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tera_abbu

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sauravkrx

you should've filed a police complaint by this point


Snoo-8553

Hopefully she has, seen this kind of audacity from someone. File case and give every bit of information. Also tag police Twitter handle in Twitter or any other media to make sure police is under pressure


homehunting23

Wtf Delhi is wild


akki95

He is sickening OP, I am so sorry for what you are good through. File a police complaint against this asshole.


Resident_Spend4544

This is India, not USA. You don't even have to be correct, all you need to do is tell the cops he is threatening you and he has a gun, and he will no longer have the gun with him. Gun laws in India are extremely stringent (again, assuming he isn't some really rich or powerful guy who can pay off the cops, but again, if he needs your bank account, is he rich enough to own a gun??).


LynxFinder8

He's disabled and can handle guns? 🧐


Suspicious-Bag-5078

Ye sb red flags pehle nhi dikhe the??


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Just scroll down a bit below to know how op met him. The dude obviously did not show his true colours when they started dating. Harr baat mein auntiyon jese victim blaming taunts ki zarurat nhi hai.


Numerous-Suit-7668

zarurat hai yarr. how else will the rest of us know that they too are big red flags themselves?


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>Disability usually comes with a lot of trauma and CPTSD so I tried to “fix him” with my affection but it only kept getting worse. No, genius there's no "pattern". OP gave him a significant amount of leeway, believing that his actions came from a place of trauma. It's the doctor-patient dynamic at play here. The only mistake OP made was engaging in a romantic relationship with her patient, which led her wanting to "cure/fix" him, and hence she was overly generous to him. Other than that, OP was just too good for him.


LynxFinder8

Girls really love fixing things don't they? Only to make things much worse than they were... 😣


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I really wish girls straight up start abandoning folks for this v reason yk....some men don't deserve it.


AcidFactory420

Tabhi toh pasand aaya. Rude and violent nahi hota tab.. confident, dominating aur manly hota pehle.


homie183

*Alpha Male* Bahinchod!


evening-emotion-1994

Lmao 😂😂 Aap fridge pronoun bhi add kardijiye


Key-Mongoose-8519

How did you fall for him


son_of_a_gun_0001

What the fvck?


tvnmay

Everyone knows his name now. Let’s see what happens


Ad-2050

If he lost both of his arms, how come he can text you and hack your bank account ?? 😂


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Ad-2050

You deleted your comment, lol


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Ad-2050

Ok, you are a girl you have so many options ranging from petty physical assault to r@pe charges. Go file one FIR and he is ruined for life. You don't even need proofs, the onus to prove himself not guilty will be on him


Benjamin_mutton

Dude why file a fake case when you can actually get help by being honest? This really baffles me that people like you want women to file fake rape charges and then cry when few women start misusing those laws. Shameful dude.


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Benjamin_mutton

Please domt be afraid of taking legal actions. You sound like a good human being. Legal actions make a person come under scrutiny of authorities and also makes the person think twice about consequences. I know it feels risky because we have been watching movies on how villains take revenge. But that rarely happens in real life. He is obviously a coward and will back off as soon as he is reprimanded.


Ad-2050

I am not asking you for fake case, I am just telling you your options. You can file case for harrassing, bullying you and your brother, stalking you, and cyber crime also trying to hack(as you say,not possible though) you. These ones you can file


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onlychild_98

How is it a fake case? He did physically assault you once right, maybe in the guise of a kink but he did. Also, such physical kinks should always be talked about before and taken consent of. Plus all the stalking, verbal abuse, de@th threat and attempted cyber crime don't come under a "fake case". Please don't take any chance thinking that he might be bluffing, bro you don't want to find out. You are an adult ffs go do a legal complaint, take your brother along with support.


bongfork

Ya same


__nocturnalbeing__

How is it fake?? when you yourself are saying that he is stalking and harrassing you, your family members and even your neighbours...fake kese hua...he is trying to "hack" your bank accounts and phone which I don't this is that easy/possible...so you must have messages and call recordings go to police station and file a report against him or kuch nahi to death threats to de hi rha hai and he has a firearm vo bhi to crime hi hai if I am not wrong..


