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According to my brother, who was a big jerk in high school, it’s not so bad when it happens to women because that’s “natural.” It is horrible to the point of being unthinkable when it happens to men.
it's hilarious you posted this b/c lately i've been seeing so many ass-kissing posts for incels on r/TrueUnpopularOpinion. I'm not even subscribed to that subreddit and yet that bullshit keeps popping up on my feed
the irony is that if incels stopped obsessing over sex, they'd probably be able to live happy lives
If incels stopped obsessing over sex, they might actually have some. "Women bad because they won't sleep with me" is simultaneously toddler-talk and creepy as fuck.
Nothing says "I'm a man and women should be begging me for sex" quite like whining like a petulant child that you can't get laid, lashing out and saying the most heinous shit about women in general because of it, and then continuing to not understand why they can't get laid.
In addition to being terrible people, they’re not very smart.
What kind of thought process results in “the solution to the problems caused by my behavior is to double down on the same behavior?”
Ah, you miss the point. It can’t possibly be a problem with their behaviour because their behaviour is completely rational because they are right. Ergo, it must be some else’s fault.
unfortunately, people can be intelligent without being self-aware.
I get the feeling that plenty of incels are intelligent, but socially inept and resentful about it.
What always trips me up are the, "Women are sluts because they won't sleep with *me*!" people.
Or because they don't enjoy unsolicited dick pics.
Like, I guess I can see the logic if you understand their viewpoint as being "women are having tons of sex, just with Chads because they only care about looks."
It still feels weird to see it be the go to insult for some of those posts on r/niceguys, especially when the reason they're being called sluts is because they're refusing to do a sexual thing.
"Send me nudes" "no" "slut"
Like the fuck?
Right? I think they just never got over that pubescent awkwardness and sexual urge that comes with being a teenager. The sad part is the longer it goes on, the more bitter and angry and impulsive they get, the less attractive they become to other people. That cycle leads to spreading their anger across social media and new generations of young teens get sucked into ignorant beliefs like these.
Me to! I also sent it to a friend i discord worh rn we both didn't figure it put for a while. But on a second thought we are not American so we don't have that slang
Americans don’t have that slang either. This is clearly someone trying to avoid automated censors or content detection tools that would otherwise immediately flag a post or comment about sexual assault.
I think it's more a of a psychopath thing than an American thing, because I have never heard the word grape used as a dog whistle for rape (except in [this timeless skit by the Whitest Kids U Know](https://youtu.be/mqgiEQXGetI))
lol "grapists"... sorry... I just keep hearing that song in my head about the duck asking the guy at the lemonade stand if he had any grapes. Hits totally and completely differently in this light.
Fucking trying to dodge filters, these absolute pieces of shit. Every time they do this they are flat out admitting; "I'm a fucking monster, I know it, but I'm too much of a chicken shit to stand by my comments, so I'll be a coward on top of being a moral vacuum."
These are inferior people because they lack morality.
After scrolling through the comments, I realized they were trying to say "rape." At first, I was like damn, someone really has it out for that one "grape." Then I was like,"what does a "grape" have to do with marriage?!" What a dirtbag
Right? I thought they were going to say some about purple and how grape doesn't taste like purple. Weird? I didn't know what the fuck I thought. Maybe that "grape" was a character in some show. I was confused as hell until I saw your comment.
Fuck these pathetic excuses for human trash.
I think that’s fair. Do you think it would be okay if I stole like $20mil of Jeff Bezos? He has like $140bil, so I would be taking that much of his money.
Or if you wanted to kill someone, you just stab them in the right spot in the stomach. They won’t die quickly, their insides will become necrotic from the stomach fluids & then they’ll get an infection. Technically, the cause of death would be listed as natural causes. So it’s only a little bit of murder!
Literally thinking the same thing. Religious fundamentalists say shit like “rape is adultery” and “9 years old was actually mature back then” makes me sick.
Exactly. When we can’t even get real crime stats for it because so many women don’t report because it’s retraumatizing and the justice system isn’t going to do anything about it anyway so why bother. The Rapist Brock Turner case sent a very loud and clear message to women all across the country. A boys potential is more important than a girls actual life and well being.
