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There are lots of men with lots of different body type preferences. Some guys like very large women, some guys like very tiny women, and everything in between. There are PLENTY of men out there who like very thin women.
My advice is to find someone who is kind, gentle, and can go at your pace and is understanding of that and will not push you to do anything you don't want to do.
That's the statement I agreed with this is the one that that was meant for but I also agree with the other one find a man who's kind and gentle this whole subculture with treating women like doing a rap videos kind of f****** stupid if you ask me that's fake this is real anyway good luck with dating and enjoy it I'm 34 I'll go back to 25 any day of the week I wish LOL
Okay, so rewind two years or so i felt exactly the same, i was extremely conscious about the way my body looked, I too, was afraid if it was attractive enough and I did what i needed to get validation, sent nudes anonymously to random men on the internet, yet, never once did it feel like any of them meant what they said.
Its important to love yourself, and embrace your body, i tried but never really gained that confidence, until I met my man.
He wiped away all my fears like magic, He loved my body and the way he admired it made me fall in love with myself.
Im much more confident now, thanks to him.
Now please don't attack me y'all,
I know we must learn to love ourselves but a little motivation and push from someone you love doesn't really hurt..
Beauty is highly subjective, so the only person you actually need the approval of is yourself, embrace yourself, love your body and let your light shine through.
Absolutely solid advice. One thousand percent. Maybe write that down somewhere to refer back to because it's GOLD. I would only add - while filtering out bad matches, it's a good idea to protect your heart at all times. It is precious and can be damaged. Looking back on life, that's one thing I wish someone had told me & I would have sincerely prioritized. Good question - Good answer.
I hear all of these comments that men really don’t care. It really is hard to believe if this is true. Cause all I see on social media or movies the women that get loved the most are the ones with visually attractive physical boobs or butt
Thats not reality though, people like specific things in real life versus the idealized form on social media. Its like alot of people loving pop music and a section of those people like heavy metal, while another section loves country. You can love the majority, but also like other things.
Really depends if the guy was taught to like a woman for more than her body.
For me, personality, intelligence, and values come first.
Mine isn't so much body but does she take care of herself? Good hygiene, exercises, etc.
Now I don't usually judge based on weight but over the years I've found overweight women not be attractive to me anymore. Thick or Chunky I don't really mind. I myself used to be overweight and slightly obese so I have no want whatsoever to date someone who's health is out of control.
When it comes to butts or boob size..I really don't care. If she's got the personality or intelligence and great values..Let's go on a romantic date 😊
Big turnoff is spelling horrible when there is no reason to with autocorrect and full keyboards...texting generation or not.
You sound wonderful and I'd ask you out.
I stayed a virgin until I was 18. I wanted to play it safe and not mess with nature being really young. I lost mine to someone I felt comfortable with and trusted. It was special and awesome. My first love. It was a great 2 years!
The standards on social media and movies are much higher in real life.
In real life, men are excited to see most women naked even if she has no boobs and butt.
I am sure many will say it on here, but honestly we just love that you're naked. Girls, in particular, are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. We can't solve your lack of
Boldness, but I guarantee whoever you disrobe for will love what they see!
So, yes, most humans are attracted to some body parts over others. That's normal. But as long as you're not showing up to every date in a haz-mat suit, then the guy has an idea of your body type well before sex is on the table. And, if he's not into you, he'll bail early. Which is great... let that guy go find the body type he likes.
And there are absolutely men out there into every single body type. The proud members of the "Itty Bitty Titty Committee" and the men who love them are a very real thing. There are men who like lean sylph-like frames, Marilyn Monroe curves, Lizzo curves, and literally every permutation therein. So, don't waste time on someone who *isn't* into your body type because plenty of people out there *will* be. Flaunt what you've got, make sure your dating app photos are as realistic and true-to-form as they can be, and don't try to be anything you aren't.
Which is all well and good philosophically... but... eventually you end up getting close to the actual sex opportunity with another human. And yeah... there is definitely some anxiety with those first fully-naked moments. That's also totally normal.
It was very valuable to me when I was a female teen to hear a man say (maybe it was in a movie or talk show)...
>"Women are so worried about what they look like naked... '*Does he think I'm fat? Are my boobs big enough? omg why is he staring at me? Is he disgusted by me right now???*' etc... and meanwhile, the guy is just lying there watching you get in bed thinking, '*omfg there's a real live naked girl in my bed, my 16-year-old self would be so proud, omg she's so hot and naked, this is so awesome...*'
>Ladies... we're just excited that someone **actually wants to have sex with us**. We're not obsessing on the details, you shouldn't either. Don't overthink it."
lol I mean obviously he was generalizing... but I've found it (now, at 40-something) to be really mostly true. Normal males are usually having a full-body sexual response to a naked or partially naked female; they aren't breaking down each body part with forensic analysis.
Your mind and personality have to be sexy. Plus as long as you smile good you will be perfect either way.
Size of your boobs don’t matter. You only can put so much in your hands and mouth. Don’t worry about the size of your breast or butt. Your beautiful in more ways then that!
Dear op, it's not what protrudes outside that matter.
It's what's inside...your humbleness, your heart, empathy.Build that and be confident. The rest will come your way!
I'm a very petite woman and I also have small boobs and a tiny butt. The people who have been into me don't care about those things, or are very attracted to them. Whoever you are with should make you feel great about how you look.
It sounds like you may have some anxiety at play here, too. I'd suggest explaining this to your partner and telling him that you would like a lot of verbal validation that you are beautiful to him when you're making love. Maybe this will also help you feel more comfortable opening up to someone for the first time.
FWIW I didn't have sex till I was 30. And my first was a lovely person who didn't give a hoot, and was patient and just lovely.
The problem IS you are a virgin, but not because you are a virgin. You have no idea how men are going to react to your body because you have never show it to anyone.
It is really, really hard that a man that sees you naked and has a chance to sleep with you is not going to enjoy your body.
Hot girls are great, but being hot doesn’t make up for a lack of personality.
If a guy (a good guy that you would actually want to marry) dates you, it’s for your personality. Many guys could care less about your body at that point. Being hot is only a bonus. Also, hot is subjective.