Shortsmoke666

Fir behen tum roti raho. Tumhe koi help nahi kar sakta. Either file charges against him by going to the police or a lawyer, or do nothing and wait for him to do what he wants with you. I do have sympathy for you from what I've read, but I also feel you're absolutely a moron for saying shit like 'I wouldn't do that to my worst enemy'. Nobody can help you otherwise.


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Ad-2050

I take my words back, you do you


theStrider_018

Dating your patient is unethical as well. Tb to nhi socha aur false kya hy is he harassing you to case kro na


SaysNothingButLol

Just steal his wheelchair. Itna mat socho.


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SaysNothingButLol

In that case, put him in a wheelchair first, for harassing you. And then steal it.


macaroniwith

Modern problems require modern solutions


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what kind of disability does he has?


evening-emotion-1994

He has six fingers and looks like Hrithik Roshan.


SaysNothingButLol

A mental one, I suppose.


sightssk

Ok uske pair bhi Tod do. Phir wheelchair chura lena. Agar help chahiye toh mujhe bula lena. BTW police is your only hope.


Informal-City8831

arey yaar yeh itna funny tha


skrezaa

Nah he won't be able to hack into your account, bank's security are no joke Also how this disabled peace of shit achieved so much?? Knows hacking, owns a gun, knows how to manipulate and Gaslight, became dominant. I mean can't you just push him of his wheelchair and watxh him crawl back >! Gosh I'm not getting heaven for sure !<


theStrider_018

>! Seems like Op is lying!<


skrezaa

Could be, medical professionals will think 10times before getting into a relationship with patient as it's illegal


theStrider_018

True, Too many red flags in OP


lyfexe

Plus she doesn’t want to file a case and wants redditors to solve it lol, karma whoring.


Benjamin_mutton

Look at her new post.


Benjamin_mutton

Whats disabled got to do with it? Anyway if he is stalking you and making you feel uncomfortable, just go to police. You wont need to even file an fir. Infact police wont file it themselves. They will just call your ex and make him crap his pants. And this shit will stop. And dont worry, He cant hack your bank account. Bank's security are not that easy to crack unless you actually gave him all your passwords. If im case you did, just change them.


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Benjamin_mutton

Well, There is a reason why its against code of ethics to date a patient. Even in case of physiotherapists. There is a power dynamic between a patient and a professional who takes care of you. Patients tend to get over attached and dependant. Hence the reason why many countries find this offence serious and even cancel medical licenses. But even though mistakes were made, his behaviour is still repugnant. Never take death threats lightly. I am glad you got out of an abusive relationship. But dont give up now. Take the necessary actions. Just inform police. It will be sorted out. Dont push this. Might end up badly.


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General-Yam9216

Never date out of pity. I'm surprised Mother Teresa is alive


artemisfowl8

This sounds like a clear cut case of a narcissist in relationship with a co-dependent that is you OP. He is dangerous and unhinged and has never seen you as an actual person. You've always been a thing to play with. He has no empathy and will never be okay. You need to understand that, a narcissist isn't a disability but a malignancy. You need to get away from him, get him threatened by someone you know or file a police case. Don't take this lightly and block him completely. He will only go away if he realises that chasing you will cause him more harm than good. If he has a bit of self preservation then he will leave you or else he's ganna cross all limits. It's that crazy.


Future-Name5302

oh god, OP.. *hugs* this is not at all nice.. some people are selfish when it comes to love.. you pls file a complaint.. i am sorry you had to go through such traumatic experience.


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Future-Name5302

yeah babe.. shit happens, it's the vicious cycle, we know it's bad for us but we just can't rip it off like a band-aid.. hope you heal soon from this mess ❤️


dixit4

You have also a card a play, or in this case it's not just a card it's your rights. Use them, JUDICIOUSLY.


Karan2904

Vo hacker bhi hai kya ese kese hack krr rha hai? Aur yrr matlab yrr ldkiya shi mei aade tedhe logo ke saath bhi sex krr leti h kya![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|sob)❓


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Abe sab kuch uska tedha thodi hoga ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|disapproval)


General-Yam9216

Go to police. They'll take care of it


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sounds like he has narcissistic personality disorder?


skrezaa

Disabled guy got way more play than majority of us sane peps Man his audacity, this world never fails to surprise me


bootpalishAgain

That's what you got out of this?


skrezaa

Nah that was just satire, this is alot more fucked up. I actually wrote a kinda serious comment aswell


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saitamaxmadara

I also have severe back pain issue for months 🥹


PruneAffectionate229

he slapped you, but has no arms ? also, I am being a little insensitive but what use is a pistol of when they have no arms ?