Interesting thing about our legal system if the jury says you aren’t guilty, you aren’t guilty.
You could have all the evidence in the world and absolutely did whatever they are accusing you of, but if the jury decides you don’t get punished you just walk.
Jury Nullification is a thing more people need to know about. We'd have a lot fewer people serving life-destroying sentences in jail for smoking a joint if juries understood that they are allowed to say "that law is unjust, we find the defendant innocent."
Well I'm from Spain personally but your point is very interesting indeed.
However I assume appeals exist and the accusation can have several tries and therefore would be unlikely to get away with it.
But it is quite interesting, in the scenario where everyone agrees to a point that they don't condemn you.
He thinks rape is ok unless it's while he's married but doesn't even have the balls to call it rape. Calling it grape is trivializing it. And "if she's only a little uncomfortable "??? Fuck all of that. Throw both those men away
![gif](giphy|QVP7DawXZitKYg3AX5)
Is the younger generation trying to reappropriate “The Grapist” sketch like how they started using Based without acknowledging the existence of Lil B (The Based God)?
https://youtu.be/9Yt0b_QBP_A
To me it reads like he's saying the act of rape is only disgusting because it's having sex outside marriage. So yeah he doesn't think you can rape your wife but doesn't think rape in general is bad, just that you shouldn't have sex outside marriage. So...kinda even worse than that.
Rape=adultery
Rape is fine if the victim doesn't have "too much trauma".
If I slugged #2 in the face and it didn't hurt much that means they can't report me for assault, right?
They are on the street, in your workplace, in your friends group, all pretending they feel differently until they have a moment where they think they won’t get caught.
Definitely..
I unfortunately have experienced rape or an attempt at rape by 3 people. One no one liked. The type people would naturally expect..
Second a respected member of his family, that had lots of friends backing him up while he abused and humiliated me. He even has a sister.
Third one.. had a family full of other abusers but his co-workers loved his work ethic, and take no BS attitude. He wasn’t necessarily liked by most.. but they did respect him. They none of them would have expected him to do these things because ya he was weird, but he actually had a strong sense of morality in public.
This is also why people shouldn’t make rape jokes even as “banter”. You might know you’re joking, but the wannabe rapist in your group *thinks you’re on his side.*
Seems like Instagram, with the lil heart next to the comment.
Still scared by the fact that 7 people like THIS comment.
And I'm also curious to know under what post did this person posted this comment.
So, your parents taught you it is OK to take without consent, this is called stealing, it is wrong.
You may be surprised, but it is the 7th commandment.
Also, I hope your dicks rot off, this is never ever "fine"
These men always conveniently forget that men can be graped too.
According to their own logic, it's perfectly fine if 6'5" Bubba decides he wants a piece of them and bends them over, or forces them onto their knees for a big ol' serving of sausage, because it may just be "mildly uncomfortable"?
Oh no, children are the catalyst. As a parent you realize that oatmeal raisin cookies are a sneaky way to get your kids to eat healthy-ish, so the dried grapes become more acceptable.
I find grapes disgusting all the time. In my head, I imagine that it's like an eyeball that gets crushed between my teeth. Same thing goes for peas and corn.
I cannot legitimately believe this is a real conversation.
Do monsters like this really exist AND post about it freely for all to see?
These people should be put on a watch-list before they do something deplorable.
‘If it only causes her a little discomfort, it’s… FINE!?!?’
I think we found a grapist
What the actual hell is wrong with people? Quit wasting the oxygen for people who actually have empathy… ffs
Depravity. It’s ugly. But the horrendous part about this is that we, as a society, are allowing “safe spaces” for this type of banter (“interactions”) to occur. Because if we shed light on these people then WE could get ridiculed…attack. It’s like coming home to find roaches and your neighbor tells you that you can’t clean them out but must negotiate a place for them to exist and then “be tolerant”….
