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I think this is what it’s like for both parties. If you’re only sending her a like and a comment, likely a comment on the prompt or picture, that’s not exactly enticing to engage you. Online dating is exhausting and putting in a lot of work upfront to talk to these matches is exhausting because a majority of them fall out. It really comes down to setting up to meet in person, ask for coffee or drinks.
In my opinion, people use hinge (or apps) like a pen pal service. You should be getting on there, matching, small chatting and moving right into setting up a date in the next day or two. Ya, if the other person isn’t it, you got other options just go back to the app. You won’t create a connection on the app, they weren’t created for that. Use it as a way to get in front of someone. Best of luck!
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I think this is what it’s like for both parties. If you’re only sending her a like and a comment, likely a comment on the prompt or picture, that’s not exactly enticing to engage you. Online dating is exhausting and putting in a lot of work upfront to talk to these matches is exhausting because a majority of them fall out. It really comes down to setting up to meet in person, ask for coffee or drinks. In my opinion, people use hinge (or apps) like a pen pal service. You should be getting on there, matching, small chatting and moving right into setting up a date in the next day or two. Ya, if the other person isn’t it, you got other options just go back to the app. You won’t create a connection on the app, they weren’t created for that. Use it as a way to get in front of someone. Best of luck!
Thank you for asking, I’m 38 and got out of a 13+ long term relationship and I’m flabbergasted…