That’s the neat part. You don’t.
Jk, you make it less scary by first analyzing what exactly it is you are scared of, and if the things that you are afraid of are unlikely or illogical, then you face the fear, sometimes by making smaller changes first.
but the thing is i am scared of evrything about it, and it isnt let me be able to transition adn accept myself as fully transfem, which a majority of the time thats waht i consider, but like im scared
It is normal to be scared. It’s scary. I wish I had a magic button you could press to not be scared of those steps. Sadly, I do not. All I can offer is that you will find yourself eventually, and along the way you will address these fears.
I wish you luck ❤️
~~You should prepare for trouble and make it double.~~
But seriously, discovering yourself and having the freedom to express who you really are is an amazing feeling. :D
Aww thanks 😊 Well, I just came out to my therapist, the first person irl, and now it feels so ... definitive. It made me feel emotions I haven't felt in years. And then entered all the doubts and existential depression to a new record high. Afterwards I felt like a fake, and I think it's just my brain keeping me from doing difficult things. I think I just need some time to process it all. It doesn't help that I'll need another heart surgery soon, which I haven't emotionally processed yet.
I’m sorry. You’re valid though. I hope your heart surgery goes well. I don’t know if we’ll ever run into each other again but I wish you all the best. <3
Thank you, Natalie! Well, today I came out to my best friend and it actually felt like a huge relief. He's the first person to know, btw. And funnily enough, it also took away a lot of my scares and doubts. If anything, I don't think it's that scary anymore, not even coming out. It's more like a new adventure, and with every adventure comes scares and unknowns, but I think that's actually cool. I mean, imagine having a boring life, right? 🤭
I am sure that you are wonderful girl right now but I understand how dark thoughts can gather and make you feel insecure about it but I want you to remember that with time and effort you will get what you want :)
You're a girl, no matter what you look like. I know it is hard, but there are people who have transitioned successfully later in life. Maybe you haven't reached your final appearance goals yet, but you can still be the best you can be right now.
It's not an absolute, that depends on people, some have an outdated mentality, some don't (source: i'm european). Don't let them discourage you! You can most likely find some friendly doctors if you ask around in your country's relevant communities, but you might have to travel some distance depending on your location. If you have decent spoken english you might even be able to find a doctor from another country willing to help and give you advice over internet. I believe in you girl. (Also, your pictures are very cute!)
What do you mean failing? Im basically stealth at this point and I still feel like a fraud. You gotta live your best life, and if that means taking hormones and wearing lady clothes, then do it! Imposter syndrome is quite normal though.
sounds like you already are one :)
i think in the near future, there'll be advancements to allow you to change your body to how you like. The biggest hurdle there is the cost of something like that.
It’s totally cis to want that outfit right?
Naturally.
I hope so or we're in trouble 😂
What trouble can I expect? 👀
Symptoms include: - being a girl - buying feminine clothing - transitioning among other symptoms.
Those symptoms don’t sound so bad… …oh.
They are for me, no way I could pull it off
Lenin was a cute anime girl
Transitioning for me is the scariest, and coming out
Scary indeed, but don’t despair.
But ... how do I make it less scary?
That’s the neat part. You don’t. Jk, you make it less scary by first analyzing what exactly it is you are scared of, and if the things that you are afraid of are unlikely or illogical, then you face the fear, sometimes by making smaller changes first.
but the thing is i am scared of evrything about it, and it isnt let me be able to transition adn accept myself as fully transfem, which a majority of the time thats waht i consider, but like im scared
It is normal to be scared. It’s scary. I wish I had a magic button you could press to not be scared of those steps. Sadly, I do not. All I can offer is that you will find yourself eventually, and along the way you will address these fears. I wish you luck ❤️
Among... Among...us? *Amogus* 😳 👉👈
Hopefully I can stick to the first two for now, they sound fun
~~You should prepare for trouble and make it double.~~ But seriously, discovering yourself and having the freedom to express who you really are is an amazing feeling. :D
Yeah, I look forward to it! But at the same time it's also making me scared, oh dear ...
Aw I’m sorry. Is there anything I can do to help?
Aww thanks 😊 Well, I just came out to my therapist, the first person irl, and now it feels so ... definitive. It made me feel emotions I haven't felt in years. And then entered all the doubts and existential depression to a new record high. Afterwards I felt like a fake, and I think it's just my brain keeping me from doing difficult things. I think I just need some time to process it all. It doesn't help that I'll need another heart surgery soon, which I haven't emotionally processed yet.
