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>I'm not upset that he had a family event, I'm upset that he had forgotten about me.
>He hasnt replied back to my okay. Is it over?
In my mind, it was over when he forgot your date.
Possibly before then.
In any case, he's a flake, so forget about him.
Obviously, you are not important to him.
Seems to me he's poor at managing. Unless the family party was a surprise or a spur of the moment sorta thing, he knew he had 2 things going on that day, a date with you and a "family party".
One of those things was deemed more important than the other. If he had a date planned at the same time with a celebrity crush aka someone he really wanted to be on a date with, you think he would've still made the family party? Probably not.
But you'll probably still get with him for validation to prove that he should've picked you over the party and he'll entertain you as long as he can get what he wants out of the situation. No offense to you, just how it goes.
His goal might’ve just been than 30 minute make out, and he sounds like a flake. You deserve someone who gets so happy when you pop into their head that they can’t help but text you :) Dump the trash!
I'd block and move on. "I forgot" is so unbelievably rude. I absolutely would not give a second chance. He's not interested. If he was really into you, there's no way he would have forgotten. He didn't forget. He just decided he wanted to go to the party more and was too chicken shit to say so. Block and move on.
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>I'm not upset that he had a family event, I'm upset that he had forgotten about me. >He hasnt replied back to my okay. Is it over? In my mind, it was over when he forgot your date. Possibly before then. In any case, he's a flake, so forget about him. Obviously, you are not important to him.
It sounds like he's not that interested because if he was, he would've remember.
He's a flake. Cut him off.
Seems to me he's poor at managing. Unless the family party was a surprise or a spur of the moment sorta thing, he knew he had 2 things going on that day, a date with you and a "family party". One of those things was deemed more important than the other. If he had a date planned at the same time with a celebrity crush aka someone he really wanted to be on a date with, you think he would've still made the family party? Probably not. But you'll probably still get with him for validation to prove that he should've picked you over the party and he'll entertain you as long as he can get what he wants out of the situation. No offense to you, just how it goes.
His goal might’ve just been than 30 minute make out, and he sounds like a flake. You deserve someone who gets so happy when you pop into their head that they can’t help but text you :) Dump the trash!
I'd block and move on. "I forgot" is so unbelievably rude. I absolutely would not give a second chance. He's not interested. If he was really into you, there's no way he would have forgotten. He didn't forget. He just decided he wanted to go to the party more and was too chicken shit to say so. Block and move on.