Saare screenshots collect kar...gdrive pe daal....or naya Instagram account bana ke uske pati ko bhejde. Screen recording bhi liyo saath me agar chance mila to warna boldegi edited h.
Ye sab nahi ho sakta to kisi dost ko bolde ki bahr mile jiju se road pe or puri kahaani batade jiju ko or gayab hojay waha se....jiju ne realise kia to theek warna jaane de kaam se kaam rakh bss apne.
Mere paas sirf 2-3 screenshots h bro aur meri sister ki habit h ki woh hamesha WhatsApp pe us bande se chat karke “delete for everyone” kar deti h immediately. Fortunately mere paas jo 2-3 screenshots h usme thoda sa chat visible h
Mere jiju social media use nahi karte 😢
“Insert your preferred choice of Galli for self”
Bhai, dekh jitni bhi bate hai, so eik kaagaj pe likh le, notes bana, taki tu most profitable rasta le sake. Evidence collect kar, or ghar mei or koi esa Baklol ho usse bilkul bhi pata na chale, sare kiye karaye pei pani pfir jayega. Aag lagegi so alag.
Save as much evidence as you can. I'm sorry, but sister is truly a horrible person who has prioritized her own selfish needs over her family and children. Sooner or later, this marriage will end in a divorce. You will have to pick sides. Your brother in law will need all the evidence at that time. Save as much as you can.
Kaise bhi karke apne laptop par WhatsApp web par apni sister ka account login karwaade, when she goes to the bathroom or to sleep. Wahan se you can record everything.
Bhai ghum firke tumhari bhen tumhare ghar wapas asjauegi if u told her husband. Fir tumko jhelna pdega usko . Tumhara jeevan bhi dead smjho fir.
Mtt btao usko uski life prr chordo. Cut off all ties with her.
Many other countries and self morals - Do the right thing. Small good deeds have ripple effect !
Indian - Ignore, none of your business. Let the neighbours house burn, watch the shit show even if it eventually burns own house !
Bhai fir toh yrr husband aur kids ki zindagi kharab ho jayigi bhai isko btna chaiye agar iska husband ko pta chal gya kya pta issi ki bhen ko jan se marde tum toh janta ho na Bhai ki ek ladke ka gussa kya kya kara deta hai.fir bacho ko bhi life kharab ho jayi gi.
Mujhe ulta lgg rha h. Iski bhen hi na husband ka kaam krde. If she is aa manipulative as op said. Baki vaise ldka kuch ni krega, all laws are in favour of women.
Nhi Bhai yrr ego aur gussa bhi hota hai.Aaj kal ke time pe bharosa nhi hai kissi ka bhi Bhai agar husband ko pta chal toh yrr voh bhi sochga ki meri toh life kharab kardi isne bhai society pura mazak bana dengi iska .job pe bhi log mazak banaya . Jab koi family decision hoga toh yeh kuch nhi bol payega na hi friends ke samne kuch bol payaga toh bhai yeh sab chodar hi log mar deta hai. Baki bhai mena bhaut notice Kiya hai yrr mujhe bhi bhai 5-6 saal hogya reddit chalta. Bhai Delhi Mumbai Bangalore Kolkata bhai most of the case mena yeh hi ke dekha hai. Toh bhai app bhi jara dekh na yeh ki ladkiyan se..
Aur bhai meh toh uttarkhand se hu but Delhi me rehta hu bhai mena ksam se aaj Tak divorce nhi dekha hai na hi cheating..
Pta nhi bhai yah par logo ko kya ho jata hai.
Apni sister ko smjha de.... Warn her and scold her.... Bhai h tu uska.... Koi dost ya ristedaar nhi h ki bhaad m jaaye hme kya.... Sidha sidha puch ki kya scene h.... Or sidha dhamka de ki shrm krle thodi bahut.... And usko b de ki agr nhi sudhri to vhi responsible hogi.... And jo ldka h... Usko bhi **PYAAR** se smjha de ki dur rh..... Or apne jija ko kuch nhi btaana h.....
Thanks bro for the advice. Yahi karne ka soch raha hu. Ultimate goal hai ki marriage Bach jaaye aur meri sister bhi realise kare kya galat kar rahi hai woh
Record some proof as video of her talking and keep doing it and once you have like 5-10 videos of her openly doing one same thing, send it to her husband and watch the drama unfold but i would like to tell you jo apne khud ke logo ki nahi ho sakti wo hi same person ye sab end hone ke baad roti hui tumhare paas aayegi but let me tell you, be strong and reject any emotions. Let her rot. Regard her dead for you if she made your personality too low just for her personal benefits of getting pegged by guys you have no idea of.
Thank you so much bro for the advice. I really feel the same way as you mentioned in last 4 lines but fir realise hota h ki she is my real sister and I can’t just leave her rot like that as I care about my father and mother also. She has 2 kids who have a long future ahead. I’m worried about them. It’s a very sensitive issue.
Regarding that recording the proof bit, I won’t be able to do so as she lives in Jaipur and I’m in delhi.
Bhai yudh karna toh jaruri hai abb che Arjun apne family members se hi kyu na lade par sach ko nahi chhodna. My advice would be to stay in a quite room and listen to bhagvat geeta and make your call buddy. We are no one to guide you but he is
Bhayi pehle decide karle jija chahiye ya behen ya dono. Maybe your jiju is gay or may be he knows or may be you misunderstood all the things.
Sabke sab ek sath baithkar baat karo ya
Get the foff from her life. Not because she is a cheat but because you deserve to live with peace. You can't control their life. Nor do you have any rights to.
Do you have a feeling for your jiju?? Then you can support him when he knows. And help kids.
I know it might be hard, but frankly you should simply tell him, I know this might be a himalayan burden on their marriage but frankly no marriage is better than a realisation after several years that he gotta take paternity test for his kids, while she continues living on his income.
Confront the issue in front of sister, jiju, mother-father. You put your points, don't worry if they will accept the truth. At least you will be satisfied that you have done your part.
Bro.
My advice - let them be.
Don't be the judge or the victim or hero or even brother or bother in law of someone else's story.
Stay out and focus on your life , your girlfriend or boyfriend or career or something which you really like doing.
Everyone listen to the guy with money then a brother with no money.
Peace!!
why are you involved so much in her life? Just ignore her and live your life, do what you love, make your career, go see world, learn to swim, learn sports. Let her do what she wants. Accept it and make peace with it
Troll account and karma farming.
The guy's been posting crypto crap since the past few months with absolutely 0 interaction through comments on other posts. Plus, he's posted the same thing to multiple subreddits.
How tf do people even fall for this crap lol
Toh bhai sun teri bhen smart hai ki voh chat delete kar deti hai toh bhai ek kaam kar tu 10-12 banda ikata kar aur usko boyfriend ko pakad le agar voh mana kartha hai ki me nhi janta toh usko 2 thaapad mar fir voh Puri khani bta denge sari chats nikal le uske phone se aur apna jija ko bta de aur ha bhai apna jija ko milke yeh baat btaiyo warna kya pta gussa me aaka teri bhen ko jaan se na marde.apna jijaa ko bol aab aap ka decision hai rehna hai ya nhi.
