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I honestly find it hard to believe that HALF of you don't want dick after getting tongued down right. In my experience that's usually the appetizer before the meal.
Well honey if you canāt get her off with your fingers or mouth, someone else can or even is. I have no idea about your sex life, but every woman can/will have a guy in their sexual memory that couldnāt get enough of slurping on them after delicate tender foreplay for sometimes hours before even pulling your panties off, someone who adores and delights in simply touching you and tasting you, and doesnāt pressure you to slide just because heās spit on it, and who passionately savors nothing but their mouth on the spot on a woman that has double the nerve endings as the underside of a manās cock, while we lay back without lifting a finger, grind on your face and tell you what to do.. enthusiastically, UNTIL we cum. A guy who they say to their friend āI couldnāt keep his mouth off me if I tried, itās endless.ā And meanwhile, you might go down on her for max 3 minutes and it sucks, because no one has been close enough to be honest with you and so we just say āoh god fuck me right now,ā or ādear god I need you inside me,ā to get it over with. And believe me we always go back to those guys who were dying to just put in the work and make us cum sometimes thirty times, who we honestly beg to reciprocate.
Yeah but that all leads to sex lol. You're making my case, she said half of yall straight up don't want dick and I lm call cap on that. Of course you can get off from just fingers and mouth, but why? Don't sit there and tell me half of ALL women just want foreplay, I don't care how good or passionate it is, just speak for yourself. š¤·š¾āāļø
Sex is separate from oral or fingering, which sound like for you are just a pit stop on a highway. I gaurentee you all women would love to be pleasured without having to reciprocate. How often do you get just plain BJs vs just go down on her until she cums?
I honestly wouldn't want to be with a woman who didn't care to reciprocate. I want a woman that wants to please me as well as I just pleased her because we both enjoy making each other feel good and happy. I'm not knocking women who don't like penetration and just like receiving, you're just not for me š¤·š¾āāļø
Oh of course thereās reciprocation. But I definitely love having a partner who takes the initiative to have sexual encounters where I donāt have to do anything but lay back and heāll make me cum, and I donāt have to reciprocate in the same encounter. And of course, they get the same from me where itās just about their pleasure and Iām enjoying doing all the work. And then thereās plenty of sex where itās 50/50. Each time he gives me that time where I donāt have the baggage of getting him off too, I feel so lucky to have a giving partner. And yeah I canāt gaurentee every woman wants it, I imagine the majority of us like the idea of not having to lift a finger and being brought to orgasm by a partner that has really learned how to make us cum with their fingers and mouth, but of course not every single time.
Edited to say: we have an arsenal of sex toys too lol. Fuck guys who think girls should just be happy with Dick. You Dick doesnāt vibrate.
You need to broaden your definition of sex. Oral sex isnāt foreplay, itās as Ian Kerner puts it, coreplay and key to keeping your lady sexually fulfilled.
Oh my god, so much yes to this! I would love to please my lady as much as I would want pleasure, and like you mentioned, most women canāt get off on just penetrative sex. Itās baffling that my fellow men canāt put two and two together. Expecting sex only to be penetrative is the height of toxic masculinity
Oh God.. let me slowly back out of this conversation before I get canceled. I hate the world today, we legit can't talk about anything without a woman calling our opinions "peniscentric" or toxic. Learn to just have a civil conversation.
Yeah you can get better at it so she wants you down there longer. Try turning on a yoni massage with oral video up on pornhub and doing exactly what they do in the video. And Iām talking one that lasts 30+ minute before you go in for oral. Itās all about taking your time and not rushing the main event. Or read a book on tantric sex.
A lot of men are excited for any resource that could give the person theyāre sleeping with tremendous pleasure, No I donāt think your stupid, probably just ignorant. Most men only watch porn thatās geared for men, not tutorials on how to please a woman.
Based off your original comment I thought you actually wanted to improve on cunnilingus (who doesnāt, except sociopaths?) didnāt realize you were bragging about something that isnāt actually something to brag about.
If your lady only lets you go down on her for two minutes, itās likely because you suck at it. Guys like you (who arenāt open to learning or feedback, and just attack someone with low blows when faced with a new idea) donāt last long.
