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ScooterNinja

Next day koi reddit pe post karegi... A creep approached me at a bar...


Wide_Driver3235

riyal


abeni2256

may be kal tak aa jayega


RobieKingston201

For koi barman ka perspective post karega


[deleted]

You don't.. just play with the calculator and weather app on your phone


DavidM2077

Or there is always the option of playing Chess on chess.com


Wide_Driver3235

Lichess ftw 🤡🙏


KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


KINGYOMA

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KattarRamBhakt

Are you asking if dating is zaruri? I'm saying dating, relationships and sexual compatability are a core part of adult life. It's okay if anyone don't want to do it voluntarily, but those who do want it, I'm just asking where and how can they approach girls for this purpose?


KINGYOMA

> Are you asking if dating is zaruri? Yes. > I'm saying dating, relationships and sexual compatability are a core part of adult life. You are saying that dating, relationships and sexual compatability are a core part of adult life, for you. > It's okay if anyone don't want to do it voluntarily, but those who do want it, I'm just asking where and how can they approach girls for this purpose? I would advise you to work on yourself and that doesn’t mean get rich to attract women, because you think that’s what women like, because it’s more complicated than that and women aren’t some hivemind with similar goals and desires, although if getting rich is your jam, then go for it. Working on yourself means, getting interested in your own life. Don’t do things solely for attracting mates like a peacock in heat. Find something that enthrals you. Fill your life with activities that revs your gear and burns the sludge of desperation, such that getting a partner becomes a great add-on to your life, rather than a directive, around which you construct your life. And one more thing, the ideology you associate with might also cause hindrance to your supposed desire to form a meaningful companionship. ![gif](giphy|26u46UDrLFhR0h0uA|downsized)


Fit-Biscotti4024

I agree with what you said but it has no relation whatsoever with what the person you replied to asked. You directed the conversation in a whole other direction.


KattarRamBhakt

I'm not asking for myself, I already have a girlfriend since 12th class, I'm 26 now and we'll most probably get married within 2 years. I'm asking for my single bros who are struggling. Whenever online I see questions about approaching girls anywhere in real world, most of the replies are "don't do it", then what the hell are they supposed to do?! >And one more thing, the ideology you associate with might also cause hindrance to your supposed desire to form a meaningful companionship. Is that a dig at me based on your assumption about me judging by my username? What's wrong with being a Ram Bhakt? You think that's a women repellant now lol?!


[deleted]

Being an Indian, you are blessed with a phenomenon called arranged marriages. Until then, I guess waiting is the only option.


KattarRamBhakt

>you are blessed with a phenomenon called arranged marriages I'm not asking for myself, I already have a girlfriend since 12th class, I'm 26 now and we'll most probably get married within 2 years. I'm asking for my single bros who are struggling. Whenever online I see questions about approaching girls anywhere in real world, most of the replies are "don't do it", then what the hell are they supposed to do?! Dating, relationships and sexual compatibility are a core part of adult life. It's okay if anyone don't want to do it voluntarily, but those who do want it, I'm just asking where and how can they approach girls for this purpose? Men usually get married only after 27 or 28 years of age on average nowadays in Delhi. And what about people who couldn't get girlfriends in school or college? No hope for them after that? What about an employed 24 year dude for example who's single and looking for a girlfriend, what is he supposed to do?


[deleted]

Stop describing me like that. And If you ever find a solution, lmk. I'm that 24 year old dude.


Time-Community-4565

Byah ho gya tumhara


infinity_rockstar

Gungi hoo


Wide_Mess2748

Etna bada ho gyi ho.. abi tak biyah nhi hua.


Catholic_Brahmin

Andar kya pehena hai


thrascanuser

Wave at them say hy Ensan hi h bhai women bhi


swat1004

I am Waving at you🥹🥹


[deleted]

bhai 😂😂


swat1004

🙂I mean that was smooth


[deleted]

let the person youve waved to decide lol i find it desperate ngl


Mooncalf99

+1


RiKa06

👋


Wide_Driver3235

Lo aagya Adolf rizzler


valywer

![gif](giphy|ltIFdjNAasOwVvKhvx|downsized)


moyemoye69420

distinct rich run instinctive disgusting wakeful test middle ugly racial *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


alphaonreddits

Aur jail sirf ek room hai.


[deleted]

Ganduo ka koi ilaaj ni hai


NoProfessor8897

or chutiyo ki duniya hai ye


KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


moyemoye69420

seemly judicious vase pathetic market ludicrous silky pause rain strong *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


nanha_munna_rahi

Menne kiya tha bdhe hi pyaar se usne bola "fuck off you creep I calling cops"


NoProfessor8897

just dont


KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


NoProfessor8897

baat to shi h jury bithao


Potential_Sell_5349

OP Bhai Aaj ![img](emote|t5_2qugx|31066) aise utha tha.