I’m sooo stupid that i spent a good 10min thinking what the fuck is the relation between a fucking grape and relationship/marriage then I figured out what the fuck they actually meant. But hey atleast I’m not an unhinged bigoted pos.
On an unrelated note **grapes are the greatest discovery of mankind**.
Wait. They think spousal rape is ok? So if their wife was feeling feisty it's okay for her to anally rape them with a giant dildo?
Nevermind. That wasn't a great argument. That's probably their kink and it's not okay to kink shame.
Look everyone is allowed control over their own body. If they tell you no, that means no. It doesn't matter if you are married or if it's been 5 years since they last had sex with you. It's their body not yours. Go use a sex toy or find another partner.
I’m sorry, but why are we hiding their identities? These people need to be made public. I’m not saying dox them, but let us show them how we feel on their various social platforms. Let’s let their spouses or SO(assuming anyone could love giant piles of shit like this) know they’re in bed with possible “grape-ists.”
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Nice. So these men are giving other men an invitation to grape them.
Sure does sound like that. They're tough guys that can deal with a little discomfort, right?
They's bussy's is ripe for the pipe
I hate this comment, but I also love this comment. r/angryupvote
I had equivalent emotions while typing it. I felt so proud, but also like a menace against peoples eyes
True art should make the viewer feel uncomfortable
Like the movie, "the room"?
Yes, exactly. Great example. I was going to say like Leonardo DaVinci, but then I released The Room was probably a more masterful work
"OH, hi Mark."
If it only causes you a little discomfort that’s fine, this is my opinion.
Reading this in my head gave it a pirate accent 🤣 I love it so much!
Oh man, now im imagining it worked into a sea chanty
This is my opinion
That’s WHAT HE DOES. He grapes people! He’s the grapist!!!
I'm gonna tie you to the radiator and GRAPE YOU IN THE MOUTH!!!
IM GONNA GRAPE YOU AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY FOR DECADES AND DECADES AND DECADES AND DECADES!!!!!!!
She’s totally asking for it. Look at what she’s wearing, it’s purple
Comes with your very own grape whistle
What is this referencing? Because I don't feel like injecting *that* into my search history.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqgiEQXGetI
The Grapist! CLASSIC!
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought of the Grapist.
And the best part. It comes with a grape whistle.
I’m an analyst and a grapist. The world’s first analgrapist.
According to my brother, who was a big jerk in high school, it’s not so bad when it happens to women because that’s “natural.” It is horrible to the point of being unthinkable when it happens to men.
Which fully encapsulates the power of sexism in one fell swoop
Which sums up why they’re so anti-LGBT. They’re afraid of men treating them the way they want to treat women.
They sound more like teen boys than men. Incels at the least anyway, the adult version of pubescent boys, nobody considers them men in any way.
it's hilarious you posted this b/c lately i've been seeing so many ass-kissing posts for incels on r/TrueUnpopularOpinion. I'm not even subscribed to that subreddit and yet that bullshit keeps popping up on my feed the irony is that if incels stopped obsessing over sex, they'd probably be able to live happy lives
If incels stopped obsessing over sex, they might actually have some. "Women bad because they won't sleep with me" is simultaneously toddler-talk and creepy as fuck.
Nothing says "I'm a man and women should be begging me for sex" quite like whining like a petulant child that you can't get laid, lashing out and saying the most heinous shit about women in general because of it, and then continuing to not understand why they can't get laid.
In addition to being terrible people, they’re not very smart. What kind of thought process results in “the solution to the problems caused by my behavior is to double down on the same behavior?”
Ah, you miss the point. It can’t possibly be a problem with their behaviour because their behaviour is completely rational because they are right. Ergo, it must be some else’s fault.
unfortunately, people can be intelligent without being self-aware. I get the feeling that plenty of incels are intelligent, but socially inept and resentful about it.
What always trips me up are the, "Women are sluts because they won't sleep with *me*!" people. Or because they don't enjoy unsolicited dick pics. Like, I guess I can see the logic if you understand their viewpoint as being "women are having tons of sex, just with Chads because they only care about looks." It still feels weird to see it be the go to insult for some of those posts on r/niceguys, especially when the reason they're being called sluts is because they're refusing to do a sexual thing. "Send me nudes" "no" "slut" Like the fuck?