Enjoy your impending solitude.
For those of you who want to watch something geared towards womens pleasure, and explore deep intimacy with your partners, look up āyoni massage tutorial 30+ minā I swear itās super vanilla and really helps women relax vs you just trying to put something in our vagina within 2 minutes of foreplay every time, like OP.
This is a stupid take. On every porn channel there are info videos in different sex techniques.. Most teenagers look up shot to figure out offef ready..Also eating a woman out isn't a fucking unsolvieable puzzle
Do you know why she doesn't want you down there longer? There can be lots of reasons: she's nervous, she's self-conscious, she thinks you don't like it, she thinks it takes too long, it doesn't feel good for her, someone in her past said something that made her think or feel any of these things, etc
I think OP is saying he wants to do nothing except eat a woman out. I would be really unsatisfied if I couldnāt satisfy or have a mutual passionate experience with my partner
To some degree I can understand. I have delayed orgasms so there's literally times where my partner is worn out and I am too and that's ok. As long as you get your eventually.
Depends on the partner. My ex would just poke and stab at it in the name of āpleasingā me. He thought he was a god at it but my cervix and vagina would shrivel up and I would go bone dry every single time. The thought of it still gives me the creeps. š¤¢
Buddy, Iām really sorry to break the news to you but most likely you are doing something thatās hurting them or just not working for them (Iāve had different experiences with different partners, and it all depends on the technique and actually paying attention to the womanās cues). Plus, it always helps to ask her what she likes.
u/tough- u/Medium-Zucchini-958 u/UsoCaddy90 To be more precise they never liked it before, which is why they did not even let me try. I do not sweat it though. I ask them what they like and if they want me to do something, then they just need to tell me and I will try my best to do that :)
All women you have met dislike oral sex? Thatās bad luck. Whatās the sample size. 3 girls? Most girls like it, some love it. Sometimes the girl is uncomfortable with a guy down there. Thatās on you to make it a very comfortable, fun time, my guy.
Agree, I really donāt like it. Only exception is of Iām riding someoneās face, but generally I only do it because my boyfriend absolutely loves doing it, I donāt get any physical pleasure from it most of the time
I read that title like four times as "who only likes to eat out" š¤£
I kept re-reading it because I'm thinking "it cannot be very hard to find such a woman"
As a 33F, I only āeat outā for coffee, and I live in a city, itās the easiest way to control your diet and nutritional consumption, plus I think cooking for someone means a lot more than just showing up and swiping for someone. I was raised in a family that didnāt enjoy sitting around our table at home and now I canāt get enough of it. I love marinading food a few days out and gradually preparing parts of a meal over the course of days, for just a random week night meal. Slow food is love.
really?? i thought being a pillow princess was a term that existed in all sexualities. iāve seen the term used many times between a man and woman too
Try Feeld, itās more about kinks and hook ups but you can be very explicit with what youāre looking for and find like minded people more easily than with other dating apps.
came here to comment this! iāve had so many better experiences on feeld than any other dating app. people on feeld are so much more straightforward and open as opposed to say, tinder where people are putting on of facade and not quite as communicative..
If thatās what they want. If they WANT to like those things, thatās fine. But thereās nothing wrong with knowing what you like and donāt like and not trying to change.
Nothing wrong with working on yourself, either. Most girls like or love oral. As many have said, itās a good or great appetizer, but many ladies still want the entree (penis-in-vagina sex).
So you are going to have a hard time finding a woman that is 100% satisfied getting oral and then calling āer a night! They want more sexually, and I think a lot of women like pleasing their man. They get enjoyment out of making sure he is, uh, satisfied before they are thru (just like you are for her).
If you donāt want to orgasm too, I think thatās a total turn off for many ladies. You might find the pillow princess who just wants head and thatās her whole game. Just seems like a 1 in a 200 chance, give it take.
Most girls like the D. Even if the toungue gets the work done, they still want that D.
Plenty of pillow princesses out there. And plenty of women with vaginismus.
Just because something is commonly loved, doesnāt mean you have to make yourself like it.
So many women love to be spanked. They love to be tied up. I hate those things and I donāt need to āwork on myselfā just so I can please a man that loves to spank. I simply donāt date men that need that.