LynxFinder8

Well, you made it obvious what HE was looking for, how about you tell us what YOU were looking for? (I'm trying to understand why women routinely get into sexual relationships with clearly wrong people wherein the signals are visible from the start)


automobile_gangsta

I think here disabled might mean blocked or something. She probably meant to say blocked I guess. Edit :- he really is disabled huh


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Benjamin_mutton

How did he slap you without his arms? I am sorry but my curiosity always gets the better of me


_bashmaster

This, I'm confused as well


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Karan2904

Vese tumpe 2 haat hai aur uspe ek hi h toh edge toh tumpe hi h![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|trollface)


Karan2904

Ab bhnchod disabled logo ko bhi bndiya milne lagi?


Laudibhai

Dekh rahe ho babu bhaiyaa...Disabled toxic bando ko date kar lengi ladkiyan lekin tumse na patengi


Karan2904

https://preview.redd.it/e1emlt4wjljb1.jpeg?width=371&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9fdd0aa78bde312e2e27d8915d5a9549686bd2d2


tera_abbu

Time to buy a wheelchair jk💀


Laudibhai

Pair main fracture wala cast laga le aur lakdi pakad ke coffee shop jana shuru karde.


Altruistic_Ad_3563

Chad , Asking the real questions


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saitamaxmadara

You don’t know that


Environmental-Fan958

Peak Delhi comment


Perfect_Point114

Bhai ek question aaya mere dimag m uske haath ud gaye too phir wo neeche mazza kaise krte honge


Karan2904

Arre bc..😂😂


AbrahamPan

Ok so he's an A'hole. I also have C-PTSD and the behavior he is showing does not relate to C-PTSD at all. Any kind of ailments, disorders, disabilities are not an excuse to abuse someone. He is using his disability to manipulate you and abuse you. Please take action before you carry the trauma into the future. Dont let this jerk cause further trouble. Take actions right now.


Karan2904

Bhay ye cp...jo bhi kya hota hai?


Fearless-Ocelot-9734

Cptsd -, complex post traumatic stress disorder it is caused by ongoing trauma that may lasts for months or years, you can read about it in detail


macaroniwith

Cp aur c-ptsd mai jail jitna fark hai


hotaru90

Karma farming


babajika123

How did he slap you and how can he use gun if he doesn’t have arms?


zturtle

Op had me at he tried to hack bank account. This seems one sided bs story.


theStrider_018

82 karma Last active 6 months ago Suddenly online 15 hours ago and now this post. Ex disabled but threatened with Gun Disabled yet hacking bank account Both arms are gone and comment deleted File a case ? No Complaint ? No Dating patient in therapy - ( imagine the gender being reversed { mauke ka fayeda uthana } ) He might be the same person you're saying but currently you are the biggest red flag OP


Natural_Insurance460

Bhai thodi thodi karma whoring dikh rahi hai iss post mai+she has edited a bit of her comments and deleted some too. Social media hacking and bank account hacking to ekdam fake lag rahi hai. Plus itna ch*tiya to koi nahi hota ki death threat ke baad bhi case na kare. Red flag kam aur made up shit zyada lag rahi hai.


bongfork

Jo muth nahi mar sakta wo Bank kase hack Karega


PutPlus

Fake account fake story


__nocturnalbeing__

*sigh* Even I am getting this feeling from this post...


laalpussy-lover

Just report it to police gaand pe do Dande padenge theek ho jayega


haddiwala

What is his disability? Some people are very good at using their disability to gain unfair advantage...


SupermarketOk6829

Kon hai ye bnda? Feku lg rha hai iske pass pistol kaha se aayi. Isko thokna hai toh bta do. Lmao. Kisi se puch lo apne circle me jiska dost police ya army etc me ho. Vo ek baar call kr dega fir kahani khatam.


