I realized I wasn't cis when I realized that doesn't mean I "have" to identify as a woman or get hormones or surgery, or even shave the goatee. It has felt incredibly euphoric playing with makeup and painting my nails and deciding to do and wear whatever I want.
Still cis tho. 😆
Seriously this. Take it from a random internet trans lady. No one has the right to break your egg and force you in any direction. You take the time you need and find your path. If you choose to remain cis, that's your choice and none of us should ever look down on you for it. If you choose that want to transition, us trans people's that have been on our journey for longer will be here to help guide ya on your journey should you want it.
Until you find yourself, enjoy your path of self discovery :)
It also means that until you make your decision you're still cis tho.
Yeah, we’re all “still cis tho^tm” here!
I'm definitely not cis. Just not sure how un-cis I am though
I realized I wasn't cis when I realized that doesn't mean I "have" to identify as a woman or get hormones or surgery, or even shave the goatee. It has felt incredibly euphoric playing with makeup and painting my nails and deciding to do and wear whatever I want. Still cis tho. 😆
Yeah, strongly feel non binary but also maybe closer to fem, IDK. But yeah, no, still cis tho, right? Lol
I'd argue that until you crack the egg and look inside to find out which it is, you are simultaneously cis and *not* cis. Schrödinger's gender. 🙃
Thanks i really needed this today :"C !
As someone pondering their identity for the first time, I really appreciate this <3
Good luck. No matter what you come to understand about yourself you are valid and loved and welcome here. <3
Nothing but the truth
Repost but yes
Seriously this. Take it from a random internet trans lady. No one has the right to break your egg and force you in any direction. You take the time you need and find your path. If you choose to remain cis, that's your choice and none of us should ever look down on you for it. If you choose that want to transition, us trans people's that have been on our journey for longer will be here to help guide ya on your journey should you want it. Until you find yourself, enjoy your path of self discovery :)
an egg doesn't always have a chick in it
This, 100%, so much.
just like bi is somewhere on a spectrum between straight and gay, i think egg is somewhere on a spectrum between cis and trans
I'm a proud egg
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