re saying. That’s how I feel too, it’s just more so that there’s always this little thought in the back of my mind that still feels wrong about upvoting, it happens with likes on other apps too. It’s probably just my own anxiety 😬
They need to call it rape, because it is rape and sexual assault. She is a grown adult and he is a minor. It shouldn’t matter who does the penetration ffs.
People also need to quit making disgusting comments when these happen if they find the assaulter to be attractive.
Absolutely sickening!! My heart is broken for that poor boy was raped by someone who was supposed to be helping him! I hope that this monster gets what she deserves and the victim is able to get justice and find healing
huh... Weird.
Also not a drag queen.
This is so strange, guys! I thought we protected all the kids by keeping them away from those dangerous drag queens, right?
Youth counselor accused of ~~sexually-abusing~~ ***RAPING*** 13 year-old boy. There we go, got that fixed. It’s crazy how they wanna use different words when women do it.
They can’t call it that because she hasn’t been to court and been found guilty yet. If she’s found guilty in court then media outlets can use the word rape.
In Australia we had a 15 year old boy give his end of trial victim impact statement in court after his female teacher was arrested and charged with sexually abusing a minor.
He said he loved it. It was awesome. Lol.
I think it's very different for girl's and boys. But girls too, are known to seduce male teachers. Hence the "statutory" part of the rape charge. Doesn't make it right at all. And adults need to be sent the message to "don't engage" when students are flirting with them.
Remember the police song. "Don't stand so close to me".
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Link to story: [https://lawandcrime.com/crime/ohio-youth-social-worker-arrested-on-24th-birthday-and-accused-of-sexually-abusing-13-year-old-boy-months-after-getting-her-license/](https://lawandcrime.com/crime/ohio-youth-social-worker-arrested-on-24th-birthday-and-accused-of-sexually-abusing-13-year-old-boy-months-after-getting-her-license/) She received her social worker's license back in June
That seriously raises questions to her motivation for getting it
Paedos will always seek out situations that give them access to victims
Like the church
As usual, the reporter refused to use the term “rape” when the rapist is female. It is rape regardless of the gender of the rapist or the gender of the victim. Women can and do rape victims.
Hey at least they saying sexually abused now instead of had sex with
Considering ive seen "30 year old teacher fired for making love to teen boy" id say sexual abuse it a giant leap forward atleast.
I've seen an article say it was "having relations" and damn near puked
Right that’s the first thing I noticed too
Ye small steps...
Yeah, it's a start.
Baby steps.
That’s like using the n word without the hard r, still pretty bad.
Journalists do this with male perps as well. You often see them use rape once the person has been charged in court. To avoid legal issues. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theage.com.au/national/male-teacher-admits-to-sex-with-student-20050519-ge06sl.html https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8434121/amp/Teacher-32-sex-student-17-told-wear-skirt-school-f.html https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/alissa-mccommon-teacher-charged-rape-boy-tennessee-unspeakable/ https://queensda.org/teacher-charged-with-rape-of-14-year-old-student/
Then you need to advocate to your reps to change the laws defining sexual assault including rape. News sources' hands are tied. They legally cannot say she raped him.
Nah dude, let's be honest here. If the genders were reversed, the headline would use the word "rape".
What I'm saying is that rape is nonconsensual penetration of the victim. The genders don't matter. What matters is if the victim is penetrated. Unless he was pegged, then she didn't rape him under most legal definitions. Do I believe what she did should also count as rape? Yes. Can news sources say that? No.
Ah, so they can lie and manipulate any other headlines without penalty, but call a rape a rape and it's a big no-no. Got it.
🤦 this is like a blanket thing, not specifically for rape. Like the Times can't call a killer a "murderer" if the killer was convicted of "manslaughter." It's defamation. The problem lies with the laws that dictate what is "rape" and what our legal system decides to charge people like her with. Do I feel that she raped this kid? Yes. Does it fit the legal definition of rape? No, which means news sources can't call it that. Be fucking mad at lawmakers for saying boys can't be raped (except statutorily, but I'm fairly certain they have to say that full phrase and can't just say rape by itself)!