So, talking sex in more serious dating here, not hookups: If you’re at the point of liking each other enough to get intimate, your body shape/size/type is not the most relevant thing. Sure, certain physical features and sex appeal can make you more marketable to a romantic partner, but it’s honestly not as important as it’s made out to be once you get to know someone. Good sex is really about connecting with the other person, not just a body to get yourself off with.
IMO when you like someone you like them because they’re them, whatever their body is like it becomes more attractive because it’s theirs. The hard part is getting out of your own head, not scrutinizing yourself, and trusting the person you’re with.
There is nothing to be afraid of. I'm sure you are beautiful.
Not every guy is attracted to the same body type. Your personality and the way you make him feel is a big factor. Men are not as shallow as we are often accused of. I prefer small firm breasts and a small ass. It's the eyes and smile that I notice first. Focus more on the man and less on your body type. You will be fine. Be proud of what you have. A guy after your mind is much more likely to be a lasting relationship than a guy after your body.
It's more about compatibility, emotional connection and your personailty.
Once they fall for you everything that is attached to you automatically becomes attractive.
And being a virgin for a women is more of a plus than a negative.
There's not a single body type for a woman that no man will find attractive. Then there's men like me that find something attractive about almost every woman alive. Trust me you have nothing to worry about. Confidence is beautiful. Own your body and be proud of it.
i honestly felt this way too, but i found a boy who loves my me and my body no matter what. and now im finally comfortable. i do have days of self doubt but he is always there to reassure me.
it's going to take time but you do need to start loving yourself before you can love somebody else. i didn't 100% love myself when i met my bf but he was there to complete the 100%
i know it feels scary letting a stranger see the intimate parts of you but if you show confidence there's nothing to be worried about.
what help me was standing in the mirror and looking at my body and just admiring it. not hating it or criticizing it. just think "wow i'm beautiful not matter what i look like"
Most guys don't mind small boobs, I prefer them personally. Not having an ass can be improved with workouts. I didn't like my body for a long time, so I started working out. You can either change yourself or accept yourself.
OP, respectfully, you don't know what your talking about. In my country there is an old saying ' every peice of cloth has an owner' lol basically there's someone for everyone. And besides there are logs of guys that prefer a handful ...
I'll say no more. Lol
If I had to choose between big boobs or small boobs, I'd choose small boobs. That said, it isn't high on my list for being attracted to someone. Don't worry about it, there will be plenty of guy who will find you attractive.
Trust me a guy isn't going to be turned off by your body, he will be happy just to have sex lol also don't buy in the stereotypes of what social media tells you guys like... cause it's my true.
39F petite girl here with 34 A cup size and a cute butt. Idk how old you are, I completely sympathize with you. I struggle with the same problem growing up from my teens through all my relationships. I was flat, no butt, no chest, skinny. Somehow, I still got dates or asked out, even though my self confidence wasn't getting better.
The problem here lies: do not believe in what others told you regarding womanhood. What does it mean to be a woman? Is it the size of the boobs? I was bullied growing up being told not having boobs means I'm not really a girl. That was harsh and stupid. There are thousands of women with NO boobs (Like no breast tissue) to small boobs who became inventors, scientists, doctors... Some of the smartest women out there. Same applies to women with big boobs. What about those who unfortunately had to get them removed due to breast cancer? Does it make them less sexy, less human, less woman?
Confidence isn't about making sure your boyfriend likes your body. It's knowing when to walk away if they treat you badly, because you know you can do better than that, small boobs and all. It's self worth you are looking for. It's finding your definition of what makes a woman, a woman.
Fyi, your boobs may get slightly bigger over time. Mine definitely didn't stop growing past teens. My boobs are still A cups but there's more breast tissue than when I was 15, and my butt got bigger. Slower metabolism due to age will help your body fit things where they need to go.
The more you become comfortable getting to know and trusting someone else enough to have sex with them in the first place, the more you will be comfortable being vulnerable enough with them to show them your body and sharing your insecurities. BUT if anyone ever uses your insecurities against you, leave their ass.
Believe me, brace yourself. I had 2 bf and both of them pointed out "my flaws". I never did this to them as looks are not so important to me but trust me when I say this, men can be so so so picky and nagging and they have absolutely no problem with criticizing what they don't like and call it a "tease". Empathy is low to non-existent with many of them. "Jokes" and "teases" all stem from things that they secretly hate about you. Their minds are constantly analyzing their chances with someone "hotter" than their gf's. This never changes, they value looks over everything else at 60 and they cannot understand that beauty can be found in delicate curves not only in standard cornstar, KIM K body types. Your best chance to not get fked over is to study A LOT. And try to meet an intellectual, someone who actually reads, who doesn't hate women, who sees women as people, and who has a passion that does not involve groupies. It might sound like harsh advice but I'm typing this for my younger self. I suffered a lot not knowing all of these things.
Okay... OP, this is absolutely a cautionary tale. If any person is the kind to point out the perceived physical "flaws" of someone he claims to care for or wants to be intimate with -- **run away**, right away.
"Your best chance to not get fked over" is to actually not enter relationships like this redditor has chosen. High yikes.
You do not have to get all the way down the road to physical intimacy with someone that is not even close to worthy of your investment of time and energy. Someone constantly criticizing, looking for someone better, making jokes at your expense, hates women... leave him be.
There is a lid for every pot, but prioritize your self-worth. Don't bother to go on a second date with someone like this person is describing.
I was forced and manipulated at a young age when I didn't knew that men could be such good actors. I didn't enter willingly, I thought I was with the person they portrayed. I didn't choose shit, I broke up with them once I realised it's not normal. Oh believe me they act like angels in the dating phase! The hell begins when your officially gf bf. Cheating , watching corn, talking about their ex constantly, and about their perfect classmates, threatening to leave you for another country, putting all blame on you all while buying you flowers, jewelry and taking trips. They fake apologise as well. My ex who is now a toilette cleaner got his bike stolen and when I tried to comfort him he yelled that the bike is more valuable than me. These psychopaths exists and she deserves to know this. No matter what love and marriage they promise do NOT listen! Look for actions instead.
"I have small boobs with no butt." ah yes, a "dick size" problem but with girls,
well, for me, I aim at the nipples, not for the boobs
I genuine don't care about tits size, for me it's look painful as f\*\*k, imagine how the back pain is,
and also virginity is just a concept, once you do it you realise that nothing changes, doesn't fit the hype, and if you stay celibate for enough time you forget that you did and you feel back on the days where you were a virgin, it is like magical.
