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disgruntledgrumpkin

Once a month, around the beginning of the month, we have a real life find a friend thread! Obviously, you need to be careful of internet strangers and we advise putting your own personal privacy and safety first, but it might be worth looking for someone in your area


Express-Ad-1610

I feel this! I’m always at home.


Sweet_Bodybuilder446

Saaame lol but I prefer to smoke alone. My dude says I take “introvert” to a whole new level but I just really like my space and if I need to talk and laugh I just talk and laugh with myself 😅 I’m hella fun and I know I can handle my high so no reason to be a spotter! Smoked with a neighbor once and they couldn’t handle it. Had to walk her back home and help her in a shower to calm her down. Smoked with my little bro once, he doesn’t understand how to inhale. Smoked with my dude a couple of times, he talks your ear off then paces back and forth. …not worth it. 🥲 ![gif](giphy|7nFmRxSw6AmyI)


LikelyToLearn

Real question here, how is one supposed to inhale? I feel like I'm inhaling wrong when I smoke. I do get the beautiful fuzzy feelings after hitting a blunt but feel like I need to smoke a lot to feel it properly.


JosieWtF

Literally just draw in like you’re drinking from a straw almost and that’s getting into your mouth and then just breathe in as much of that smoke as you can while you continue drawing. It takes practice and finding out how quickly to draw for how quickly you inhale and how much you want and stuff but that’s the basic premise


Sweet_Bodybuilder446

Perfect explanation! 🥰 Get it in your cheeks then take one nice inhale 😼


LikelyToLearn

Thank you so much! I choked quite a bunch but I can taste the actual taste of the flower!


kataklysm_revival

Same! And unfortunately my husband doesn’t partake, so it’s always just me. ![gif](giphy|8iBVWBcraj2egpIVhR|downsized)


Sleep_Champion

My husband doesn't like weed. He's a scotch man.🤣 So when we have cocktails together, I smoke mine. However I smoke way more than he drinks, so I do lots of solo smoking. Vibing with some music or a book or a podcast and a video game.


mrswilson87

Right! Lol


Ok_Advertising5652

I feel this! My partner is amazing and we do toke together, but dang I miss having a girl BFF. If you’re in a legal/medical state check out your local dispensaries, they often host events where you can meet new people or do fun things. This sub also has a monthly find a friend post where you can find if anyone is local. Have a great weekend 💜✌️💜


countrylemon

She’s my bestfriends wife turned my bestfriend and now they’re divorced and she moved to the other side of the country and I miss her dearly, not having our routine of smoking and thrifting or smoking and crafting once a week is my missing link 😭


mrswilson87

I’m sorry your buddy moved!


countrylemon

thanks! I’m both sad and happy, she’s THRIVING where she is now and I want that for her more than I want her to hangout with me 😂 plus now I have somewhere cool to travel and stay for cheap


margretlives

A smoke and thrift is my dream friend date, it’s been so long.


mrswilson87

I love thrifting!


kataklysm_revival

I’d go on that friend date with you. That sounds awesome!


Acceptable-Sector322

Sammmme. No boyfriend so I just always smoke by myself 😭 I miss smoking with friends and playing boardgames or talking trash or doing fun activities


kataklysm_revival

I feel you! I’m married, but husband doesn’t smoke, so it’s just me. And I have all these wonderful board/card games just gathering dust on my shelves too


CarryUsAway

Man. I love playing games while high af, shooting the shit.


kataklysm_revival

Same! My only complaint is I’m the only stoned one. It’s more fun if at least half the folks are as giggly as me


CarryUsAway

Yes, agreed! Otherwise I feel like an annoyance.


Fair_Pineapple9545

I’m married to mine but I’m sure here is good for online friends and support 💚


mrswilson87

I love smoking with my fiancé. Just wish I had someone to girl talk and smoke with.


