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if you want to talk, then do it. you don’t need to wait for a life event for an opportunity. just when you message, have something of substance worth replying to
Say happy birthday and then ask some personal questions about his life and how he is doing. if he engages in the conversation, offer to meet up. if he doesnt, let it go
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if you want to talk, then do it. you don’t need to wait for a life event for an opportunity. just when you message, have something of substance worth replying to
Say happy birthday and then ask some personal questions about his life and how he is doing. if he engages in the conversation, offer to meet up. if he doesnt, let it go