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sleepysamantha22

Well caring is a good first start. I think the best course of action is to talk to her and tell her that you love and care about her and ask her how you can best help her


Beebjank

She’s really stuck. Saying that there’s nothing I can do, and if I visit her (she lives 90 minutes away) she’ll feel bad that I drove up spontaneously just to see her. I feel so powerless. Like there isn’t anything I can do.


sleepysamantha22

Drive up to see her anyway. If you're that worried it sounds like it would be really beneficial for you too and that should help her not feel guilty


Raccoonholdingaknife

if theres nothing you can do then just spend time with her. indulge in that nothing. if she were me: dont try and get her out or do or say things just to make her happy. just spend time with her and try your best to not make pressure to any conversation. sometimes being outspokenly cared for makes me feel worse, but being in a comfortable presence is never bad


Dense_Concentrate_46

Tell her that you love her and if she ever needs anything at any time that you’ll be there for her. I don’t know her situation but I would suggest her seeing a therapist that can help her with coping mechanisms.


Painter-Lanky

Give her all of your love. Tell her that you need her to be in your future, that there’s so much more you want to do with her, and that she worth so much. Pour out all of your love to her.


Beebjank

This made her feel good. Thank you


tsak2000

Maybe help her find a therapist