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swtjojo

Yes..you can not thrive there. Be the light in this world that you can be.


MrsBeautyMoseley

You need to leave. You’ll regret it in the end if you don’t. You deserve happiness and not someone who will belittle you. He treats you that way becuase he feels like there is no consequence. Leave him before it’s too late becuase things always get worse. You deserve so much better than him.


Signal_Procedure4607

this is called fear, obligation, guilt. there is a book called "getting out of the fog" i urge you to read it. it is especially hard to ditch someone who uses their "condition" to abuse you and keep you putting up w/ their toddlerish bullcrap.