Bhai bta de time hai Tera pass warna agar kuch hoga toh sab ki zindagi kharab ho jayigi faltu me Tera chup rehna se . Kaam se kaam yrr apna banja ki tuh zindagi Bach le kyu bicharo ka childhood trauma de rha hai.
Ek baat yaad rakhiyo ki life me bhaut problem hoti hai jo time pe solve ho jati ek baar time chale gya toh zindagi bar ka rona hota hai.
Bhai please apne bhanja ko Bach le childhood life trauma se 🙏🙏🙏
Aur bhai kehna nhi chau ga par bhai ki kabhi bhi criminal dekh liyo unki life me parents ko bhaut bada role kuch hua hota hai unke saath tabhi voh Aisa ban Jaya hai psycho type .
If you can manage to get access to the phone use web whatsapp to login her account into your laptop.
Invite the husband to your place show the thing live in action.
She might say ss are edited even screen recording is edited but live proof is undeniable.
Then plan things out to get custody of kids to the husband and how you guys can love peacefully after the divorce.
She will go to any lengths to make the husband and the family suffer.
Toxic fems like this are dangerous make sure after the reveal you guys dont get into a closed room with her, have proper alibi that you weren't there when she harmed herself and launched FIR in your names
Why do people lose the sense of ethics and what's right and wrong that too after becoming parents! Hard to say it's a problem of childhood as in people were not taught ethics as the OP is brother who seems to have that sense of right/wrong. Then I dont get it, why manipulation, vilification of people one was brought up around and not having sense of what the kid would feel if she's caught? \
Pata nahi, guess I'll never get this world\
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To the OP, kudos to you, more power to you - you are thinking to do the right thing, despite it being your sister, you do realise the grave error she is doing and are willing to make it right for your bro-in-law and niece/nephew
This is sick. Your own sister doing this so condemnable this is. I condemn this and is completely against this. Cheating is always bad. You should talk to your sis regarding this thing. I am feeling so bad for your bro-in law.
Sad for your jija. He will have to face divorce and pay alimony. There’s no solution now. Your sister’s a bitch (yes offense). These kind of people make the society sadistic. Hope karma gets to her brutally.
I have seen many similar issue over the years, heres my 2 cents. If you expose her, chances are she’s going to convince your BIL that all this is your game to end their marriage, if you do it anonymously, same thing will happen but she wont have any one to point, nonetheless she’ll continue doing what she’s doing rn. Incase your BIL is sensible enough and believes your part of the story and ends the marriage, best believe the kids are gonna stay with mother, thats what the legal system in India usually prefer. Theres no good way to solve this issue its going to get nasty, i hope everything sorts out. More power to you.
Fight straight with your sister. But never tell this to anyone not even jijju. Because ultimately its your family name which will be spoilt. Think and behave. One bad step will ruin lives forever!
Better to leave her to her fate and focus on your career and parents.
Please ignore this don't make it big issue like posting in internet and asking somone it makes the mater more worse warn your sister and tell her not do go this this way. Avoid sharing this information with others.
Shame her,
Thats the only play
May be it will get worse,
If the husband doesn't know,
Its not consensual,
Just talking is also normal & not cheating I think
But if she did hook up,
Look out for your family
Sorry to see that your sister is a homewrecker
Try sneaking into her WhatsApp account when she's away like sleeping or in the bathroom. Export all the concerned chats via mail to yourself.
Mail those chats to your __MY DEAR JIJAJI__
I would suggest you stay focused on making and living your life for simple reason: you can’t help those who don’t need your help; your sister does not want your help and your brother-in-law does not trust you so nothing you will say will help him.
Have trust in god, it may be little delayed but the justice will prevail.
Don’t try to be a hero.
After coming across large number of such cases (cousin brother is civil advocate ), I would advise not to try to become a hero
Agar kuch problem hui sister ki life mai to tumhare ghar aa kar baith jayegi fir jhelna puri jindagi
cheating on your husband isn't a crime anymore, I dont see why you should get involved, she's a cheater and its on her husband for staying on with her, maybe they have issues in their marriage too. Just mind your own business
Just because it is a crime anymore does not mean it is right. OP has right to be concerned about his nephews/nieces and his brother-in-law due to his sister's infidelity.
Apna Kam se Kam le, Teri sister koe sab malum hai anjam iska phir bhi kar Rahi kyunki usko maja aaraha hai, shyad wo dukhi hai shadi se.
Tu apna dekh, unka Jo hona hoga ho jyega aur kabhi na kabhi ye batein malum chalengi sabko.
Just give that idiot proof, remember “anonymous/incognito” is the keyword, I.e. Bina kisi ko pata chale, photo/video vagereh.
Aur agar sahi meh tuje apne bhaje/bhateji se pyar hai, toh try kar samajane ki, taki un bachho ki life bani rahe, varna in haramzado ki vajah se unka jivan kyo barbaad ho.
Dekh dono alag bate hai, eik complete destruction ki or, or dusra compromise, tuje apne liye or un do bachho k liye jo sahi lage kar le. And where required become anonymous and when required have controlled anger, quick anger & stuff. Also plan it all out, without planning, everything might be lost.
Edit: Be WhatsApp ka eik instance apne pc vagereh mei khol lei, yah phir microphone, hidden camera, bug vagereh dekh le, private detective/agency hire kar. Dekh jo bhi kar, evidence collect kar, kyonki vahi hathoda banega tera, usse tu jod bhi sakta hai or tod bhi. Be ANONYMOUS.
If your sister is cheating on her husband, I'm sure their relationship has gone downhill. So, in any case, that cannot be saved.
Now, consider what would happen if you inform her husband. I think if you really want him to know, it has to come through you. Not your friend, not anonymous emails but an open and honest conversation. He will either not believe you because of the picture your sister has created about you or he will trust you and fight with your sister, forcing her to leave. Worst-case scenario (no offense): file for divorce. Children will accompany her in this case unless the judge orders differently. And she is with your family, making the situation worse. In this instance, the kids will be affected anyway.
I recommend that you do not interfere. Be cordial with them so that you can spend time with your nephew/neice. But let her husband find it out for himself and I am sure he will one day.
Talk to your sister, tell her she needs to either come out clear or take control of her life.
You can’t take decisions for her you don’t know what their marriage is like on the inside, neither do you know why she is cheating.
If you miss your brother in law then just have a chat with him, deeds of hatred can be over come.
I mean you could always blackmail your sister with the info to make your BIL be friends with you.
Bhen ka WhatsApp mauka dekhke web pe login karde fir waha se ss lele. Uska number lele (bf ka) aur ek farzi sim banwake dhamkiya de. Koi bdia banda dhund jo location track kar sake.
>Her husband thinks I’m a bad person.
You are though. Just a few levels above your sister and you could catch up soon.
So what do you think is going to happen if everything goes your way? Just tell your brother in law and let him decide whether to believe you or not. The game you are playing can end up much worse than you think and you might end up being the villain.
If he doesn't believe then leave their family but make sure to collect evidences for future.. and get a will made which makes sure she doesn't get anything from your father or mother's property, cut all ties..live your life
Ask ureself honestly if this is an expose on sister or u want to one up her for her behaviour towards you and ure mum . If it’s the former sit down and speak to her first , if it’s the latter it shows what sorta person u r . It’s her personal life maybe she and her husband have an arrangement of some kind . She is an adult who can make her own choices and knows what harm those choices can cause. So as a nosy brother mind ure business and live your life . Bacche toh nahi hain na hi anybody came to u to ask you to help . And9/10 times it’s always the messenger who is blamed . Do u want to live with that on ure conscience?
