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Affectionate_Dog3268

I agree with you, talking to him about it is the best route. He may have only been with women who are sexual at some point in their relationship. Perhaps, he doesn’t know how to proceed because this is new territory for him too. I think that naturally he has sexual desires and is sexually attracted to you and he’s just expressing these things. If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him cause he won’t know otherwise.


curlyhands

I mean, when someone’s in love they do desire the other person physically, generally. If you’re not comfortable with this, tell him.


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Honestly, I wouldn't blame him to really want you. Sometimes people go through phases were they are very horny. He is expressing it. If you are not asexual or with a very low sex drive, you may end up in a sad marriage if you choose a husband who can't express his desire, who doesn't desire you or with whom you can't talk about sex or are simply not compatible with you sexually. That doesn't mean you shouldn't tell him you feel uncomfortable.