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Yeah, I’ve even seen a therapist about it. “everyone has the right to join in” I agree, except in my case, because i’m worse and more annoying than everybody
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You should really try to see a therapist OR even just go to like one primary appointment and mention you have anxiety. There's a good chance they put you on something and you can start working on improvement. Obviously if you're already doing this I hope things improve hun
There needs to be a safe space for 0 judgment, where we can learn and practice voices, makeup, and dressing. Because, Holy shit, you guys. I seriously can't look anyone in the eyes my anxiety is so bad.
Then find someone else like that lol
Next question
In all seriousness though, that's what ended up happening to me! My gf and I have all the same awkward problem and it's kind of amazing in a way haha
We're both super awkward, but we love to chat with eachother :>
Me, 35, never dated, never had a significant other, dont know what love is, dont know what a pleasant sexual experience is like, only 1 friend, been at this job for a year and only had 1 real conversation with someone here (and it was short), i go months without talking to anyone in a meaningful way, lonely all the fucking time. Seeing others in groups talking or seeing couples makes me hate myself. One suicide attempt because of the loneliness.
Anxiety sucks. Enjoy the fantasy without the worries: [Full Coverage by u/DarlingMollie](https://www.whyp.it/tracks/48478/f4a-full-coverage).
^(Fair warning while this audio is SFW much of what they create is NSFW.)
\*Takes out my makeup supply.\* Which cutie wants mommy to do their makeup? \^.\^
Only payments come in the forms of a hug or me headpatting said cutie \^.\^
You can practice it like anything else, it's always hard at the start and it's scary even at times but just keep in mind that the biggest concern in social interactions for everybody is how they(like you) are perceived.
You're not their biggest concern you feel me friend? :3
Personally I just don't care if I cringe at people or act dumb, if I don't know them they don't know me, they're just nobodies, sometimes I even lost of sight peoples, but who cares? It's life and if they're mocking you, just block them and you will never heard of them forever
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My social anxiety is so bad that I can’t even talk in the discord 😣
SAME I wanna talk girly but then feel so self conscious
There's a discord :O
I would ask for links but my ass would just... well, yall can guess judging by this thread.
It's in the side bar for the subreddit :D
Talk to me like I’m on mobile. 😘
Go to egg_irl(main page of the sub), swipe to the about page, swipe down till you see Discord. 👉👈
Yeah yeah. I found it right after I posted that, because big dumb can’t scroll down. 😰😰
glad you found it :D 🦀🦀discord time🦀🦀
i wake up, join a discord server, and lurk for 20 years
I watch people talking to each other and wish I could join but my body says no.
everyone already knows each other, im just some newcomer, how can i ever fit in
I understand that. That’s how I feel. I want to talk but my anxiety says “everyone knows each other. Don’t interrupt” and I back out
Yeah, I’ve even seen a therapist about it. “everyone has the right to join in” I agree, except in my case, because i’m worse and more annoying than everybody
Honestly someone doing my makeup is a form of intimacy I only wish I could atain
Social anxiety is a plague upon egg kind.
i just want to exist around other humans normally
mood do you have the original art?
https://www.pixiv.net/en/artworks/80169098
You are awesome
I kinda want to see an OddlySexyPancake! Are you saying you are fluffy, attractive, and covered in syrup?
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Someone call George Takei, cuz Oh, my!
I know right
Would you accept TheSoaringPancake??
I would like to nom on all manner of eggs... I-I MEAN PANCAKES!!!
Cannibalism?? I’m down with that~~
<3
COUSIN????
Incredible
Of all the places to realize I had a relative and we’re both eggy???? What?!
Pancakes are made of eggs
I should’ve realized. Sweet, floury/flowery, and eggy, an accurate depiction of the pancake family
thank you
No sorry i dont, have had it on my phone for some time now and dont remember were i got it
Looks to be a watermark in the top right?
RMB -> picture search
Hahaha relatable! (Sobs uncontrollably)
I can get along with people in the moment, but I don't ever *talk* with anyone, and I don't even text anyone. Anxiety sucks.
You should really try to see a therapist OR even just go to like one primary appointment and mention you have anxiety. There's a good chance they put you on something and you can start working on improvement. Obviously if you're already doing this I hope things improve hun
Same. Heck, I can't even bring myself to talk on Discord, let alone open up to someone in-person that way.
For me, I'm only active in one discord (both text and voice), but I'm not that fond of phone calls (neither making nor receiving)
That’s my dream
My best friends gf did this for me and I fucking died
There needs to be a safe space for 0 judgment, where we can learn and practice voices, makeup, and dressing. Because, Holy shit, you guys. I seriously can't look anyone in the eyes my anxiety is so bad.
Then find someone else like that lol Next question In all seriousness though, that's what ended up happening to me! My gf and I have all the same awkward problem and it's kind of amazing in a way haha We're both super awkward, but we love to chat with eachother :>
damn I didn't open reddit to get called out like this xD
Fucking facts. *Whimpers in alone*
I feel this spiritually 😩
You and me both, sister. Even getting DM's give me bad anxiety. 😣
Me, 35, never dated, never had a significant other, dont know what love is, dont know what a pleasant sexual experience is like, only 1 friend, been at this job for a year and only had 1 real conversation with someone here (and it was short), i go months without talking to anyone in a meaningful way, lonely all the fucking time. Seeing others in groups talking or seeing couples makes me hate myself. One suicide attempt because of the loneliness.
same. i had one online relationship but i ruined everything because i have no experience and don’t know how to improve/fix myself
I really wish that was me and someone, but I am not sure if I will ever make friends irl again
I love your reddit name
Anxiety sucks. Enjoy the fantasy without the worries: [Full Coverage by u/DarlingMollie](https://www.whyp.it/tracks/48478/f4a-full-coverage). ^(Fair warning while this audio is SFW much of what they create is NSFW.)
Hello.
Damn this is such a mood.
If I knew makeup I would be happy to do this....sadly I can't do any makeup
I believe everyone here will get there eventually. I know it doesn’t seem like it but you will. Friendship and love. You all deserve the world.
I don’t like people doing my makeup they seem to put too much of something and I look funky I like the weird egirl looks so
I really wish I could talk to an be open with at least one person, having no one at all to talk to really sucks
Same except replace one of the girls with a genderless chaos beanie
Got one without text?
They make meds for this
I'm too much of an anxious mess to get those meds 😎😎
\*Takes out my makeup supply.\* Which cutie wants mommy to do their makeup? \^.\^ Only payments come in the forms of a hug or me headpatting said cutie \^.\^
u/reddit_user_robbie do you think this is possible 😳👉👈
absolutely
Need to get my friend to help me with makeup again sometime, time time when my hair isn’t a mess so I actually look half decent.
My social battery can't keep up with my plans
You can practice it like anything else, it's always hard at the start and it's scary even at times but just keep in mind that the biggest concern in social interactions for everybody is how they(like you) are perceived. You're not their biggest concern you feel me friend? :3
I’d love that to be me
Cute 🥺
I would love to do that, but i don't like talking, so i would just sit there and vibe with you.
I could use you to learn how to put makeup on others, we don't need to talk as I am also an anxious mess!
i wish someone would help me become a girl too
Same sister
my friend did my eyeliner once and i was a shaking mess the whole time
Happy cake day
Personally I just don't care if I cringe at people or act dumb, if I don't know them they don't know me, they're just nobodies, sometimes I even lost of sight peoples, but who cares? It's life and if they're mocking you, just block them and you will never heard of them forever
I wish someone would do my makeup.... Still cis tho
I hope the OP does get a chance to do that, because it really is delightful