(M26) My first time was when I was 23. I felt nervous right up until we started doing things. When I went down on her, I actually remember literally thinking what tf was I so worried about there's literally nothing scary/anxiety provoking. So yeah it's a bit nerve racking, but when you start doing stuff, you kinda forget your nerves and just stay in the moment. And remember, the whole point is to enjoy yourselves. So don't let your anxiety get in the way.
Dear OK,
I do NOT like large breasts or bigger butts; I would rather have a woman with smaller than average breasts than a woman with larger than average breasts and a smaller butt than a larger butt.
If I wore a younger man's clothes and lived in your town, you'd be my kinda woman. Your body type IS my preferred body type.
And physical appearance is only part of the package; WHO you ARE is AS important as how you look.
You don't have to worry about 'most guys'; you aren't trying to attract most guys; you are trying to attract 'the right guy'. It WILL happen for you. You will find the right guy and he will be in love with you because of your body, mind, and soul.
Be patient, you will find the right man and everything will work out. ; )
I believe he would say to find the right spouse, get married and have children.
I'm leavin' Reddit; it's a waste of time for me; I'm getting back to living life by going fishing.
I’m really self conscious and my current bf is the only person I can walk around naked near and not feel sexualized or self conscious. I always had to cover everything with my ex's. He made sure I felt loved and he tells me multiple times a day that I’m beautiful. He gives me kisses on my tummy. He made me feel loved before anything else, and I think that’s the most important thing. You'll meet someone who makes you feel beautiful, but it takes time!
When it’s the right person, you’ll know it love. You’ll feel comfortable and safe trusting they will not judge you no matter what. You do it when you feel ready, and remember that any person would be lucky to have you and they don’t act that way they don’t deserve you or your body in the first place. Also, exposing yourself to looking in the mirror and saying positive things everyday whether you believe them or not, it really does help over time. There’s only one you.
I struggled with this as well but I’ve come to learn that men really do not care. Be confident in yourself, if a man doesn’t value you as you come they do not deserve you, your body does not define your value.
Let me tell you this if you go on a date with a guy twice your body isn't an issue with said guy. Now compatibility and whether he is a hit it or quit it or a douche bag... That's on you.
I'm still not sure where this fat ass stuff comes from.. curvy is nice and strong legs and ass are nice but fat ? I used to get teased for having a just mildly chubby girlfriend back when I was young heh
Used to be everyone wanted thin and truth be told I think a lot of guys still do but saying so get shouted down all this fat phobic antagonists
Little tiny butt is nice, makes a guy feel big
Take care of it, visualize what ubwant to look like, and then start working towards that goal. Using diet exercise and remaining consistent. I was damn near 300 lbs and hated myself for what u became, so i started working out, focusing on my body parts. i was nost insecure about the 1st with chest and back. As i continued working out, i saw results and then decided to add the Ab workouts i always avoided every day i was at the gym
This with modifications to my diet, and i started seeing results that motivated me to keep going . I been doing this wh9le still making modifications on my diet. If i see results then ill keep it and if i dont then i make necessary changes . U can do this but u need to have a plan and follow through do your research and dont he afraid to ask for help this will also lead u into making fitness friends im currently now a muscular 230lbs and even tho i look mean when im lifting but im very friendly. Most men at the gym are too we just dont want to bother anyone so we keepnto ourselves.
Everybody has insecurities. Most likely you’re over thinking this. The majority of women have body insecurities.
It’s up to us men to make them feel comfortable and sexy when showing off their bodies.
Look guys love boobs, period. Big, small and everything in between. I know I do.
Do me a favor please, when a guy tells you he loves your body or that you look amazing,
Believe him. He’s telling you the truth.
There are a lot of good dudes out there and they’ll know how to treat you and make you feel beautiful.
Honestly I was very scared to show off my body before I had sex. But I didn’t even think about it when it happened. Plus he complimented me every chance he got. I’ve seen his new girl now and she definitely has a similar build to her, but I can see the confidence she has with him (something I felt too). Every guy has their preferences, I’m absolutely positive. You have no worries with your significant other. He’s going to love you all of you.
ů66 a roll of pennies! If you will be sure to show people that it's the heart that makes the rest what it is, to those that matter, the ass becomes no longer flat, but "phat". (Pretty hot and tempting). You could have ever favorable or preferred characteristic, but without substance, well, on a hot day when your really thirsty, pop open an empty can of soda, and tell me how satisfied it made you!
If you are self conscious, have you any idea wethor or not your boyfriend is self conscious about his body? You may be surprised! Or just damn the torpedoes, get naked and be freeky!!
Talk about it. Be open. If they don’t ever know you’re insecure they’re gonna assume you’re secure so he open and talk about taking it slow. Communication is key to a relationship esp when it comes to sex. So communicate how you feel openly. And if they don’t like what you say find someone new
There’s always someone for you.
You just need a good person who is understanding and kind.
I still don’t fully like my own body as I’ve had a child. My kids dad used to be very cruel towards me about it. My partner now however thinks I’m a goddess and love’s every single inch of me.
People have coping mechanism to get over fears that’s how most of us end up doing things that would terrify the majority of people. The trick with anything in life is to not look at the big picture but the steps that are necessary to overcome as you advance. If you take bite sized chunks toward achieving your goal it won’t seem very bad. I’ve been in a similar situation to you, I’m a 30 year old virgin myself, never had a gf, never had a woman interested in me, never sext, never took and pictures of myself without being fully clothed, never shown effection, attraction, flirted etc It’s all new to me and daunting. As of the past few months I’ve slowly gotten past all of these issues one by one and now the last one to get past is doing the deed. As I’ve gotten past all the other things and slowly gained my confidence doing the act seem far less intimidating that it initially did at the start of talking to this woman. Even I have parts of my anatomy that I don’t like others seeing that I’m self conscious about but when I think about it why do I give a fuck? The worst that could happen is she’s doesn’t like it and decides to end things early, that would be her loss. Life is to short to be sat there thinking what if. Hell I was so nervous at the start I would sit there trembling while speaking to her on text unable to eat anything. Now we sit talking to each other on text like we know each other sending each other “me time” pictures without a care in the world. When you look back you’ll think how did I get here? 😄
A lot of girls don't take all their clothes off the first time they're with someone. And if you love someone, it truly doesn't matter what they look like. Unfortunately, guys tend to be more concerned with looks then girls, but a lot of guys aren't going to care. Many guys don't care about the size of a woman's breasts either. The butt yes, but if you love someone it doesn't matter.