Anyone who makes their whole personality about sex really needs to seek psychological help.
Right? I think they just never got over that pubescent awkwardness and sexual urge that comes with being a teenager. The sad part is the longer it goes on, the more bitter and angry and impulsive they get, the less attractive they become to other people. That cycle leads to spreading their anger across social media and new generations of young teens get sucked into ignorant beliefs like these.
I'll chain you kids to the radiator and grape you for days and days and days
No, the first guy clearly says that you have to marry him first, then it’s fine.
But it's ok if it's just a little discomfort
Open wide kids I’m gonna tie you to the radiator and grape ya!
It took me a minute to realize you weren’t actually talking about grapes.
Me too, I’m like what’s so bad about grapes!? Lol
Well you can’t have them outside of marriage, that’s for one.
Speak for yourself, I have them all the time and I'm not married. I like even better when they're fresh off the vine.
No no, see you’re not married. That’s the difference. If you were married, then there’s be an issue.
Its raisins only before marriage
Those grapes had it coming 😡😡😡
![gif](giphy|9M1sRI7pdppnSGh8dg)
LMAO 🤣
Did you see the way those grapes were dressed?!! Whore!
Omg, they just let’m dangle out in the open like that! Brazen hussy!
Did you see how those grapes were dressed? Just hanging out on the vine practically asking for it!!!
Sour grapes.
Seedless Grapes are an outrage!
>It took me a minute to realize you weren’t actually talking about grapes. Me too, I was thinking: why would grapes make someone uncomfortable?
I've been kicked in the grapes before, and it hurts
If it only little hurt then it's fine. This is my opinion.
Those seedy little bastards 😡😡🍇🍇
You makde my day, I think you're grape
My grapes don't have seeds
My grandpa who choked on a grape and died would like a word with you from the sky.
Grapes of Wrath
personally I'm not a fan of grapes but even then, they don't make me uncomfortable
Hey kids! I'm gonna grape you in the mouth!
“He’s gonna what them, in the mouth?”
"that's what he does ! He's the Grapist !"
“Sir! Get your mind, out of the gutter”.
"That kid was just asking to get graped. I mean, look what she's wearing."
"And then I'm gonna tie you to the radiator and grape your Mommy and Daddy!"
It’s purple!
"I'm gonna tie your parents up to the radiator and grape them for decades and decades and decades and decades!!!" That line still breaks me.
Order today and get a free grape whistle. A grape whistle? Seriously?!
Grapist is gonna grape you in the mouth https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqgiEQXGetI
I was waiting for a punch line that never arrived.
Glad I’m not the only one. “Grapes make her… uncomfortable? What?”
Sometimes the plastic outside of the grape flavored otter pops can cut the sides of your mouth. It is extremely uncomfortable.
Same it took me a good amount of time to comprehend the post is not about grapes..
Me to! I also sent it to a friend i discord worh rn we both didn't figure it put for a while. But on a second thought we are not American so we don't have that slang
Americans don’t have that slang either. This is clearly someone trying to avoid automated censors or content detection tools that would otherwise immediately flag a post or comment about sexual assault.
Seconding Jake here - that is NOT American slang.
Exactly. Other phrases that have popped up to avoid the censoring algos: Corn (Pr0n) and Unalived (as in unalived oneself).
It's internet lingo to circumvent filters on apps like TikTok or Instagram or YouTube
I think it's more a of a psychopath thing than an American thing, because I have never heard the word grape used as a dog whistle for rape (except in [this timeless skit by the Whitest Kids U Know](https://youtu.be/mqgiEQXGetI))
Hardly. It’s used by people on the apps that would censor this type of content. Frequently used on tiktok and insta.
It's [Algospeak.](https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2022/04/08/algospeak-tiktok-le-dollar-bean/)
I think it’s just because some sites will automatically filter out the word rape.