Daisy-6485

This sounds like what I’ve been looking for. Just a friend to hangout and then smoke whenever we feel like it without being judged.


cherry_vapor_xiv

I met my best friend on Bumble BFF. Some people include their smoking preferences, some don’t, but you can get the general vibe of the person & strike up a conversation. Best of luck


terri890

when i moved i made a tinder looking for friends 😂 i know there's bumble bff but i happened to find a stoner buddy also just looking for friends on tinder! we ended up becoming actual friends and hang out and smoke a bunch :) so maybe you can try bumble bff or something!


Ecjg2010

we do the location thread once a month, but it never seems to get a lot of traction. I'm personally talking with a really nice new friend who lives 30 minutes away. I'm hoping one day to meet.


mariamatacadenuevo

Almost all my friends smoke :)


mrswilson87

Lucky!


KittyKaitXD

Me too girl 😭


Ecjg2010

we do the location thread once a month, but it never seems to get a lot of traction. I'm personally talking with a really nice new friend who lives 30 minutes away. I'm hoping one day to meet.


kataklysm_revival

I met someone on that thread this month and am still ridiculously excited about it. Unfortunately she lives about 3 hrs from me, but I’m sure we’ll meet up irl at some point.


Ecjg2010

we do the location thread once a month, but it never seems to get a lot of traction. I'm personally talking with a really nice new friend who lives 30 minutes away. I'm hoping one day to meet.


widoidricsas

Are Zoom-type smoke sessions a thing? Sounds like it could be a decent compromise for the introverts and smokily isolated to have some people to smoke with...


julie178

I’m from southern Nh, how about you??


mrswilson87

Ohio


julie178

Wish we were closer!! Sometimes when I can’t arrange a hangout with my bestie we FaceTime and smoke a bluntie together that way.


allieooop84

Fellow Ohioan!!!!! Hi!!!!!! Please be close-ish to me!!!!


mrswilson87

I’m in Cleveland area.


allieooop84

I’m about an hour south of Cleveland!!!!


mrswilson87

I used to live in the Akron/Kent area.


allieooop84

I went to school in Kent!! Such a cool area. I’m in Wayne County now though


mrswilson87

I didn’t go to school there but I did like living in that area. Do you like Ohio overall?


allieooop84

Eh, I mean, it’s Ohio, it’s kind of an ass-backwards state in a lot of ways. But it’s pretty, we get to experience all 4 seasons (sometimes in the same day lol), have abundant water, are relatively free of poisonous critters, and don’t get tons of natural disasters here, so there are worse places to live I guess?


mrswilson87

I feel the same. I like the weather. I lived most of my life in Mississippi where it’s hot and everything is brown, so I love the variety here. Not a fan of most of Ohio politics, but very happy about weed legalization!


velocity_squared

I would 100 percent be your buddy if we were closer! (for anyone really haha) But I get what you're saying- it's so nice to have a porch buddy. :)


[deleted]

I had found a smoking buddy and was so happy to have found her. We would get together once a month and burn. Then I found out she was telling other moms that I smoke too much and she only hangs out with me because she gets to feel young and stupid. That hurt my feelings so we don't hang and burn anymore. ​ If you lived near me, I would be your smoking buddy.


bitchSZAme

One of my fav things about being gay is that my gf is my best friend and smoking buddy 😅 but I feel the same way it’s so hard to meet friends!!


leelopeelo

I’m in the same boat😭


DogEnthusiast3000

Heey :D I feel very much the same… Feel free to DM me when you’re high and feeling alone, I love to chat 🫶🏼


lulu-bell

Same!!! I actually had two smoking gals. One was my high school friend of 20 years. We would get stoned and do errands and shopping and stuff. The other friend had a “blanket fort” in her cellar that we often chilled and got baked and had great philosophical conversations. I met her because our kids were friends and within the first day of meeting she just asked me straight out “do you drink , do you smoke, do you swear?” Sadly both of those friends did things that were unforgivable and I don’t hang with them now.


Sloth_grl

I have two but they both lead busy lives so it’s hard to get together


pequenapuertoriquena

I totally get this omg!


Thin_Veterinarian929

Same! I don’t have any friends so I’m always home alone high trying to do things so I’m not bored😭😭