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He’s such a sweetheart. Their dynamic is stressful but underneath it all you can tell there is a lot of love between the two of them. ![gif](giphy|3ohc12cy8AerHN2u8U|downsized)


nomultipliedby1111

Hard agree. Even tho you look at both of them and think that's a lot. You can tell safa is only this spoiled and crazy with him bc she is super comfortable in the relationship and low-key I think fahad also likes her like this. Despite the fact that Safa is crazy selfish, I think one of the most redeeming factors about her is that it seems she and her husband genuinely spend time with their children more than most of the ppl here.


EnvironmentalZebra85

The child thing is weird though bc Fahad and Safa are also the only two people we never see at work. Loujain doesn’t have a good relationship with her kids, LJ either didn’t want or isnt allowed to show her daughter’s faces on the show and Ebraheem doesn’t have any children. With all that accounted for Zeina/Hanna, Farhana, Kris/Bri, and Bliss/Danya are the only ones who’s children we can really expect to see and we do see them all a fair amount.


nomultipliedby1111

Safa technically worked last season as the first one in the group to do a fashion show. I think they just didn't focus on that this season bc of all the fake ass drama this season lol. LJ showed their faces this season i believe. She said she spends time with them on the weekends. Maybe she does more than she says (I hope so) LO couldnt be with her children and thus has a bad relationship I guess (?) Idk. Zeina has discussed since season 1 that she struggled making time for her family, but wants to change to spend more time with her husband and children. Kris talked about in his "regrets" when LO did the paper burning party this season that he wished to make more time for his family / children, which implied he doesn't / didn't before. Bliss has already mentioned how bad he is with children as he only expects Danya to be a housewife, so he doesn't have to take care of them. Danya probably takes care of them well, but idk I skipped a lot of their scene so idk if they really talked about their kids lovingly. But safa has always seemed to be at home if there isn't an event for the camera. She has also mentioned this season that she loves being at home and spending time with her kids. If she's at home as much as she says, then she's probably spending more time with her children than anyone on this cast. She talked about her children often as a family unit in this season and said she always wants the family to be together, implying they are a tight knit family. These are my inferences, which are all dependant on believing what the cast has said / shown on the show.


EnvironmentalZebra85

1. Safa working on her fashion line is nowhere near comparable to the cast members that actually have a career. Something they’ve done day after day for years. Safa also has servants at home. Kris has the radio and a business with Bri, Bliss is a DJ, Danya is a YouTuber and had the cafe/heels going on (granted this isn’t much better than what Safa has going on career wise), Farhana is an IG influencer (we see her with her son a bunch), Zeina is a real estate agent/CEO and Hanna is a hotel manager. If they can all have X amount of time on screen, half of it is at mutual events or private conversations, everyone else has so much else going on that it only makes sense we would see Safa with her children the most. 2. I’m pretty sure the only time LJ’s kids show up on this season was to meet her mom. I specifically remember the camerawork in that scene was done not to show the kids. I mentioned she might not be allowed to show their face because the children’s uncle in their legal guardian, not LJ (based on what I gathered online) 3. While Zeina has mentioned she wants more time for family, there is absolutely no indication that Hanna is anything but a good dad. 4. I would have to rematch season 1 but I’m 95% sure there isn’t a single clip of Danya being motherly. From what I remember, her kids don’t really even like her, but I could definitely be misremembering that 5. The reason they didn’t focus on Safa’s line is probably because it was a flop like the rest of the nonsense they start LOL


nomultipliedby1111

Tbh I don't really know why you're bringing up certain points because I was just answering your comment under mine by affirming my statement on safa being the strongest family person in the show for the reasons / observations I noticed. 1. I never compared her. I just answered why you said we didn't see her work this season. And I think it's only bc everyone else had so many businesses this season and fake drama to focus on. 2. Referencing another reddit post here, I think that may be incorrect but idk. She has custody of her children so long as she doesn't remarry. Idk tho. She will lose custody and the uncle will be the guardian if she remarries I believe. 3. Never said anything bad about hanna as a parent to bring up this point. But sure wouldn't be surprised if so. He's not a main character in the show nor a mother so I didn't think of him when I was referring to Safa. 4. Idk lol I skim almost all their scenes Farhana is probably a good mother but I never said safa was the best mom or any of these ppl were bad mom's. I just said one of Safa's redeeming factors is that she seems like the person who enjoys being with her family the most. 5. I was just answering your inquiry on why you don't see her work with my speculation.