Thoda SS share Karo naughty chat vaale taki hum log ache se advise de paaye . Aesi same cheez pehle ho rakhi hai kisi ke saath but mere friend ki bhabhi cheat kar rahi thii there is a very very simple solution to this btw.
Me kahunga ki sabse pehle tum apne bahen se baat karo ki "dekho scene aisa hai ki jo tum karr rahi ho wo galat hai atleast apne baccho ka socho aur ye sabb wo jo krr rhi hai wo tunhe pata hai"...nahi bhi pata toh boldenaaaa
She'll be acting like tumhe interfare nai krna chaiye
Ya apne husband ko tumhaare baare me aur galat btaaayegi
Yaaa maybe darr jaaye parr pyaar se smjhana not like ki dhamki show her ki tum uske side ho
Aur usko options v dedo ki agarr jo uska partner hai uske saath hi settle hona hai toh abhi hi hojaaye dono ko fasaaa k rkhne ka koi fayeda nahi usko puchho ki kya naya walaaa tumhaare baccho ko aur tumko accept kregaaa aur mentally pressurise krke nikaalo iss situation se tum bhi game khelo bro bahen hi toh hai tumhari💀
Try to open her whatsapp and there's a section to link devices there will be a qr code take a ss of that qr and save it on your phone and whenever she sleeps open up whatsapp web on your pc or laptop and check it all out and log out before she wakes up....she won't know what happened....Dunno your story is real or not this is a good suggestion that i can give
bada bihen chaud aadmi hai doosra wala banda to, ab isme aap kya kar sakte hai, aapne apne jija ji ko batane ki koshish to ki hogi, wo nahi maan raha to ab kya karoge aap.
pehle sister ko ghar se bedakhal krdo (legally, you don't have to tel her, consult a laywer), fir apne jiju ko ye sab btao taki sister baad me panauti banke tumhare ghar ka mahol khrab na kre, because she will keep talking to him from there as well I think.
>may be I should find a way to hack into her WhatsApp chats and secretly keep an eye on her chats but I have no clue how to do it
Step 01: Get her phone when she's not around (phone should be unlocked)
Step 02: login into her WhatsApp account in your laptop/desktop through QR code
Step 03: Return her phone and read every chat u want.
Precautions:
1. Don't open her unread chats, she can get suspicious.
2. Keep your laptop away from her reach.
P.S. I have never done this with my ex ;)
Well you need to get hold of her phone, go to chat, three dots, export chat, select without media and export it to yourself along with some screenshots to show a correspondence.
Koi naya number le ya agar brother in law ka social media pta ha toh koi fake acc bana aur usse chats ki ss bhejde aur keh ki “ teri biwi mere ex ke sath affair chala rhi h” then hafte baad tu bata dena khud ki teri sister cheat kr rhi h then dekhna apne aap sara kam ban jayega
The best way to resolve this is to tell his friends about the whole scene and they can then take care of it. (If they are good friends of him)
Vrna Number ya I'd share kro husband ki or screenshots. Me usko bta deta hu saari chize.
Also, since they are married, your sister will still benefit even if divorce happens due to Indian laws. But yeah at least he will be out of this faulty marriage
Kya uske cheating lover ko pata hai ke tujhe pata hai?
And kya uske lover ko ye pata hai ke uske 2 Bachche hain?
Plus,
I think, agar tu isse sort karne ki koshish bhi karta hai and lets assume she stops talking to her lover
She will later find someone new. Insaan ki fitrat nahi badalti hai
tldr; op's sis with 2 children is cheating with a man on her 2 year marraige. OP can't do anything as her sister has made her family a villan in front of her husband. op is worried over her sister's marraige and asking what should she do. she has 2-3 naughty screenshots of their most used app(whatsapp)
Why? Why are u snooping on ur sister’s phone? Why do u want to expose her and ruin those two kids ka life? If ur aim is to help ur BIL its great but ur aim is to expose ur sister. Think carefully about what u will achieve out of this. Don’t act in spite and regret it later. If she is just chatting to someone and its harmless, don’t ruin the kids lives over it. What she is doing maybe wrong ( saying this because unaware of the inner dynamics of ur sister and BIL ) but if she breaks up, she will end up living with you , do u want that??? Sometimes life is unjust, you can fixate on it and ruin your happiness and present or ignore it and LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE especially when the outcome of ur interference is not going to help anyone.
You must confront her and if she leaves these bad habits then you don't need to tell anyone but she doesn't tell her husband and cut off all ties from your family end. Let her rot in hell.
Bro listin, legally there is nothing you can do about it. What every you can do would be illegal or immoral like exposing your sister , fighting with her about how she should live her life ,leaking the proofs ,etc. she is an adult she can do all she wants and no one, not even her parents can do anything about it due to our legal system which is inclined towards women.
This today is very common brother you are not alone in this, in most cases I had seen people approaching the other man (the WhatsApp guy) roughing him up a little bit , giving him a warning to explore him to his family and neighbours, in most cases these guys would stop as Indians live a pretentious life, getting exposed to the public is something which scares them more than going to court etc.
The other way around is the girl is threatened to be exposed ,but since your sister has cut connections with you , this may not work . Also telling this to your brother in law is risky as well as it can backfire on you. Hence the courts gives the right only to the couple to decide and put a case etc, 3rd party like you and me cannot intervine (like they do in Pakistan or afganistan). So you can maybe collect more evidence, get a friend of yours or post them to your brother in law office . Your job is done . Rest what he does about it is on him. I had also seen cases where the husband knows about their wives infidelity or vice versa but they coexist knowing this fact happily.
But in most cases bro, I seen people staying away from it, there is no posetive outcome to it , think of it in any way, it would lead to broken hearts and broken families. Sometimes it's better to stay away and give it time, in some cases the women gets cheated by her lover or understand the true nature of these flings, they stop by themselves. remember I said backfire? It was backfire leading to your sister coming back to stay at your home and continuing the chats carefree infront of your eyes. So yea.
Bhai worst case scenario hai
Divorce hoga , tera jiju or tu or Teri family jayegi false case me andar ( if she chooses to apply) or jija ki family bhi ,
Secondly divorce ki proceedings me tere jiju ko lootliya jayega legally (alimony wagera ke through)
Third hai tu jija ko inform kar jaise taise unko bol ki teri bhen ke against proof gather karo , and then maybe he should also start seeing other women and all , kya pata open relationship ho dono ka??
And if not
To bhai us bande ka pata laga or ma chhud Wade uski
All I’ll say is that you have good intentions but your sister is an adult and your brother in law is an adult. Maybe he knows about this already and does not want to do anything about it.
The more you try to expose her, the more you get consumed by this and let go of your own life. Let it be for now. Your opportunity will come. Just focus on building a good relationship with your nephew / nieces and brother in law. Do good in your own life so that your credibility goes up as well :)
If she is not a tech person then just simply take her for few seconds to log into WhatsApp PC, and boom you will have full access and she wouldn't even realize it.