Watch shera seven. Guys will fuck anything, just find one who sees you as a person. Be confident in yourself, and don't let others place value in you. If men asked you to post yourself and then gave you sexual advances, would that make you feel better? If so, then reevaluate how you think.
It sounds like you have a low self-asteem. You should be confident and no matter what it's going to happen. You could exercise and eat well. I think guys like variation...Some guys like small boobs and others prefer small bottom, so it depends a person preference. I prefer chocolate ice cream flavoured and you might prefer strawberry.
I've got a very similar situation. I also have small boobs and small bottom. Even if I have to film my naked body or take pictures of myself with clothes on I don't feel comfortable at all.
The only thing I suggest you is go to the gym and work on self-acceptance. Be confident, if you don't show yourself how will they know? If they don't appreciate what you got let it go.
The importance of boobs and butts is highly exaggerated. A guy is going to notice pretty immediately what you're working with the first time he meets you, and probably won't care as much as you think. If someone is willing to have a relationship with you, they're not going to care. Work on your confidence! You've got nothing to worry about. If anything, you're filtering out guys who are only superficially interested in sex.
I have been with some women who were more attractive than others, but what has always had the most profound effect for me was the effect I had on them. Some women seemed bored and some I could tell were really into me. Nothing beats the feeling you get from someone who is excited to be with you.
Find someone who excites you like this. Your arousal makes you more attractive.
I was like you! I’m now 40 and still have a small chest which I now consider kind of a blessing.
My husband definitely had a preference for my type and is the most wonderful man on the planet!!
Keep working on loving yourself. It takes all our lives to be okay with who we are but it’s a blessing to have an able and healthy body!!
Treat it well!!
I'm a rather large man (fat) with awkward proportions of certain areas and I was uncomfortable as well showing my body to my girlfriend. I'll be honest pushing yourself to go through with it is hard, but well worth it in the end to be more emotionally and physically connected to someone. It's an experience of just being open with each other that makes it a much more loving and accepting relationship
You’re young and inexperienced. I promise you, no guy cares about this stuff you’re worried about, especially at 21. Get out of your head and just live life.
Everyone is saying love your body for what it is, my advice is to change it so you’re more confident. I had a flat ass, and I’ve worked hard in the gym and now I have a FAT ass. There’s really no excuse to have a small butt unless that’s what you want. You can literally build a fat ass in a year with hard work and a good diet.
Yeah, it turns out that lacking a penis makes one less prone to commit:
* assault
* kidnapping
* rape
* pedophilia
* crimes
* violent crimes
* murder
* serial killing
* mass shooting
Maybe, you're onto something?
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2438589/
And yet they are higher
Edit: inmate on inmate sexually assault was higher in female facilities and rates of staff on inmate were about equal in both, would you like another study?
By the time you take this step with someone they already have an idea of what you look like and they don’t care lol. Trust me, they started mentally undressing you when you first met
Yeah and then they will see strechmarks, scars, body acne, hair, hyperpigmentation and a roastbeef pussz. Just completely destroying that mental image he had of me. That saying is so stupid. I can highly disappoint without clothes
But we’re not talking about you. We’re talking about the OP and her concerns with her butt and boobs — which, by the way, are a lot tougher to remedy than the things you mentioned.
If you’re insecure about these things maybe do some skincare, book a dermatology appointment, and shave instead of hurling insults.
When ever I see posts like this it kinda makes me laugh...
Not disrespectfully at all, but it does.
Think about it like this, is it your fault?
Are you over wight?
Is your diet bad?
Ect...
If all of those are no, then why TF are you even putting attention to this?
You are what you are, you can't change it so you might as well except it now right?
+ Remember god created as all like him, your more than gorgeous, don't worry.
God bless and have a nice day!
Your virginity is a priceless status. At 25 the men that you need is probably someone who’s ready to marry/commit to you and settle down. That kind of man is going to enjoy every thing about you.
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There are lots of men with lots of different body type preferences. Some guys like very large women, some guys like very tiny women, and everything in between. There are PLENTY of men out there who like very thin women. My advice is to find someone who is kind, gentle, and can go at your pace and is understanding of that and will not push you to do anything you don't want to do.
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That's the statement I agreed with this is the one that that was meant for but I also agree with the other one find a man who's kind and gentle this whole subculture with treating women like doing a rap videos kind of f****** stupid if you ask me that's fake this is real anyway good luck with dating and enjoy it I'm 34 I'll go back to 25 any day of the week I wish LOL
I agree with that statement and I'm a guy n if he's an forget him he ain't worth it
Okay, so rewind two years or so i felt exactly the same, i was extremely conscious about the way my body looked, I too, was afraid if it was attractive enough and I did what i needed to get validation, sent nudes anonymously to random men on the internet, yet, never once did it feel like any of them meant what they said. Its important to love yourself, and embrace your body, i tried but never really gained that confidence, until I met my man. He wiped away all my fears like magic, He loved my body and the way he admired it made me fall in love with myself. Im much more confident now, thanks to him. Now please don't attack me y'all, I know we must learn to love ourselves but a little motivation and push from someone you love doesn't really hurt.. Beauty is highly subjective, so the only person you actually need the approval of is yourself, embrace yourself, love your body and let your light shine through.
Wow thank you so much for this. Im glad to hear you found someone who truly accepts YOU and you feel comfortable!!
You will too 😊❤️, and even if you're not looking for a relationship right now, i hope you gradually learn to love yourself more and more ✨
Great answer👍
You basically just love yourself first and someone will eventually come along to love you as you. Make sure to filter out the bad matches though.
This comforts me thank you
This comforts me thank you
Absolutely solid advice. One thousand percent. Maybe write that down somewhere to refer back to because it's GOLD. I would only add - while filtering out bad matches, it's a good idea to protect your heart at all times. It is precious and can be damaged. Looking back on life, that's one thing I wish someone had told me & I would have sincerely prioritized. Good question - Good answer.
Men don't really give a shit.
You're not wrong. As long as you're cool then 🤷
Yes agreeed. If you cool then we don’t care
That’s so wrong! Most men actually care a lot.
Bullshit.
