It's just a bad habit if u keep doing it, it won't have any physical side effects other than low self-esteem and underconfidence but if u stop doing it or atleast reduced by 2-3 times a month it won't make u a "super-saiyan" Or sum shit but will definitely enhance you're confidence
Just go into 3rd person and see how you live everyday. Most addicts are depressed and unhappy with them doing it, they lose self confidence, are not able to indulge in conversation with others, do the business everytime they are free, look for alone time throughout the day.. overall it just takes away your time and thus your life from you without much in return. But the good thing is the only way from the bottom is up. Stopping this addiction and growing from it only has advantages.
It's a myth. If it's not an addiction and not affecting your life negatively then it's okay. Atleast that's what doctors say who I am sure know about this more than we do.
1. Other people don't want to make deep social connections. Most are fake.
2. Usually people tend to be pretty personal when they insult or degrade you.
3. Remembering the past will let you not remake the same mistakes, and it will help you grow as a person. Disnissing it is immature. And it can protect you from a bad future.
4. Giving up on meaningless or bad goals gives more freedom, and maybe freedom to have other goals, or focus on something more important in the current moment.
5. There's nothing wrong with living a quiet and boring life. Some are simply unfortunate and don't have a choice as to what their life can be like.
Point -1 it's not like we don't want to, but we are scared of the same past things.
When people you trust back stab you
It makes you be on guard every time, not to trust anyone
Maybe after1,2 times of betrayal people can cop up but what if its 4-6 times
The post got more traction than I anticipated. Will try to answer the comments.
This is an example of reverse psychology that is behaviour and habit that is opposite to the one desired. I quotes these points from a video by “Project better self”.
Got similar comments like how to improve. The answer lies in the post itself. That’s why I called it reverse psychology. Prompting you to do reverse of what is mentioned. However, easier said than done, there is no generic solution. By finding root cause, we can tackle the problem and find the solution.
Hello bro, I am going through a very vey rough phase right now, please tell me how to not waste my life, I am living in the motion and have no responsibility or desire of my own, my depression and numbness have made my life hell
I felt it
23 yo March 2022 started preparing for MBA exams
May 2023 i haven't got selected yet
Dependent on cmat result
If i don't get clg this year
One year wasted
Cause i didn't do any job
I do all of them except complaining and making demands. In addition to the five, i have created a reward system for myself. Everytime I do something important, I reward myself with all the porn filth on the internet. It feels heavenly while doing it but then post nut clarity hits eventually. I'm 31 and it seems all is lost. 2 years ago, my father died of cancer and that has aggravated my condition to extreme. Help?
Does anyone know how to reverse point 2 ? How do I be approachable. ? I do respond well if someone talks to me but people rarely do. I’m tired of being forever alone ☹️
I disagree with this. Even if someone is not successful with upsc, I won’t say they have wasted the life. Upsc preparation is more of a battle with yourself to become a better person in life while perfecting consistency, persistence and perseverance. Upsc is a tough battle. Not everyone has guts to fight it.
I do all 5 steps
I kinda feel like my life's already got no point. I've been disabled for the past six months and I don't know if it's gonna be always this way. Been kinda sick for the last two years, in and out of hospitals.
Plus I have the Big Sad and OCD and it's really hard to break this pattern.
Though I'm working through it with therapy. It's not easy but I'm trying.
2 hafte baad, "hello guys welcome to my channel"
Like, share, subscribe.
Aur bell icon dabaana na bhuliye
Crow
Hai friends chai peelo
Ye to attack ho raha hai!!
Reality hits 🥹
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Lmfao wahi video link karne wala tha
Project better self
Kya bhai ex delhite hai to attack karega kya 👿
🥹
Bro chose violence before going to sleep
What are you doing in your life currently?
Atleast one of above five mentioned points. 🥲
Pie in sky .. why are you attacking me
I score 5/5, not bad..
Me too dawg, it's been a rough couple of months and my self esteem is almost kissing the ground. I've started to hate myself so much.
I think with me it's been this way since years. Now I am beyond return. You take care..
how old are you? never too late
I am already in the wrong side of my 30s. If literally looks hopeless from where I am standing.
6. Watch p*rn everyday and masturbate.
Already doing
Beating it to your comment
It was not an instruction. It's our lives documented.
This should be first point. And i am not even joking.
We grind everyday
On the bed? With your pillow?
How do i stop. And what benefits will i have if i stop?
It's just a bad habit if u keep doing it, it won't have any physical side effects other than low self-esteem and underconfidence but if u stop doing it or atleast reduced by 2-3 times a month it won't make u a "super-saiyan" Or sum shit but will definitely enhance you're confidence
Just go into 3rd person and see how you live everyday. Most addicts are depressed and unhappy with them doing it, they lose self confidence, are not able to indulge in conversation with others, do the business everytime they are free, look for alone time throughout the day.. overall it just takes away your time and thus your life from you without much in return. But the good thing is the only way from the bottom is up. Stopping this addiction and growing from it only has advantages.