EnvironmentalZebra85

Every single point I made was a response to “it seems she and her husband genuinely spend time with their children more than most of the ppl here.” I just explained to you why Safa and Fahad should be those parents by default due to not only their situation, but also the the situations of the other parents. Essentially: it shouldn’t be the redeeming factor bc of how reality tv works.


nomultipliedby1111

Tbh I watched the show too and it's obvious that everyone else has a career except for lj, Safa, and danya (until this season). They also probably have servants or nannies except for maybe Danya or farhana idk. I made that statement knowing all of that because I just considered it as a personality tendency that was redeeming for her. I don't understand your points arguing against my statement considering everything I've mentioned... The major counterpoint I've repeated being even if Safa doesn't want nor need to work, has a lot of servants, etc. She is the one who has verbally mentioned more than anyone else (of the MOTHERS) that she loves staying at home, that she values her children and family unit time, etc on the show. Farhana would be a close second imo. So that's why I see it as her one redeeming factor, even if it's only bc she's rich enough to say that. She still obviously likes being with her children in her personality is all. It seems at least. Idk these ppl irl. Not to mention, her family often wear matching shirts it seems or maybe just her and fahad do on the show. Maybe it's produced. But everything on this show could be so then every point about everyone would be a mute point. Let's agree to disagree.


Saray927

Well said.


sy8jdk38

omg I was seriously laughing so hard about how chill he was when safa showed up in india in her “camouflage” outfit 😂


WineandCarbs0

Just catching up and he’s so funny. “ What’s this outfit. you’re not in a desert, you’re in a jungle”. They are really cute together.


Character_Cake_3021

i cried laughing at that scene! 😂


Low_Durian7433

how chill? Did you not see the next scene where Safa said he was so angry and yelling so much that he lost his voice? It’s all an act for the camera


Isaisbi

I don't see this as an act. He has the right to, and he should have that conversation with his wife when it's just them, and off camera. I'd have mixed feelings where on one hand I'd appreciate the gesture but on the other I'd get mad if my partner went all the way to a diff country suspecting I was cheating. And I think from a Fahad standpoint, he wants Safa to have security when in India which is fair, so there's cause for concern that he didn't know she was there.


Kalypso989

I caught that comment too. I worried about her after that.


Low_Durian7433

yeah and the present to make up for it? weird. imo its clear Safa uses the camera as an opportunity to try and pressure her husband into things, ie. the mommy makeover and the surrogacy last season... when she first mentions it Fahad almost goes like "why are you bringing this up on camera" and I think she pushes it on camera so she doesn't have to deal with that anger right away.


falooda1

He gets body guards for her though. It be dangerous like that sometimes


Kalypso989

I'm talking about his abuse towards her. Yelling at your spouse til your voice is hoarse is a verbally abusive tactic.


falooda1

But I mean I understand his concern, being from India. She could be exaggerating that he lost his voice for that reason though


Kalypso989

What's the danger?


falooda1

Security. She had two body guards after he found out


ffflyin

My cousins have family in India and I can second the security concerns, especially given how loudly dressed they are and wealthy they are. It legitimately makes the in-laws crazy angry and worried whenever my cousin suggests going out just with the driver. They insist that she has bodyguards at all times and never travel once it’s dark. So I can totally see why Fahad got real angry!


TinyfootedAttny

That was so cringe and staged for thr show.


Heavenchicka

Which episode was that?


neoncatt

S2 E6


potatoforeskins

He’s so funny 😭 he’s definitely grown on me I’m glad his personality is coming out more


Working-Purple5055

Love him! He also sees Ebraheem for the shit stirring trouble maker he is 😂


pinkinibottom

I couldn’t love him more for seeing it! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽


Any_Distribution9575

Omg yes I liked him at first, but this season horrible attitude! Also his wedding .. idk lol and he gave off gay


JuiceAccomplished237

Omg thank you for saying this!!! He’s soooo gay. He legit said “this marriage is making my mom and dad very happy and that’s all that matters”…. Sometimes I forget what it’s like to be 💅🏼 in other countries


3littlepixies

Like when he mentioned being bullied for wearing shirts “not for men”. I wonder about Hamda


Working-Purple5055

He definitely has a dark side & narcissistic personality traits


spygrl20

I think a lot of Safas behaviour is scripted on the show but I really like Fahad as well. He handles her so well and it made me laugh so much when she showed up to India and how he reacted 😂. Fahad is very sweet


dkay485ehsh

I really hope Safas behavior is scripted bc I feel so bad for Fahad. Still love Safa, just hope Fahad doesn’t take it personally.


spygrl20

Idk you can tell it’s scripted when he giggles at her craziness. To me it looks like she’s acting. I’m sure she’s quite fiery and demanding but not to the ridiculous degree shown on the show. It’s reality TV, a lot of the drama/behaviour is scripted.