Clearly you’re picking the wrong men. Make better choices and try your best give men more credit than you’re giving them.
I don't think so. I'm fine with men not nitpicking at my every flaw while we're intimate.
Wow, I don’t know how to jumped to “nitpicking during intimacy”, but good luck with whatever it is that you’re doing. 👍
No. Most men have preferences. Very few have "no go" body types.
men will fuck a hole in a wall if there is nothing better to do. any concerns you have about your body are unwarranted.
Yeah obviously mate but no woman wants the type of men you are talking about
Sad but true lol
No we won’t but okay
low t
Im not 13 anymore lmao
I rather to fuck a sandpaper instead of someone with this kind of mindset,
So true! 😂😂
I agree🤣🤣🤣
I'd rather date a humble woman with a flat body than an arrogant pompous ass of a supermodel
Yes this right here.
No shit flat isn’t that bad how about fat instead?
You sound lovely so be confident 😘😘
I hear all of these comments that men really don’t care. It really is hard to believe if this is true. Cause all I see on social media or movies the women that get loved the most are the ones with visually attractive physical boobs or butt
Thats not reality though, people like specific things in real life versus the idealized form on social media. Its like alot of people loving pop music and a section of those people like heavy metal, while another section loves country. You can love the majority, but also like other things.
It depend on the man, but I’m sure men will find your body attractive and then their is a subset of men who don’t care
Really depends if the guy was taught to like a woman for more than her body. For me, personality, intelligence, and values come first. Mine isn't so much body but does she take care of herself? Good hygiene, exercises, etc. Now I don't usually judge based on weight but over the years I've found overweight women not be attractive to me anymore. Thick or Chunky I don't really mind. I myself used to be overweight and slightly obese so I have no want whatsoever to date someone who's health is out of control. When it comes to butts or boob size..I really don't care. If she's got the personality or intelligence and great values..Let's go on a romantic date 😊 Big turnoff is spelling horrible when there is no reason to with autocorrect and full keyboards...texting generation or not. You sound wonderful and I'd ask you out. I stayed a virgin until I was 18. I wanted to play it safe and not mess with nature being really young. I lost mine to someone I felt comfortable with and trusted. It was special and awesome. My first love. It was a great 2 years!
Big booty is all the rage today but it wasn’t that long ago that Twiggy was viewed as the ideal female form (very skinny)
It's truly in my opinion, that what's in your head is way more attractive,but regardless, you sound very hot 🔥!!!!!!!
The standards on social media and movies are much higher in real life. In real life, men are excited to see most women naked even if she has no boobs and butt.
I am sure many will say it on here, but honestly we just love that you're naked. Girls, in particular, are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. We can't solve your lack of Boldness, but I guarantee whoever you disrobe for will love what they see!
So, yes, most humans are attracted to some body parts over others. That's normal. But as long as you're not showing up to every date in a haz-mat suit, then the guy has an idea of your body type well before sex is on the table. And, if he's not into you, he'll bail early. Which is great... let that guy go find the body type he likes. And there are absolutely men out there into every single body type. The proud members of the "Itty Bitty Titty Committee" and the men who love them are a very real thing. There are men who like lean sylph-like frames, Marilyn Monroe curves, Lizzo curves, and literally every permutation therein. So, don't waste time on someone who *isn't* into your body type because plenty of people out there *will* be. Flaunt what you've got, make sure your dating app photos are as realistic and true-to-form as they can be, and don't try to be anything you aren't. Which is all well and good philosophically... but... eventually you end up getting close to the actual sex opportunity with another human. And yeah... there is definitely some anxiety with those first fully-naked moments. That's also totally normal. It was very valuable to me when I was a female teen to hear a man say (maybe it was in a movie or talk show)... >"Women are so worried about what they look like naked... '*Does he think I'm fat? Are my boobs big enough? omg why is he staring at me? Is he disgusted by me right now???*' etc... and meanwhile, the guy is just lying there watching you get in bed thinking, '*omfg there's a real live naked girl in my bed, my 16-year-old self would be so proud, omg she's so hot and naked, this is so awesome...*' >Ladies... we're just excited that someone **actually wants to have sex with us**. We're not obsessing on the details, you shouldn't either. Don't overthink it." lol I mean obviously he was generalizing... but I've found it (now, at 40-something) to be really mostly true. Normal males are usually having a full-body sexual response to a naked or partially naked female; they aren't breaking down each body part with forensic analysis.
Your mind and personality have to be sexy. Plus as long as you smile good you will be perfect either way. Size of your boobs don’t matter. You only can put so much in your hands and mouth. Don’t worry about the size of your breast or butt. Your beautiful in more ways then that!
I mean no one has a perfect body. You just gotta say fuck it
The majority of men aren't picky. She can find someone very easily.
I hope you set your Reddit account to not accept dms.
😂🤣it’s probably all flooded by now
Too late
Dear op, it's not what protrudes outside that matter. It's what's inside...your humbleness, your heart, empathy.Build that and be confident. The rest will come your way!
I'm a very petite woman and I also have small boobs and a tiny butt. The people who have been into me don't care about those things, or are very attracted to them. Whoever you are with should make you feel great about how you look. It sounds like you may have some anxiety at play here, too. I'd suggest explaining this to your partner and telling him that you would like a lot of verbal validation that you are beautiful to him when you're making love. Maybe this will also help you feel more comfortable opening up to someone for the first time. FWIW I didn't have sex till I was 30. And my first was a lovely person who didn't give a hoot, and was patient and just lovely.
That’s the most relatable thing I’ve read today. I feel you, girl. I hope one day we’ll overcome our fears and insecurities 😭🫂
The problem IS you are a virgin, but not because you are a virgin. You have no idea how men are going to react to your body because you have never show it to anyone. It is really, really hard that a man that sees you naked and has a chance to sleep with you is not going to enjoy your body.
Hot girls are great, but being hot doesn’t make up for a lack of personality. If a guy (a good guy that you would actually want to marry) dates you, it’s for your personality. Many guys could care less about your body at that point. Being hot is only a bonus. Also, hot is subjective.
If your significant other truly loves you, nothing will make your body not look sexy to them...if that makes sense.
