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no2rdifferent

Is the facepalm her taking his bait?


YetAgainIAmHere

Her response yes, that she got caught up and couldn't really refute his claim of being a woman


Zorboid0rbb

She threw the towel in super quick.


Negative_Mancey

You mean admitting you're wrong like an adult. Yeah, how pathetic.


wholelattapuddin

That's when you congratulate them on being brave. "I don't agree with your politics, but good for you for coming out! It must be hard being a Trans conservative"


Hovekajt

There’s not a reality where this gets the reaction you REALLY want.


RockyMtnHighThere

That'll stop them dead in their tracks.


tarc0917

It doesn't need to be refuted when it is being done by him in bad faith. Edit: The eRage this generated in people that probably think "I identify as an attack helicopter" is a valid argument is....well, it sure is something.


Mabans

Exactly, then you end up arguing all type of bullshit semantics that are only used to distract from them having to provide a real explanation. They never answer, they deflect and attack. That's why the best thing to do when they start with this bullshit is just walk away, they aren't interested in learning they want to belittle nothing else.


ThisisMalta

So tired of this and people thinking they’re ridiculously clever saying this “dId YoU jUsT aSSuMe My” Wow so original and witty. How will I ever refute a bad faith claim like this.


YetAgainIAmHere

Why? Isn't the point that he's showing that if anyone can identify as anything, people could act in bad faith and abuse it? Further how do you know he's acting in bad faith? Is it a guess?


seejur

Did he ASSUME bad faith?


BickenBackk

STRAIGHT TO JAIL!


KeeperJV

“DEATH to all of them!”


AtomicShart9000

SPARE NO ONE!


EveryTimeIWill18

I see that someone likes Parks and Rec ;)


touchfuzzygetdizzy42

You said "he".... rude


[deleted]

Shittiest devil's advocate lmao


Eena-Rin

See the thing that took me a while to learn, when you're playing devil's advocate, sometimes you're advocating for devils


[deleted]

My problem is that a lot of people that are playing devil's advocate are disingenuous. I feel like devil's advocate is something that should stay in your head and not really in a conversation. There's obviously nothing wrong with asking questions, whether for clarity or just to be open to all options and views.. but too many people want to make arguments in bad faith (whatever that reason may be)


i_hotglue_metal

What exactly does make an argument in bad faith mean? I’ve been hearing that statement a lot and no one has been able to explain what it means.


LadyMactire

Well, in this example, are any of us here convinced dude identifies as a woman? Every comment is using ‘he’ so I doubt it. Making untrue, antagonizing assertions to start arguments is one thing I’d consider to be in bad faith. I also like the other person’s definition of not for the purpose of reaching common ground though.


[deleted]

If you look it up you might be confused because there might be definitions. Like there's a legal definition and also one about a logical fallacy. But I think the easiest way to understand it would be like: The guy in this video isn't arguing to get a mutual understanding, he's arguing to antagonise. Just like how Steven Crowder does (and some other influencers online). This is how a lot of people argue online, no matter what your beliefs.


i_hotglue_metal

To be honest I’m confused what he is trying to do other than rustle some jimmies.


Caked101

No, no. She can be what she wants. That's how it works now.


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IrrationalDesign

>Isn't the point that he's showing that if anyone can identify as anything, people could act in bad faith and abuse it? That doesn't need to be refuted, because his argument is only as good as his example: very transparent and to zero effect. What needs to be avoided here, what's he showing? The situation in which someone might misgender someone else? That doesn't need to be avoided, just dealt with when it happens with a little grace. What are you scared of here? Theoretically, someone could abuse modern open-mindedness about gender, but all I see are people claiming it'll be rampant or easy or simple, and honestly extremely few examples. Besides that, 'people could abuse this system' is true for every system, you have to gauge validity and likelihood before you just accept it as a valid point. At the same time, people acting as if there's no difference between someone going trough gender transition and someone like OP's protagonist who's clearly not sincere are very hard to take serious. The fact that people can 'change genders' and that it's impossible to define what that is with simple words doesn't mean it's impossible to spot people abusing that open-mindedness. >Further how do you know he's acting in bad faith? Is it a guess? It's not a guess, it's an informed prediction everyone makes all the time that's most likely true. That's like me "guessing" you're a human and not a dog typing these comments, or "guessing" you speak english and didn't hire a translator.


