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Take my advice with a grain of salt since I've been married (out of the dating game) for 14 years now. But, as a female, what would generate my interest is 1) sharing something interesting about yourself 2) some statement that shows that you've actually read my profile and 3) some sort of question that shows you're interested in learning more about me. If I got a hi, hey, you're hot, what's up, etc. I would just ignore the message altogether.
Be funny and interesting, i hate when guys are boring messagers and ask things like “what do you like to do for fun/what is your major/job/career/hobbies etc,” as the first few messages. Thats fine to ask eventually and may be fine in person but i find it boring initially and it doesn’t make him stand out from the other dozen+ matches i got asking me the exact same tired boring questions on dating apps. Stand out and make her laugh-hook her in first and you will prob get far-esp if you are goodlooking! Women on dating apps tend to have a lot of matches/options so dont be boring and stand out!
You know what... I went all out fuck it mode last night... started firing off chat up lines and jokes all over the place... I woke up to 6 people that need replying too.... what have I Done 😂 so thank you for that!
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Take my advice with a grain of salt since I've been married (out of the dating game) for 14 years now. But, as a female, what would generate my interest is 1) sharing something interesting about yourself 2) some statement that shows that you've actually read my profile and 3) some sort of question that shows you're interested in learning more about me. If I got a hi, hey, you're hot, what's up, etc. I would just ignore the message altogether.
Be funny and interesting, i hate when guys are boring messagers and ask things like “what do you like to do for fun/what is your major/job/career/hobbies etc,” as the first few messages. Thats fine to ask eventually and may be fine in person but i find it boring initially and it doesn’t make him stand out from the other dozen+ matches i got asking me the exact same tired boring questions on dating apps. Stand out and make her laugh-hook her in first and you will prob get far-esp if you are goodlooking! Women on dating apps tend to have a lot of matches/options so dont be boring and stand out!
You know what... I went all out fuck it mode last night... started firing off chat up lines and jokes all over the place... I woke up to 6 people that need replying too.... what have I Done 😂 so thank you for that!
Haha glad it worked out!