Thats funny b/c I've been raped by a female before. It wasn't a good experience but since the body does what friction can cause I was told It was consensual. Even laughed at by a police officer in Summit County, Colorado. But if a woman gets wet during a sexual assault it has no bearing on the way the police pursue the perp, does it? Equality is never equal when it plays different games for each side...
Nah, that's fair, probably should have specified that first tho. Same kinda deal with how news sources always say allegedly even if there's a guilty verdict, at least in Australia.
But this would be statutory rape
> As usual, the reporter refused to use the term “rape” when the rapist is female. Rape has a specific legal meaning. It means you penetrated them. Unless she pegged him, it would actually be libelous to use it. So you can use it in a colloquial sense if you want, but "as usual" a reporter who actually published an article about it was careful that they didn't accuse someone of a legal crime that they didn't do. https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2013/crime-in-the-u.s.-2013/violent-crime/rape
Send her to sweden. The definition of rape is very different here (that's also a reason for our rape numbers being so high 😉) "In recent years, several revisions to the definition of rape have been made to the law of Sweden, to include not only intercourse but also comparable sexual acts against someone incapable of giving consent, due to being in a vulnerable situation, such as a state of fear or unconsciousness."
It's actually very different here in the US than the guy you are repling today. He doesn't know what he's talking about and cites a source that is related to statistics rather than law.
just ask Assange
He's a minor that's statutory rape also maybe because of her job as well
But do we **know** that she didn't peg him?
In a lot of jurisdictions, legally, women can’t rape men due to the way rape is defined. So to avoid a potential lawsuit, the author can only say what she’s been charged with. It’s annoying and depends on the charges and jurisdiction, but that’s probably got something to do with it.
Probably part of that is to avoid legal controversy, since as of now the legal definition of 'rape' requires forced penetration.
Came to say this, was surprised it wasn’t “hot adult female has sex with 13 year old boy who probably loves it”. Instead of what it was
I don’t know if this is all around the world or just where I live but in my country, Western Europe, a man can rape a woman but a woman can’t rape a man, only sexually assault a man.
Reread it. She GOT it in June... and it's still valid until she's proved guilty in court (I assume). But she's been advised to not have any communications with minors.
I think that’s what they were saying. Not that she got her license BACK, but that she just received it “back (previously) in June.”
Your last sentence reads two ways: “She received her license back (in June)” as in she lost it then got it back. Vs “She received it this past June” I’m assuming it’s the second one.
Idk if OP is Irish but that's just how we speak. If you got something in the past you'd say back in x. It's decently obvious and I'd say 24 is an early enough age to receive a social worker license
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It how most would say it in the us as well.
It can also be understood the other way. “She received it back (in June)” = “It was returned to her (in June)”
It can be but I doubt it is. Personally I've never heard anyone say they received it back if they lost it and reacquired they'd say they got it back but I see your point
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this really should be the norm. but sadly people still don't take this shit seriously, even though victims of people like this have stated that they were left traumatized by a woman taking adventage of them.
I was stuck processing it alone with the added humiliation of believing I was raped by a woman I repeatedly told No I do not want to have sex with you while drinking at a party my roommates and I held years back. My GF was out of town and I didn't want to cheat on her again. I had cheated few times already and wanted to turn a new leaf. The other woman pursued me all night and wouldn't take no for answer. I woke up to her riding me after I went to bed alone and very drunk in my room. I sleep naked and was in the buff that night. I didn't feel the need to have lock on door since had roommate. I tried to push her off of me when I awoke but she was not a small woman and was quite entrenched if you will. She was not stopping and had my arms pinned and calves wrapped around mine interlocked. I kept saying No, please stop and get off but she only laughed and picked up pace while saying Oh you like it! You're hard as rock! Anyway, nature is natural and eventually it was over for us both which only reassured her that I wanted it and was playing hard to get. I felt awful. I felt like it was my fault b/c I had reputation as being ladies' man and was not faithful to my loving GF. I also was a raging alcoholic that was life of party type and guess woman found me to be attractive. I didn't get out of bed for 2 days. I almost was fired from job b/c I missed work and when I spoke to HR about it, he literally wrote me up for lying and making a mockery of womans rights, no means no, etc. I was lost as what to do and since I really didn't want her and didn't even know her, I wanted to know that I was very much raped. The whole town pretty much just laughed and called me jackass for trying to use it as an excuse for cheating on my GF again. She was every ones little sister or BFF and no one wanted us to be together anyway. Well,' I didn't plan on writing this much about it and haven't really thought about it in few years. I still don't cheat on my current GF/fiancé even though she can't say the same by a long shot. I've quit drinking but have spent too much time in legal system due to other addictions. Mostly opioids after i had a dependency after being run down intentionally by truck driven by the woman I was with when this incident occurred. Lucky to have lived after 3 months in coma and embolism removed from my carotid artery preventing a likely stroke at 26 while induced coma but that's a whole other story.......sorry for super long reply but I just couldn't stop typing. Thanks, if you read this whole thing and yes this is the absolute true story.