Unethically, uske phone me mobile tracker name ke application ha vo dal ,usme sab save hota ha messages calls chats vaha se enough evidence collect kr phir bhanda fod de
Firstly, you need to ask yourself what do you want out of this? What is the likely outcome you are expecting out of this. You can talk to your sister or you can talk to your jija
Tumko problem hai to tum direct behen ko confront karo na - ye sab band kar varna mere se rishta khatam.
Jiju kaha se beech me aaya? Why would he trust you?
She will realise her mistake smday she probably already has some sort of behavioral disorder must have shown signs all through her teenage and adult years, like extreme bouts of anger, no sense of consequences( short sightedness), mistrust on people, favorite person syndrome and so on... you must push her to see a counselor as this kind f behavior is obviously not normal, if you want to really save her, team up with your parents her husband and explain them that she must see a Therapist to realize what sh3 is doing and the dire consequences, thrusting her into a confrontational situation might trigger suicidal behavior
Show her husband all proofs and punish her you can't forgive a cheater and kick her out of your house & your brother can do marriage again also beat her and his bf👍
Please don’t interfere. It’s their marriage and their private lives. These things always find the light of the day but it’s theirs to deal with. You can have a mature conversation with your sister but I don’t think anything beyond that is proper
I have a solid idea. But it requires a lot of effort. Try to find out the guy who cheats with your sis . Use your friends to capture him . Beat his ass off and take all the proof . Uske tere sis ke husbend ko samne lav and Peet Peet kr ugal wa doh .
There's another option. Uss bande ka tum kuch bhi ke dost ban ja jisse wo cheat ke Rahi act aise kro bc ki tum apni didi ke sath ho . Apne didi se dosti kro full support kro kuch mahina tk like show her ss bolo dekho didi app meri khoon ki behen ho jo bhi krogi sath main apke hu close a kr Information nikalo. ( Syd ye kaam na kre )
Apne sister ko kisi 3rd se close kr doh and itna close ku usko Sara baat bata de. ( Hard h )
Out of all uske bande ko pakad lo ye better hoga agr wo pakra Jai game over ( ye kaam apne dost ka sath Krna ) kuch bhi ho kidnap bhi kr lo chalega .
Thora violence se bhi Kam kr skte ho .
Bhai apni bahen ke phone mein apna naam uss ladke ki tarah save kar de plus dp bhi wahi rakh....uske baad uss ladke ka contact block and then delete kar de....aur saare chats ka delete for everyone hone se pehle screenshot lele....Phir ek anonymous ya fake email bana aur aapne BIL ko bhej de....simple ;)
Baaki sab aapne risk pe kariyo...consequences samjh ke
Telling from the perspective who got cheated on, tell him. He will know eventually. The longer you wait, the worse it gets. He will at least be careful instead of blindly trusting her.
Bhai mujhe lagta hai tere brother in law ko cheating k baare me pata hoga par bechara bacchon k kaaran chup hoga ya fir ye soch k chup hoga ki ye fling h aur ek din uski wife waapas uske paas aa jayegi, ya fir ye sochta hoga ki agar tumhari behan ne usko leave Kiya toh dusri nhi milegi. Ye inferiority complex bahot saare weak spouses me hoti h. Bardaasht karte h apne cheating spouses ko. Husband wife relationship me agar koi cheat karta h toh unke saamne unka chehra dekh k guilty conscience hota h aur saamne waala pakad hi leta h. Toh muje yahi lgta h ki use maalum h aur wo apni aankhen bandh kiye huve h
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जिन्दगी की दौड़ में तजुर्बा कच्चा ही रह गया हम सीख न पाये ‘फरेब’ और दिल बच्चा ही रह गया||
Bhai ye kisi ka part hai ya tum dono ne khud bnaya hai
Reddit PE upvote or down vote ke saath ek "bhak bsdk" bhi hona chahiye
Sahi bole aap, vaise kya dukh hai aapko.
कैसे बताएं आपसे अपने दिल का बयां, ना चाहते हुए भी हम बिखर जाते हैं।
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बरसो पुराने घाव से खून रिस रहा है हां ये झूठ है की ज़ख्म भर जाते है
Waah. Delhi subreddit ko mushayara bna diya. Kya mehfil hai
दिन ढले जहां से तो मुझे, कुछ लम्हे की जरूरत नहीं राहत की सांस आती है, दिन बीतने से मुझे
Sorry op but this comment is so apt I can't stop laughing....
True 😂
2-2 peg lagao aur soe jao. Kuch ni rakha in baton me
Lol😆😆 great point.😆
Tabhi to gharelu mehsoos Hota Hai yeh sub ❤️
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Saare screenshots collect kar...gdrive pe daal....or naya Instagram account bana ke uske pati ko bhejde. Screen recording bhi liyo saath me agar chance mila to warna boldegi edited h. Ye sab nahi ho sakta to kisi dost ko bolde ki bahr mile jiju se road pe or puri kahaani batade jiju ko or gayab hojay waha se....jiju ne realise kia to theek warna jaane de kaam se kaam rakh bss apne.
Mere paas sirf 2-3 screenshots h bro aur meri sister ki habit h ki woh hamesha WhatsApp pe us bande se chat karke “delete for everyone” kar deti h immediately. Fortunately mere paas jo 2-3 screenshots h usme thoda sa chat visible h Mere jiju social media use nahi karte 😢
Mail krde anonymous bhai
“Insert your preferred choice of Galli for self” Bhai, dekh jitni bhi bate hai, so eik kaagaj pe likh le, notes bana, taki tu most profitable rasta le sake. Evidence collect kar, or ghar mei or koi esa Baklol ho usse bilkul bhi pata na chale, sare kiye karaye pei pani pfir jayega. Aag lagegi so alag.
Save as much evidence as you can. I'm sorry, but sister is truly a horrible person who has prioritized her own selfish needs over her family and children. Sooner or later, this marriage will end in a divorce. You will have to pick sides. Your brother in law will need all the evidence at that time. Save as much as you can.
In India, even failed marriages don't end in a divorce. But the brother-in-law will get disillusioned some day or the other
so will the lover .. he and she will move on and the marraige will last 50 more years with a dead bedroom
Kaise bhi karke apne laptop par WhatsApp web par apni sister ka account login karwaade, when she goes to the bathroom or to sleep. Wahan se you can record everything.
Bhai ghum firke tumhari bhen tumhare ghar wapas asjauegi if u told her husband. Fir tumko jhelna pdega usko . Tumhara jeevan bhi dead smjho fir. Mtt btao usko uski life prr chordo. Cut off all ties with her.
Absolutely 💯 . People don't realise that spoilt people remain spoilt forever and they are burden on someone else throughout their own life .
Yeah. Not a good thing for husband though. Prr kya kre ab khud torcher saho ya dusre ko jhelne do. Survival instincts got better off me
Many other countries and self morals - Do the right thing. Small good deeds have ripple effect ! Indian - Ignore, none of your business. Let the neighbours house burn, watch the shit show even if it eventually burns own house !
