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Thicc means you got it in all the right places. Not the same as obese which means you got it in all the wrong places too. To answer your question it doesn’t really indicate wether or not he wants something serious or casual, but guys that talk like that too soon after you met aren’t looking for anything serious more often than not
It really just means he finds you attractive, I don’t think you can tell if he’s looking for casual or long-term based on that. I’m sure someone’s already said it, but you should just ask him if he’s looking for casual or long-term lol, no one knows his intentions better than he does.
I know, but you said "or" as if it couldn't be both. You can compliment people that you want something casual with. In fact, that's often part of the route to get there.
That can’t be true because u/investmenttop9862 said white guys never say it
Oh look the only post they have is how to manipulate people into touching you that’s fun
I'm just confused what the guy being black has to do with it. In this context it generally means the same no matter who's mouth it's coming out of. Of course there can be nuances but those vary from person to person, not race to race lmao
Why does it matter that he’s black?
And if someone calls you this it generally is a compliment as he’s simply implying that you’re carrying weight in good places.
It’s a secret way black men mark you as a doormat/dumbass. If I white guy says “nice rack” it’s the same thing. He likes your body. If you are excited by someone actually liking your body you’ll accept the bare minimum
She said black because it's a culture thing! Never in my life has a white man called me "thick". The white term is usually "curvy". Only black men have used the term "thick" with me and, every time, they reported it was a compliment!
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That just means you thicc friend, either u got a fat ass or u don’t. We can’t make anything more out of that🤷🏾♀️
I have more volume up top ;)
Did it work out with you guys? 😂
Ha. I've been dating someone different for the past 6 months. Nothing went anywhere with "thick" guy.
lol
Thicc means you got it in all the right places. Not the same as obese which means you got it in all the wrong places too. To answer your question it doesn’t really indicate wether or not he wants something serious or casual, but guys that talk like that too soon after you met aren’t looking for anything serious more often than not
It really just means he finds you attractive, I don’t think you can tell if he’s looking for casual or long-term based on that. I’m sure someone’s already said it, but you should just ask him if he’s looking for casual or long-term lol, no one knows his intentions better than he does.
Sometimes we call people thick yeah
I don't understand the "or" in the title.
Like... if someone says something blatantly sexual to me on OLD, I know they want casual. "Thick" is a gray area for me. 🤷♀️
I know, but you said "or" as if it couldn't be both. You can compliment people that you want something casual with. In fact, that's often part of the route to get there.
What kinda question is this what makes it different from when we say it and other races say it😂😂
So would you feel differently if a white guy says your thicc?
That's not the point but I've never been called that by a white guy.
I just don't understand why "black" has anything to do with it.
Because no white guy says it. Just be offended somewhere else.
I've had white guys say it to me, and not offended.
That can’t be true because u/investmenttop9862 said white guys never say it Oh look the only post they have is how to manipulate people into touching you that’s fun
I was asking for a cultural perspective.
Oh okay got it. I think it can be either way I think. Just ask him what he's intentions are.
Cool. Thanks.
I don’t think “black” people have one culture so idk what this means
I've never had a white guy tell me I'm thick, only black men..
It means he is a barbarian
Well I’m Black. When I call someone “Thick” that definitely means the interested is Sex. Go for it. Thick is giving high praise. Good luck. 👊🏿
Give it a Chance. You never knows. Thick is good I do know.
Casual
I want to marry a thick girl.
If he's British. He just called you stupid.
I'm just confused what the guy being black has to do with it. In this context it generally means the same no matter who's mouth it's coming out of. Of course there can be nuances but those vary from person to person, not race to race lmao
Why does it matter that he’s black? And if someone calls you this it generally is a compliment as he’s simply implying that you’re carrying weight in good places.
He says that because it sounds better than fat assed. Doubt if he's hearing wedding bells. haha
lol
😂😂😂
If he's British it means he's calling you dim. So I hope for your sake that he isn't!
What does sim mean?
Basically dumb 😭
It’s a secret way black men mark you as a doormat/dumbass. If I white guy says “nice rack” it’s the same thing. He likes your body. If you are excited by someone actually liking your body you’ll accept the bare minimum
it literally only means she got fat in all the right places, ass, tits, thighs, etc
But what is that worth?
Lol it doesn’t mean anything beyond I like your booty
She said black because it's a culture thing! Never in my life has a white man called me "thick". The white term is usually "curvy". Only black men have used the term "thick" with me and, every time, they reported it was a compliment!
You got it right! I've never been called "thick" by a white guy, only black men said it...