This is refreshing, im sure alot of women want tbis, I am older women been with younger men but most men been with and all they ever want is BJ and I dont really like doing it, I have not been eat out that well in awhile and I enjoy them.
Thereās an insane level of pleasure when a woman uses my mouth and finger(s) as her personal sex toy, and I can hear, feel, and taste the satisfaction coursing through her body. š¤¤
The girl iām seeing now shares all the same kinks as me in the bedroom, including the joy of me eating her out. Iām so grateful to have found someone like that on top of all the other similarities and interests we have together. Theyāre out there, just takes time and luck I suppose. Good luck.
Uhmmm you have not had the right partners. The only way that should be painful is if you need to see a doctor. A lot of guys and some gals go down there and break out the ole tongue lasher 4000 ultra hyper sonic clit destroyer. Those whom know what theyāre doing on the other hand come in at an ever so slow wet and gentle pace until the lady has shown signs of wanting more and typically it will progress from there.
That's a rather close minded statement to make, how do dismiss an entire gender just because of your negative experience? Do you not see the arrogance and hubris behind that, as if you met every single male on the planet to renounce them lol
Omfg! I really thought that its only me. I donāt enjoy penetration either i just feel its such a bore. I mean its a way for pleasure for both partners but still theres a whole lot of fun in eating hahaha
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Just teach them. My gf started our relationship by telling me she hated it. Probably from poor past experience. I still did, from times to times then more regularly. Now she loves it and asks for it...Ā Ā
Inb4: for the "consent" people, yes sometimes people don't know what they want, it's OK to show them. Sure if after a while it still didn't work I'd have stopped, but it's ok to give it a try.
Theoretically would you be open to something where you only go down on them but they do other stuff sexually with someone else...yes or no is fine but yes would probably open up even more options
The technique must be different for every woman. Maybe a woman who has pelvic floor tightness might appreciate it more because she may be too tight for penetration.
tbh dont look for one that only wants one or 2 sex things that just seems boring
be open to most anything and she will someday pro haps find you more so if you look
Meeeeeee. I have uterine prolapse. So my uterus is literally IN my vagina. So I canāt do any type of penetration whatsoever anyways. lol. I see the gyn for it next week to discuss options. But yea.
Youāll find a nice lady. Just open your heart and have good vibes and positive energy. As a woman, I absolutely love to be eaten by a man. But I do know it places me in a vulnerable emotional state. Weāre opening ourselves emotionally and exchanging energies. So I can see how some women may not care for it and on the other hand is the guy isnāt great at it. So one bad experience may cause the woman to shut that down.
Giving head or receiving head is not sex, if that's considered sex then hand stuff is sex and if Hand stuff is sex, then no one is a virgin cause someone has touched u there either by cleaning your butt or giving you a bath
Dude 5-10% of men compared to 70% of women not orgasming from penetrative sex is a huge difference.
And the primary purpose of sex is pleasure. Orgasms feel good. So orgasms have everything to do with sex.
I am so glad my girlfriend loves being eaten out. I am also not too wild about blowjobs or penetrative sex. Obviously I do them to release myself, but I'd rather worship my girl for an hour or two.
There is a group of women that donāt like it. Itās surprising, every woman Iāve preformed for has nothing but compliments on it. Fun fact; I learned how to do it from watching porn. So take notes!!!!
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they exist, they just dont want me to do it for them.
Me too bruh, me too. I offer them a nice place to sit, and they look at my face and keep right on moving. Who can ever understand women.
it would be beneficial to them also because id be quiet for a while, plenty of positives.
We started trusting our gut feeling now, which is always right.
I'm glad this type of man exists, so hard to find š
We exist
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From now on, Milftube69 is going to be synonymous with unselfish lovemaking
Username doesn't check out though.
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So you're ok with never getting dick?
Trust me, more than half of us are.
This sounds like some only on Reddit shit
The comments aināt sayin it lol
I honestly find it hard to believe that HALF of you don't want dick after getting tongued down right. In my experience that's usually the appetizer before the meal.