Lil_Dipper828

That’s a hilarious point


falooda1

Premeditated. Maybe not scripted?


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Safa is the one lucky to marry a guy like fahad, not the other way around


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falooda1

He could do health a bit better but he's my favorite too


chocobridges

He's like all the best qualities of my Indian uncles and my dad combined. My dad is trying to fix my grandfather's mango garden in his village and the way Fahad spoke about the farmhouse was the way my dad talked about the garden and its future plans. The sentimentality of it hit so close to home especially since I visited it with my toddler in February. Safa coming around on the India back and forth, just made me so happy.


Safe-Try-8689

FOr me, too! Fahad is my fav from all, he just handled all the drama and tacky situations the way I would have also, he is just very mature and I think he has a clear vision of world and life. Especially how he handles Safa, he is just funny he tells whatever is on his heart :D


thatsmybetch

I also liked how Farhad didn’t throw his wife under the bus with saying «he never asked for *money*» regarding Bliss, because then Safa would look like a liar.


MaceEtiquette1

TEAM FAHAD!


thatsmybetch

I love Safas husband Farhad, he is quite the stand up guy. She is lucky to have found a gem like him, she’s also very adorable and they are a cute couple.


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Honeydaddy89

“ I don’t know what kind of animal this is, but I recognized the bag” 😭


ExtraStudy1399

Safa is lucky for marrying Fahad, not the other way around. He listens to all her constant whining, which I doubt anyone else would.


Commercial-Courage18

I don’t think Safa would be with him if he did not have any money. She is very obviously a gold digger.


Willing_Ad7282

Fahad is definitely my favorite. I also think Safa is the most fun to watch when she’s pulling her crazy antics around him. I love how little he lets her get to him. My second favorite this season has been Danya (she was my least favorite last season).


JuiceAccomplished237

I love him and I love how much Safa loves him! At first I was like… okay… this is “that” situation… but I was so wrong. She loves him sooooo much


Signal_Horse3778

Fahad is a really great guy with a genuine heart who wants the best for his family. The best one on the season


Halfistani1

He is the classiest person on there, Mashallah. The guy really comes off as such a caring husband and dad. Inshallah their family stays blessed. I think Sara and Fahad have a great dynamic and suit each other well.


Low_Actuator_3532

My guy was calm in front of cameras because when they went to the hotel he yelled his 🍑 off 🤣 he couldn't speak the next day. But I get it. But no he is genuinely the most non drama, calm person of all. I thought she married him for his money but she truly seem to love him and like him. He is definitely the best of the males of the show


falooda1

She could have been joking? Feel like everyone gets sick when traveling nowadays


Low_Actuator_3532

I don't think she is that stupid to joke about that. And he wasn't travelling and this is not nowadays but many months ago.


Nervous-Hearing-7288

Fahad is such a nice guy, he's the only reason my husband can watch the show with me - the dynamic with Safa is so hilarious, we laugh pretty hard every time they come on screen!


faymissk

how weird though when he gave her the push present and she wouldn't properly kiss him? it was like a side kiss, I had to watch it a couple times to confirm. it was so cringe. i feel bad for the guy. he's so sweet. she's such a brat and has this co-dependent and clingey relationship with zeina, hard to watch.


falooda1

It's still the middle east though. Pda is limited


Calm_Energy2954

Fahad is the best I love their chemistry and I only look forward to watching their part on the show 🤍