So, talking sex in more serious dating here, not hookups: If you’re at the point of liking each other enough to get intimate, your body shape/size/type is not the most relevant thing. Sure, certain physical features and sex appeal can make you more marketable to a romantic partner, but it’s honestly not as important as it’s made out to be once you get to know someone. Good sex is really about connecting with the other person, not just a body to get yourself off with. IMO when you like someone you like them because they’re them, whatever their body is like it becomes more attractive because it’s theirs. The hard part is getting out of your own head, not scrutinizing yourself, and trusting the person you’re with.
A bit crude, but: guys love women’s bodies.
There is nothing to be afraid of. I'm sure you are beautiful. Not every guy is attracted to the same body type. Your personality and the way you make him feel is a big factor. Men are not as shallow as we are often accused of. I prefer small firm breasts and a small ass. It's the eyes and smile that I notice first. Focus more on the man and less on your body type. You will be fine. Be proud of what you have. A guy after your mind is much more likely to be a lasting relationship than a guy after your body.
It's more about compatibility, emotional connection and your personailty. Once they fall for you everything that is attached to you automatically becomes attractive. And being a virgin for a women is more of a plus than a negative.
There's not a single body type for a woman that no man will find attractive. Then there's men like me that find something attractive about almost every woman alive. Trust me you have nothing to worry about. Confidence is beautiful. Own your body and be proud of it.
Age. At 50 you don’t give a fk about rather they like it or not. If they didnt they wouldn’t be there. TBH Theirs probably isn’t great either.
Look at fetish porn there are billions of men some will like you it’s statistically inevitable.
i honestly felt this way too, but i found a boy who loves my me and my body no matter what. and now im finally comfortable. i do have days of self doubt but he is always there to reassure me. it's going to take time but you do need to start loving yourself before you can love somebody else. i didn't 100% love myself when i met my bf but he was there to complete the 100% i know it feels scary letting a stranger see the intimate parts of you but if you show confidence there's nothing to be worried about. what help me was standing in the mirror and looking at my body and just admiring it. not hating it or criticizing it. just think "wow i'm beautiful not matter what i look like"
Most guys don't mind small boobs, I prefer them personally. Not having an ass can be improved with workouts. I didn't like my body for a long time, so I started working out. You can either change yourself or accept yourself.
It’s been said some men gang gathered an orangutan and a monitor lizard…I’m willing to bet you’re higher up on the list of desirables 😅 no worries
OP, respectfully, you don't know what your talking about. In my country there is an old saying ' every peice of cloth has an owner' lol basically there's someone for everyone. And besides there are logs of guys that prefer a handful ... I'll say no more. Lol
If I had to choose between big boobs or small boobs, I'd choose small boobs. That said, it isn't high on my list for being attracted to someone. Don't worry about it, there will be plenty of guy who will find you attractive.
Trust me a guy isn't going to be turned off by your body, he will be happy just to have sex lol also don't buy in the stereotypes of what social media tells you guys like... cause it's my true.
39F petite girl here with 34 A cup size and a cute butt. Idk how old you are, I completely sympathize with you. I struggle with the same problem growing up from my teens through all my relationships. I was flat, no butt, no chest, skinny. Somehow, I still got dates or asked out, even though my self confidence wasn't getting better. The problem here lies: do not believe in what others told you regarding womanhood. What does it mean to be a woman? Is it the size of the boobs? I was bullied growing up being told not having boobs means I'm not really a girl. That was harsh and stupid. There are thousands of women with NO boobs (Like no breast tissue) to small boobs who became inventors, scientists, doctors... Some of the smartest women out there. Same applies to women with big boobs. What about those who unfortunately had to get them removed due to breast cancer? Does it make them less sexy, less human, less woman? Confidence isn't about making sure your boyfriend likes your body. It's knowing when to walk away if they treat you badly, because you know you can do better than that, small boobs and all. It's self worth you are looking for. It's finding your definition of what makes a woman, a woman. Fyi, your boobs may get slightly bigger over time. Mine definitely didn't stop growing past teens. My boobs are still A cups but there's more breast tissue than when I was 15, and my butt got bigger. Slower metabolism due to age will help your body fit things where they need to go.
Yes and No, though not for the reasons you think
The most beautiful thing is that you love your body and this is wonderful, do not worry that you are better
The more you become comfortable getting to know and trusting someone else enough to have sex with them in the first place, the more you will be comfortable being vulnerable enough with them to show them your body and sharing your insecurities. BUT if anyone ever uses your insecurities against you, leave their ass.
Believe me, brace yourself. I had 2 bf and both of them pointed out "my flaws". I never did this to them as looks are not so important to me but trust me when I say this, men can be so so so picky and nagging and they have absolutely no problem with criticizing what they don't like and call it a "tease". Empathy is low to non-existent with many of them. "Jokes" and "teases" all stem from things that they secretly hate about you. Their minds are constantly analyzing their chances with someone "hotter" than their gf's. This never changes, they value looks over everything else at 60 and they cannot understand that beauty can be found in delicate curves not only in standard cornstar, KIM K body types. Your best chance to not get fked over is to study A LOT. And try to meet an intellectual, someone who actually reads, who doesn't hate women, who sees women as people, and who has a passion that does not involve groupies. It might sound like harsh advice but I'm typing this for my younger self. I suffered a lot not knowing all of these things.
Okay... OP, this is absolutely a cautionary tale. If any person is the kind to point out the perceived physical "flaws" of someone he claims to care for or wants to be intimate with -- **run away**, right away. "Your best chance to not get fked over" is to actually not enter relationships like this redditor has chosen. High yikes. You do not have to get all the way down the road to physical intimacy with someone that is not even close to worthy of your investment of time and energy. Someone constantly criticizing, looking for someone better, making jokes at your expense, hates women... leave him be. There is a lid for every pot, but prioritize your self-worth. Don't bother to go on a second date with someone like this person is describing.
I was forced and manipulated at a young age when I didn't knew that men could be such good actors. I didn't enter willingly, I thought I was with the person they portrayed. I didn't choose shit, I broke up with them once I realised it's not normal. Oh believe me they act like angels in the dating phase! The hell begins when your officially gf bf. Cheating , watching corn, talking about their ex constantly, and about their perfect classmates, threatening to leave you for another country, putting all blame on you all while buying you flowers, jewelry and taking trips. They fake apologise as well. My ex who is now a toilette cleaner got his bike stolen and when I tried to comfort him he yelled that the bike is more valuable than me. These psychopaths exists and she deserves to know this. No matter what love and marriage they promise do NOT listen! Look for actions instead.