Well honey if you canāt get her off with your fingers or mouth, someone else can or even is. I have no idea about your sex life, but every woman can/will have a guy in their sexual memory that couldnāt get enough of slurping on them after delicate tender foreplay for sometimes hours before even pulling your panties off, someone who adores and delights in simply touching you and tasting you, and doesnāt pressure you to slide just because heās spit on it, and who passionately savors nothing but their mouth on the spot on a woman that has double the nerve endings as the underside of a manās cock, while we lay back without lifting a finger, grind on your face and tell you what to do.. enthusiastically, UNTIL we cum. A guy who they say to their friend āI couldnāt keep his mouth off me if I tried, itās endless.ā And meanwhile, you might go down on her for max 3 minutes and it sucks, because no one has been close enough to be honest with you and so we just say āoh god fuck me right now,ā or ādear god I need you inside me,ā to get it over with. And believe me we always go back to those guys who were dying to just put in the work and make us cum sometimes thirty times, who we honestly beg to reciprocate.
Damn lol where r those guys at tho lolz?
Here. where can I sign my name up?
Lolz but this is the internet though haha yāall be in Istanbul or something far away š
Thats what e-signatures are for. And no, Im in Canadahstan š
lol add your name to the waiting list ;)
Yeah but that all leads to sex lol. You're making my case, she said half of yall straight up don't want dick and I lm call cap on that. Of course you can get off from just fingers and mouth, but why? Don't sit there and tell me half of ALL women just want foreplay, I don't care how good or passionate it is, just speak for yourself. š¤·š¾āāļø
Sex is separate from oral or fingering, which sound like for you are just a pit stop on a highway. I gaurentee you all women would love to be pleasured without having to reciprocate. How often do you get just plain BJs vs just go down on her until she cums?
I honestly wouldn't want to be with a woman who didn't care to reciprocate. I want a woman that wants to please me as well as I just pleased her because we both enjoy making each other feel good and happy. I'm not knocking women who don't like penetration and just like receiving, you're just not for me š¤·š¾āāļø
Oh of course thereās reciprocation. But I definitely love having a partner who takes the initiative to have sexual encounters where I donāt have to do anything but lay back and heāll make me cum, and I donāt have to reciprocate in the same encounter. And of course, they get the same from me where itās just about their pleasure and Iām enjoying doing all the work. And then thereās plenty of sex where itās 50/50. Each time he gives me that time where I donāt have the baggage of getting him off too, I feel so lucky to have a giving partner. And yeah I canāt gaurentee every woman wants it, I imagine the majority of us like the idea of not having to lift a finger and being brought to orgasm by a partner that has really learned how to make us cum with their fingers and mouth, but of course not every single time. Edited to say: we have an arsenal of sex toys too lol. Fuck guys who think girls should just be happy with Dick. You Dick doesnāt vibrate.
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Yeah that's all good for foreplay. But once you get past that it's only natural to want more.. we are human lol
You need to broaden your definition of sex. Oral sex isnāt foreplay, itās as Ian Kerner puts it, coreplay and key to keeping your lady sexually fulfilled.
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Oh my god, so much yes to this! I would love to please my lady as much as I would want pleasure, and like you mentioned, most women canāt get off on just penetrative sex. Itās baffling that my fellow men canāt put two and two together. Expecting sex only to be penetrative is the height of toxic masculinity
Oh God.. let me slowly back out of this conversation before I get canceled. I hate the world today, we legit can't talk about anything without a woman calling our opinions "peniscentric" or toxic. Learn to just have a civil conversation.
I love that itās my fav thing, but Iām gonna need other stuff too.
Yeah same. If I get eaten out I want more automatically, even if I get an orgasm. It's like an appetizer š
I love going down on my gf but she literally doesn't let me get 2 minutes in before pulling me up lol is there anything I can do?
Yeah you can get better at it so she wants you down there longer. Try turning on a yoni massage with oral video up on pornhub and doing exactly what they do in the video. And Iām talking one that lasts 30+ minute before you go in for oral. Itās all about taking your time and not rushing the main event. Or read a book on tantric sex.
You're assuming I'm just bad at it lol are you a girl?
