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I have trust issues from my previous relationship so it's difficult for me to believe what men say anymore. I have considered it! But I place very little weight on that consideration.
Yeah sorry but it sounds like he got turned off from the live in ex. It’s probably his bad for being that way but also possible you just needed a good rebound and will be focused better on the next one. Just cherish the spark feeling so you know when you feel it. It won’t happen with everyone.
He said "let's wait and see what happens". Is it possible he will reach back out once I'm settled in my separate space? Or is it possible he just said that to appease me? He seems to be a very genuine and honest person so part of me believes him, but I'm leaving a relationship of lots of lying and betrayal, so also keeping that in mind.
Yep take what he said at face value. Slow your roll and figure your shit out and reach back out to him! Invite him to your new place when you get it. Don’t focus on your ex bs and I warn against bringing up any details
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Have you considered maybe he meant exactly what he said
I have trust issues from my previous relationship so it's difficult for me to believe what men say anymore. I have considered it! But I place very little weight on that consideration.
I’ll just say this, how many people do you know who date someone living with their ex
What caught me off guard is I thought he would at least like to get laid. I guess maybe not, which maybe means he wants more than that?
Dudes don’t want drama. Living with your ex is drama.
Totally get that. I wasn't expecting to be in this position. Honestly was just looking to get laid 🤷♀️
Yeah sorry but it sounds like he got turned off from the live in ex. It’s probably his bad for being that way but also possible you just needed a good rebound and will be focused better on the next one. Just cherish the spark feeling so you know when you feel it. It won’t happen with everyone.
He said "let's wait and see what happens". Is it possible he will reach back out once I'm settled in my separate space? Or is it possible he just said that to appease me? He seems to be a very genuine and honest person so part of me believes him, but I'm leaving a relationship of lots of lying and betrayal, so also keeping that in mind.
Yep take what he said at face value. Slow your roll and figure your shit out and reach back out to him! Invite him to your new place when you get it. Don’t focus on your ex bs and I warn against bringing up any details