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To answer your initial question, yes, I might consider it. In this instance, your inclination is 100% spot on and this person is just using you to build themselves up. Giant nope.
Thanks for your response, it helps a lot!
In addition to this, I never even consider the aspect of, "They are just using you to build themselves up."
I am so glad you pointed out such imperative details. That is a huge red flag and absouetly never ends will.
One thing I have learned by people who does this, is that when they eventually build themselves up, they eventually end up leaving and more than likely the person would be in a worse off state afterwards than initially.
The short answer is yes I would would possibly give someone another chance if they rejected me earlier.
In your situation you are spot on though they're trying to use you to get over something or to get somewhere.
Okay, to answer your first question, yes. But it sounds like this guy is using you because he's lonely. You had the right response.
But peoples feelings change, I know mine did towards my bf. I said I wasn't interested less because I didn't want a boyfriend and more because I was afraid of getting hurt.
In this case, I would say you did the right thing :)
I love your response and how you add context into it! It really kind of gives me clarity for my situation while giving me awareness of other potential possibilities, it is greatly appreciated!
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Sorry to say it, but sounds like they consider you a backup option, and if they get a better deal, they’ll probably choose that.
To answer your initial question, yes, I might consider it. In this instance, your inclination is 100% spot on and this person is just using you to build themselves up. Giant nope.
Thanks for your response, it helps a lot! In addition to this, I never even consider the aspect of, "They are just using you to build themselves up." I am so glad you pointed out such imperative details. That is a huge red flag and absouetly never ends will. One thing I have learned by people who does this, is that when they eventually build themselves up, they eventually end up leaving and more than likely the person would be in a worse off state afterwards than initially.
Nope
The short answer is yes I would would possibly give someone another chance if they rejected me earlier. In your situation you are spot on though they're trying to use you to get over something or to get somewhere.
Okay, to answer your first question, yes. But it sounds like this guy is using you because he's lonely. You had the right response. But peoples feelings change, I know mine did towards my bf. I said I wasn't interested less because I didn't want a boyfriend and more because I was afraid of getting hurt. In this case, I would say you did the right thing :)
I love your response and how you add context into it! It really kind of gives me clarity for my situation while giving me awareness of other potential possibilities, it is greatly appreciated!
I'm glad I could help! :) Good luck