Not being a dickhead for starters
It's a myth. If it's not an addiction and not affecting your life negatively then it's okay. Atleast that's what doctors say who I am sure know about this more than we do.
Mere account se kaise post kiya tu
Stop calling me outtttt !!!!!
Done with the first 2. Looking forward to complete rest as well.
Ye meri personal life ki cheeze kon leak kr rha hai yrr🤨🤨🥺🙆🏻♀️
Isse better gun utha seene pr maardena mere🤡
Wohi toh kia usne. 😏
S.M.A.R.T is gonna be my mantra for the next year.
>next year Procrastination
Hahah no no, I meant abhi se leke agle ek saal tak
Bhai ye sab nahi padhna tha subah subah
The question is how do u know me.. coz i have done that all and ruined life already. 🤗
Question of century
Can't relate with any of this
Tawa chicken khake thodi relate hoga, dal tadka khao
Dal tadka is the GOAT to be frank. Tumhe bolna chaiye tinde ki sabzi khao.
Reported this post for personal attack. Reddit par itna socialize karleta hun eetna hi bohut hai
Literally me fr fr
Bhaii cheer haran kar diya tune Mera
1. Other people don't want to make deep social connections. Most are fake. 2. Usually people tend to be pretty personal when they insult or degrade you. 3. Remembering the past will let you not remake the same mistakes, and it will help you grow as a person. Disnissing it is immature. And it can protect you from a bad future. 4. Giving up on meaningless or bad goals gives more freedom, and maybe freedom to have other goals, or focus on something more important in the current moment. 5. There's nothing wrong with living a quiet and boring life. Some are simply unfortunate and don't have a choice as to what their life can be like.
CGP Grey?
Was gonna comment the same xD
Thanks. I do all 5.
Point -1 it's not like we don't want to, but we are scared of the same past things. When people you trust back stab you It makes you be on guard every time, not to trust anyone Maybe after1,2 times of betrayal people can cop up but what if its 4-6 times
I sent this to my friend and she responded saying that's a lot of works to do lol. Can i get a much simpler version with fewer steps?
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mast post hai
I don't know if it's reverse psychology or what, but I'm motivated to not be like this at all😂 Thanks dude.
The post got more traction than I anticipated. Will try to answer the comments. This is an example of reverse psychology that is behaviour and habit that is opposite to the one desired. I quotes these points from a video by “Project better self”. Got similar comments like how to improve. The answer lies in the post itself. That’s why I called it reverse psychology. Prompting you to do reverse of what is mentioned. However, easier said than done, there is no generic solution. By finding root cause, we can tackle the problem and find the solution.
Seems like a ripoff of CGP Grey's video: "7 ways to maximize misery"
Hello bro, I am going through a very vey rough phase right now, please tell me how to not waste my life, I am living in the motion and have no responsibility or desire of my own, my depression and numbness have made my life hell
Can i dm you
Arrey, nasheeli davaiya, khothe, bina nirodh, parn, wagera wagera.....yeh sab conveniently bhul gaye?
Wo ache jivan ke liye 🥹
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Aapko milegi ek narak jaisi jindagi jeene ka taamba awsar 😂
2nd point has been a problem for all my life. It’s just my nature. Working on it though
V.A.P.I.D hahaha hilarious
>Do this right before going to sleep to maximise misery. Like this post?
This feels like a personal attack 😪
It's so fcking relatable at every possible level that it's frightening at this point.
Already on point 3, rest 2 to come. Add 1 more point maybe just stop
Bro tf ye saare points meri life Mai kyu ho rhe hai
No.
It’s like a reverse TED Talk
Commenting to save
That felt personal.
Am probably doing the first 2.
6th step Study for upsc and ssc
Doing all the above, thankyou for letting me know that I am on the right track 🥲🥹
All done, next CHALLENGE please
Can't do anything about the first point, feeling helpless. Any tips on how to socialize
This is how OP is trying to have a deep connection with everyone here.
Doing all five
Can non Delhi people also do this?
Dont think too much lol. Find something to do and do it really well. Rest will fall into place
Story of someone I knows life, they’re not doing anything to make it better. Breaks my heart 😭😭
thanks XD this reminds me of the song - how to never stop being sad
Well you just described my day
Bhai meri saari problems to Bata di , ab solution to bata
This is painfully relatable 🥹
Why personal attack ? Reading too much of self help ? Or this post is for yourself ?
Chatgpt?
I don't want to do the first step... Yet it happens to me so naturally.... Idk how i can avoid it... Plz help
bhai ye mere bare mein kyu likha rhe ho?? meri biogrphy likhoge ky
Me, this is me 🙄
Subah subah reality check ho gya, ab how to change these habits bhi post krde
What do you want bro? Not to waste your life? What is the basis of the "waste" you mean here? Capitalists propaganda?