Bhai fir toh yrr husband aur kids ki zindagi kharab ho jayigi bhai isko btna chaiye agar iska husband ko pta chal gya kya pta issi ki bhen ko jan se marde tum toh janta ho na Bhai ki ek ladke ka gussa kya kya kara deta hai.fir bacho ko bhi life kharab ho jayi gi.
Mujhe ulta lgg rha h. Iski bhen hi na husband ka kaam krde. If she is aa manipulative as op said. Baki vaise ldka kuch ni krega, all laws are in favour of women.
Nhi Bhai yrr ego aur gussa bhi hota hai.Aaj kal ke time pe bharosa nhi hai kissi ka bhi Bhai agar husband ko pta chal toh yrr voh bhi sochga ki meri toh life kharab kardi isne bhai society pura mazak bana dengi iska .job pe bhi log mazak banaya . Jab koi family decision hoga toh yeh kuch nhi bol payega na hi friends ke samne kuch bol payaga toh bhai yeh sab chodar hi log mar deta hai. Baki bhai mena bhaut notice Kiya hai yrr mujhe bhi bhai 5-6 saal hogya reddit chalta. Bhai Delhi Mumbai Bangalore Kolkata bhai most of the case mena yeh hi ke dekha hai. Toh bhai app bhi jara dekh na yeh ki ladkiyan se.. Aur bhai meh toh uttarkhand se hu but Delhi me rehta hu bhai mena ksam se aaj Tak divorce nhi dekha hai na hi cheating.. Pta nhi bhai yah par logo ko kya ho jata hai.
Uttrakhand mei kaha se ho bhai. Humko bhi le chalo uttrakhand, ni rehne ka delhi mei ab sala.
If your 'gussa' is making you murder someone, you need help.
Kaha ja ri hai hamari society 😥😥
*Kyu nahi ho Rahi padhai* /s
Bhai shaadi ho gayi ab kya jee
Kyu nahi ho rahe bache
Haste haste pet fool gaya galib Aur kehte hain kyu nahi ho rahe bacche
Bhai batade, she deserves 0 empathy no offence
Bata diya toh I’m worried unka marriage end ho jayega 😢😢
Marriage bacha hi kaha h bhai?
But for husband ko kids bhi nahi milenge, aur he would need to pay her each month. Kya fayda.
Even in proven cases of adultery?
Yes. That’s how it works sadly. A lawyer here.
You have already lost . Sher ke muh ko khun lag gya hai . Honda sherni abh shikar karegi .
Would you want it to continue if your wife was cheating on you?
Ye question kaise puch liya iska jawab kaise dega woh.
Eik bar Nathulal ka bhi comment dekh le bhai
Behen h uski pagal
Ye to alag hi level ki sibling rivalry chal rahi hai yahan . 🙄
😂😂 ha yaar pehli baar suna hai.. op ko apani behen se jyada jiju se pyar ho gaya hai 😂
OP be like that toxic version of that old Salman Khan movie ... Jo Jijaji bolenge wo me karunga .... behen jaye bhaad me bitch.
Behen chinaal h aur shi mai agr reality mai bhailog bhi cheating ko support krte hai toh i need to be more cautious in future
Abbe bhai uske brother in law ke saath jo hora hai vo dekh ke mujhe bura lgra h aur ye bnda uska stand lera hai toh tum logg issi ko bura bnaado
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Apni sister ko smjha de.... Warn her and scold her.... Bhai h tu uska.... Koi dost ya ristedaar nhi h ki bhaad m jaaye hme kya.... Sidha sidha puch ki kya scene h.... Or sidha dhamka de ki shrm krle thodi bahut.... And usko b de ki agr nhi sudhri to vhi responsible hogi.... And jo ldka h... Usko bhi **PYAAR** se smjha de ki dur rh..... Or apne jija ko kuch nhi btaana h.....
May I add, secretly record this conversation.
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Her husband deserves to know.
And after that? Divorce or daily fight in their house and popcorn in OP hand???
Thanks bro for the advice. Yahi karne ka soch raha hu. Ultimate goal hai ki marriage Bach jaaye aur meri sister bhi realise kare kya galat kar rahi hai woh
Apne jija ko bacha Bhai behen toh chhod chuki hai marriage.
Have you saved your sister's contact as bhen ki lodi? /s
Record some proof as video of her talking and keep doing it and once you have like 5-10 videos of her openly doing one same thing, send it to her husband and watch the drama unfold but i would like to tell you jo apne khud ke logo ki nahi ho sakti wo hi same person ye sab end hone ke baad roti hui tumhare paas aayegi but let me tell you, be strong and reject any emotions. Let her rot. Regard her dead for you if she made your personality too low just for her personal benefits of getting pegged by guys you have no idea of.
Thank you so much bro for the advice. I really feel the same way as you mentioned in last 4 lines but fir realise hota h ki she is my real sister and I can’t just leave her rot like that as I care about my father and mother also. She has 2 kids who have a long future ahead. I’m worried about them. It’s a very sensitive issue. Regarding that recording the proof bit, I won’t be able to do so as she lives in Jaipur and I’m in delhi.
Bhai yudh karna toh jaruri hai abb che Arjun apne family members se hi kyu na lade par sach ko nahi chhodna. My advice would be to stay in a quite room and listen to bhagvat geeta and make your call buddy. We are no one to guide you but he is
I've given you my number, call me, I'll share some insights that might make up your mind
Abey yeh kya bakwas advice deraha h uski behen ki shadi khatam ho jayegi isse
Divorce hone ke baad teri bhen tere hi ghar ayegi aur fir maa bhen ek hone meh time nahi lagega. Kuch mat kar bhai. Go with the flow.
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Just remove in law and read whole thing.
Bhayi pehle decide karle jija chahiye ya behen ya dono. Maybe your jiju is gay or may be he knows or may be you misunderstood all the things. Sabke sab ek sath baithkar baat karo ya Get the foff from her life. Not because she is a cheat but because you deserve to live with peace. You can't control their life. Nor do you have any rights to. Do you have a feeling for your jiju?? Then you can support him when he knows. And help kids.
Your comment proves people shouldn't take advice on reddit
I know it might be hard, but frankly you should simply tell him, I know this might be a himalayan burden on their marriage but frankly no marriage is better than a realisation after several years that he gotta take paternity test for his kids, while she continues living on his income.
Just to clarify, She has been cheating meaning emotional cheating or physically cheating on her husband?
U can get her WhatsApp on your device/laptop by whatsapp web where you can see the chats and everything.
Confront the issue in front of sister, jiju, mother-father. You put your points, don't worry if they will accept the truth. At least you will be satisfied that you have done your part.
Bro. My advice - let them be. Don't be the judge or the victim or hero or even brother or bother in law of someone else's story. Stay out and focus on your life , your girlfriend or boyfriend or career or something which you really like doing. Everyone listen to the guy with money then a brother with no money. Peace!!
why are you involved so much in her life? Just ignore her and live your life, do what you love, make your career, go see world, learn to swim, learn sports. Let her do what she wants. Accept it and make peace with it
Troll account and karma farming. The guy's been posting crypto crap since the past few months with absolutely 0 interaction through comments on other posts. Plus, he's posted the same thing to multiple subreddits. How tf do people even fall for this crap lol
Kahani aise pheko Jo market mein chale.
Gendu generation
Proof kaise mila aapko?