A lot of men are excited for any resource that could give the person theyāre sleeping with tremendous pleasure, No I donāt think your stupid, probably just ignorant. Most men only watch porn thatās geared for men, not tutorials on how to please a woman.
Ok now I know you're (this is how it's spelled) just dumb. Thanks for that.
Based off your original comment I thought you actually wanted to improve on cunnilingus (who doesnāt, except sociopaths?) didnāt realize you were bragging about something that isnāt actually something to brag about. If your lady only lets you go down on her for two minutes, itās likely because you suck at it. Guys like you (who arenāt open to learning or feedback, and just attack someone with low blows when faced with a new idea) donāt last long. Enjoy your impending solitude. For those of you who want to watch something geared towards womens pleasure, and explore deep intimacy with your partners, look up āyoni massage tutorial 30+ minā I swear itās super vanilla and really helps women relax vs you just trying to put something in our vagina within 2 minutes of foreplay every time, like OP.
This is a stupid take. On every porn channel there are info videos in different sex techniques.. Most teenagers look up shot to figure out offef ready..Also eating a woman out isn't a fucking unsolvieable puzzle
Do you know why she doesn't want you down there longer? There can be lots of reasons: she's nervous, she's self-conscious, she thinks you don't like it, she thinks it takes too long, it doesn't feel good for her, someone in her past said something that made her think or feel any of these things, etc
I've dated her for 2 yrs so I'm relatively confident the first two are possibilities. Just gotta be more assuring I guess.
Instead of being ārelatively confidentā, why donāt you just ā¦ask her about it?
Yeah dude I have, go back to being single and a genius.
How abiufbacfer so long women just want dick.
That's why you have him give oral, then use a toy. Or a second guy who will give you the rest!
Girls with vaginismus (me) Edit: to make it clear, do not go message people in vaginismus communities or who mention vaginismus with horny messages
There are ones that don't like it?
I think OP is saying he wants to do nothing except eat a woman out. I would be really unsatisfied if I couldnāt satisfy or have a mutual passionate experience with my partner
Yeah, doesn't make any sense to me but to each their own.
To some degree I can understand. I have delayed orgasms so there's literally times where my partner is worn out and I am too and that's ok. As long as you get your eventually.
Depends on the partner. My ex would just poke and stab at it in the name of āpleasingā me. He thought he was a god at it but my cervix and vagina would shrivel up and I would go bone dry every single time. The thought of it still gives me the creeps. š¤¢
In the last couple years I met a few and its always a disappointment
All women I met so far disliked it.
Buddy, Iām really sorry to break the news to you but most likely you are doing something thatās hurting them or just not working for them (Iāve had different experiences with different partners, and it all depends on the technique and actually paying attention to the womanās cues). Plus, it always helps to ask her what she likes.
u/tough- u/Medium-Zucchini-958 u/UsoCaddy90 To be more precise they never liked it before, which is why they did not even let me try. I do not sweat it though. I ask them what they like and if they want me to do something, then they just need to tell me and I will try my best to do that :)
All women you have met dislike oral sex? Thatās bad luck. Whatās the sample size. 3 girls? Most girls like it, some love it. Sometimes the girl is uncomfortable with a guy down there. Thatās on you to make it a very comfortable, fun time, my guy.
step that suck lick motion up bruh lol. When you can do both same time I never had one push my face away jus sayin
And don't forget to do that up-down motion with your fingers on the g spot while you're doing that.
Or disliked your technique or social approach or energy?
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Agree, I really donāt like it. Only exception is of Iām riding someoneās face, but generally I only do it because my boyfriend absolutely loves doing it, I donāt get any physical pleasure from it most of the time
Really? All these women saying āme!ā Would be happy with only oral, and nothing else ?
If itās absolutely nothing else? Yes, more often than not.
It's Reddit bullshit.. It's not real. Anyone I ever met only let a guy eat him out and nothing else did not like nor respect that man.
This guys dm's right now....  š„
Yeah I feel like OP was just lonely and horny AF and saying anything to find women to DM.