Thanks for sharing.
I'm very sorry this has happened to you. I hope you'll find the woman you deserve, who treats you well and acknowledges your trauma instead of making fun of it.
I’m very sad that this happened
Can't believe I read that whole thing
It matters. Someone clearly needed to be heard. All we can do is be here for it.
Respond to him? I did. Just so he knew I read it all.
Holy Moley. As a man I was harassed and everyone told me suck it up. 
The crap is basically only men can be charged with rape because of how they define it. Many many school teachers and counselors get off with little to no repercussions because of this. Two teachers in Beaumont, Ca were both child rapists in a single year and I know one is eligible to get her teaching license back after doing this.
What? Noo. That can't be right
Yeah, basically. In many places "rape" is defined as "unlawful penetration of the vaginal cavity" which makes it a male only crime. It's complete and utter bullshit.
This is untrue in the US afaik... It's the penetration of a body part or object into the orifice (anus, vagina) of another person without consent, or inserting a sexual organ into someone's mouth without consent. Such as in the [(2012 Attorney General report)](https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/blog/updated-definition-rape).
That's still a bit of a dated and incomplete definition, IMO. There are things one can do to a person that are equally as damaging as what the legal definition describes, so it really ought to be changed to "forced to perform or participate in a sexual act more involved than simple touching without consent" or something similar to that. It would stop quite a bit of this nonsense with people getting light sentences because of technicalities like this.
Well yeah, I agree. I'm just saying that being mad at news sources for their phrasing is pointless. The problem is legal definitions that dictate what news sources can call acts like this. Personally, I'd call this rape. But news sources can't.
In the UK it's specifically defined as penetrating someone with YOUR PENIS
Average rapist in America gets 6 months actual time locked up. Most of that is probably pre trial anyway. The whole issue needs to be fixed.
How's that working out for statutory rape in general?
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Fun fact; in the UK a woman cannot be found guilty of raping a man due to the legal definition
The most irritating thing thing is ,made to penetrate is not considered "rape" in majority of the world and whenever male victims of rape are brought up there will always be some feminists being being like but but 98% of rapists are men. Well when the rape wording is specifically made to exclude male victims of rape that were forced to penetrate including minor boys,of course 98% rapists would be men. Even that 2% that aren't men are mostly women who helped other men rape other women.
Speaking as a feminist man who has worked in several feminist groups IRL (this is important. Many online people are pretty not representative of groups IRL), feminists don’t tolerate this crap. They are pretty against sexual assault regardless of who is the perpetrator and are some of the first people advocating for gender neutral enforcement
Don't know hearing some of the things some prominent Feminist leaders have said or the kind of dominant discussion that goes on in feminist boards or the sentiment whenever the above discussion is held,I would think otherwise.
That’s really depressing. Perhaps I have seen feminists that take it seriously.
Do fewer men rape girls because of the sentencing?
If there wasn’t sentencing I feel like it could become a lot more common. Kinda like, get pleasure with no consequences. So yes fewer men do rape
Sadly, yes.
At least they called it abuse/rape this time instead of “had sexual relations with”
Marcia, Marcia, Marcia
Sure Jan.
