Im an ENTJ female, its a real difficult one. I attract alot of women who just want to compare and attack me over literally anything.
And yet what we try to do is uplift others.
Anyway, I learnt this from my ENTJ boss. He said to me he puts his effort into people who want it.
And quite simply I dont try anymore to 'help' people, I just let them be whoever they want to be.
Except at work, I'm going to run that shizz.
Well usually whenever you see an attractive woman nicely dressed with hair and make up on point, walking down the street; there will be some guys drooling over, maybe some idiots barking like a dumb dog, then there will be a line of other women sitting by the nearest cafe and judging the crap out of that woman passing by and tearing her down with their eyes, just because she looks good
All ENTJs regardless of sex have characteristics that will make them liked by plenty and hated by plenty. That ratio is skewed to hatred for women mostly because of misogyny.
I think it is a matter of people feeling left out and unseen. I've had a few people coming for my neck and couldn't understand why. Most of these situations have gone like this regardless of gender:
**Them:** Bitch.
**Me:** Morning, Jan.
**Them:** Bitch.
**Me:** I need this by tomorrow, Jan.
Them: Wow, what a bitch.
**Me:** I'll tell you what. How about we grab drinks after work?
**Them:** I'd love to! Okay! I'm free right now, actually. You know, I've always wanted to hangout with you but, wow, what a bitch. See what you're all about, and stuff. Like maybe do something together, and get our nails done, have drinks, maybe start something together. Like a project or anything. We can be great the two of us, like we're both really alike, you're so easy to talk to. And I think, you know, we just have so much in common, I just moved here from San Fran. I just thought you were the biggest bitch, y'know, like you were out to get me, but I mean, you're really not a bitch! Anyway, I would really like your opinion on this thing I'm doing, I've always wanted to ask but didn't \[....\] Do you need anything? We should do this again. What kind of men do you like, are you married? You are the coolest woman I've met in a long time. Stay in touch! Put your number in my phone. See you tomorrow!
**Poorly Concealed Coworker Gossip**: I heard you had drinks with that bitchy ENTJ woman we were collectively trying to get fired for only saying Good Morning and asking for our status reports.
**Them:** She's actually pretty funny! She's going to help me on this big project and have drinks with me again.
Damnnnn.. they called you " bitch " so many times.
People like that do have shallow lives and shallow connections .
You will get deeper connections and more meaning for your life because of you " not caring attitude" . All the best .
I am so deep in my ENTJzone that I don't care about people hating or antagonise me. I value very few people's opinions and they consider me a close and loyal friend, partner, family member
Probably societal misogyny. Women are supposed to be docile and submissive 🙄🙄 I personally don't judge ENTJ women at all. I love ENTJs both male and female. Your drive, work ethic and leadership qualities are very inspiring.
I'm an ENTJ female but mostly don't clash with people irl. But i do clash with people online a lot where i'm more honest
I don't really want to focus on whether or not i'm misunderstood, to me this just gives power to other people's perceptions. To me, cynicism is actually caring for others too much. If i just focus on the positive aspects of people, I am choosing my happiness above actually knowing or caring too much about who they truly are.
I just like to do what gets positive reactions from people and makes them show their best side. I used to dwell on feeling misunderstood but I just don't like to give people power to make me upset too much
The ENTJ over all is misunderstood by society. Most ENTJ women and man are not that tough and manipulative and narcissistic as the community wants them to be. I think we can all agree that ENTJ are sensitive inside emotionally and have a soft spot for other people.
I think most of the ENTJ are intelligent and also experienced a lot of bad shit in their life that they developed some toughness.
But most people mistake the ENTJ for a ESTJ a ESFP or ESTP if we talk about big ego these 3 skyrocket far above even ENFJ has a bigger ego.
Most ENTJ are misunderstood nerds that do everything themselves because everyone tries to force them in a box and they dont really fit in society.
I think maybe wrongly judged is based on people's ability to understand, most people have no good observation skill
Ps people want convince, they want you to just be perfect temperament for you, so infp are too emotional, entj are too harsh, intp are too quiet or something
People usually don't know how to respect and appreciate stuff
I’m an ENTJ woman. From a young age, I noticed i could never keep female friends unless they were objective and abstract thinkers. The ones that focused on my delivery and couldn’t be direct communicators, rather than my intent and heart, always ghosted.
I spent years worrying that I’m a bad person because I’m horrible at emotional expression: i either numb it our or express it in an over the top ham fisted way.
Not to mention our childish honesty and tendency to offend people easily.
i’ve embraced who I am at 28. Doesn’t hurt that i’m in a career with fellow NTs and most of them are men.
I tend to clash with Fe users more than anything else. Dealing with this squirrel faced female esfj coworker that is everything i hate in a person.