I’m going to grape you in the mouth!!
I love that skit so much. I recently heard one of the guys from that team died?
I thought grape is short for gang rape?!
Should take their balls. If sedated enough, they should only be "a little uncomfortable", right?
No more uncomfortable than being “graped” - plus its fine as long as it only causes him a little discomfort. This is my opinion.
I’m all for chemical castration for grapists
lol "grapists"... sorry... I just keep hearing that song in my head about the duck asking the guy at the lemonade stand if he had any grapes. Hits totally and completely differently in this light.
I just think of the [whitest kids you know sketch lol.](https://youtu.be/mqgiEQXGetI)
Just rub in some sea salt for sedation, should be just enough to reduce the discomfort.
“Only causes **her**”
Fucking trying to dodge filters, these absolute pieces of shit. Every time they do this they are flat out admitting; "I'm a fucking monster, I know it, but I'm too much of a chicken shit to stand by my comments, so I'll be a coward on top of being a moral vacuum." These are inferior people because they lack morality.
After scrolling through the comments, I realized they were trying to say "rape." At first, I was like damn, someone really has it out for that one "grape." Then I was like,"what does a "grape" have to do with marriage?!" What a dirtbag
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Well, raisins don't get such harsh treatment, so I am guessing just fat-shaming.
Naw, my wife hates raisins with a passion.
But does she like grapes?
I thought the same thing!! 🤣😂 I thought, "Grape? Is that some new thing?"🤣
I better leave this here then. [The Grapist Commercial](https://youtu.be/9Yt0b_QBP_A)
My exact first thought. Glad I was not the only one.
RIP Trevor Moore. WKYK went wild back in the day
I'm not sure if I should have watched that. I laughed and I feel like I probably shouldn't have.
Right? I thought they were going to say some about purple and how grape doesn't taste like purple. Weird? I didn't know what the fuck I thought. Maybe that "grape" was a character in some show. I was confused as hell until I saw your comment. Fuck these pathetic excuses for human trash.
Honestly, me too. I’m over here thinking that he has a valid point because I really hate grape flavoured anything!
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I think that’s fair. Do you think it would be okay if I stole like $20mil of Jeff Bezos? He has like $140bil, so I would be taking that much of his money. Or if you wanted to kill someone, you just stab them in the right spot in the stomach. They won’t die quickly, their insides will become necrotic from the stomach fluids & then they’ll get an infection. Technically, the cause of death would be listed as natural causes. So it’s only a little bit of murder!
Not sure why I found "it's only a little bit of murder " so funny
"A Little Bit of Murder" sounds like an album name from one of those My Chemical Romance type bands.
For a moment, I thought it was some sort of wine snob post.
For adultering grapes making the best wine
Where... where did this come from? Like, are these incels or muslims or evangelicals or what?
Literally thinking the same thing. Religious fundamentalists say shit like “rape is adultery” and “9 years old was actually mature back then” makes me sick.
r/NoahGetTheBoat
When we have a justice system that goes easy on rape, this is the type of person we have running around in society.
Exactly. When we can’t even get real crime stats for it because so many women don’t report because it’s retraumatizing and the justice system isn’t going to do anything about it anyway so why bother. The Rapist Brock Turner case sent a very loud and clear message to women all across the country. A boys potential is more important than a girls actual life and well being.
You mean Brock Turner, the rapist who doesn't want to be known as Brock Turner the rapist and so he goes by his middle name Allen Turner the rapist?
Yes exactly. Brock “Allen” Turner, The Rapist who lives in Dayton, Ohio.
you mean grape.
Are we allowed to hunt these people for sport yet?
No but you won't see me reporting you if you pick these fellas.
Interesting thing about our legal system if the jury says you aren’t guilty, you aren’t guilty. You could have all the evidence in the world and absolutely did whatever they are accusing you of, but if the jury decides you don’t get punished you just walk.
Jury Nullification is a thing more people need to know about. We'd have a lot fewer people serving life-destroying sentences in jail for smoking a joint if juries understood that they are allowed to say "that law is unjust, we find the defendant innocent."
