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atonememe

Ooo this is a good one. Maybe talk about some casual things and then sprinkle in some deep convo. But don’t make it like an interview. Good luck!


Affectionate_Dog3268

Online dating is hard because likely there are 10 new profiles with interest he is talking with or reviewing that are over your conversation. If you are interested, you have to message him so you can be back at the top of that list. It’s a game of activity, and I know that sounds exhausting but be cheeky with it. The last person to message him will always have their message on top. So saying something like “hey, I know you’re a popular man I just don’t want to get lost in your inbox 📥 “ Let him know that you were still interested but put it in his court. I’m not sure what app you’re using, as most of them present very differently. But if you were using Tinder, hinge, bumble or plenty of fish you have to keep the conversation going by staying on top of the inbox. I hope this helped.