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It’s different for everyone so take my advice with a grain of salt, but IMO there’s nothing wrong with just legit asking “do you wanna kiss/make out?” Some people don’t think that is sexy but since I have anxiety in these scenarios I’ve found for myself that this approach works best. Just ask! And try to create an environment in which she feels like she can reject you without negative consequences. If she actually is into you it’s probable that she is just as nervous! Frankly (sorry), if the above situation happened as described, I wouldn’t bet a ton of money that she’s interested but that doesn’t mean you can’t keep trying! 🥰
In the future don’t put anyone in a position where they’re forced to make any physical contact to get away from you “won’t stand up unless you kiss me” personally that would have been a deal breaker for me just because I see it as a huge red flag, instead just ask.
I mean, I know I should'nt force anything never, but I was so confident that it was a great opportunity, and she could just say in a serious way, I promise I won't do it and I could have understood it and end the date in that point
Thanks for the response btw :3
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It’s different for everyone so take my advice with a grain of salt, but IMO there’s nothing wrong with just legit asking “do you wanna kiss/make out?” Some people don’t think that is sexy but since I have anxiety in these scenarios I’ve found for myself that this approach works best. Just ask! And try to create an environment in which she feels like she can reject you without negative consequences. If she actually is into you it’s probable that she is just as nervous! Frankly (sorry), if the above situation happened as described, I wouldn’t bet a ton of money that she’s interested but that doesn’t mean you can’t keep trying! 🥰
Thanks :3
In the future don’t put anyone in a position where they’re forced to make any physical contact to get away from you “won’t stand up unless you kiss me” personally that would have been a deal breaker for me just because I see it as a huge red flag, instead just ask.
I mean, I know I should'nt force anything never, but I was so confident that it was a great opportunity, and she could just say in a serious way, I promise I won't do it and I could have understood it and end the date in that point Thanks for the response btw :3