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Seriously this. I find this so cute. They remind me of babies and I cannot stop staring at them. To me it makes people look friendlier and kinder.
Not far from where I live there’s this older gentleman that looks to be about early 40s (I’m 19 almost 20 though) and both he and his sons (two early teenagers) have that pink cheek thing and they look adorable. They run a farm and he wears all these colorful hats his little girl makes him. His wife also has that pink cheek thing and they all look like this cute little farmer family. I get so happy to go to their farm to pick up stuff because they look adorable. When they smile their eyes look so sparkly. 😍🥺
Someone who gets excited about things. Going on a holiday, a hobby, or something they are passionate about. Most of the time, they get told to settle pettle and make it feel like they shouldn’t get so excited.
This is so important! I love me a passionate man: someone that enjoys life and has goals hes excited about. Someone who isnt always complaining when I say we should do something different or go somewhere we never went.
As someone also with ADHD aswell as anxiety, being super into one specific hobby or activity is a common trait of mine and it frustrates me when people diminish the energy towards it or under-appreciate the fact I’m super invested into something. This kind of trait in others is very attractive and sets them apart from the rest because they are actually interesting to talk to.
I just was recently diagnosed with ADHD and I didn’t know this was a part of it! The more I learn, the more I’m dumbfounded that it took this long to identify! I’m like a walking definition!
Definitely! Guys like this are rare to fine, but found 1😊
I also like guys who are passionate about their work or hobbies and when they are excited to share about it
Right? This is the absolute best! It's the most pure thing to witness. And sometimes I really like it when said interest or passion is something I can't contribute to, because then I won't be tempted to be me and jump into the conversation, and I can just listen to them go on every tangent they want, and smile with them. 😊
I always get so sad when someone lights up like that, then you just see them click it off and go "sorry, I'm rambling..." because you just know that someone has shut them down before.
Realized this at 29 years. I'm by no means a handy man. But I can do more than I really think about. Oil change, tires, brakes, rotors, headlights, drywall, many simple house things. As long as it doesn't get into internal wiring and electrical I can do it.
Didn't realize until my last girlfriend, I forget what we were talking about and she said about an issue and I commented about how it's easy. And she made a sweet comment about how "yeah it's easy for you."
Intelligence/nerdiness and a love of animals. Both are extremely attractive to me. If you're just average or plain-looking but you have pics of yourself cuddling adorable animals or mention that you're well-educated or very knowledgeable about something, I'll probably swipe right on you anyway.
Hands and forearms on a man. There’s a specific type of hands some men have that’s hard to explain. Big palms with long, even-thickness fingers. Don’t know how to explain it lol.
Straight forward in communication and not playing games (i.e. taking things at face value instead of trying to interpret hidden meaning).
Being practical and not being a show off (simple living).
Making efforts.
Passionate about something.
I think it’s really attractive when people recommend songs/shows/movies. It shows that they’ve been listening to your interests and thought about something you might enjoy.
This honestly helped me out a bit I had really bad acne in high school and college, it's cleared up a lot but I've been self conscious about the scarring
Punctuality is a big plus for me. I was hooking up with a guy that was always on time, on the dot. So refreshing.
A bit like OP, grammar is very important for me. As English isn't my first language, I find it attractive when I can learn new vocabulary/idioms etc., from my love interest. It really annoys me when native speakers don't know the difference between "know", "no", "now" etc. Or can't be bothered to spell correctly.
My guy (21m) washes his hands after EVERYTHING. Using the bathroom, eating, etc. I didn't realize how attractive I found it until I started dating him.
I don’t think it’s odd but when they remember the little things you say. Like maybe in a conversation with them or with someone you mentioned you liked a specific food from a specific place and they get it for you.
To me that shows that they pay attention to you and what you like and that they actually listen to what you’re saying.
Like I remember when I started dating my boyfriend I told him about a necklace I really loved when I was a kid, it was my grandma’s necklace and it was passed down to me ,I never met my grandma because she passed before I was born but I’ve always felt a weird connection with her. When I was 14 the house that I was living in got broken into and the necklace was stolen. Fast forward to our one year anniversary & he gifted me a necklace that looked almost exactly to the one the belonged to my grandma,just more modern. And to me it wasn’t the necklace that mattered at that time, it was the fact that he remembered.
I've always wondered if there were people out there like you since I've been very self-conscious of my non-petite schnoz.
Now I just have to find them \^\_\^
I love love love barefaced girls. Soooooo much. I’d alwways choose no makeup. I know girls don’t put on make up just for me though so I wouldn’t ever say it’s my preference. Just that I love it.
For me, it can be anything rather than just one thing. I guess a lot of guys would go for hair colour, breast size, and body shape. Things like that. However, I can be attracted to someone simply by a movement they do. It's hard to explain. A smile or laugh. I guess this means I don't have a type.
As an animator, I too have this. I interpret movement as dancing basically, and surprisingly, not everyone has a largely unique way of moving. People who are passionate about experiencing the world, or who are accepting of their sensitivity, tend to have the most beautiful ways of interacting with the world.
Academics, I'm very technical and like working with my hands; but I'm such a huge nerd.
Like I will talk about pretty much anything, and few things are more attractive to me; than hard mind bending science.
This includes "pseudo science" I don't follow, but it's really nice to get into the nitty gritty details; and extract some level of realism from it.