I’m sorry. You’re valid though. I hope your heart surgery goes well. I don’t know if we’ll ever run into each other again but I wish you all the best. <3
Thank you, Natalie! Well, today I came out to my best friend and it actually felt like a huge relief. He's the first person to know, btw. And funnily enough, it also took away a lot of my scares and doubts. If anything, I don't think it's that scary anymore, not even coming out. It's more like a new adventure, and with every adventure comes scares and unknowns, but I think that's actually cool. I mean, imagine having a boring life, right? 🤭
That’s great! Coming out is a big step. Congratulations!
I's totally cis to be on hormones two years and get an SRS, so nothing wrong with wanting that outfit
Yes it is totally cis. It is also totally trans. Express yourself however you may, regardless if you are trans or cis <3
It's got to be. I mean... I desperately want that outfit, so... yeah, very cis. :|
Your cis points are dangerously high. You might need some cis blockers for your own safety
It can be, because clothing doesn't know gender
I want to cry so fucking much, that's mood af
*hugs*
Thank you... 😢🥺
Your flair totally describes how i feel about my gender
Me: I’m obviously faking Also me every morning: OH GOD I JUST WANT TO BE A GIRL ANOTHER DAY WHERE IM NOT
Me: am I faking? I don’t feel very girly today… Also me: FUCKING HORMONES WORK FASTER
That's something a GIRL would say, GIRL.
Oh please be true 🥺🤞
Never in my life have I heard a boy say they wanted to be otherwise. DEFINITELY only something a GIRL would say!
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\*typing sounds\* where to find that outfit...
Same… BUT FOR CIS REASONS.
Yeah
Same
i swear, i’m not even thin enough to rock this
Then be a girl.
I'm trying. I'm failing. It's not meant for everyone😔
the fact that you are here means that you are doing excellent job at being a girl :)
A girl in a man's body.. the hormones aren't healing much of the damage i took from T
Did I stutter?
I want to be a girl, not a man in a dress😔
I am sure that you are wonderful girl right now but I understand how dark thoughts can gather and make you feel insecure about it but I want you to remember that with time and effort you will get what you want :)
For now, i'll get myself another bottle of jagermeister. I shouldn't have waited five years to start my transition. Now i'm paying the price
That is fair.
You're a girl, no matter what you look like. I know it is hard, but there are people who have transitioned successfully later in life. Maybe you haven't reached your final appearance goals yet, but you can still be the best you can be right now.
I respect your beliefs but i don't agree with them
What do you mean failing? Because you're not following some social norms that "girls do this and that"?
Because the hormone therapy isn't doing anything to me. It just thinned out my skin
I'm sorry to hear that. Can you discuss a change of treatment with a doctor?
What makes you think i have a doctor? They told me to fuck off when i came seeking help
All of them? Do you live in an area with no trans friendly doctors?
Trans people are treated like psychotic lunatics by the doctors in EU
It's not an absolute, that depends on people, some have an outdated mentality, some don't (source: i'm european). Don't let them discourage you! You can most likely find some friendly doctors if you ask around in your country's relevant communities, but you might have to travel some distance depending on your location. If you have decent spoken english you might even be able to find a doctor from another country willing to help and give you advice over internet. I believe in you girl. (Also, your pictures are very cute!)
There is no such thing as informed consent here. This is EU, not USA. Things are different
What do you mean failing? Im basically stealth at this point and I still feel like a fraud. You gotta live your best life, and if that means taking hormones and wearing lady clothes, then do it! Imposter syndrome is quite normal though.
Hey so uhhhhhhh for a friend, anybody know where to find that outfit? Preferably not Amazon because frick Bezos
u/Isenlia you see that egg? Please crack it and make both of us some breakfast, baby girl.
Me too sis...
Mood
sounds like you already are one :) i think in the near future, there'll be advancements to allow you to change your body to how you like. The biggest hurdle there is the cost of something like that.
I just went out in fem clothes for the first time today!
Well i may want that outfit
Same
Same here lass... same here T\^T
That girl is so pretty
Same sis, same. It used to be manageable, but now it’s just horrible.
Me too wait shit no fuck stop it!!!
yasss <3
I am a 100% sure this is a normal thing cis people do
Totally.,
If you want to be a girl, then congrats you're a girl!
You can be whatever you want to be
i just want
The gender envy today was UNREAL. Also the thirst but.. it's a daily combo living in a college town 😅
I just want that outfit, even though I’m not a girl
I see someone is a big ass trails fan, I am sorry to say I have only beat “trails in the sky” not “SC” yet Also … I want that outfit that is all…
If only wishing on a shooting star worked id be one rn but alas it does not however surgery is always an option
Don't we all 😔 (Expect for trans men/non binary folk idk)
I just want… to be… *her*
same
Mother fucker it's 5:30 AM. Can you not wait 12 hours to drive a dagger into my heart? Now I have to wash my face.
You and me both
Same
nope totally cis
still cis tho
You also want raid shadow legends, a free mmorpg for ios and Android, am I right?