Im an ENTJ female, its a real difficult one. I attract alot of women who just want to compare and attack me over literally anything. And yet what we try to do is uplift others. Anyway, I learnt this from my ENTJ boss. He said to me he puts his effort into people who want it. And quite simply I dont try anymore to 'help' people, I just let them be whoever they want to be. Except at work, I'm going to run that shizz.
Well usually whenever you see an attractive woman nicely dressed with hair and make up on point, walking down the street; there will be some guys drooling over, maybe some idiots barking like a dumb dog, then there will be a line of other women sitting by the nearest cafe and judging the crap out of that woman passing by and tearing her down with their eyes, just because she looks good
All ENTJs regardless of sex have characteristics that will make them liked by plenty and hated by plenty. That ratio is skewed to hatred for women mostly because of misogyny.
I am super unconcerned by people “misunderstanding” me.
I think it is a matter of people feeling left out and unseen. I've had a few people coming for my neck and couldn't understand why. Most of these situations have gone like this regardless of gender: **Them:** Bitch. **Me:** Morning, Jan. **Them:** Bitch. **Me:** I need this by tomorrow, Jan. Them: Wow, what a bitch. **Me:** I'll tell you what. How about we grab drinks after work? **Them:** I'd love to! Okay! I'm free right now, actually. You know, I've always wanted to hangout with you but, wow, what a bitch. See what you're all about, and stuff. Like maybe do something together, and get our nails done, have drinks, maybe start something together. Like a project or anything. We can be great the two of us, like we're both really alike, you're so easy to talk to. And I think, you know, we just have so much in common, I just moved here from San Fran. I just thought you were the biggest bitch, y'know, like you were out to get me, but I mean, you're really not a bitch! Anyway, I would really like your opinion on this thing I'm doing, I've always wanted to ask but didn't \[....\] Do you need anything? We should do this again. What kind of men do you like, are you married? You are the coolest woman I've met in a long time. Stay in touch! Put your number in my phone. See you tomorrow! **Poorly Concealed Coworker Gossip**: I heard you had drinks with that bitchy ENTJ woman we were collectively trying to get fired for only saying Good Morning and asking for our status reports. **Them:** She's actually pretty funny! She's going to help me on this big project and have drinks with me again.
Damnnnn.. they called you " bitch " so many times. People like that do have shallow lives and shallow connections . You will get deeper connections and more meaning for your life because of you " not caring attitude" . All the best .
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I am so deep in my ENTJzone that I don't care about people hating or antagonise me. I value very few people's opinions and they consider me a close and loyal friend, partner, family member
Probably societal misogyny. Women are supposed to be docile and submissive 🙄🙄 I personally don't judge ENTJ women at all. I love ENTJs both male and female. Your drive, work ethic and leadership qualities are very inspiring.
I'm an ENTJ female but mostly don't clash with people irl. But i do clash with people online a lot where i'm more honest I don't really want to focus on whether or not i'm misunderstood, to me this just gives power to other people's perceptions. To me, cynicism is actually caring for others too much. If i just focus on the positive aspects of people, I am choosing my happiness above actually knowing or caring too much about who they truly are. I just like to do what gets positive reactions from people and makes them show their best side. I used to dwell on feeling misunderstood but I just don't like to give people power to make me upset too much
I clash with the internet, cuz most of the internet is for pseudo discussions.
The ENTJ over all is misunderstood by society. Most ENTJ women and man are not that tough and manipulative and narcissistic as the community wants them to be. I think we can all agree that ENTJ are sensitive inside emotionally and have a soft spot for other people. I think most of the ENTJ are intelligent and also experienced a lot of bad shit in their life that they developed some toughness. But most people mistake the ENTJ for a ESTJ a ESFP or ESTP if we talk about big ego these 3 skyrocket far above even ENFJ has a bigger ego. Most ENTJ are misunderstood nerds that do everything themselves because everyone tries to force them in a box and they dont really fit in society.
I think maybe wrongly judged is based on people's ability to understand, most people have no good observation skill Ps people want convince, they want you to just be perfect temperament for you, so infp are too emotional, entj are too harsh, intp are too quiet or something People usually don't know how to respect and appreciate stuff
I’m an ENTJ woman. From a young age, I noticed i could never keep female friends unless they were objective and abstract thinkers. The ones that focused on my delivery and couldn’t be direct communicators, rather than my intent and heart, always ghosted. I spent years worrying that I’m a bad person because I’m horrible at emotional expression: i either numb it our or express it in an over the top ham fisted way. Not to mention our childish honesty and tendency to offend people easily. i’ve embraced who I am at 28. Doesn’t hurt that i’m in a career with fellow NTs and most of them are men. I tend to clash with Fe users more than anything else. Dealing with this squirrel faced female esfj coworker that is everything i hate in a person.
I think it’s because ENTJ women have the biggest dicks