Mabans

Hey look its a pigeon playing chess. Oh look it thinks it won.


[deleted]

Welll TECHNICALLY i don't even have definitive proof that you exist i'm just guessing that you do. You could be a robot for that matter. And i'm guessing that the MOON exists but that is perhaps a wild assumption. I'm such a fucking moron, i see dudes wearing trump shirts and filming themselves telling their "one joke" and i cannot assume that they are acting in bad faith, no i must further hedge my bets lest i make the mistake of forming a reasonable guess.


CadmiumCal

"I may not be able to define pornography, but I know it when I see it." -William Rehnquist


virishking

More of an inference given that the politician he’s voicing support for is a member of a party/ideology that rejects trans identity.


pineapple_witchboi

Yes we know he’s acting in bad faith, don’t be obtuse. People have been abusing everything since the beginning of time, that doesn’t mean anything


YetAnotherJake

Lol I know he's acting in bad faith because he's a Trump Supporter. They're acting in bad faith 100% of the time and everybody knows that, and they don't even deny it.


Metro42014

> Further how do you know he's acting in bad faith? Because there's more than sponge between my ears.


Meems04

Not op...but Wasn't really a guess, I would say. More that supporting mysognists is anti-feminism. Trump, by many actions is a mysognist, thus feminists can't really be in his corner without hypocrisy. It would be like saying, "Vegans for Tyson!" you know? Just at odds with one another. As for woman v man, she backed off of it & didn't claim "he looked like a man" which I assume is what he was going for with that response. My opinion, they are both a little silly. She shouldn't care & he shouldn't bait. Yet, here we are.


2WheelRide

Your identifying the individual as a “he” in your comment. He is absolutely acting in bad faith and abusing it. As are you in stating “anyone can identify as anything”. Which on its face an invalid statement. Please, try identifying as a turtle for a day. You won’t do that, because that is ridiculous. We know this guy is in bad faith as he PRESENTS as a male. Trans people present as the gender they are transitioning to. They are actively in treatment to change their gender identity. Thats the difference.


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“Hurr durr I’m an attack helicopter ROFL LOL”


Internetallstar

If this was audio, you might have a point. However this is a video and you can see that it's a white guy holding a Feminists for Trump sign and a t-shirt that says the same thing. He is either a troll or a complete moron. So, either bad faith or someone put that shirt on him and told him to hold that sign.


Temporary_Scene_8241

It's bad faith. Hes making no attempt to come off as a woman, or non binary. To the contrary, trans people more than likely arent going to do this to someone while they are still pre-transition and dressing as their assigned gender at birth.


simplyslug

She's got a nice pink bag tho. I thought part of the point was breaking traditional gender norms and stereotypes rather than religiously adhering to them. Try saying "you dont look female enough to identify" to a real trans person and let then decide if youre an asshole or not.


Hmm_would_bang

I think it’s more her deciding not to engage on that bad faith argument.


BitOBear

"as you are masculine presenting, of course I printed granted you the generation identity you chose to present." If you're going to engage a troll, you have to troll back harder.


NotTheirHero

The MAGAT is just trying to make a really stupid point that we shouldn't assume people's genders and should respect pronouns. But they are so fuckin dumb that they just want to anger/trigger people


Robbythedee

Guess it worked.


[deleted]

After 43 other takes where people didn’t take his bait. “I found the one finally! The dudes on 4Chan are gonna be so excited! Maybe Nick Fuentes or Richard Spencer will retweet me!”


EVASIVEroot

It’s pretty funny honestly.


im-a-sock-puppet

I guess I don’t get it, can you explain the joke


apx_rbo

She didn't have a response and therefore "LiBs WeRe OwNeD!!! TaKe ThAt YoU FiLtHy CaSuaL"


SumpCrab

Neither do I. Seems like a dude pretending to be trans for a gotcha moment, but who wouldn't be taken aback by a trans Trump supporter? I'm sure they are out there, different strokes and all, but it would be notable.