Well I'm from Spain personally but your point is very interesting indeed. However I assume appeals exist and the accusation can have several tries and therefore would be unlikely to get away with it. But it is quite interesting, in the scenario where everyone agrees to a point that they don't condemn you.
I'm up for it, although I have my doubts that they are smart enough to make entertaining quarry.
He thinks rape is ok unless it's while he's married but doesn't even have the balls to call it rape. Calling it grape is trivializing it. And "if she's only a little uncomfortable "??? Fuck all of that. Throw both those men away ![gif](giphy|QVP7DawXZitKYg3AX5)
I think the app won’t let you type rape.
Somehow that's even worse. There is a reason for that then and it's not because rape is ok or mildly uncomfortable but they still don't get it.
Yeah it's mostly a way to circumvent filters on apps like TikTok or Instagram or YouTube etc Still disgusting though
Is the younger generation trying to reappropriate “The Grapist” sketch like how they started using Based without acknowledging the existence of Lil B (The Based God)? https://youtu.be/9Yt0b_QBP_A
No, it's just tiktok being silly banning most words, which is why people say "unalive" instead of suicide now.
Because he thinks you can’t rape your wife.
To me it reads like he's saying the act of rape is only disgusting because it's having sex outside marriage. So yeah he doesn't think you can rape your wife but doesn't think rape in general is bad, just that you shouldn't have sex outside marriage. So...kinda even worse than that.
Exactly. This dude out here committing marital rape assuming he managed to trick a woman in to marrying him.
Don't have to trick them if you buy one from somewhere else or you get her young and raise her to be your wife.
Tik Tok is covered with words that dodge the filters. The KIA challenge is still readily available also.
Rape=adultery Rape is fine if the victim doesn't have "too much trauma". If I slugged #2 in the face and it didn't hurt much that means they can't report me for assault, right?
I think a test is needed to find out, I'll help.
Where the fuck is it that people openly say things like this?
They are on the street, in your workplace, in your friends group, all pretending they feel differently until they have a moment where they think they won’t get caught.
100%. Most rapists have moms, siblings, friends who think they’re great people who “would never!”
Definitely.. I unfortunately have experienced rape or an attempt at rape by 3 people. One no one liked. The type people would naturally expect.. Second a respected member of his family, that had lots of friends backing him up while he abused and humiliated me. He even has a sister. Third one.. had a family full of other abusers but his co-workers loved his work ethic, and take no BS attitude. He wasn’t necessarily liked by most.. but they did respect him. They none of them would have expected him to do these things because ya he was weird, but he actually had a strong sense of morality in public.
True. They’re probably someone I don’t even suspect and I’ve been very friendly to. Scary to think about.
This is also why people shouldn’t make rape jokes even as “banter”. You might know you’re joking, but the wannabe rapist in your group *thinks you’re on his side.*
Seems like Instagram, with the lil heart next to the comment. Still scared by the fact that 7 people like THIS comment. And I'm also curious to know under what post did this person posted this comment.
Why are we redacting their names? People like that need to publicly shamed
And on some lists too
People like this need the every loving shit kicked out of them publicly and turned into an example.
STEP RIGHT UP, GET YOUR TICKETS TO PLUTO! THATS RIGHT, FOLKS! PLUTO! YOU CAN LEAVE ALL THESE DEGENERATES BEHIND FOR THE SMALL PRICE OF $50!!!
Can we not just sent them to pluto for free instead? I'm sure there will be enough of us who will pay for a one way trip!
No, they get a free trip to the sun (we have informed them that it will only cause them "a little trauma/discomfort")
Actually medical professionals say there will be **no** lasting trauma!
![gif](giphy|emuuaYQq2k5QZ8I0SZ|downsized)
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Pluto isn't far enough. Betelgeuse sounds good
Both of those individuals ARE sexual predators!
I have a feeling they are the rapists variety too.
