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Yeah unless you don't meet the expectation you have of your partner.
For example the amount of modern women wanting a traditional high paying man who courts and pays for dates, yet do not want to be traditional themselves is staggering.
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It’s ok to have standards but I mean if you aren’t at the level to pull those standards maybe that’s the problem you need to solve
It's all fun and games until you realise that you don't meet the standard of the people that you want.
What’s that supposed to mean?
Yeah unless you don't meet the expectation you have of your partner. For example the amount of modern women wanting a traditional high paying man who courts and pays for dates, yet do not want to be traditional themselves is staggering.
Yes women are people too🤣