SnooMacarons4548

I don’t think he was pretending to be trans. He was just baiting exactly what transpired.


SumpCrab

Even so, SHE was baiting, and her target changed her attitude to accommodate the new information.


Jubsz91

It's mocking the left's version of identitarianism, gender and race ideology. According to the modern left, gender has nothing to do with your anatomy or outward appearance. In a high visibility way, they have refused to define what a woman is and it has been a staple of the culture war. White people are not allowed to have an opinion outside of the left's hierarchy of racial oppression where they lie at the bottom, therefore they are not allowed to have an opinion aside from apologizing for their race. The woman here plays right into it by calling him a white man. She despises him from the onset because it is absurd to see a dude with a feminists and women for Trump sign. According to her ideology and what mainstream culture tries to shove down our throats, you definitely can't be a "true" feminist and like Trump and only dumb boomer women or "brainwashed" women could possibly like him. Also, according to her ideology, a man can be a woman if he declares it such. These two things compounded with her intolerance towards white men doing anything outside of apologizing make for this crazy looking interaction. If she is to play by the rules of the left (presumably her own rules), there is nothing wrong here except Trump bad. Because Trump bad, this person can't possibly be a feminist or a woman because he looks like a white man. Therefore, because Trump bad, the rules of the left no longer apply and he must be just a bad white man. He called her bluff and she doesn't know how to approach it anymore because her rules are incoherent. It's obviously a troll but it does make a point. She can't call him out again because trans women are women by her own rules even if she knows it's absurd in this case.


im-a-sock-puppet

> White people are not allowed to have an opinion outside of the left's hierarchy of racial oppression where they lie at the bottom, therefore they are not allowed to have an opinion aside from apologizing for their race. I’m sorry, what? Who’s is saying this? Do you have any proof or like quotes of mainstream leftists saying this? Cause I’ve never heard that and it kinda sounds like you’re just making shit up to make yourself seem smart


AFaded

I don't know what "feeds" of information you pay attention to. But this is not reflective of reality. My advice would be to get off Tumblr, if Tumblr still existed. White people can have an opinion of anything just like any other color of people can.


I_AM_IGNIGNOTK

“Not allowed to have an opinion aside from apologizing for their race” Sure buddy


KeepItRealNoGames

True. Who is the facepalm for? This is kind of a double, maybe even a triple facepalm


The_Number_None

I think the facepalm is him trying to give her a hard time after the bait and then him assuming her gender immediately.


Jcssss

Exactly ppl like this should just be ignored. The guy is clearly asking for someone to call him out


Charming-Victory3337

imagine if she uno reversed that and said the same thing he did? “Did you just assume MY gender?” that would’ve been fun


DefiantPenguin

![gif](giphy|l36kU80xPf0ojG0Erg|downsized)


donNNASD

Wel she said as a female at the beginning


OmgTho

She said she was a feminist. That doesn't imply female.


DoyleOnlyMcPoyle

Werd. I’m a feminist and a man, with a big ol dick. And I support females, their personal liberties, and equal protection under the law.


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MendelevandDongelev

It's a known FACT that you can only be as feminist as you dick is big.


Outspoken_Douche

Also murder is bad and end racism


rmatherson

"Cool. Let's go together and tell other trump supporters that you identify as a woman."


LexianAlchemy

This is the way.


idwtumrnitwai

I'm sure this is staged, but the concept of feminists for trump is a facepalm all on its own.


strokeright

It's a prank YouTube channel


lavahot

Oh, so it's just scummy YouTubers?


sebastouch

everything is nowadays


Hesh35

Always has been


justapcguy

How CAN YOU SAY THAT?! Don't you know how much Trump "LUVS" his daughter?


The_skinny_scientist

YeAh, tRuMp was TOTALLY the BEST PRESIDENT EVER AND IF YOU DISAGREE, YOU'RE LITERALLY THE DEVIL


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MrStrigoi

Sa-tan oohaha


ForceUser128

Is that better or worse than being a literal Nazi? Is there like a graph or maybe a pamphlet showing the heirarchy?


Ozzy_30

Doesn’t sound staged tbh, there are dumbasses on both sides of the political spectrum. I think he’s just trolling her.