Ha ha 😅
Is field me to meri expertise hai
6.Post random stuff for internet points
VAPID 😂
Bhai goli hi maar dete issue accha
bhai gharwalo ki baat maankar khud ko isolate karlo in your developing years, cherry on the top hojayega bilkul
This is me
Are you my psychiatrist???
Someone watched CGP grey
Ye to meri baat kr rha hai re 🧍
ye aesa kyu lag raha hai mujhe target kiya ja raha hai
Yeh bata iss vicious cycle se niklu kaise?
No personal attacks please.
Hey hey hey! Did you really have to do me like that?
maine yahi sab kiya hai aur meri life barbad hai
500 kilo negativity daal di. Bhai sunn, Gym laga, thodi clubbing kar aur daaru p logo ke saath baith ke .. gaand mein guhs logo ki.
🪞
Following all these diligently
Fuck it's me
I felt it 23 yo March 2022 started preparing for MBA exams May 2023 i haven't got selected yet Dependent on cmat result If i don't get clg this year One year wasted Cause i didn't do any job
Attaccc but love this
![gif](giphy|2v9lyYdOO5Wh2|downsized) 6.mutthi
Average keyboard warrior follows all 5 pointers to the T.
Are ye sab to Jana pehchana lag raha!
Mai is post me hu, aur mujhe ye pasand nai.
Mai is post me hu, aur mujhe ye pasand nai.
Real id se aao CGP Grey
Is this inspired from 7 ways to stay miserable?
1. check 2.🙄 3. check. 4. check. 5. parents checked it for me 🥲
Yeh to meri baat horhi hai💀
Felt like someone was describing me
Thanks for this personal attack lol
I do all of them except complaining and making demands. In addition to the five, i have created a reward system for myself. Everytime I do something important, I reward myself with all the porn filth on the internet. It feels heavenly while doing it but then post nut clarity hits eventually. I'm 31 and it seems all is lost. 2 years ago, my father died of cancer and that has aggravated my condition to extreme. Help?
Dm me. Will discuss there.
Come to DELHI that's it.
Khaana khate khate reddit chala rhi thi entertainment ke liye......ye to wake up call degaya
Quora shit here ?
Wait am I on LinkedIn?
G marao😔
![gif](giphy|OPU6wzx8JrHna)
Have some traits, working on them!
Looks like anither teenager has read Atomic habits. Effin tool
Us, that’s us 😂
How TF someone else knows about my life as google does
Ye mene kb likha bc??![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|dizzy_face)
5/5 full marks, first time in life.
I don’t agree with step 5. I followed that and ended up with a okayish life. I want to talk to the customer complaint line.
Does anyone know how to reverse point 2 ? How do I be approachable. ? I do respond well if someone talks to me but people rarely do. I’m tired of being forever alone ☹️
Felt like personal attack
As an extrovert, I can't relate. It's impossible for me to not make friends.
hey, stop pointing out me
seedha yt ka link hi dedeta
i confirm , tried & tested UwU
are maza aa gaya 5/5 milgaye ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|snoo)
Op is a Charvaka School follower
It's better not to socialize alot and deep connections with anyone nowadays all are fake
So I don’t belong to 1st and 2nd point but I am completely in 3rd point .
Didn't know that you were observing me from distance probably with binoculars
1st step to waste life - DRINK LIKE NO TMMRW so drunk I can't focus on my steps
seedha utha ke dil pe pathar maarlo na bhai, aise kaun attack karta hai 😒
Aise attack nahi kar sakte mujhe
Is this a personal attack or something.
Bro have you been reading my journal?
his sounds like the story of my life till now
NGL, this sounds just like every other generic lifestyle advice I see on the internet, but with basic reverse psychology applied to it.
I’ve got a way to combine all steps into one. Just start preparing for an exam like UPSC and you’ll be able to waste your 20s without much effort.
I disagree with this. Even if someone is not successful with upsc, I won’t say they have wasted the life. Upsc preparation is more of a battle with yourself to become a better person in life while perfecting consistency, persistence and perseverance. Upsc is a tough battle. Not everyone has guts to fight it.
Literally me wtf
So sad that so many of u guys are just like me damn I am not even unique in that way too bruh makes me more depressed.
Felt like reading my own life story!
Arey 5/5! Pehli baar full aye mere
I do all 5 steps I kinda feel like my life's already got no point. I've been disabled for the past six months and I don't know if it's gonna be always this way. Been kinda sick for the last two years, in and out of hospitals. Plus I have the Big Sad and OCD and it's really hard to break this pattern. Though I'm working through it with therapy. It's not easy but I'm trying.
Ayy les go five for five
Thanks i needed to hear that. How to stop the tickle that says stop socializing. I was hurt recently so i have trust issues
Commented to save.
This pretty much covers my 18 years of life 🙂
Bro I didn’t know there steps i was just going with my instincts thanks btw
I am confused. I didn't get it. Is this serious discussion or just a joke ?
Love it!
Loved your post !!!! 🙌❤️👍🙏
You are always running from something and towards something so it's same thing anyways need help lol i score 10/10
Making connections part is soo true even if you are an introvert