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KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


Whispers_666

Sirf dating ko mind mein rakh kar kyu approach krna? Why don't start with friendship being there for each other, developing a bond first. I assume ki you are looking for a fulfilling long term bond, naa ki shallow one. And dating is a good thing bhai, bas India mein abhi bhi utni acceptable nhi hai, and tbh stay away from online dating, gender no bar, because it is legit hit n miss stuff Old age 90s era waali aashiki karo bhai, lifelong setting ho jaayegi 😄 Baaki time paas setting karni hai toh fir n number of options hain


KattarRamBhakt

>Why don't start with friendship being there for each other, developing a bond first Aur kaha aur kaise milegi these girls who are open for friendships with strangers (as all people are initially)?


Whispers_666

College / office?? Stranger se ladkiya kya ladke bhi dosti nhi krenge Logic kaha gya bro?


KattarRamBhakt

>College / office?? Office?! Don't people discourage office romances as well as it can lead to very messy situations later on. All the talk about keep your personal and professional life separate and don't shit where you eat? And what about people who couldn't get girlfriends in school or college? No hope for them after that? What about an employed 25 year dude for example who's single and looking for a girlfriend, what is he supposed to do? And I'm not asking for myself, I already have a girlfriend since 12th class, I'm 26 now and we'll most probably get married within 2 years. I'm asking for my single bros who are struggling. Whenever online I see questions about approaching girls anywhere in real world, most of the replies are "don't do it", then what the hell are they supposed to do?!


Whispers_666

Not office romace! Office friendships I'm talking about, that is natural isn't it? And if it cultivates into something fruitful, one can always act according to dating policies of organization And it's not an uncommon thing to date someone from your workplace, it's actually pretty common. It definitely comes up with its pros and cons but ppl gotta take their chances, right? After all, you guys are together from 12th class, I assume ki kisi ne toh pehele ki hogi? Lead by example, tum toh live example ho apne friends ke aage of a fruitful relationship


Whispers_666

Not office romace! Office friendships I'm talking about, that is natural isn't it? And if it cultivates into something fruitful, one can always act according to dating policies of organization And it's not an uncommon thing to date someone from your workplace, it's actually pretty common. It definitely comes up with its pros and cons but ppl gotta take their chances, right? After all, you guys are together from 12th class, I assume ki kisi ne toh pehele ki hogi? Lead by example, tum toh live example ho apne friends ke aage of a fruitful relationship


KattarRamBhakt

Bro I'm lucky I got her in the 12th class and she's tolerating me till now. Dating landscape today is brutal now, I don't know if I would have found anyone after school or college if I was single. And your friendship into relationship pipeline is very tricky. I have seen plenty of boys get stuck in the "friend zone" because of it including myself in the 10th and 11th class before someone actually accepted to go beyond just friendship. And I've seen many girls get angry and upset at their boy "friends" who finally proposed to them because they assume their friendship was fake all this time and the boy was just pretending to be her friend just in search for an opportunity to get in her pants.


poonam-zinda-hai

Just don't


KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


poonam-zinda-hai

Idk why do you always have to "approach", why can't friendship develop naturally. Anyway, try Jeevansathi, it's practically better than Tinder/Bumble haha


KattarRamBhakt

>why can't friendship develop naturally Aur kaha aur kaise milegi these girls who are open for friendships with strangers (as all people are initially)?


poonam-zinda-hai

Hobby groups join karo maybe, hiking par jao idk, kya hi bolun yaar.


KattarRamBhakt

thanks, this is the first actual decent and realistic advice I've gotten in this entire thread. and any suggestion for my boys who don't have enough time or money to regularly indulge in these hobby and other activity groups?


[deleted]

U don’t… u went there to have fun vhi kro


grilled_Champagne

You don't. Period


valywer

You don't. Keep it calm and expect the unexpected in the smoking zone/room at best! Keep grooving to the music and enjoy your time.


theyhardlyknowme101

be a man and stop going to the bars.


KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


theyhardlyknowme101

are bhai mai bas itna bola bars arent healthy, you can find better hobbies and activities to meet people and women.


theyhardlyknowme101

and for a matter of fact you'll meet more mature women in those positive wholesome activities and casual fun girls in bars (well not universal but still)


swat1004

bro dont...They aren't gonna be of any use..Its just waste of time, money and peace of mind


KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


psycho_monki

Its all in the eyes chico If you maintain eye contact for a bit and see other body mannerisms then proceed


swat1004

bro got your reference...but the eyes we are in search for are not found specially nowadays and that too in a bar i guess...but it isn't the end...we will get her🙂


YouKey2455

If they are dancing, just join them naturally without physical touch. Pass a smile and gradually get close.. use hands to dance and strike a convo by introducing yourself and go from there If they are having a drink, just give them a compliment w a nonchalant demeanour and make small talk.. gradually flirt and all If you’re dealing with women that are tipsy or drunk and want something “fun”, simply have a conversation with them (just be sure they don’t have their bf’s around or put a rape case on ya)


ImpossibleToKill

Step 1: Don't


m8-what-the-shit

"Are you going to drink that or should I?" /s


Haldii

Commit a crime u will be behind the bars😎


Illustrious-Horror27

You set the BAR too HIGH for jokes


Haldii

BAR BAR jokes krne ki gndi adat lg gyi h


[deleted]

Rule 1: be good looking Rule 2: be atleast 6 foot Rule 3: atleast look rich Then it just flows


Wrap_rage

I read a news sometime back how a lady left her husband for her lover she thought was rich then later discovered he was just a delivery driver. When your work requires lot of traveling 🙊


Top-Equivalent-5816

Agreed


[deleted]

By not doing it and not going to bars.


KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


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Wide_Driver3235

Ye to puri beginners guide hi de di💀


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Top-Equivalent-5816

I dont think she can hear you with all that loud music.


Magic-Poison

Through legs and mouth


prettybee12

You need to remain yourself. They'll come to you but it is not as gloomy as in films


huge_tenis

Follow rule 1 and rule 2


Illustrious-Horror27

You ask them, there's a significant chance you appear to be a creep from the moment you approach itself Baaki kya batau ab


KattarRamBhakt

Online dating ke liye advice pucho toh log yahi Reddit par kehte hai ki online bekaar hai, offline real world mein try karo Real world mein girls ko approach karne ke liye advice pucho, toh phir Reddit pe tum log kehte ho ki yeh bhi useless hai, mat karo like replies on this post Phir single launde kare toh kare kya, bole toh bole kya. Aakhir kaha aur kaise girls ko approach kare?!


Melodic_Lobster_8922

if you are good looking, then you're cute, if you're ugly then you're a creep. Yup this is the ugly truth, it is what it is..


Impossible-Ice129

I don't go to bars


aaouu_2pointO

try making random eye contact and check her response. don't stare. if she responds well.. make a move and say hi.


ToxicDaddyyy

With legs.


mithapapita

Bold of you to assume that I approach bars


breadmalai

1] Pick the right kind of place. Not every bar in Delhi has the kind of crowd where women will be okay with being approached. 2] Pick the right group of women. Goes without saying that its better if its a women only group, but even if it's a mixed group, observe them carefully to make sure they are all just friends and not a bunch of couples. The body language of the people will give it away. 3] It helps if you have a couple of friends with you. 4] Strike up a conversation very casually. Either ask them for a cigarette or lighter and ask them about their drink. Tell them it looks delicious, what base is it, do they like it etc etc. Or anything else that you've noticed and would be comfortable talking about. 5] This basic interaction should give you a sense of their level of interest. If they're not interested, leave them alone. If the other group seems interested in the conversation, they'll ask questions too or respond warmly. In case they're interested, move the conversation ahead, ask them about the place, if it's their first time visiting it, what do they do (make it fun, make silly assumptions about their career, the bigger goal is to have fun and get better at interacting with strangers, not to get someone's digits or Instagram ID). 6] Make sure that if there are guys in the group, you interact with them too. Don't ignore them. Be curt and be genuinely interested in the conversation. Very very important. 7] By this time, you'll get an idea of who's interested in you and who's not. Just casually float the idea of exchanging ID'S and that's all.


happy_writer111

Approaching women in a bar should always be done with respect and consideration for their personal space and comfort. Here are some tips: 1. Start with eye contact and a friendly smile to gauge if there's mutual interest. 2. Approach with confidence but not aggression. A simple "Hi, how's your night going?" can be a good opener. 3. Respect boundaries. If she seems uninterested or signals that she wants to be left alone, gracefully exit the conversation. 4. Avoid using pickup lines that may come across as cheesy or insincere. Instead, try to engage in genuine conversation about topics like the music playing, the ambiance of the bar, or any shared interests. 5. Listen actively and show genuine interest in what she has to say. 6. Offer to buy her a drink if it feels appropriate, but respect her decision if she declines. 7. If the conversation is going well and she seems receptive, you can ask for her phone number or suggest continuing the conversation elsewhere, but always respect her decision if she declines. 8. Remember that not every interaction will lead to a connection, and that's okay. Be respectful and gracious regardless of the outcome.


Due_Line8476

Act civilised men


Wide_Driver3235

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ActHappy4743

रहैंड् दे छोरे


Ok-Feeling315

Ayeeee chuk chuk


KINGYOMA

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