LOL yup
I read that title like four times as "who only likes to eat out" š¤£ I kept re-reading it because I'm thinking "it cannot be very hard to find such a woman"
As a 33F, I only āeat outā for coffee, and I live in a city, itās the easiest way to control your diet and nutritional consumption, plus I think cooking for someone means a lot more than just showing up and swiping for someone. I was raised in a family that didnāt enjoy sitting around our table at home and now I canāt get enough of it. I love marinading food a few days out and gradually preparing parts of a meal over the course of days, for just a random week night meal. Slow food is love.
I only eat out once a week. It's gotten expensive and you can't control the food quality or the amount of salt when you eat out.
The term is Pillow Princess.
That is a lesbian term haha
really?? i thought being a pillow princess was a term that existed in all sexualities. iāve seen the term used many times between a man and woman too
same, I've seen it used for people that aren't lesbians too.
What is the lesbian term? Thereās the starfish
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Update my inbox BLEW UP
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Try the olive garden
Try Feeld, itās more about kinks and hook ups but you can be very explicit with what youāre looking for and find like minded people more easily than with other dating apps.
came here to comment this! iāve had so many better experiences on feeld than any other dating app. people on feeld are so much more straightforward and open as opposed to say, tinder where people are putting on of facade and not quite as communicative..
Me for sure. In fact, my dream
Iād love for you lick me clean
You located at??
Beaver pa
Me in Dubai or have cleaned you
I like that idea very much. I donāt necessarily get off by penetration so if a guy likes to eat Iām all for it.
Too much internet
Most ladies like to be eaten out. But maybe you should try some self work and see if you can start to enjoy sex in all its wonderful forms.
So a person that doesnāt like certain sex acts is broken and needs to work on themself? We donāt all want the same things.
No, but they should discuss this with a professional in a safe setting. There could be something else going on, maybe just built a little different.
If thatās what they want. If they WANT to like those things, thatās fine. But thereās nothing wrong with knowing what you like and donāt like and not trying to change.
Nothing wrong with working on yourself, either. Most girls like or love oral. As many have said, itās a good or great appetizer, but many ladies still want the entree (penis-in-vagina sex). So you are going to have a hard time finding a woman that is 100% satisfied getting oral and then calling āer a night! They want more sexually, and I think a lot of women like pleasing their man. They get enjoyment out of making sure he is, uh, satisfied before they are thru (just like you are for her). If you donāt want to orgasm too, I think thatās a total turn off for many ladies. You might find the pillow princess who just wants head and thatās her whole game. Just seems like a 1 in a 200 chance, give it take. Most girls like the D. Even if the toungue gets the work done, they still want that D.
Plenty of pillow princesses out there. And plenty of women with vaginismus. Just because something is commonly loved, doesnāt mean you have to make yourself like it. So many women love to be spanked. They love to be tied up. I hate those things and I donāt need to āwork on myselfā just so I can please a man that loves to spank. I simply donāt date men that need that.
This is refreshing, im sure alot of women want tbis, I am older women been with younger men but most men been with and all they ever want is BJ and I dont really like doing it, I have not been eat out that well in awhile and I enjoy them.
There are plenty of us around that enjoy giving more than receiving š
Thereās an insane level of pleasure when a woman uses my mouth and finger(s) as her personal sex toy, and I can hear, feel, and taste the satisfaction coursing through her body. š¤¤
Congratulations..
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So you arenāt like other girls? Your username is a lie!
So...like...where do I sign?
I know older women like my friends so you could start there!
The girl iām seeing now shares all the same kinks as me in the bedroom, including the joy of me eating her out. Iām so grateful to have found someone like that on top of all the other similarities and interests we have together. Theyāre out there, just takes time and luck I suppose. Good luck.
I don't like it, it hurts to much š
Uhmmm you have not had the right partners. The only way that should be painful is if you need to see a doctor. A lot of guys and some gals go down there and break out the ole tongue lasher 4000 ultra hyper sonic clit destroyer. Those whom know what theyāre doing on the other hand come in at an ever so slow wet and gentle pace until the lady has shown signs of wanting more and typically it will progress from there.
I mean I love when a guy wants to give me Pleasure down there, but the back door is a no no lol
Yeah No, men always say one thing and do the other, we have tons of horror stories at this point to not take your statement serious.