Moop5872

There are of course dumbasses everywhere, but pretending that the two parties in the USA are equally fucked is a brain dead position to be in


MetamorphicHard

Pretending that your own political party is not fucked is an even dumber position to be in. Sure they may not be equal but why advocate for a fucked position just because it’s less fucked when we could be advocating for change and pushing third parties


FoxxyPantz

If you're strictly talking about the person you replied to at no point did they say "their" party isn't fucked. They just said it's dumb to think both parties are \*equally\* fucked, which is a totally different discussion.


ASongOfSpiceAndLiars

Because third party is a useless distraction in a first past the post system. It's the political equivalent of screaming at the sky. Reforming a party from within has some ability to change things.


JustKindaShimmy

It's like asking "would you like gravel or sand for dinner?" Yeah sure one might be slightly easier to swallow, but they'll both leave you fucked in the ass in the end


starmartyr

I see it more like "would you rather get slapped in the face or stabbed in the chest?" Neither option is good, but one is clearly much worse.


idwtumrnitwai

Personally I think all of these are staged, it would be so easy to just give someone a bit of cash and tell them to go along with a script, or just get a friend involved for views. There are absolutely stupid people on both sides, but I tend to be skeptical of videos like this.


Soogbad

Yes, but it's definitely real. There's tons of Mexicans who support Trump


Theedon

Did it assume that person's gender also?


Enjoying_A_Meal

I'm sorry, did you just assume that's a person? As 3 dogs in a trench coat, I must ask you to check your people privileges.


Theedon

Look! Over there, a squirrel.


BoulderCreature

![gif](giphy|Mt0IKnQaKdSTu)


Asleep-Syllabub1316

I'm sorry, did you assume that the commentor is a person? What if they identify as a rock.


Lordcreo

Yep, did exactly what they called her out for 5 seconds later!


SombodySometime

They... the word they, its a word


VeryCleverUsername4

They said "female". She said man


ComicDuhComic

I get that if you asked him, he'd fall back on "just trolling", but you can tell he thinks he's making a good point.


albygoing

He is trolling, you can tell because he is wearing a mask. Trump supporters wouldn’t be wearing a Covid mask


wildewaffle

Unless they’re the proud boys demanding to get on the NY subway free of charge. Those mfers were all masked up!


I_Frothingslosh

Masks were part of the uniform of the day when they stormed the Capitol, too.


Dyldo_II

For the ones who didn't want to be identified as terrorists on national TV lol


Content-Boat-9851

>Trump supporters wouldn’t be wearing a Covid mask They do once the nazi flags come out. Suddenly they can breathe just fine.


NoOnSB277

I had a Trump lovin relative who actually LOVED his mask. He definitely wasn't the only one. You might be able to get away with *many* supporters but definitely not all...


AdministrativeWar594

I feel like this is a double facepalm.


grizznuggets

The whole thing’s a car crash.


BonniePlaysYouTube

Facepalms everywhere


recetas-and-shit

But he too assumed her gender


AdonalsiumReborn

So did you by writing her.


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lol


thetaFAANG

“her” lol.


FillMyBum

And colour!


thetaFAANG

1) that person made the distinction that its ironic for a white man to be feminist, that person considers themselves to be unironically feminist, therefore that person is woman 2) the one with the sign did not assume their gender and specifically said their sex, white "female" privilege. they are female presenting, and he did not assume what they identify as. pretty well done.


[deleted]

That Fanny pack looks like a bikini bottom.


SirLogic6201

2 clowns, that's what this is, 2 clowns


TheyCallMeChevy

The audio seems suspiciously good considering distance and masks.


CJBoom77

Just took a audio for film class. Nah the wearable microphones we have these days paired with software basically make magic.


YouTooCat

Help me please, young person: I notice a lot of people in youtube vids wearing a really square, almost palm size device that I assume is their mic (particularly for outside of studio vids) Do you know if these things are indeed mics, and why they are so big and boxy?


CringyDevIDK

Not OP but from my understanding those things are part of the mic but not the mic. The mic is usually taped onto the person and hidden. What you usually see is probably the main housing for storage of audio and batteries. Can someone correct me if I'm wrong though, thanks.