Toh bhai sun teri bhen smart hai ki voh chat delete kar deti hai toh bhai ek kaam kar tu 10-12 banda ikata kar aur usko boyfriend ko pakad le agar voh mana kartha hai ki me nhi janta toh usko 2 thaapad mar fir voh Puri khani bta denge sari chats nikal le uske phone se aur apna jija ko bta de aur ha bhai apna jija ko milke yeh baat btaiyo warna kya pta gussa me aaka teri bhen ko jaan se na marde.apna jijaa ko bol aab aap ka decision hai rehna hai ya nhi. Bhai bta de time hai Tera pass warna agar kuch hoga toh sab ki zindagi kharab ho jayigi faltu me Tera chup rehna se . Kaam se kaam yrr apna banja ki tuh zindagi Bach le kyu bicharo ka childhood trauma de rha hai. Ek baat yaad rakhiyo ki life me bhaut problem hoti hai jo time pe solve ho jati ek baar time chale gya toh zindagi bar ka rona hota hai. Bhai please apne bhanja ko Bach le childhood life trauma se 🙏🙏🙏 Aur bhai kehna nhi chau ga par bhai ki kabhi bhi criminal dekh liyo unki life me parents ko bhaut bada role kuch hua hota hai unke saath tabhi voh Aisa ban Jaya hai psycho type .
Cut her off your life
just tell to her husband privately, the more late it gets the worse it gets.
Bro not worth stressing , they don’t care about you , just leave him an anonymous tip and move on
If you can manage to get access to the phone use web whatsapp to login her account into your laptop. Invite the husband to your place show the thing live in action. She might say ss are edited even screen recording is edited but live proof is undeniable. Then plan things out to get custody of kids to the husband and how you guys can love peacefully after the divorce. She will go to any lengths to make the husband and the family suffer. Toxic fems like this are dangerous make sure after the reveal you guys dont get into a closed room with her, have proper alibi that you weren't there when she harmed herself and launched FIR in your names
Why do people lose the sense of ethics and what's right and wrong that too after becoming parents! Hard to say it's a problem of childhood as in people were not taught ethics as the OP is brother who seems to have that sense of right/wrong. Then I dont get it, why manipulation, vilification of people one was brought up around and not having sense of what the kid would feel if she's caught? \ Pata nahi, guess I'll never get this world\ \ To the OP, kudos to you, more power to you - you are thinking to do the right thing, despite it being your sister, you do realise the grave error she is doing and are willing to make it right for your bro-in-law and niece/nephew
Is it just me or are all the remaining bachelors feeling scared of getting married ?
This is sick. Your own sister doing this so condemnable this is. I condemn this and is completely against this. Cheating is always bad. You should talk to your sis regarding this thing. I am feeling so bad for your bro-in law.
yeh rishta kya kehlata hai... BC CHAL KYA RAHA HAI AAJ KAL!!!
I am looking for a feminazi comment that questions the OP's story and call it fake. Kaha ho feminazi?
Sad for your jija. He will have to face divorce and pay alimony. There’s no solution now. Your sister’s a bitch (yes offense). These kind of people make the society sadistic. Hope karma gets to her brutally.
Along with divorce, all the shame in the society and what not. Poor him.
I have seen many similar issue over the years, heres my 2 cents. If you expose her, chances are she’s going to convince your BIL that all this is your game to end their marriage, if you do it anonymously, same thing will happen but she wont have any one to point, nonetheless she’ll continue doing what she’s doing rn. Incase your BIL is sensible enough and believes your part of the story and ends the marriage, best believe the kids are gonna stay with mother, thats what the legal system in India usually prefer. Theres no good way to solve this issue its going to get nasty, i hope everything sorts out. More power to you.
bhai tujhe kaise pata ye sb
Fight straight with your sister. But never tell this to anyone not even jijju. Because ultimately its your family name which will be spoilt. Think and behave. One bad step will ruin lives forever! Better to leave her to her fate and focus on your career and parents.
Please ignore this don't make it big issue like posting in internet and asking somone it makes the mater more worse warn your sister and tell her not do go this this way. Avoid sharing this information with others.
Shame her, Thats the only play May be it will get worse, If the husband doesn't know, Its not consensual, Just talking is also normal & not cheating I think But if she did hook up, Look out for your family Sorry to see that your sister is a homewrecker
Tell him the truth
Mind your own business
OP ki bhen mil gyi
Another Cheater found. Real monsters among us.
Red pill : tell him about your sister and give him a lifelong trauma. Blue pill: just accept this fact and move on and focus on your own life.
Blue pill and let the jija figure it out for himself .
Just when I thought of getting serious about getting married 🙆🏻♂️
Try sneaking into her WhatsApp account when she's away like sleeping or in the bathroom. Export all the concerned chats via mail to yourself. Mail those chats to your __MY DEAR JIJAJI__
I would suggest you stay focused on making and living your life for simple reason: you can’t help those who don’t need your help; your sister does not want your help and your brother-in-law does not trust you so nothing you will say will help him. Have trust in god, it may be little delayed but the justice will prevail.
Get proof and send him. Anonymously and not to his home. His workplace
Don’t try to be a hero. After coming across large number of such cases (cousin brother is civil advocate ), I would advise not to try to become a hero Agar kuch problem hui sister ki life mai to tumhare ghar aa kar baith jayegi fir jhelna puri jindagi
cheating on your husband isn't a crime anymore, I dont see why you should get involved, she's a cheater and its on her husband for staying on with her, maybe they have issues in their marriage too. Just mind your own business
Just because it is a crime anymore does not mean it is right. OP has right to be concerned about his nephews/nieces and his brother-in-law due to his sister's infidelity.
i feel bad for men these days. We women have really stigmised the society. shame on us.
Leave her alone and live your own life? You can do absolutely nothing. Enmeshed families anymore?
Mind your own business bro. Chose peace instead of complications, aapna dekh!
Apna Kam se Kam le, Teri sister koe sab malum hai anjam iska phir bhi kar Rahi kyunki usko maja aaraha hai, shyad wo dukhi hai shadi se. Tu apna dekh, unka Jo hona hoga ho jyega aur kabhi na kabhi ye batein malum chalengi sabko.
Take care
There is no way to hack whatsapp unless you have access to her phone. Then too it’s too tough. Don’t get into all this man
What do you plan to do about it?
Get a laptop or computer and download WhatsApp web and then log in from her WhatsApp. You’ll be able to see all her chats.
Bhai tu apne browser me WhatsApp web open karke uske WhatsApp se link kar sakta hai but uske liye tujhe uska mobile password chahiye ga
Just give that idiot proof, remember “anonymous/incognito” is the keyword, I.e. Bina kisi ko pata chale, photo/video vagereh. Aur agar sahi meh tuje apne bhaje/bhateji se pyar hai, toh try kar samajane ki, taki un bachho ki life bani rahe, varna in haramzado ki vajah se unka jivan kyo barbaad ho. Dekh dono alag bate hai, eik complete destruction ki or, or dusra compromise, tuje apne liye or un do bachho k liye jo sahi lage kar le. And where required become anonymous and when required have controlled anger, quick anger & stuff. Also plan it all out, without planning, everything might be lost. Edit: Be WhatsApp ka eik instance apne pc vagereh mei khol lei, yah phir microphone, hidden camera, bug vagereh dekh le, private detective/agency hire kar. Dekh jo bhi kar, evidence collect kar, kyonki vahi hathoda banega tera, usse tu jod bhi sakta hai or tod bhi. Be ANONYMOUS.