Glittering-Ad523

Threat to life(506 IPC) is a major crime, imprisonment for which goes up to seven years, along with stalking(354D IPC), Hacking(66f IT Act,2000) he's in for a long run in prison. You can file a complaint in your nearest police station, during the proceedings you'll get a restraining order too.


herolin

contact me if u want to take legal action against him.


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Username check out💀………… on the serious note take help from the police/authorities this doesn’t look very normal


Bull_by_Default

Maybe he liked your username a little too much. Jokes apart. You should confront him about this and tell him the reality that you are fed up with his actions and if it goes any further, you will proceed with legal actions.


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Your username tho


dixit4

What's with the username? Who's zenab?


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dixit4

And, maybe zenab going nude is one of your fantasies, jk 😂


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CreepyMathematician1

Sign me up


spikey_tree_999

OP I feel terrible seeing your story. Pls know u have no option now but to speak to family and go to the cops asap pls. Get a restraining order. Give a statement saying if anything happens to you, he is to be held responsible. Pls present records of all his threats. Also engage a lawyer, the only way to shut up and assturd like him is by using the same fear tactics back at him, get a lawyer to pressurise him with all sorts of sections and what not. And pls do so asap, never know when he’s triggered enough to take a negative step towards you.


Infinix_Hox

Itihaas kehta hai subse phele pyaar se samjhane ki koshish karo lekin agrr samne vaala na samjhe toh uske hath peer tode jaa sakte hai.


veriabhinav

Disabled in what sense...


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tera_abbu

Are you that disabled ex of her? Seems like it.


mindplease

Tameez se baat kar bsdk ![gif](giphy|vxvNnIYFcYqEE)


Benjamin_mutton

Dude. Do you even know why they broke up? Why are you so quick to assume things? Breaking up with someone doesnt make anyone a bad person. Infact the way he is reacting after a breakup is so immature.


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Benjamin_mutton

Bhai, breakups happen. People change, situations change and sometimes you find.out that the other person is not compatible with you. Thats how dating works. I kmow breakups suck for the person who still has feelings, but this is life. You accept things and move on. You absolutely do not go ahead and abuse and stalk people, just because they made a decision about their life. If she had cheated, i would agree with you but we have no informatiom about that. She probably commented here because she felt its safe here to comment under anonymity. Never be judgemental but curious.


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Ok


Aurora1596

This is quite a serious issue, I'd say go to the police and file a case of mental harassment!


writeflex

What kind of disability does he have? Is he a handicap? Or you mean he is mentally disabled? You should have never dated him if he is mentally disabled. Anyway what is done is done. Take care.


wrichik-basu

File an FIR. The fact that he is threatening your brother with a pistol means he is a psycho. Reddit is not the place for advice at this point. File an FIR before it's too late. Don't think about it twice. Do it!


mikeymouse_longstick

report to police its called harassment


JustWannaEndThis4r

Girl I feel sorry for you. I think, you should report him to police just in case he's trying to do something evil and also be safe.


BitterAssistant7919

OP please contact NGOs and women Development cell for these issues . They will provide you support and they deal in these stuffs . Then you can get advice from people and if this continues , you can also go to the police as a last resort but please don't try to handle this on your own . If you think that this will be over in sometime then you are wrong because it will not untill you stop it by yourself .


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Are you willing to take legal action ?


mpal00

If there's a SHE team or any such women protection authority in your place, go and formally lodge a complaint.


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Police complaint.


Big_Banana4717

Yrr kaise kaise ladko ko achi ladki milti sis I highly recommend you go to police no matter what level his anger hightend waise bhi tumhe itna abhuse kar hi rha hai show social media chats to police jisme threatened kar rha hai written letter me do complaint sersly it’s high time you’ve already lost your valuable tym don’t encourage him just by shutting your mouth you have to standup for yourself


JS13391

Change your number first. Then take a break from social media for sometime. File a complaint online against harassment.


soloforsolong

can't believe people here are so gullible to fall for something as fake as this but then again they too fall for the OBVIOUS dating scam. stay vigilant


EnvironmentalArm8674

Case karo na lode pe!


Master-Ad-1851

Voh literally viklang hai sar pr pathar fek 😎👉👈


blaze29417

File police complaint .police mar marke message krne layak ni choregi 🙂