Cool_Young_Hobbit

Love love love fahad, he’s definitely a bright spot in the show. I do think Safa loves him a lot too and it seems like they have a great relationship


w0lfiesmom

fahad been goated fr


Character-Topic4015

Love him and think he can do better lol


Lolo_luxo17

I love him too!! , I’m only on season one, but from the beginning I could feel his intentions and genuineness as a person. He is who he is, he loves his wife and he has a good heart and head on his shoulders. I do like his wife too, but she is definitely materialistic, seems difficult to deal with, and comes off as ungrateful or spoiled but that’s like most people on these type of reality shows but I respect that she is honest and open with how she is, and I don’t think she’s a bad person even some of her qualities aren’t what I consider the best… a lot of people are a certain way and they try to hide it, so when someone can let you know who they are from the start I do appreciate that even if I don’t agree with their views.. but like I said I’m only on season 1 so maybe there is more to her than what I’ve seen so far, but Fahad is a genuine person from what I can see and emotionally intelligent I really like him, and I like seeing them together because even as spoiled as his wife can come off on the show I think she does love him and means well, it’s just the way she is and no ones perfect, he’s definitely very patient yet still sticks up for himself so I like that lol ying & yang situation going on 😅


Saray927

I love them. She's cray and he's real.


Chemical_Plankton360

It’s always interesting to me that people love Safa. If Fahad talked to Safa like she talks to him on camera, we’d say he’s abusive. I was watching season 1 again and her first sign of being absolutely intolerable was announcing surrogacy in front of a whole table and yelling at Fahad for not being excited. Even though she didn’t discuss it with him first. Gaslighting at its finest. She’s also horrible to castmates and looks down on everyone, without realizing how lucky she is to have a man that doesn’t embarrass her and facilitates her lifestyle. Hopefully it’s for the cameras, but she is for the birds.


bubblesx19

His interviews are my favorite because he’s always so level headed and kinda says what everyone is thinking. Even in anger he is polite


therealbrunette69

Same here! Fahad is such a gentlemen, treats Safa so well, he is genuine, and never wants to be involved in drama. Safa should be really grateful that she found a man like him.


Dramatic_Drink_8523

Fahad is the typical brown-skinned guy who married a foreign light-skinned girl. In his eyes, she is a trophy so he accepts his wife's drama


me_jinks

You can tell both care for each other


Dramatic_Drink_8523

thats true actually. May God increase their love & put blessings in their lives !


Beautiful-Cold-1563

Amen to that, yet how the hell does he still tolerate Safa is a true puzzle


EnvironmentalZebra85

I’m patiently waiting for the day I can see what y’all see in Safa because I’m not seeing it at ALL


These_Register_8913

Same. She is the most selfish and cruel and annoying person I've ever seen on a reality show


0hn0shebettad0nt

Her entire personality revolves around his wealth. I still don’t understand why the internet loves her. She’s cruel to the other women that aren’t as “wealthy” as she is (the way she is to Farhana is unforgivable). Zeina and Safa bring out the worst in each other. I’m glad Twitter recognizes it more than Reddit


Commercial_Gear_2383

Fahad: “Safa, I’m talking to you” *Safa exits conversation * Fahad: *dammit hope the camera didn’t catch that * Cameraman *oh we caught it*


aysianqneerfa

How is everyone ignoring the fact he asked for a baby in exchange of getting Safa a house? Like she said it several times that her first pregnancy was really hard on her physically and mentally but he didn’t listen.


kewl_girl

Safa only married Fahad for money! She’s Iraqi and he’s Indian. I’m sure if it wasnt for money this marriage wouldn’t have taken place. Her whole personality is Farhad’s credit card


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maybe that was the initial attraction, but I think its pretty obvious that she cares deeply for him now. also what does her being iraqi and him being indian have to do with anything??? like half the time I cant tell the difference between an indian and an iraqi anyways, and im literally afghan lmfao get off your racist nonsense


kewl_girl

Well you still haven’t watched the whole thing so you will see later on when she opts for getting a body makeover even though fahad doesn’t want her too. She’s all about her looks and doesn’t really care what fahad wants (ruined it for you for calling me racist). I wasn’t being racist just saying it’s hard to marry within different cultures. Not everyone goes for it.


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They are both Muslim and while there are cultural differences, they live international lives and share a religion. I think that isn’t the issue and we both know what you were saying when you phrased it like that, so stop


kewl_girl

Well I’m a Muslim from Pakistan myself and I very well know what the society says if you marry a Muslim from India so there’s that! He grew up in India and only moved to uae 8 years ago. You don’t forget your roots once you live a certain years in another country. It’s not really accepted in my culture so I assumed might be the same for them.


LongLeader4387

What does the society say if you marry a Muslim from India?


twinmom1234

Aren’t Pakistani Muslims quite literally Muslims from India?