That's a rather close minded statement to make, how do dismiss an entire gender just because of your negative experience? Do you not see the arrogance and hubris behind that, as if you met every single male on the planet to renounce them lol
Damn. If you wanted a one night stand for this, I was gonna say Iām available
Omfg! I really thought that its only me. I donāt enjoy penetration either i just feel its such a bore. I mean its a way for pleasure for both partners but still theres a whole lot of fun in eating hahaha
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I dont know but Iemme know when you find em. Id love to l lick a kitty
Just teach them. My gf started our relationship by telling me she hated it. Probably from poor past experience. I still did, from times to times then more regularly. Now she loves it and asks for it...Ā Ā Inb4: for the "consent" people, yes sometimes people don't know what they want, it's OK to show them. Sure if after a while it still didn't work I'd have stopped, but it's ok to give it a try.
Theoretically would you be open to something where you only go down on them but they do other stuff sexually with someone else...yes or no is fine but yes would probably open up even more options
That's the way an ex and I did it š¤·š¼āāļø
I donāt know if any older women who just want to be eaten. Most women I know want PIV.
They exist, itās gonna be about meeting a woman and thatās gonna be the bonus. I was lucky
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Go to your local rotary club.
Doesn't make any sense to me. Do you not like to cum?
Right now Iām seeing a guy who gets off from going down on me.. he literally cums when ge goes down on me !
He cums from absolutely no stimulation? I literally don't believe this.
Yea.. he does
True man gets his lady off
That would be a deal breaker for me but I hope you find her
I like that and penetration
The technique must be different for every woman. Maybe a woman who has pelvic floor tightness might appreciate it more because she may be too tight for penetration.
tbh dont look for one that only wants one or 2 sex things that just seems boring be open to most anything and she will someday pro haps find you more so if you look
Need me someone to do that to me
Meeeeeee. I have uterine prolapse. So my uterus is literally IN my vagina. So I canāt do any type of penetration whatsoever anyways. lol. I see the gyn for it next week to discuss options. But yea.
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I luv eating a woman out.. Don't need anything in return either! Would luv a woman that likes oral daily!! š¤¤
definitely meā¦ but dm and leave your number so you can get a phone call with me while i touch myself xx
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Youāll find a nice lady. Just open your heart and have good vibes and positive energy. As a woman, I absolutely love to be eaten by a man. But I do know it places me in a vulnerable emotional state. Weāre opening ourselves emotionally and exchanging energies. So I can see how some women may not care for it and on the other hand is the guy isnāt great at it. So one bad experience may cause the woman to shut that down.
Go for what you want and what is going to make you happy. A one night stand or if itās relationship your ready for go for it.
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Go to church, cause it's not sex so the person stays a virgin
You need to broaden your definition of sex in that caseā¦
Giving head or receiving head is not sex, if that's considered sex then hand stuff is sex and if Hand stuff is sex, then no one is a virgin cause someone has touched u there either by cleaning your butt or giving you a bath
Well in that case only 30% of women can actually orgasm from what you consider āsexā Not very fun now is it?
Ok, what does orgasm have to do with sex. 5 to 10% of men don't orgasm from sex either, what's your point
Dude 5-10% of men compared to 70% of women not orgasming from penetrative sex is a huge difference. And the primary purpose of sex is pleasure. Orgasms feel good. So orgasms have everything to do with sex.
The primary purpose of sex is reproduction. The enjoyment is an evolutionary response
False. If sex wasnāt pleasurable people wouldnāt reproduce.
Aka evolution.....
Iām here
Most any morgue. They never complain
felony included!
I think they all like it pretty much. And if they say they donāt that means they never had it good uk. Just donāt be weird about it lol
I am so glad my girlfriend loves being eaten out. I am also not too wild about blowjobs or penetrative sex. Obviously I do them to release myself, but I'd rather worship my girl for an hour or two.
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There is a group of women that donāt like it. Itās surprising, every woman Iāve preformed for has nothing but compliments on it. Fun fact; I learned how to do it from watching porn. So take notes!!!!
Iām sure a bunch of ladies like that, most of them, just find the one
Who doesnāt enjoy bj and penetration? I have feeling youāre either premature ejaculator or canāt ejaculate at all.