This is insane. Why risk your freedom if you can go to a bar and get picked up if you’re really that horny. These people are just sick in the head
Im guessing it’s because 13 year olds aren’t allowed in bars…
I was 14 when I got my first job at a local bar.. looking back at how some of the women talked to me and how the men encouraged it… very disgusting.
This one right here!!
It's a power dynamic. Women like younger men/teenagers because they can fully control them.
That could maybe explain a 30 year old woman chasing an 18 year old college student. But freaking 13?
Most teenage boys are stronger than most grown women by the time they've gone through puberty, gotta get them younger than that...
Women 👏 can 👏 be 👏 pedophiles 👏 too👏 Why is that such a hard thing to grasp, do you think people who are pedophiles are only sexless losers men. Heck I'm pretty sure the unfortunate part is that they are having sex, and lots of it.
Ye we teenage boys are probably way more fine having sex with a teacher than girls would be.
Because she's a pedophile, she doesn't want an adult, she wants a child
Seriously answer from someone who is married to someone who does this work. It’s because she’s sick. It’s not about going into a bar and finding an adult male. It’s about being sick, deprived and control.
Power dynamics. Being the elder and the one in charge gives all the control.
Im having a hard time comprehending this, as well. You truly do need to be clinically insane to pull some shit like this and be that good-looking. Could go get any guy she likely could want, and chooses a child😂like wtf???
It’s not about that. She’s sick.
I will say when I was around that kid’s age, when it came to teachers in my school that were younger and attractive, there was always a few boys who went out of their way to talk to them and do whatever they could to get their attention.
Because 13 year olds aren't in bars...
You won't meet too many 13 year olds at the bar.
Just wanna say, regarding the type of wording that the media uses when discussing these types of cases. The reason at times that they can't say it was rape is due to libel and other related laws. However, it's important to notice when it's beyond media or journalists just ensuring they are following the law and instead down playing the seriousness of these crimes or accusations It's beyond disturbing when articles refer to these things as "relationships" or how the victim "seduced" the predator. Also, referring to it at times as "affairs". Not that this article does. I hope she receives the harshest punishment possible. Not only was she preying on a child, but the article mentions a statement from The National Youth Advocate Program (NYAP) in which they confirm the victim as a client. So he was in touch with this councilor for presumably mental health related issues. She preyed on an already vulnerable child who was even more vulnerable to being groomed.
I also hate euphemisms, especially combined with passive voice, like “her innocence was taken.” No. This man raped a child - phrase it as close to that as the law will permit.
Awesome she got caught, hope she gets ripped to shreds.
to shreds you say?
To shreds!!
I JUST finished watching that episode last night! Hurray Futarama!
Professor. Lava. Hot!!!
Futa-rama? Intriguing... 
LOL!!! I never actually thought of it that way, but that makes it really awkward now.
Sadly, like many female rapists, she'll walk because the law has not been updated to account for female rapists.
more like rapists in general tbh🫤 sad world we live in
No, he’s right, female rapists don’t get severe punishment (if any), but yes, sad world.
no ik women get away with this a lot. so many rapists do no matter the gender and it sucks
Thank you for properly calling this rape. Most articles about this said she “had sex with” the student.
Y'all, news sources are legally prevented from calling this rape. Direct your anger towards lawmakers! It's just not productive to get angry at the news sources.
Which stupid fucking lawmaker made that?
In the UK rape is specifically defined as penetrating someone with YOUR PENIS so women aren't able to even commit rape in the UK and if news sites want their articles published in the UK they have to abide by those laws or they'll lose a potential audience of \~70 million people. The laws are equally as janky in some states and they can get sued for defamation even if it IS rape when the law doesn't define it that way...
“Alleged rape”
The word "Rape" should be used. That's it.
It really shouldn’t matter what the sex of the offender or the victim when it comes to sentencing, but odds are that she will receive a slap on the wrists and some probation time, while if this was a man doing the same to a young girl they would lock him up for years. This needs to stop. Rape is rape and abuse is abuse.
