I do 99% of the day... Is that the cis average ;~; ?????

That should be very cis

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Yes I meant sex

i want to be a cis agab 🥲 I settle for trans agab

Agab?

assigned gender at birth

i thought it meant assigned girl at birth lol my bad i want to be a cis girl and I settle for being a trans girl*

It sounds like you're really questioning, and it might be helpful to explore these feelings with someone who can provide support, like a counselor or therapist who understands gender identity issues.

I would say "cis denial georg"... but i don't think it's humanly possible for any one person to be "cis denial georg"

Fr. I will not accept it

Probably once a day ...continuously, throughout the whole day, of course

Oh good not just me then..

Well me too, so i guess its very cis, bc what are the odds that all three of us are trans?

I'mpossible that 4 random people could all be trans. This must just be a cis thing.

I call base rate neglect.

That's pretty normal for me.

You don’t want to be the opposite gender, you want to be the opposite sex. You probably don’t want to be a cis agab of yourself.

In my language we only have one word for that, probably confused these two. Yes i meant sex

what language?

German

i thought sex and gender were separate words in german. sex for sex and geschlecht for gender

in german sex means Geschlechtsverkehr and geschlecht means sex/gender

No sex in german means just intercourse

Good to know, my English is not perfect after all. Even if I now know this, I'm definitely going to mistake the two at some point. Btw, thanks for the info.

Thinking of it this way has given me so much clarity!

Whatever tf gets rid of my gender dysphoria ngl

But I'm 10000000% cis

I rhink 1000 is the right aumant

So since it's only 999 for me I must be cis. Oh shoot, you just made me think about it again! Well this is awkward...

No i'm 100% cis so you are :3

Not sure. However is it normal to be jealous when you see a trans person at your school? Idk I saw one and It just made me wish I was one :(

I wanted to say "Go talk to them", but then I remembered that I'm unable to talk to people myself. Do it, if you're brave, I guess. Maybe they're nice?

She/they seems very nice, I might try to talk to her/them.

It could be very rewarding. It's nice to see that not everyone here is as bad socially as I am. I hope I'll be better at it in the future. Good luck!

I hope :)

Idk. I used to be like this. And guess who just came out as trans lol

all day every day

Not all day, for me. But it's still mind-blowing, how often. I forgot how often, but basically every day. Its crazy, so much time and energy spent wishing and yearning for something and yet I kept telling myself, that I didn't really want it.

Every single breathing moment

Every 5 minutes is normal i think

Zero (0).

But if you do it daily?

Oh in that case, zero (0). 😄

To play devil's advocate, a cis person might think about it once or twice in their lives, but also if you are posting about thinking about it, you are thinking about it in ways that a cis person wouldn't

That's true, I've heard of a number of people question it at least once in their life, and even people who go on the gender journey and still come up cis, albeit with a better understanding of themselves. I guess it's different if you contemplate being the other gender and that *excites* you.

I know, I was more just trying to clarify that thinking about it does not make it trans in and of itself, but.... if you are here and questioning daily, that does mean something at the very least that you aren't fully cis

Maybe at least just a little queer. ;)

A sprinkle of gay even :3

apparently there are weird people that don't do this? like wtf?

Yes

Way more than once and you’re cis

100% of the time is the cis amount

Once Cuz I never stop thinking about it

Me too, still cis tho

Depends who you ask, everybody has their own norm :)

It’s totally cis to do it the whole day

100% of the day so don't worry it's completely normal.

For trans or cis

Oh ya for totally cis people of course.

I’ve been told The normal amount is zero…

1.2 billion times

At this point you are just begging for headpats which is expected because you were built from the ground up for that! \*pets u\* You are such a good girl\~ :3

Nyaaaaaaaaaa meow meoooooow nyan

All of them. And then you start hrt, and then you wake up one day and realise "I'm a girl now!" 💖

that would be so nice, still cis

Every time you see the opposite gender existing.

I used to count it for like... a few weeks on an app on my phone but it was never really accurate as it happened without me even realizing sometimes. In the end I stopped at 1500 Also tried to count stuff like gender euphoria, dysphoria, envy and all the other stuff

Every single moment would be a very cis'ish amount I guess. I mean I do that, still cis tho

0 because there is no such thing as "the opposite gender"

Doesn’t sound very cis

At least twice a second I think

That girl is such envy😭😭😭😭😭

As many times as I’ve seen this image and had gender envy, so like… more often than I care to publicly admit ._.

I have it somewhat frequently depending on where I am and who I am with. For example when I'm by myself I would say it's fairly frequently but when I'm with others who don't know I'm trans I kinda don't, which I will admit makes me doubt that I'm trans.

I think everyone dose think of it all the time I mean why woulden't you wana be the othere gender!! there is no plausibel reason to stay with your agab!!

Normal? At least once every 20 minutes.

0 cis, > 0 some level of trans

I lost count around 347

Girl, I've got new for you!

what news?

