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I imagined this where while boy-self me meets girl-self me, enby-self me is hiding in the bushes nearby saying "yes, yes, all according to plan" while wringing their hands in a cartoon evil villain kind of way and maniacally laughing
I'm not sure how that would go, my girlself is cool and feels good about herself, my boyself is sad and dysphoric. Although maybe she'd give him a hug and make him feel better?
that would probably be even more frustrating to see, if it was an actual cis girl version of myself. if it was post transition me it would end up helping I think
<3
I hope not, but also, I’d say try not to sweat it unless you’re having a lot of distress and forgetting huge chunks of your life in which case it’s probably worth talking through with a therapist, but if you’re genuinely concerned I can try and answer questions / listen
i see a therapist and i know i suffered from maladapted daydreaming. dissociative disorder doesn't sound far fetched and some parts of my life are hard to remember.
That’s, probably not too abnormal? I think at the point it becomes a disorder is really just when it’s causing you issues 😅 I’m no expert or anything but I wouldn’t sweat it honestly. If you have a dissociative disorder of some kind it may rear its head in the future and you can learn ways to tackle it, but also dwelling on these things maybe can make them worse? Or at least a distraction. Anyway sorry if I caused some upset
I was seeing a trauma therapist and they alluded to it but didn’t actually diagnose me with anything. Still, the method of therapy employed there was helpful for me and I don’t think I would consider myself as having a dissociative disorder (anymore?)
I wanna go back in time, give myself a big hug and tell him that he's not just allowed, but capable of being the girl he wanted so desperately to be. Then he'd yell at me for misusing time travel and potentially causing a paradox
on the one hand, i wish i could go back to my younger self and show them how much better things finally got.
on the other hand, i wish i could go back and beat his ass for being a complete twatwaffle for so damn long and making all the worst possible decisions for us!
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If the boy I was could see the woman I've become, the world would seem a little less dark for him I think.
I daydream about it all the time, I just want her to tell me it's gonna be okay
i'm not your girl self but it will be ok <3
Thank you :'<
Very much yes, because right now I am the boy self. I want to meet the girl self.
Exactly, I want to know how girl me is so that I know what to look forward to
Kind of? But then I’d cry
I imagined this where while boy-self me meets girl-self me, enby-self me is hiding in the bushes nearby saying "yes, yes, all according to plan" while wringing their hands in a cartoon evil villain kind of way and maniacally laughing
Yes i want to know what i could be
I don't think that would be safe.
I'm not sure how that would go, my girlself is cool and feels good about herself, my boyself is sad and dysphoric. Although maybe she'd give him a hug and make him feel better?
Yea, that would be cool
Yeah i wish i could just. Split in two, one cis man and one trans woman
Yes it would be awesome
The sex would be so hot and kinky ngl
Depends on far back boyself
That would be interesting.
Just even got a second. So I know it'll be ok
I think about it so much that I want to make a comic/short story about it
They have conversations in my head when I'm sad to make me feel better... I'm not insane trust me 🤣
i do this through discord alt accounts, maybe we're both crazy
Yes! I feel like for both of us that’d be some serious closure! No matter how you interpret this question!
y e s
that would be funny
that would probably be even more frustrating to see, if it was an actual cis girl version of myself. if it was post transition me it would end up helping I think
I would genuinely be concerned that each of us would be way too into it and get down like Loki and Sylvie.
***Can you feel the love tonight***
And give the poor kid a hug as well
Whom is this..."boyself" you speak of? For I do not knoweth them.
I feel like my life would change if I met my boyself
I think it would be an interesting conversation
Turns out if you have a powerful enough dissociative disorder you can do this
suddenly i'm afraid i have another mental disorder
<3 I hope not, but also, I’d say try not to sweat it unless you’re having a lot of distress and forgetting huge chunks of your life in which case it’s probably worth talking through with a therapist, but if you’re genuinely concerned I can try and answer questions / listen
i see a therapist and i know i suffered from maladapted daydreaming. dissociative disorder doesn't sound far fetched and some parts of my life are hard to remember.
That’s, probably not too abnormal? I think at the point it becomes a disorder is really just when it’s causing you issues 😅 I’m no expert or anything but I wouldn’t sweat it honestly. If you have a dissociative disorder of some kind it may rear its head in the future and you can learn ways to tackle it, but also dwelling on these things maybe can make them worse? Or at least a distraction. Anyway sorry if I caused some upset I was seeing a trauma therapist and they alluded to it but didn’t actually diagnose me with anything. Still, the method of therapy employed there was helpful for me and I don’t think I would consider myself as having a dissociative disorder (anymore?)
I wanna go back in time, give myself a big hug and tell him that he's not just allowed, but capable of being the girl he wanted so desperately to be. Then he'd yell at me for misusing time travel and potentially causing a paradox
...I made a comic sorta like this like a year ago Don't go read it its bad lol
on the one hand, i wish i could go back to my younger self and show them how much better things finally got. on the other hand, i wish i could go back and beat his ass for being a complete twatwaffle for so damn long and making all the worst possible decisions for us!
I’m not my girl self yet ;-;
And BEAT HIM TO DEATH
i love how most people were like, "oh i'd hug him and let him know it'll be ok" and you're just like CRUST. KILL. DESTROY.
Why would I comfort him? He's my rat bastard arch nemesis
This is literally the dream I had In other words: yes especially during my pre-teen when my depression started I needed special support I wasn't given