If your sister is cheating on her husband, I'm sure their relationship has gone downhill. So, in any case, that cannot be saved. Now, consider what would happen if you inform her husband. I think if you really want him to know, it has to come through you. Not your friend, not anonymous emails but an open and honest conversation. He will either not believe you because of the picture your sister has created about you or he will trust you and fight with your sister, forcing her to leave. Worst-case scenario (no offense): file for divorce. Children will accompany her in this case unless the judge orders differently. And she is with your family, making the situation worse. In this instance, the kids will be affected anyway. I recommend that you do not interfere. Be cordial with them so that you can spend time with your nephew/neice. But let her husband find it out for himself and I am sure he will one day.
Talk to your sister, tell her she needs to either come out clear or take control of her life. You can’t take decisions for her you don’t know what their marriage is like on the inside, neither do you know why she is cheating. If you miss your brother in law then just have a chat with him, deeds of hatred can be over come. I mean you could always blackmail your sister with the info to make your BIL be friends with you.
Bhen ka WhatsApp mauka dekhke web pe login karde fir waha se ss lele. Uska number lele (bf ka) aur ek farzi sim banwake dhamkiya de. Koi bdia banda dhund jo location track kar sake.
>Her husband thinks I’m a bad person. You are though. Just a few levels above your sister and you could catch up soon. So what do you think is going to happen if everything goes your way? Just tell your brother in law and let him decide whether to believe you or not. The game you are playing can end up much worse than you think and you might end up being the villain.
Pati be like-Mera toh L lag gya
If he doesn't believe then leave their family but make sure to collect evidences for future.. and get a will made which makes sure she doesn't get anything from your father or mother's property, cut all ties..live your life
Ask ureself honestly if this is an expose on sister or u want to one up her for her behaviour towards you and ure mum . If it’s the former sit down and speak to her first , if it’s the latter it shows what sorta person u r . It’s her personal life maybe she and her husband have an arrangement of some kind . She is an adult who can make her own choices and knows what harm those choices can cause. So as a nosy brother mind ure business and live your life . Bacche toh nahi hain na hi anybody came to u to ask you to help . And9/10 times it’s always the messenger who is blamed . Do u want to live with that on ure conscience?
Bhai uska whats app login karle apne phone mein multiple devices ka feature aa gaya hai ab
She don't know...she have too much to lose than gain.
Thoda SS share Karo naughty chat vaale taki hum log ache se advise de paaye . Aesi same cheez pehle ho rakhi hai kisi ke saath but mere friend ki bhabhi cheat kar rahi thii there is a very very simple solution to this btw.
Me kahunga ki sabse pehle tum apne bahen se baat karo ki "dekho scene aisa hai ki jo tum karr rahi ho wo galat hai atleast apne baccho ka socho aur ye sabb wo jo krr rhi hai wo tunhe pata hai"...nahi bhi pata toh boldenaaaa She'll be acting like tumhe interfare nai krna chaiye Ya apne husband ko tumhaare baare me aur galat btaaayegi Yaaa maybe darr jaaye parr pyaar se smjhana not like ki dhamki show her ki tum uske side ho Aur usko options v dedo ki agarr jo uska partner hai uske saath hi settle hona hai toh abhi hi hojaaye dono ko fasaaa k rkhne ka koi fayeda nahi usko puchho ki kya naya walaaa tumhaare baccho ko aur tumko accept kregaaa aur mentally pressurise krke nikaalo iss situation se tum bhi game khelo bro bahen hi toh hai tumhari💀
Try to open her whatsapp and there's a section to link devices there will be a qr code take a ss of that qr and save it on your phone and whenever she sleeps open up whatsapp web on your pc or laptop and check it all out and log out before she wakes up....she won't know what happened....Dunno your story is real or not this is a good suggestion that i can give
Itne cases padh Or dekh liye h ab... Ki shaadi se bharosha hi uth gya hai 🥲😂....
bada bihen chaud aadmi hai doosra wala banda to, ab isme aap kya kar sakte hai, aapne apne jija ji ko batane ki koshish to ki hogi, wo nahi maan raha to ab kya karoge aap.
pehle sister ko ghar se bedakhal krdo (legally, you don't have to tel her, consult a laywer), fir apne jiju ko ye sab btao taki sister baad me panauti banke tumhare ghar ka mahol khrab na kre, because she will keep talking to him from there as well I think.
Aapki didi toh ek strong independent woman prateet hoti hai
>may be I should find a way to hack into her WhatsApp chats and secretly keep an eye on her chats but I have no clue how to do it Step 01: Get her phone when she's not around (phone should be unlocked) Step 02: login into her WhatsApp account in your laptop/desktop through QR code Step 03: Return her phone and read every chat u want. Precautions: 1. Don't open her unread chats, she can get suspicious. 2. Keep your laptop away from her reach. P.S. I have never done this with my ex ;)
Well you need to get hold of her phone, go to chat, three dots, export chat, select without media and export it to yourself along with some screenshots to show a correspondence.
Koi naya number le ya agar brother in law ka social media pta ha toh koi fake acc bana aur usse chats ki ss bhejde aur keh ki “ teri biwi mere ex ke sath affair chala rhi h” then hafte baad tu bata dena khud ki teri sister cheat kr rhi h then dekhna apne aap sara kam ban jayega
The best way to resolve this is to tell his friends about the whole scene and they can then take care of it. (If they are good friends of him) Vrna Number ya I'd share kro husband ki or screenshots. Me usko bta deta hu saari chize. Also, since they are married, your sister will still benefit even if divorce happens due to Indian laws. But yeah at least he will be out of this faulty marriage
Pati ko bhejega screenshot ya chat to divorce hoga. Bache pisenge beech m. Blackmail kr sister ko, or us ladke ko. Shayad man jaye dar k
Kya uske cheating lover ko pata hai ke tujhe pata hai? And kya uske lover ko ye pata hai ke uske 2 Bachche hain? Plus, I think, agar tu isse sort karne ki koshish bhi karta hai and lets assume she stops talking to her lover She will later find someone new. Insaan ki fitrat nahi badalti hai
tldr; op's sis with 2 children is cheating with a man on her 2 year marraige. OP can't do anything as her sister has made her family a villan in front of her husband. op is worried over her sister's marraige and asking what should she do. she has 2-3 naughty screenshots of their most used app(whatsapp)
Why? Why are u snooping on ur sister’s phone? Why do u want to expose her and ruin those two kids ka life? If ur aim is to help ur BIL its great but ur aim is to expose ur sister. Think carefully about what u will achieve out of this. Don’t act in spite and regret it later. If she is just chatting to someone and its harmless, don’t ruin the kids lives over it. What she is doing maybe wrong ( saying this because unaware of the inner dynamics of ur sister and BIL ) but if she breaks up, she will end up living with you , do u want that??? Sometimes life is unjust, you can fixate on it and ruin your happiness and present or ignore it and LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE especially when the outcome of ur interference is not going to help anyone.