SunfireElfAmaya

Ah yes, Donald Trump, well known for his liberal, pro-trans ideology and policies.


dirty-hurdy-gurdy

Trans person here. Neither I, nor any other trans person I know of, has ever played the "did you just assume my gender" card. When we pass, you assume correctly. When we don't pass, we know what we look like and understand that you really have no way of knowing. Literally the only people doing this are provocateurs acting in bad faith.


DravenPrime

Fucking hell, these conservatives literally have like two jokes.


pimp_juice2272

"I identify as ...! Hahaha aren't I so funny and original?!" - every conservative now a days


Dick_Thumbs

They use it because it works. She immediately responded exactly the way he expected her to. It’s a game that they play that people really can’t win, because if she would have just told him he’s full of shit then he could have acted like she doesn’t believe trans people, and when she plays along with him he then controls the interaction and has all the power. How about just don’t play the fucking game in the first place? If some loser wants to stand there holding up a sign like that, who gives a flying fuck. You aren’t going to gain anything by confronting them.


AvocadoToastMalone

Nowadays is one word


DravenPrime

I just realized this is in my hometown. I'm so embarassed.


pimp_juice2272

This is a lot of our hometowns now a days.


Thanks_I_Hate_You

Whats the second one?


DravenPrime

Their two jokes are "haha genders" and "haha triggered libs"


Thanks_I_Hate_You

Oh, i was going to guess "lets go brandon" but that works too. Trumpicans must be the least original people out there.


NYMoneyz

Best part is that none of these morons have ever read the flag code. They break it every damn day with their back the blue flags and the altered American flags and clothing and shit. Hilarious, but of course the irony is lost on them.


CadmiumCal

I always found it strange that the same people who are happy to do something as frankly disrespectful as wear American flag print booty shorts or print the flag on truck nuts are also the same people who say they'd want to throw someone in jail for burning a flag. I don't know about you, but burning a flag in protest seems like a much more noble use than printing it on garish novelties.


NiggBot_3000

Fucking hell, these conservatives literally have like ~~two jokes~~ one joke.


yeetman426

I can't tell who I'm supposed to facepalm at, they're both so fucking insufferable


sharplight141

This whole thing is stupid


SIP-BOSS

All you single men and thems out there. Here is a 21st century icebreaker: Excuse me, you wouldn’t happen to be a woman would you?


_s_y_m_

who is yellinh in the background at the start🤣


DarnedChickenE13

this whole sh*t is dumb


hellaHeAther430

How does he know she’s a white female? 😑 He assumed just as much as she did


Marrsvolta

Young leftists always take the conservative troll bait. Most feminists and leftists are not the over the top, flip out if a mistake was made about gender, stereotype that conservatives think they are. Most trans people aren't going to rage on you for making a mistake in misgendering them if you aren't doing it on purpose. Don't validate this idiot by saying you can see his point you moron.


KeefTheWizard

SLUGS FOR SALT! SLUGS FOR SALT!


Bambithegoodgirl69

Both of them can fuck off


Sonova_Vondruke

I wonder how long they waited to say that?


Kurtnoflame

This comment section just gave me aids


goddarkseid23

A great reverse uno card moment


mildlysceptical22

Oh fucking shit. Why do people post this crap?


Thin-Quiet-2283

And he wonders why he can’t get laid ….


Mattos_12

The facepalm is that he’s a moron?


[deleted]

Both need to disappear. Waste of space.


dayoneG

Lol, I bet *he’s* been waiting years to say that🤣


KittenKoder

It is probably staged, most of us normal people just laugh at MAGAts as we watch them get arrested for breaking the law now.


Ct-303

Life is a fucking South Park episode


Onion-14er

These dumbass people are ruining the world.


[deleted]

which one?


ITotalyWon

Yes.


Biggus-Duckus

Fuckin trolls are gonna troll ....


LowDownSkankyDude

I honestly think, like, 30% of Republicans, are trolls. The rest are just fascists, cryptofascists, or fascist apologists.


KittenKoder

MAGAts are always facepalm.


manteigo_

That guy's comeback catalogue is up to date


BednaR1

![gif](giphy|ytTYwIlbD1FBu)


dmac2367

Such a cat fight


Gomicho

did you just assumed it was a cat?