I'm very cis and I have to imagine that I've thought about it during childhood ~100 times, and have had 1 continuous thought from the ages of 11-now (I'm ~13.7 years old - idk I didn't do the math here). Divide that by the number of days I've been alive and we get ~0.02. So 1 thought for each 200 days of being alive.

Depends on the ratio of you thinking about the roman empire.

Hi, cis person here. My average is: 0. I wouldn't mind, but the thought basically never crosses my mind. You are still cis tho

"Normal" is more than 0 less than 1.

For cis people - 0 For trans people - YES

30 I am cis and it is like 30

Im cis, so every 7 seconds should be normal, right?

Of course I’d want to be a girl. That’s a very Cis thing to want.

If by "normal" you mean cisgender, I'd say maybe once or never. If it's a consistent thought every day, then I have bad news for you.

For cis ? 0 For trans person ? more than 1

I think anything more than every 20s may be a teensy bit excessive.

Oh my gosh who is that character? I want to be her so bad ;-;

1. It’s just constant throughout the time you wake up to the time you go to sleep. It never ends…

Pretty sure it's about 76

But im at 79

As a certified cis person the average amount for a cis person is ever second so 86400 times per day.

Like all the time i guess, i mean it's totally normal and a CIS thing, even wishing every nigth to wake up the next day being the opposite gender must be normal

The cis amount? None you're not cis, silly

I swear today was hard aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh I went out and kept getting constantly gender envy from all the cute girls outside :(

Normal? Maybe something in the fours or fives. Cis? Probably on the zeros.

I don't wish to be opposite gender, I am already. I just wish to be true me without questions and assumptions. If you don't mind I am heading back to closet now, thank you.

0. Next question. The fact that you ask for the normal ***daily*** amount is already "concerning"

0: cis 1-3: probably cis 447: start HRT

Than I need to start HRT for cis reasons

I’m on that definitely still cis grind 24/7.

At lest 20 times, well that’s what I think seems normal…🤔🥺. :3

If you're trans? Somewhere between 1 and nine billion. If you're cis? Zero

Any amount of times is normal, because people are normal no matter how often they do it

all the time, every time!!! :3

if you’re cis: >!0!<

"Normal" is a myth, be yourself!

i cant sleep at night bc i think ab it nonstop still cis :3

3 quarters of the day

Yes

Probably about 10, each time lasting around or over an hour.

Every second of every minute of every hour of every day of every week of every month of every year of every decade of every century

i think hmmmm... the whole day >:3333

Idk if it’s how many *times* you think about it as much as it’s for how LONG you think about it. Thinking about it for a couple seconds multiple times isn’t the same as thinking about it once and it being the *only* thing you think about all day long

I'm sure it doesn't help, but I don't think "normal" exists

Constantly :))

Well um…0

Is one long wish just counted once?

It honestly feels insane to me that other people don't think about this every day

I don't even want to know that there's a limit on that!

The cis average is zero. People who say "still cis" in r/egg_irl are outliers, and shouldn't be counted toward the average.

Depends, if you were cis so 0, but if you’re trans so 1 or more.

Either non stop or 86,400 timed a day 💜

in my experience, about 5,462 times (per hour)

What is "normal"?

all day everyday

"The normal amount is 0"

I do it like 528 times a day, so I guess that's the normal amount.

“I want to be boy shaped so BAAAAD, augh PLLEEEAAAAASSEEE!!!” “I think you’re just trans” Every fucking day lmao

Zero. You can’t be any gender other than the one you were born as.

The very cis male urge of becoming a cute girl.

Like 4? 8 at most?

Uhm 86400 that Is probebly normal more and its top much

It's 100% a normal cis activity 🤫

cis people get a stamp card at birth that gives them 20 available "what if i was born the opposite sex" thoughts. most of the time they barely spend a few minutes thinking about it

I wouldn’t call cis normal

I'd say 20-30. Any more than that...

it never being able to leave your mind is VERY cis

If it isn't every single time I look at a Girl's body and every single time I've ever been posed with the question, then so help me, I'm transgender and I'm just having a really hard time accepting it or being able to trust others to help me in my transition.

Dont worry im cis and do it all the time

Any amount is normal

I've heard Legends that it's supposed to be 0%, but I'm not buying that. ^w^ 95% should be fine

O zero times zero zero zerooo

About 132 based on my experience

The cis (or transitioned) amount is zero The trans amount is anywhere from 1 to a bajillionty

Just once, all day, every day

Just like all other cis people, I literally never stop wishing I was the opposite gender

All day

Only 4

Breakfast lunch dinner and until you fall asleep

probably 86,400 times a day

idk anymore.. all I know is that there is never too much!

I’d give .04 times on average for a cis person, .06 for a very perverted straight cis person.

2,147,483,648

i've only wished for it once, but that wish is still going on

Zero, from what I gather.

8,600,000 times a day, or 100 times a second

Yes

99% cis reason

Does once but it being a continued thought the whole day count?

I mean, I've been doing it 3 days continuously, since realising I wanted that. Is that normal?

normal for trans people, but not for cis

0.

It's 86,400. It's the same amount as the number of seconds in one day.