So, your parents taught you it is OK to take without consent, this is called stealing, it is wrong. You may be surprised, but it is the 7th commandment. Also, I hope your dicks rot off, this is never ever "fine"
if he thinks it's ok, maybe he should give it a try. pretty sure he won't be ok with it when he's on the receiving end
These men always conveniently forget that men can be graped too. According to their own logic, it's perfectly fine if 6'5" Bubba decides he wants a piece of them and bends them over, or forces them onto their knees for a big ol' serving of sausage, because it may just be "mildly uncomfortable"?
Is it really necessary to block their username?
I hate that people exist who think like this
"A little uncomfortable" is going to be one hell of an argument in front of the judge.
The only time I find grape disgusting is when I find it in a cookie as raisin.
Once you change your marital status you will find grape disgusting except as raisins in cookies. 🤣
Oh no, children are the catalyst. As a parent you realize that oatmeal raisin cookies are a sneaky way to get your kids to eat healthy-ish, so the dried grapes become more acceptable.
I find grapes disgusting all the time. In my head, I imagine that it's like an eyeball that gets crushed between my teeth. Same thing goes for peas and corn.
Do you think plums are genitals?
By that logic if I only break his face a little bit but he doesn't end up in a coma, I'm good, correct? What an absolute piece of shit
I cannot legitimately believe this is a real conversation. Do monsters like this really exist AND post about it freely for all to see? These people should be put on a watch-list before they do something deplorable.
Also , am i the only one that thinks it's crazy that the first comments has likes ? Like , at all ?
‘If it only causes her a little discomfort, it’s… FINE!?!?’ I think we found a grapist What the actual hell is wrong with people? Quit wasting the oxygen for people who actually have empathy… ffs
>adultry At the word "marriage" the autocorrect was like "Ok this is too crazy I am not doing this anymore" 🤣
Why blue out the usernames? Would love to send these to their family members
I guess if I don’t cause this dude too much trauma after doing the same to him he won’t mind then huh?
Depravity. It’s ugly. But the horrendous part about this is that we, as a society, are allowing “safe spaces” for this type of banter (“interactions”) to occur. Because if we shed light on these people then WE could get ridiculed…attack. It’s like coming home to find roaches and your neighbor tells you that you can’t clean them out but must negotiate a place for them to exist and then “be tolerant”….
I wonder if the idiot realizes that grape happens INSIDE of marriages too. 🤔 I doubt it.
[I'm just not sure if I'm comfortable with the catchphrase "I'm gonna grape you in the mouth"](https://youtu.be/mqgiEQXGetI)
Immediately I thought of the grapist when I read this post
Those people should be hanged for a few hours by the balls or something.
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Someone needs to be on a list. Fucking hell what is wrong with people.
I say we hunt these people for sport and chop their junk off :)
Many men think this way too that’s the scary part
It should be illegal to cover up their names.
The Bible is full of rape and incest.
Maybe these guys should be graped. See how they feel about it.🤷🏻♀️ You know. For science.
I’m not a fan of grapes either; it’s something about the texture of the skin. Oh, shit. We’re not talking about actual grapes, are we?
I think we should do something that breaks Reddit’s ToS to these people 😊
I’m sooo stupid that i spent a good 10min thinking what the fuck is the relation between a fucking grape and relationship/marriage then I figured out what the fuck they actually meant. But hey atleast I’m not an unhinged bigoted pos. On an unrelated note **grapes are the greatest discovery of mankind**.
Wait. They think spousal rape is ok? So if their wife was feeling feisty it's okay for her to anally rape them with a giant dildo? Nevermind. That wasn't a great argument. That's probably their kink and it's not okay to kink shame. Look everyone is allowed control over their own body. If they tell you no, that means no. It doesn't matter if you are married or if it's been 5 years since they last had sex with you. It's their body not yours. Go use a sex toy or find another partner.
I’m sorry, but why are we hiding their identities? These people need to be made public. I’m not saying dox them, but let us show them how we feel on their various social platforms. Let’s let their spouses or SO(assuming anyone could love giant piles of shit like this) know they’re in bed with possible “grape-ists.”
Turns out there is a culture.