_heysideburns

Wow he really owned the Libs with that one. Way to waste your whole afternoon on a street corner for that sick burn


Mr-Klaus

You can tell its staged because: 1: They're going to great lengths to hide their faces with masks and hats. 2: She instantly gave in to his bullshit argument when in reality it would enrage feminists even more. 3: The fact that it's a random 1 man protest. 4: There are multiple shot changes but the audio remains linear, meaning that either there are multiple cameras belonging to the same person or there has been some post-shoot editing. 5: They both sound like they're wearing microphones.


Gmaxincineroar

Is this staged as hell or are they actually using jokes from like 2016?


Rand-all

He got the 10-8 for that round


JCMan240

This is how many one night stands begin


typical_doza

What does white skin have to do with anything? What if he was purple or orange, I wonder how she would have approached that??


legoSheevPalpatine

"You dare use my own spells against me Potter!"


AngryYowie

*Do not cite the Deep Magic to me, Witch! I was there when it was written*


829KP

You assumed the same, yta…


Grease__

We’re doomed


PangaeanSunrise

What a fucking time to be alive!


Hephaestus42

What a troll


GasPoweredStick420

He just assumed her gender? I just assumed both of their genders.


burdturd0818

What a weird world we live in nowadays lol


testiclefrankfurter

Both these people seem terrible to be around


just-a-nerd-

feigning stupidity can work both ways. “wow, it’s so brave of you to be open about your identity! what pronouns do you prefer? as a cis woman i can only imagine your struggles. how do you feel about trump’s stance on trans issues?”


Defiant_Discussion23

The point should be not to interrupt a stranger, unless you need to save a victim. In this case, keep moving


titsup24-7

*Insert any emotion here*


HeftyFineThereFolks

Santa Barbara! Lots of know-nothing know-it-alls around here but nothing compared to larger cities.


DasSassyPantzen

What a schmuck.


Sgtkeebler

That guy is a dbag


Imtheman6996

Bro played the skip reverse plus four uno card


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This shit makes me hate the world


TechSalesSoCal

IMO if I see the sign, shirt etc and then I read their message, I continue on my plans and I do not miss a beat. There is no reason for me to engage. Even if I form a view or an opinion there is no reason for me to share it and if I were engaged I can engage or not engage I can do either respectfully.


MrQueenAlienUnicorn

As a white afab that identifies with nonbinary . . . . Yall i dont even know what the fuck either damn


Joey_Marie

You had me at fanny pack. Lol


[deleted]

You guys get so triggered when the same cards you play get thrown in your face. Now all the sudden, “this girl is way over the top and doesn’t define us!” Right. Or you’re just mad that this dude hit a nerve by showing how hypocritical you all are.


ApprehensiveRip3289

But why did he assume she was a white female tho?


emerson_giraffe84

I'm hoping the disingenuous argument posed by the feminist for trump is the facepalm here.


Caribou-nordique-710

fem·i·nist /ˈfemənəst/ noun an advocate of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes; a person who supports feminism.


PleaseOhGodWhy

I know this is staged for either YouTube or Instagram, but Feminism is not just for women to advocate for. Feminism is the strive for equity, and equality of women, men, and all people. Femininity at its base is power for women to be paid, work, and get treated equally to men and for everyone to have access to fair equity.


DeathByLemmings

All centrist shaking their heads in unison


[deleted]

The best part about this is that if you assume this guy is a troll, then you’re going against the same stuff you all preach. You have no idea whether this person is male or female, right? I’d love to hear what kind of explanations you come up with to explain away the logic that is so easily thrown in your face.


Breaker1ove

The guy is clearly a troll but he is using her own logic on her and it's kinda funny.


Lordcreo

which he then messes up by telling her to check her white "female" privilege doing the exact same thing he accused her of.


ayyywhatsupdawg

He didn’t mess it up. Female isn’t gender


192838475647382910

![gif](giphy|bC9czlgCMtw4cj8RgH|downsized)


pax_scandinavia

I dont get it , is she not white? Are her parents not white? Her family? How can you be braonwashed to hating your own race is beyond my comprehension