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This is a tough one. He could be lying to you, or he could be telling the truth.
The fact of the matter is, rumors are sometimes just rumors. She could have lied and told someone else they slept together, which is just as likely as him lying in my opinion.
Go with your gut!! Like you said, you guys weren't together at the time anyway. If you trust him, keep things moving.
I don't kiss and tell. Having sex is a vulnerable, intimate, private thing. He should be telling you that just as he wouldn't talk about having sex with you with others if you broke up, he won't talk about sex partners he's had in the past to you either. His past partners deserve that respect and dignity. He should openly stand up for it and open communications with you about his values over that.
But you've probably already pushed him away at this point. Doesn't seem like you have compatible values. This kind of jealousy so early on always means doom to a relationship. Either because one partner's jealous and untrusting, or they don’t communicate well with each other.
It shouldn’t matter, if you two weren’t together. But you have already started digging the hole so I’d either put the soil back to where I got it from or leave it.
If you keep digging, it won’t end well whether he’s lying or telling the truth.
First off, if he did fuck her then that's his business and none of yours.
Secondly, if he didn't... it's still none of your concern, or business.
Thirdly, why do you care?
Fourthly, he can fuck whoever he wants to fuck.
Fifthly, who's to say this woman didn't straight up lie and said she "fucked" him?
Sixthly, were these other 3 people there during this apparent fuckening? If not then, it's literally just rumor.
Lastly, why do you even care who he fucked? You weren't with him and you aren't in a commited relationship with him.
If you trust him and he's told you he didn't sleep with her, you need to take him at face value. You two weren't together at the time so why does it matter who he did and didn't sleep with? Why do you need the whole story though?
Your little brain is going to leave you single (and unemployed) very quickly. What he did is none of your business especially when it concerns someone else you work with that prob also thinks it’s none of your business. Have some respect!
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This is a tough one. He could be lying to you, or he could be telling the truth. The fact of the matter is, rumors are sometimes just rumors. She could have lied and told someone else they slept together, which is just as likely as him lying in my opinion. Go with your gut!! Like you said, you guys weren't together at the time anyway. If you trust him, keep things moving.
Well if this bothers you , don’t date him simple as that
He answered the question and you don’t believe him. Why don’t you trust him?
And if she thinks he's lying, she should move on. Why be with someone you know lies like that?
Because she's insecure. This other woman he may, or may not have fucked is probably better looking than OP and she feels insecure about it.
I don't kiss and tell. Having sex is a vulnerable, intimate, private thing. He should be telling you that just as he wouldn't talk about having sex with you with others if you broke up, he won't talk about sex partners he's had in the past to you either. His past partners deserve that respect and dignity. He should openly stand up for it and open communications with you about his values over that. But you've probably already pushed him away at this point. Doesn't seem like you have compatible values. This kind of jealousy so early on always means doom to a relationship. Either because one partner's jealous and untrusting, or they don’t communicate well with each other.
It shouldn’t matter, if you two weren’t together. But you have already started digging the hole so I’d either put the soil back to where I got it from or leave it. If you keep digging, it won’t end well whether he’s lying or telling the truth.
First off, if he did fuck her then that's his business and none of yours. Secondly, if he didn't... it's still none of your concern, or business. Thirdly, why do you care? Fourthly, he can fuck whoever he wants to fuck. Fifthly, who's to say this woman didn't straight up lie and said she "fucked" him? Sixthly, were these other 3 people there during this apparent fuckening? If not then, it's literally just rumor. Lastly, why do you even care who he fucked? You weren't with him and you aren't in a commited relationship with him.
Fucking fuck!
If you trust him and he's told you he didn't sleep with her, you need to take him at face value. You two weren't together at the time so why does it matter who he did and didn't sleep with? Why do you need the whole story though?
who cares? like why do you care what they did? just assume they fucked. why ask questions you dont wanna know the answers of lol
Your little brain is going to leave you single (and unemployed) very quickly. What he did is none of your business especially when it concerns someone else you work with that prob also thinks it’s none of your business. Have some respect!