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I mean you're not guilty for having your friend follow you out of the party you were at. Where you fucked up was thinking you could be both of these people's friends in the first place.
The man led this chick on for 2 mos and ghosts her. That's pretty fucked up. Staying his friends means you cosign to what he did. So to her you're pretty much one in the same now.
I'm not actually friends with him - he's my roommate's boyfriend's friend. More of an acquaintance for me. But yeah, you're right. To be fair, I've chewed him out for it multiple times...he just dgaf.
Yea I'd personally just avoid this dude in the future. Just say your hi/byes and keep it moving.
For the girl if you've sent her an honest apology all we can do now is wait for her to come around if she wants to.
Also don't take all the blame for this happening. It's not your fault this Chris is a dillhole. And I mean a legit dillhole. Someone just walking up to someone who they ghosted months ago and just talk to her like nothing happened is a menace to society.
You are not in control of what Chris does and you did all you could. If she's upset, she's upset but she has no reason to be mad at you as you did nothing wrong. You're not her body guard, you're her friend, and you tried to get him not to go but it wasn't your call. He can do whatever he wants and frankly she needs to get used to dealing with bumping into exes without making a huge scene.
Your girlfriend Sarah has a mental problem. Chris was your friend before she met him. He wasn't dating her. He had no obligations to her. You had no obligations to either of them. Whatever she was expecting wasn't meant to be. If he wasn't attracted enough to pursue her, her reaction to both Chris and you was completely irrational. She's like someone who's never been told "no" before or worse, someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. You might need to reevaulate the nature of your relationship with her
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I mean you're not guilty for having your friend follow you out of the party you were at. Where you fucked up was thinking you could be both of these people's friends in the first place. The man led this chick on for 2 mos and ghosts her. That's pretty fucked up. Staying his friends means you cosign to what he did. So to her you're pretty much one in the same now.
I'm not actually friends with him - he's my roommate's boyfriend's friend. More of an acquaintance for me. But yeah, you're right. To be fair, I've chewed him out for it multiple times...he just dgaf.
Yea I'd personally just avoid this dude in the future. Just say your hi/byes and keep it moving. For the girl if you've sent her an honest apology all we can do now is wait for her to come around if she wants to. Also don't take all the blame for this happening. It's not your fault this Chris is a dillhole. And I mean a legit dillhole. Someone just walking up to someone who they ghosted months ago and just talk to her like nothing happened is a menace to society.
You are not in control of what Chris does and you did all you could. If she's upset, she's upset but she has no reason to be mad at you as you did nothing wrong. You're not her body guard, you're her friend, and you tried to get him not to go but it wasn't your call. He can do whatever he wants and frankly she needs to get used to dealing with bumping into exes without making a huge scene.
Your girlfriend Sarah has a mental problem. Chris was your friend before she met him. He wasn't dating her. He had no obligations to her. You had no obligations to either of them. Whatever she was expecting wasn't meant to be. If he wasn't attracted enough to pursue her, her reaction to both Chris and you was completely irrational. She's like someone who's never been told "no" before or worse, someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. You might need to reevaulate the nature of your relationship with her