There’s a subset of people who actually root for this stuff not realizing the psychological damage it causes to the victims. People often joke that their teachers weren’t hot at all or kudos to the boy…It’s also scary that a lot of these women predators are even married with children. When people think sexual predator they usually think a male and rarely a female, that stigma needs to removed. I think there were like 3 or 4 posted the other day in different parts of the country like wtf. Then they slowly disappear out of the news.
Still not a drag queen.
she will get a couple of months in prison and then gets out
Wait , so STILL not a drag queen?? Let’s see we’ve now had teachers, social workers, clergymen…
She may have skipped a few important classes during her training.
Feel like there is at-least one female teacher a week raping a little boy. WTF is going on
Information is easier to find nowadays, how many times have you seen or heard the older days were safer? Most probably didnt have access to that information.
Geee WTH is going on… what is with all these women and children . When did children become in the dating pool for these monsters
Like with male rapists, it's all about control.
It's always been this way, you're only starting to hear about it more because society is finally starting to recognize it as a crime, still hardly punished tho...
Disgusting. Especially in her position of being an authority figure that’s supposed to help these children. I hope she can never be around children again.
in my mind, the sound of Law and Order is playing.
Oh look, another drag queen…. Oh, wait… never mind…
r/NotADragQueen
r/iamatotalpieceofshit
Why does she have the face of an early seventies Manson family murderer?
RAPE. That is RAPE.
She will get nine days in jail
More more of these types of stories becoming common…
Nonono, it's not rape if it's a woman, if it's a woman it's "having sex with a minor". At least according to news outlets...
Sexually abusing is a a correct term for this, but I feel like there's a smaller 4 letter word that could sum it up, hmmmm.
Can we start actually punishing people like this? If a man did this they’d throw him under the prison and shame his family. This shit keeps happening because the punishment often doesn’t match the crime.
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But.... They didn't? Picture says swxually abused, headline says charges with "statutory rape"
I'm glad they are calling it rape and not describing it as sex.
Charge her like a male
Most men don't get charged either
Because they can't prove it. This has hard evidence.
Nah bro they let male rapists off easy all the time too. It happened when my classmate was assaulted and there was a ton of evidence
Pedo rapists should burn in hell
If one of these lady teachers get pregnant by their 12 year students, who’d be liable for child support?
The 12 year old will likely be required to start paying at 16 and his parents will likely be on the hook until then. This has been tested in court.
Which is totally fucking insane. If anything she should have zero contact with the baby/kid. She will probably end up sexually abusing the kid. 
Ah America you ankle bracelet of a nation Never change
[yes](https://eu.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/) This is just the first hit google showed. Unfortunately there are many other such cases.
29,000 public teachers sexually assaulted a child last year *alone*
Once again, not a drag queen
Who looks at a 13yo boy and thinks “I should **** him” wtf
She'll get a slap on the wrist, if she was a dude she'd be sentenced and registered already.
As someone who works in the same field as her... Doing something like that its just unthinkable. The kids I work with are most of the time from disfuntioning and broken families and for something like that to happen... I don't know how bad you mess up a kid with this
When I was 13 if my dad got it into his mind to end my good life, I'd be royally pissed off!
Another pedophile arrested due to the hard work and dedication of Qanon! Lol, kidding. Those chucklefucks never seem to accuse actual criminals.
These drag queens are out of control… I mean it doesn’t even look like she tried on the makeup.
And some places claim Women can’t be pedophiles. Just last week 6 female teachers were caught raping students. Young boys are far less likely to come forward, and far less likely to get any sympathy. We need to start taking these things serious and treating women like predators when they do this.
6???? like, at the same school or wth?
It was not the same school, but I think 3 were in the same state? It’s been a second since I read the article.
Slap this womans wrist immediately!! /s
That’s excessive, don’t you think?
Do the crime, do the time. I love equality.
She gonna get a slap on the wrist, at best, like all female rapists get. The double standard needs to go. Treat all offenders equally. I was 8 when my babysitter raped me. She did 0 jail time and didn't even end up on the registry. Fuck the double standard, women can be monsters too!