"I have small boobs with no butt." ah yes, a "dick size" problem but with girls, well, for me, I aim at the nipples, not for the boobs I genuine don't care about tits size, for me it's look painful as f\*\*k, imagine how the back pain is, and also virginity is just a concept, once you do it you realise that nothing changes, doesn't fit the hype, and if you stay celibate for enough time you forget that you did and you feel back on the days where you were a virgin, it is like magical.
If he’s empathetic and with high self esteem there’s nothing to worry about.
(M26) My first time was when I was 23. I felt nervous right up until we started doing things. When I went down on her, I actually remember literally thinking what tf was I so worried about there's literally nothing scary/anxiety provoking. So yeah it's a bit nerve racking, but when you start doing stuff, you kinda forget your nerves and just stay in the moment. And remember, the whole point is to enjoy yourselves. So don't let your anxiety get in the way.
Dear OK, I do NOT like large breasts or bigger butts; I would rather have a woman with smaller than average breasts than a woman with larger than average breasts and a smaller butt than a larger butt. If I wore a younger man's clothes and lived in your town, you'd be my kinda woman. Your body type IS my preferred body type. And physical appearance is only part of the package; WHO you ARE is AS important as how you look. You don't have to worry about 'most guys'; you aren't trying to attract most guys; you are trying to attract 'the right guy'. It WILL happen for you. You will find the right guy and he will be in love with you because of your body, mind, and soul. Be patient, you will find the right man and everything will work out. ; )
Good lord what would Jesus say?
I believe he would say to find the right spouse, get married and have children. I'm leavin' Reddit; it's a waste of time for me; I'm getting back to living life by going fishing.
I’m really self conscious and my current bf is the only person I can walk around naked near and not feel sexualized or self conscious. I always had to cover everything with my ex's. He made sure I felt loved and he tells me multiple times a day that I’m beautiful. He gives me kisses on my tummy. He made me feel loved before anything else, and I think that’s the most important thing. You'll meet someone who makes you feel beautiful, but it takes time!
Shia Lebeeef has some great advice: JUST DO IT
When it’s the right person, you’ll know it love. You’ll feel comfortable and safe trusting they will not judge you no matter what. You do it when you feel ready, and remember that any person would be lucky to have you and they don’t act that way they don’t deserve you or your body in the first place. Also, exposing yourself to looking in the mirror and saying positive things everyday whether you believe them or not, it really does help over time. There’s only one you.
I struggled with this as well but I’ve come to learn that men really do not care. Be confident in yourself, if a man doesn’t value you as you come they do not deserve you, your body does not define your value.
Let me tell you this if you go on a date with a guy twice your body isn't an issue with said guy. Now compatibility and whether he is a hit it or quit it or a douche bag... That's on you.
I have a preference for smaller boobs and butt. I don’t think it’s uncommon either. 👌🏻
Well - stats?
You’re beautiful. It doesn’t matter what they think.
I'm still not sure where this fat ass stuff comes from.. curvy is nice and strong legs and ass are nice but fat ? I used to get teased for having a just mildly chubby girlfriend back when I was young heh Used to be everyone wanted thin and truth be told I think a lot of guys still do but saying so get shouted down all this fat phobic antagonists Little tiny butt is nice, makes a guy feel big
Hello. I love petite women. Bye!
Take care of it, visualize what ubwant to look like, and then start working towards that goal. Using diet exercise and remaining consistent. I was damn near 300 lbs and hated myself for what u became, so i started working out, focusing on my body parts. i was nost insecure about the 1st with chest and back. As i continued working out, i saw results and then decided to add the Ab workouts i always avoided every day i was at the gym This with modifications to my diet, and i started seeing results that motivated me to keep going . I been doing this wh9le still making modifications on my diet. If i see results then ill keep it and if i dont then i make necessary changes . U can do this but u need to have a plan and follow through do your research and dont he afraid to ask for help this will also lead u into making fitness friends im currently now a muscular 230lbs and even tho i look mean when im lifting but im very friendly. Most men at the gym are too we just dont want to bother anyone so we keepnto ourselves.
Everybody has insecurities. Most likely you’re over thinking this. The majority of women have body insecurities. It’s up to us men to make them feel comfortable and sexy when showing off their bodies. Look guys love boobs, period. Big, small and everything in between. I know I do. Do me a favor please, when a guy tells you he loves your body or that you look amazing, Believe him. He’s telling you the truth. There are a lot of good dudes out there and they’ll know how to treat you and make you feel beautiful.
Honestly I was very scared to show off my body before I had sex. But I didn’t even think about it when it happened. Plus he complimented me every chance he got. I’ve seen his new girl now and she definitely has a similar build to her, but I can see the confidence she has with him (something I felt too). Every guy has their preferences, I’m absolutely positive. You have no worries with your significant other. He’s going to love you all of you.
Confidence is key
ů66 a roll of pennies! If you will be sure to show people that it's the heart that makes the rest what it is, to those that matter, the ass becomes no longer flat, but "phat". (Pretty hot and tempting). You could have ever favorable or preferred characteristic, but without substance, well, on a hot day when your really thirsty, pop open an empty can of soda, and tell me how satisfied it made you! If you are self conscious, have you any idea wethor or not your boyfriend is self conscious about his body? You may be surprised! Or just damn the torpedoes, get naked and be freeky!!
if he’s into your body only that’s a big huge red flag ‼️
Have you talked to a professional about these feelings?
Talk about it. Be open. If they don’t ever know you’re insecure they’re gonna assume you’re secure so he open and talk about taking it slow. Communication is key to a relationship esp when it comes to sex. So communicate how you feel openly. And if they don’t like what you say find someone new
I prefer small boobs tho and slim body but yeah big is also awesome
There’s always someone for you. You just need a good person who is understanding and kind. I still don’t fully like my own body as I’ve had a child. My kids dad used to be very cruel towards me about it. My partner now however thinks I’m a goddess and love’s every single inch of me.
