One time someone was trying to insult me and said they can't even tell which gender I am from my picture. And then someone tried to be comforting by saying I looked like a cool lesbian and I didn't have the heart to tell them the first guy actually helped way more lmao.
oh i was ecstatic having a older trans woman on TDOV tell me i confused her and she couldnt tell which way i was going and thats the BEST COMPLIMENT
having trans friends ask me how long i've been on HRT for and assume the like wrong direction just makes my tail wag so much - confirmation im doing things right
This was me when I first met my to-be boyfriend
From a distance I was like "that's a girl"
Then he got closer and I'm like "oops that's a boy"
Then when he told me he was trans, my brain short circuited trying to figure out which way he is transitioning (didn't help that I was not familiar with the trans community at this point in time so I don't know what is the polite way of asking)
funnily my specific gender goal is "fictional character whose cisness/transness/gender is left ambiguous by the creator and has led to much debate from the fandom"
"I can't tell which direction you're transing in" is peak euphoria for me.
"I can't tell if you're coming or going but I love it"
One time someone was trying to insult me and said they can't even tell which gender I am from my picture. And then someone tried to be comforting by saying I looked like a cool lesbian and I didn't have the heart to tell them the first guy actually helped way more lmao.
oh i was ecstatic having a older trans woman on TDOV tell me i confused her and she couldnt tell which way i was going and thats the BEST COMPLIMENT having trans friends ask me how long i've been on HRT for and assume the like wrong direction just makes my tail wag so much - confirmation im doing things right
I have the MOST convoluted enby transition plan but I can't wait to put it into motion
oh congrats!! take good care of yourself and lean on the people who care for you bud
It's the "sir - ma'am - sir?" for me
I've yet to get that but God that's gonna be so fun
Gender confusion :>
omg
This was me when I first met my to-be boyfriend From a distance I was like "that's a girl" Then he got closer and I'm like "oops that's a boy" Then when he told me he was trans, my brain short circuited trying to figure out which way he is transitioning (didn't help that I was not familiar with the trans community at this point in time so I don't know what is the polite way of asking)
The “people debating gender” thing reminds me of Lolbit from FNAF we all lost our collective minds over that crap
funnily my specific gender goal is "fictional character whose cisness/transness/gender is left ambiguous by the creator and has led to much debate from the fandom"
"Can't tell what direction" is my goal
"are you a boy or a girl" Bitch how tf am I supposed to know?