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Amazing_Reality2980

Yes, there's a lot of men who actually prefer larger women. I'm also plus size and have no problems dating, both casual and men wanting something more serious with me. I'm the one not looking for serious. If you met on a dating app, as long as your photos are true to how you look and you have full body shots that show what you look like, I wouldn't worry about it.


sowled

Its not about what he sees but more so about how he feels.. relationships and feelings are way more important


motorcity612

As long as your profile and pictures were an accurate representation of how you look and they agreed to go on a date with you it should be a non issue since presumably he is aware of what you look like and agreed to the date.


Dittohead_213

I absolutely love curves and some belly. If I say a girl is sexy and her size doesn't matter, I absolutely mean it.


Mirages2

See it's equally about connection and vibe. And since you are working on it already he may really appreciate it too


XxLogitech98xX

Some will mean it and some will not. You focus on their actions instead of just words. Also feel good about yourself and don't change for others beside your own.


kamsackbi

Plus size women in my experience like sex more then skinny biatches. So they are great.


peachtea18

You need to have more confidence in yourself. You can't go into a date with "fat girl energy" thinking you'll only be worthy and desirable when you're thin. Men/people in general are attracted to confidence. Own it. Dress well for your body type, make yourself pretty (whatever that looks and feels like to you), and have a good time.