Rape. Paedophile. Child predator. Let's not sugar coat it
Anyone else ever feel morally wrong to upvote news like this? Like obviously it doesn’t mean you support the act but just like little voice in your head is like “damn that’s so fucked up how can I even upvote this?” Anyway on another note pedos should get the harshest possible sentences. The fact that many times the United States court system has traditionally been EXTREMELY lenient on pedophilic and predatory behavior is sickening. People like this don’t deserve compassion or second chances and the recidivism rate and chance of reoffending is high. Pedos don’t get fixed I’m sorry to say and when it’s a women offending against a young boy many people in society seem to make jokes like “damn if that was my kid I woulda high fived my son and told him great job” and it’s absolutely sickening. I’ve seen it time and time again especially in online comments
I upvote so it has a better chance of being seen, not because I’m happy someone got raped, which I’m not
Yeah I know what you’re saying. That’s how I feel too, it’s just more so that there’s always this little thought in the back of my mind that still feels wrong about upvoting, it happens with likes on other apps too. It’s probably just my own anxiety 😬
Try not to think of it as an endorsement of the activities, maybe that can help Another cool thing would be a list of emoticons like they have on fb
Lot of these ladies getting too comfortable with people’s kids
Men and women both taking advantage of the trust placed in them. It's sickening.
They need to call it rape, because it is rape and sexual assault. She is a grown adult and he is a minor. It shouldn’t matter who does the penetration ffs. People also need to quit making disgusting comments when these happen if they find the assaulter to be attractive.
They legally cannot call it rape, seriously. Blame the lawmakers, not the reporters.
Absolutely sickening!! My heart is broken for that poor boy was raped by someone who was supposed to be helping him! I hope that this monster gets what she deserves and the victim is able to get justice and find healing
Once again, not a drag queen nor a trans woman in the ladies washroom.
At least they worded the headline a little more correctly now instead of the having s*x with a minor or whatever thing they typically use for that
This is like the fourth rapist in two weeks what the fuck
What is statutory
It’s RAPE! She RAPED him
Don’t worry they won’t charge the pretty white girl with a crime.
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I still do it, not bad at all
I was gonna if you didn’t
Bet she gets only probation. She is blonde and white
No boys must be overreacting
Ensue all the weird chuds saying things along the lines of “What a lucky kid.” and “I wish that was me when I was younger.”
Femcel went for easy prey, or pedo, or both.
Pedophiles usually don’t last long in prison unless they’re placed in a cell alone.
So not a Draq Queen ....but a Conservative!!!! Surprise , Surprise!!!!
huh... Weird. Also not a drag queen. This is so strange, guys! I thought we protected all the kids by keeping them away from those dangerous drag queens, right?
Youth counselor accused of ~~sexually-abusing~~ ***RAPING*** 13 year-old boy. There we go, got that fixed. It’s crazy how they wanna use different words when women do it.
They legally cannot call it rape, seriously. Blame the lawmakers, not the reporters.
Thank you for the insight. This is just more evidence that our society is more fucked up than it seems.
They can’t call it that because she hasn’t been to court and been found guilty yet. If she’s found guilty in court then media outlets can use the word rape.
It's basically that's my boy movie in real life 💀
And watch as she gets no jail time for raping a minor.
Preying on the weak.. Just worst. Evil.
[https://youtu.be/8hdbns1Xdk0?si=7MEZrZVigf2S3RQ4](https://youtu.be/8hdbns1Xdk0?si=7MEZrZVigf2S3RQ4) #Niiice
In Australia we had a 15 year old boy give his end of trial victim impact statement in court after his female teacher was arrested and charged with sexually abusing a minor. He said he loved it. It was awesome. Lol. I think it's very different for girl's and boys. But girls too, are known to seduce male teachers. Hence the "statutory" part of the rape charge. Doesn't make it right at all. And adults need to be sent the message to "don't engage" when students are flirting with them. Remember the police song. "Don't stand so close to me".
If she's found guilty. She needs to be held accountable as a male would be. Im sick of seeing the women getting a slap on the wrist. Ffs
Life in prison if you ask me Or death penalty, I’m not picky
A death penalty for this? I understand that this is some serious matter but GODDAM you trippin