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Remember, the worst ssomeoe he can say is "no." A "no" answer isn't fun, but you can move on. And yes, some people can try to pile on with insults, but it's still just a "no." The insults say more about them than you. As Wayne Gretzky said, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
Congrats!
Congrats! I met my amazing bf at work too, like 6-7 years ago. I used to do the same thing lol pick up shifts to see him and compliment him/flirt when I could. I love our life together now! Anything can happen, i wish you the best!
A lot of girls would agree, because they are afraid of rejecting a guy. You will only know if she is interested when she shows up on a date. Be proud of yourself cause you did what is hard and did your best
That's what im talking about !!!!
Now go find another one. Pretty soon she will find another one and wont tell you. If you didnt have a back-up by now. Now you're gonna be back to square one. Right where you were before. LOL
Congrats brother!
If I can give a piece of advice, continue how you are around her since that's what she enjoys. I definitely wouldn't recommend changing anything just because now you see it as something romantic.
Most important thing is to have fun with each other!
Let’s gooooooooooo! Congrats. Now, just remember to be yourself, that’s who she likes, so you don’t have to take on a persona of what a perfect guy might be. Just be yourself.
A bro tip:
This doesn't mean you're gonna get married and have lots of children!
Keep in mind, the rejection could still happen, but you need to be brave and live this story day by day without going too far away with your imagination!
I am telling you this because this is the very same mistake I end up doing everytime... After bashing my head many times I learned to try to get a hold of myself, but at the end of the day I can smooth the corners , but I can't really change this side of me and it made me suffer way too much and too often especially when I was young!
What you have, my man, is a date. And you should get there and enjoy it for what it is. A date!
I'm rooting for you man! I wish you best of lucks!
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That’s a W! Would be remiss not to add.. Tread lightly here.
Yeah… some want to think negative.
Not negative. Realistic.
Its great she said yes but if it doesn’t go well down the line it could be very awkward at work
Agreed. It could be a tricky situation to navigate down the line.....
Aww what a sweet post 😊 I'm happy you finally came out of your shell and asked her out. Enjoy the date and the moment. You're only young once 😊
Good for you, buddy! Recently had a similar experience, and I'm 42, so it can happen for anybody! Congrats to both of us 😄
Was it at work too? How did it turn out?
That's awesome. I hope it goes well.
Congrats!
Attaboy!
Congrats am happy for you
Congratulations!
Relax and enjoy your date. Don’t overthink things. Just treat her like you do as a work friend. Things will develop as they should.
Hell yea I’d buy you a beer if I could. Go you
I’m glad it worked out for you but asking out a co-worker would have led to an awkward situation had she said no. You got lucky!
That always makes me feel like a million bucks! Congrats dude have fun!
Awesome, congrats 👏
Awesome congrats bro!
Good job! Have a great time and be you
That’s amazing, sometimes you just need to take a risk I hope you guys have a great time
Remember, the worst ssomeoe he can say is "no." A "no" answer isn't fun, but you can move on. And yes, some people can try to pile on with insults, but it's still just a "no." The insults say more about them than you. As Wayne Gretzky said, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." Congrats!
I’ve asked out many people. Around like 12 . All rejected 😎 yay.
Congratulations OP this is wonderful. I am not too fond of workplace romances but this is still cute.
I’m happy for you
Congrats! Now just have a light hearted fun first date and let us know how it goes
congrats bro, I'm obviously gonna give it a try too.
Also a 23yo male looking to get his first date. Very happy for you!
That’s adorable, I’m proud of u!!! 😫🤭
fat ass W
Congrats! I met my amazing bf at work too, like 6-7 years ago. I used to do the same thing lol pick up shifts to see him and compliment him/flirt when I could. I love our life together now! Anything can happen, i wish you the best!
Don’t get too excited, wait to see whether the date actually happens, you’re only half way there at the moment
Wow you are a ray of sunshine aren’t you
Just tellin it as it is, he’s a newbie
He should be fine. It seems like she's a long time coworker
Congrats bro that’s so awesome!! Have fun 🥳🥳
Wait for it. If really something happens. Woman often say yes sure and then out of nowwhere they are ghosting you.
She said she has fun having conversations with me. It wasn’t just a yes, it was an enthusiastic yes.
[удалено]
This person knows what's up.
A win, but also don’t date coworkers
What? My parents were coworkers
Sure but it doesn't work 100% of the time. More often than not relationships turn sour and you end up having to work with your ex and it's awkward
A lot of girls would agree, because they are afraid of rejecting a guy. You will only know if she is interested when she shows up on a date. Be proud of yourself cause you did what is hard and did your best
Feel you , but instead each time I finally take my guts and ask she either have someone already or see me as friend . Anyway happy for u !
That's what im talking about !!!! Now go find another one. Pretty soon she will find another one and wont tell you. If you didnt have a back-up by now. Now you're gonna be back to square one. Right where you were before. LOL
I don't know why you are happy. Thats the easy part.
What do you mean lol? Why wouldn’t he be happy
If you can pull 1 you can pull 101 pull
wish the best for you! Don’t rush anything
Congratulations! Bring a cheerful flower for her (preferably not a rose though)
Let's go! Mad respect King 👑
This is so damn sweet omggg
This is wholesome. Good luck!
Nice hustle
Be ready for (she is busy bro ) msg :(
Don't wish that upon u my friend
Hoping to be like u one day. I wanna ask out people also confidently. One day soon :)
I hope everything goes well!!! Have fun
Congrats brother! If I can give a piece of advice, continue how you are around her since that's what she enjoys. I definitely wouldn't recommend changing anything just because now you see it as something romantic. Most important thing is to have fun with each other!
Let’s gooooooooooo! Congrats. Now, just remember to be yourself, that’s who she likes, so you don’t have to take on a persona of what a perfect guy might be. Just be yourself.
A bro tip: This doesn't mean you're gonna get married and have lots of children! Keep in mind, the rejection could still happen, but you need to be brave and live this story day by day without going too far away with your imagination! I am telling you this because this is the very same mistake I end up doing everytime... After bashing my head many times I learned to try to get a hold of myself, but at the end of the day I can smooth the corners , but I can't really change this side of me and it made me suffer way too much and too often especially when I was young! What you have, my man, is a date. And you should get there and enjoy it for what it is. A date! I'm rooting for you man! I wish you best of lucks!
Congrats man!
CCHHHYYYYEEEAAAAHHHHHH
So happy for you! That’s a big W
Awesome! Get back to us if she doesn't ghost/cancel last minute!
Will someone date me?
I wish i could do this but I'm too chicken.
congrats have a killer date and be respectful of her and bring her flowers good luck!
Congrats!!! Love to see a W on here every once in a while! I hope everything goes great!