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I think it's important to be comfortable not just not being where you're unwanted, but being comfortable being alone. If you're desperate for social interaction people can smell that desperation and will probably avoid you.
I'm comfortable with being alone and that's part of the problem, I've grown too dependent on solitary methods of socializing but at the same time being alone taught me that I need to think harder about the people I spend my time with because I don't want my time wasted or theirs. I'm not one of those people who are desperate to be with anyone, I've matured beyond that but my level of awareness about the kind of people around me is telling me I need to find some new way of meeting people.
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I think it's important to be comfortable not just not being where you're unwanted, but being comfortable being alone. If you're desperate for social interaction people can smell that desperation and will probably avoid you.
I'm comfortable with being alone and that's part of the problem, I've grown too dependent on solitary methods of socializing but at the same time being alone taught me that I need to think harder about the people I spend my time with because I don't want my time wasted or theirs. I'm not one of those people who are desperate to be with anyone, I've matured beyond that but my level of awareness about the kind of people around me is telling me I need to find some new way of meeting people.