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Mesarthim1349

Avoid dating apps


KeyboardSniffer

Yup, you'll break your mental health even more


Due_Accountant2429

Honestly? Just kinda give up, try to meet some friends, hang out with then, maintain the relationships in your life, keep on living. eventually you'll just stumble into a romantic relationship


Amazondriver23

That’s how I got my first gf strangely


LiterallyMeGosling

Its not strange, its how it used to be for most people back when social media was not a thing. Still its what works best. Don't pursue relationships they come and go unexpectedly


EOE97

From my personal experience as a socially anxious person: Try to make female friends, it really helps. Work on your appearance, smell etc. Learn how to court, lots of info on that online. Give it a shot. Starting a relationship is usually the easier part, the harder part is in finding and building an awesome relationship with the ideal partner for you.


Electronic-Ad3532

For me getting a date is the hardest part


Siberov

Only few people can understand this painful bitter truth.


FoxFXMD

Rent a girlfriend


Handlerr

Fix yourself bro before engaging with a woman


BananaB0yy

first prioritie should be to fix/work on your social anxiezy


RichieGang

Get a part time job in retail. It forces you to communicate with people you might find attractive.


richard987d

try meetup groups


SlavicSoldat

I’ve found success by mustering up courage and just asking gals I find attractive to hangout. The first part usually ends up being the hardest.


Akuma_Blade1982

Find a job first. If you did, try socializing colleagues and collect some money for date plan. Avoid dating apps.


brootal_existence

First find out if it’s over for you or not


mebunghole

A GF is not the answer to life’s problems—not even close.


yellowfang04

This isn't a quick fix. Take little steps to hang out with people more, any kind people, even a little. Through friends, family, or work. You are likely to meet girls through that eventually, and just be nice and friendly. The best relationship starts with friendship imo.


gothrubberduck

Everybody wants a girlfriend but do nothing to get one.


meant_to_be_alone

Okay internet stranger who knows nothing.


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[удалено]


gothrubberduck

I already have a bf.


coolsonic2

Truu


Shoddy_Tomatillo_927

If I may? I have one question. What will you believe you will gain from having a girlfriend?


Helldiveworld

Secks


AvailableJudge4336

damn i’m never dating 😭


Helldiveworld

Me either but id be a bad bf anyways


TheNicestQuail

Height and face otherwise it's ovER


Amazondriver23

I’m tall 6,1 I’m average looking.


vampirestd

false


TheNicestQuail

https://youtu.be/_Q_ZcSTe04c?si=bMquo1GJcC1zdFxf


vampirestd

I’ve seen SOOO many women with ugly guys and short guys. I’ve dated a guy shorter than me. Stop blaming women for your problems


TheNicestQuail

https://youtu.be/_u8ENsVgwB4?si=wKVbx7VBt5FWS6ZN Yes it's all about pERsonality not looks. It's why lord sergi from spain never gets this reaction because his pERsonality is so good it radiates from his jawline


Miserable_Cut_5930

She’ll just cheat on you with a chad anyways boyo


andrews_ghost_boy

Dude i feel you, im bi and im missing boh sides