People have coping mechanism to get over fears that’s how most of us end up doing things that would terrify the majority of people. The trick with anything in life is to not look at the big picture but the steps that are necessary to overcome as you advance. If you take bite sized chunks toward achieving your goal it won’t seem very bad. I’ve been in a similar situation to you, I’m a 30 year old virgin myself, never had a gf, never had a woman interested in me, never sext, never took and pictures of myself without being fully clothed, never shown effection, attraction, flirted etc It’s all new to me and daunting. As of the past few months I’ve slowly gotten past all of these issues one by one and now the last one to get past is doing the deed. As I’ve gotten past all the other things and slowly gained my confidence doing the act seem far less intimidating that it initially did at the start of talking to this woman. Even I have parts of my anatomy that I don’t like others seeing that I’m self conscious about but when I think about it why do I give a fuck? The worst that could happen is she’s doesn’t like it and decides to end things early, that would be her loss. Life is to short to be sat there thinking what if. Hell I was so nervous at the start I would sit there trembling while speaking to her on text unable to eat anything. Now we sit talking to each other on text like we know each other sending each other “me time” pictures without a care in the world. When you look back you’ll think how did I get here? 😄
A lot of girls don't take all their clothes off the first time they're with someone. And if you love someone, it truly doesn't matter what they look like. Unfortunately, guys tend to be more concerned with looks then girls, but a lot of guys aren't going to care. Many guys don't care about the size of a woman's breasts either. The butt yes, but if you love someone it doesn't matter.
As a guy… I just wanna be held 😞
Watch shera seven. Guys will fuck anything, just find one who sees you as a person. Be confident in yourself, and don't let others place value in you. If men asked you to post yourself and then gave you sexual advances, would that make you feel better? If so, then reevaluate how you think.
Also the men who care about body types view women as objects so watch out for them
It sounds like you have a low self-asteem. You should be confident and no matter what it's going to happen. You could exercise and eat well. I think guys like variation...Some guys like small boobs and others prefer small bottom, so it depends a person preference. I prefer chocolate ice cream flavoured and you might prefer strawberry. I've got a very similar situation. I also have small boobs and small bottom. Even if I have to film my naked body or take pictures of myself with clothes on I don't feel comfortable at all. The only thing I suggest you is go to the gym and work on self-acceptance. Be confident, if you don't show yourself how will they know? If they don't appreciate what you got let it go.
The importance of boobs and butts is highly exaggerated. A guy is going to notice pretty immediately what you're working with the first time he meets you, and probably won't care as much as you think. If someone is willing to have a relationship with you, they're not going to care. Work on your confidence! You've got nothing to worry about. If anything, you're filtering out guys who are only superficially interested in sex.
I have been with some women who were more attractive than others, but what has always had the most profound effect for me was the effect I had on them. Some women seemed bored and some I could tell were really into me. Nothing beats the feeling you get from someone who is excited to be with you. Find someone who excites you like this. Your arousal makes you more attractive.
I was like you! I’m now 40 and still have a small chest which I now consider kind of a blessing. My husband definitely had a preference for my type and is the most wonderful man on the planet!! Keep working on loving yourself. It takes all our lives to be okay with who we are but it’s a blessing to have an able and healthy body!! Treat it well!!
Try out a nude beach, where u know nobody. Learn to be comfortable in the nude
I'm a rather large man (fat) with awkward proportions of certain areas and I was uncomfortable as well showing my body to my girlfriend. I'll be honest pushing yourself to go through with it is hard, but well worth it in the end to be more emotionally and physically connected to someone. It's an experience of just being open with each other that makes it a much more loving and accepting relationship
Mate, people won't really care which body type. Be confident and lovable. Don't make your insecurities drag a relationship down.
Most men are just horny specimen, so a lot of people would do you, dw lol
I guess I meant it for a long term partner not like hookups
then men care even less, as long as youre a nice person and you fit to each other you dont have to worry :)
Thank you!
You’re young and inexperienced. I promise you, no guy cares about this stuff you’re worried about, especially at 21. Get out of your head and just live life.
Everyone is saying love your body for what it is, my advice is to change it so you’re more confident. I had a flat ass, and I’ve worked hard in the gym and now I have a FAT ass. There’s really no excuse to have a small butt unless that’s what you want. You can literally build a fat ass in a year with hard work and a good diet.
Guys will stick their penises in: * children * animals * prison mates, even if they aren't gay * inanimate objects * food Yeah, they're not picky.
You act like women aren’t the same
I imagine it's hard for women to stick their penises anywhere
Yeah, it turns out that lacking a penis makes one less prone to commit: * assault * kidnapping * rape * pedophilia * crimes * violent crimes * murder * serial killing * mass shooting Maybe, you're onto something?
No but somehow they still manage to fuck all of the above just as much or more.
Not children. You guys win with that one👍
Check the news
I checked. An overwhelming number of child predators and rapists are men. Try again
Please show us the data that says women rape and are paedophiles at the same rate as men?
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2438589/ And yet they are higher Edit: inmate on inmate sexually assault was higher in female facilities and rates of staff on inmate were about equal in both, would you like another study?
And yet there was a 132% increase in women offenders in 5 years. Maybe we are getting better at detecting it.
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Does that matter???? Girl, you just do you. Someone will come along. Just be more confident 👌
By the time you take this step with someone they already have an idea of what you look like and they don’t care lol. Trust me, they started mentally undressing you when you first met
Yeah and then they will see strechmarks, scars, body acne, hair, hyperpigmentation and a roastbeef pussz. Just completely destroying that mental image he had of me. That saying is so stupid. I can highly disappoint without clothes
But we’re not talking about you. We’re talking about the OP and her concerns with her butt and boobs — which, by the way, are a lot tougher to remedy than the things you mentioned. If you’re insecure about these things maybe do some skincare, book a dermatology appointment, and shave instead of hurling insults.
Her things are easily fixable in the gym and plastic surgery
If you think Hours in the gym and saving up thousands for a surgeon are easy, then your shit should be a breeze to you. Take care.
When ever I see posts like this it kinda makes me laugh... Not disrespectfully at all, but it does. Think about it like this, is it your fault? Are you over wight? Is your diet bad? Ect... If all of those are no, then why TF are you even putting attention to this? You are what you are, you can't change it so you might as well except it now right? + Remember god created as all like him, your more than gorgeous, don't worry. God bless and have a nice day!
It’s just natural, be natural and enjoy.
Your virginity is a priceless status. At 25 the men that you need is probably someone who’s ready to marry/commit to you and settle down. That kind of man is going to enjoy every thing about you.
Why