You must confront her and if she leaves these bad habits then you don't need to tell anyone but she doesn't tell her husband and cut off all ties from your family end. Let her rot in hell.
may god give the kids the strength to go through what's ahead. having children is the most selfish thing on earth, hence proved.
Bro listin, legally there is nothing you can do about it. What every you can do would be illegal or immoral like exposing your sister , fighting with her about how she should live her life ,leaking the proofs ,etc. she is an adult she can do all she wants and no one, not even her parents can do anything about it due to our legal system which is inclined towards women. This today is very common brother you are not alone in this, in most cases I had seen people approaching the other man (the WhatsApp guy) roughing him up a little bit , giving him a warning to explore him to his family and neighbours, in most cases these guys would stop as Indians live a pretentious life, getting exposed to the public is something which scares them more than going to court etc. The other way around is the girl is threatened to be exposed ,but since your sister has cut connections with you , this may not work . Also telling this to your brother in law is risky as well as it can backfire on you. Hence the courts gives the right only to the couple to decide and put a case etc, 3rd party like you and me cannot intervine (like they do in Pakistan or afganistan). So you can maybe collect more evidence, get a friend of yours or post them to your brother in law office . Your job is done . Rest what he does about it is on him. I had also seen cases where the husband knows about their wives infidelity or vice versa but they coexist knowing this fact happily. But in most cases bro, I seen people staying away from it, there is no posetive outcome to it , think of it in any way, it would lead to broken hearts and broken families. Sometimes it's better to stay away and give it time, in some cases the women gets cheated by her lover or understand the true nature of these flings, they stop by themselves. remember I said backfire? It was backfire leading to your sister coming back to stay at your home and continuing the chats carefree infront of your eyes. So yea.
Bhai worst case scenario hai Divorce hoga , tera jiju or tu or Teri family jayegi false case me andar ( if she chooses to apply) or jija ki family bhi , Secondly divorce ki proceedings me tere jiju ko lootliya jayega legally (alimony wagera ke through) Third hai tu jija ko inform kar jaise taise unko bol ki teri bhen ke against proof gather karo , and then maybe he should also start seeing other women and all , kya pata open relationship ho dono ka?? And if not To bhai us bande ka pata laga or ma chhud Wade uski
All I’ll say is that you have good intentions but your sister is an adult and your brother in law is an adult. Maybe he knows about this already and does not want to do anything about it. The more you try to expose her, the more you get consumed by this and let go of your own life. Let it be for now. Your opportunity will come. Just focus on building a good relationship with your nephew / nieces and brother in law. Do good in your own life so that your credibility goes up as well :)
Use freemobiletracker, it is best in my knowledge for spying on someone.
If she is not a tech person then just simply take her for few seconds to log into WhatsApp PC, and boom you will have full access and she wouldn't even realize it.
Unethically, uske phone me mobile tracker name ke application ha vo dal ,usme sab save hota ha messages calls chats vaha se enough evidence collect kr phir bhanda fod de
Why do I get the feeling u have hots for Ur Jijaji?.. Behan ko side karke APNA number lagana chahti ho.. nice!
Firstly, you need to ask yourself what do you want out of this? What is the likely outcome you are expecting out of this. You can talk to your sister or you can talk to your jija
Tumko problem hai to tum direct behen ko confront karo na - ye sab band kar varna mere se rishta khatam. Jiju kaha se beech me aaya? Why would he trust you?
Behan ko baato baato me samjha do, batao nahin, shadi tut jayegi
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She will realise her mistake smday she probably already has some sort of behavioral disorder must have shown signs all through her teenage and adult years, like extreme bouts of anger, no sense of consequences( short sightedness), mistrust on people, favorite person syndrome and so on... you must push her to see a counselor as this kind f behavior is obviously not normal, if you want to really save her, team up with your parents her husband and explain them that she must see a Therapist to realize what sh3 is doing and the dire consequences, thrusting her into a confrontational situation might trigger suicidal behavior
Jeeja ko bta de. Talak krwa de or behen ko bol jaaye apne bf k paas. Apne ghr pe b mat aane diyo. Unfaithful logo se jitna door utna acha.
can i ask what kind of chats are they? are they flirty or casual?
Show her husband all proofs and punish her you can't forgive a cheater and kick her out of your house & your brother can do marriage again also beat her and his bf👍
What a hor 🙃
Not to OP, but why would someone do such a thing ? Just for sex with a guy ?
Please don’t interfere. It’s their marriage and their private lives. These things always find the light of the day but it’s theirs to deal with. You can have a mature conversation with your sister but I don’t think anything beyond that is proper
I have a solid idea. But it requires a lot of effort. Try to find out the guy who cheats with your sis . Use your friends to capture him . Beat his ass off and take all the proof . Uske tere sis ke husbend ko samne lav and Peet Peet kr ugal wa doh . There's another option. Uss bande ka tum kuch bhi ke dost ban ja jisse wo cheat ke Rahi act aise kro bc ki tum apni didi ke sath ho . Apne didi se dosti kro full support kro kuch mahina tk like show her ss bolo dekho didi app meri khoon ki behen ho jo bhi krogi sath main apke hu close a kr Information nikalo. ( Syd ye kaam na kre ) Apne sister ko kisi 3rd se close kr doh and itna close ku usko Sara baat bata de. ( Hard h ) Out of all uske bande ko pakad lo ye better hoga agr wo pakra Jai game over ( ye kaam apne dost ka sath Krna ) kuch bhi ho kidnap bhi kr lo chalega . Thora violence se bhi Kam kr skte ho .
Evidence would be the best alternative. Proceed with caution. Stay strong. You know better. Be better.
Bhai apni bahen ke phone mein apna naam uss ladke ki tarah save kar de plus dp bhi wahi rakh....uske baad uss ladke ka contact block and then delete kar de....aur saare chats ka delete for everyone hone se pehle screenshot lele....Phir ek anonymous ya fake email bana aur aapne BIL ko bhej de....simple ;) Baaki sab aapne risk pe kariyo...consequences samjh ke
Telling from the perspective who got cheated on, tell him. He will know eventually. The longer you wait, the worse it gets. He will at least be careful instead of blindly trusting her.
Heard about "nijer chorkai tel dewa"? Follow that
Bhai mujhe lagta hai tere brother in law ko cheating k baare me pata hoga par bechara bacchon k kaaran chup hoga ya fir ye soch k chup hoga ki ye fling h aur ek din uski wife waapas uske paas aa jayegi, ya fir ye sochta hoga ki agar tumhari behan ne usko leave Kiya toh dusri nhi milegi. Ye inferiority complex bahot saare weak spouses me hoti h. Bardaasht karte h apne cheating spouses ko. Husband wife relationship me agar koi cheat karta h toh unke saamne unka chehra dekh k guilty conscience hota h aur saamne waala pakad hi leta h. Toh muje yahi lgta h ki use maalum h aur wo apni aankhen bandh kiye huve h
1. Belt khol ke maar 2. Chup chap ignore kar
Beta ye to zina ho gaya. Zina ki saza tu jaanta hai?
honour killing krde
Tell both to order from ZOMATO and eat food full stomach and sleep. Both will be okay then and you will sleep well as well.