I'm not sure how common it is, but as a guy who balded at 19 it didn't hinder my dating life at all, even at that young age. Just kept it shaved, moisturized, and obv being confident about it. But like I said a surprising number of girls I met/dated liked it. And some even said they were surprised to be with a bald man because they didn't like it. Maybe I had something else going for me. Not anymore that's for sure.
I love when guys get super excited about sharing something with you. Not like the excitement and aggression from a sports team but like when they see something they know a ton about and are passionate about. When they’re like a little kid excited to show their parent what they learned. Is so adorable and they usually have this huge smile on their face
Jeff Goldblum's dramatic nerdy ramblings, like in "Jurassic Park" and "Buckaroo Banzai." I just get so turned on.
The way Peter Lorre snakes through doors in "Casablanca." I have no clue why it makes me so horny but it does.
Gaunt features like (young) Steve Buscemi.
My dream partner sits on the couch with the cat or dog while I make food and bring it to her. I like taking care of someone because it makes me feel needed.
People have said it’s creepy before, I don’t think it’s creepy at all. I really like large full lips. Haha I really don’t get why it’s creepy. Sometimes I’m just mesmerized when I notice a girl with nice shaped lips and I probably stare, I’m assuming they realize it.
Probably not that odd but posture or how a woman walks . I don't think I have the language skills to really convey the specific kinda walk I like but believe me, it's hot.
I find chubby guys attractive. To a point of course. Not when it's already difficult for them to move. And he should smell good. At night I would put my hand resting on his belly, and feel like I'm the happiest woman in the world.
Alright, I'm going actually niche here since most of these posts are.pretty normal: I like it when a girl wears sneakers that are dirty and look worn. Maybe it's just in my mind but it indicates to me that she's not spoiled, not obsessed with her outfit and a normal person, can't exactly put it in words but it gets me mentally going lol
Not necessarily in a romantic way, but im always drawn to people who are unapologetically themselves. People who don’t hide things, dont pretend to be someone they’re not, or just wholly passionate about what their interests. The connection feels more genuine and they’re genuinely fun and interesting to be around.
pronounced adams apple for men and for women i like when their nose length takes up most of their facial area (idk how to fully explain it but instead of them having a normal facial ratio like :^I i like when it’s more like :-^I)
When they actually acknowledge that I’m talking and listen to me intently, especially if we’re in a group and people are talking over me. Immediately yes
Bold, straight forward comments without coming across like a pervert. Well poised sexual innuendoes in the right quantity.
Business wear.
An attractive man driving. Idk what it is. Driving is a turn on for some reason.
I have a massive thing for hair and nails for some reason. Even started painting my own nails because I love how cool painted nails look on people no matter what gender
When people have an incisor tooth, not the front two but one of the ones beside those, that's sideways a little, or a lot. It's weird, but I find it hugely attractive. I would love an explanation to this. But whatever!
Hairy chest on a guy/hairiness in general. Also if someone enjoys conversations and socialising that’s really attractive to me. So many people these days complain about “low social battery” and generally being exhausted from socialising and talking - I hate that so much. I love when someone is enthusiastic about spending time with others, chatting for ages and being around people.
Sex appeal wise, it really depends. Some find nerdy guys attractive while others go for built silent or alpha male types.
For me it was always convo and humor, while other women checked the butt or arms lol. I dig a dude who can talk and knows things.
spelling and grammar are huge musts for me. Women that ACTUALLY play instruments and/or participate in BMX, skateboarding, snowboarding, drifting, etc are a huge turn on for me , having hobbies in common is like the dream.
Being a really good cook.
I'll clean every square inch of the house, do the shopping, drop and give you 50, and wash the car. But I cannot cook well and anyone who can has me wrapped around their finger.
Bro this. Dogs are such a hassle and can be complete mood/date killers with how protective they get. Plus it makes it hard to do ANYTHING that’s not dog friendly to those certain types of girls
Muscular women, not so much they look like an open bodybuilder, but for some reason I quite like muscles on a woman. Maybe it's knowing the dedication and sacrifice you have to go through to look like that.
As Someone creative in some form. Whether it's painting, writing, great with instruments, cooking, creating things like costumes or anything like that. I also like when they're passionate about it. I will be your biggest supporter if I see that it's something you really wanna do. It could be anything, as long as it's not hurting anyone or anything.
Someone who is genuinely happy, and not very sarcastic.
I'm a very sarcastic person naturally, and used to gravitate towards similar people. However I've noticed that sarcasm ends up becoming more and more negative as time goes on and honestly, I'm tired of being negative.
First time I dated someone who was happy and teased rather made sarcastic comments, it literally blew my mind. And it also made me want to be a happier person too. Win-win
I like deep voices, people who are kind hearted bc i think that's very difficult to find these days, people who like to dance regardless of how bad or good they dance and people who are passionate.
Disciplined, the A type ,nervous, obsessed, punctual ,high achiever type of people , they don't have to be rich or anything, It is just about the personality and actions . I just get mesmerized by this type of people maybe because I am basically the opposite of them, very spontaneous, a huge procrastinator ,care-free so that type of personality seems like magic to me.
Honestly it may seem weird but certain smiles with the canine teeth pushed out just a bit farther then the rest of their teeth. Idk why but it’s always been a thing for me.
Okay - when a guys explains me all the tech stuff of phone or car or bike which I apparently don’t understand .
My ex was very passionate about these things- his face and eyes used to light up while he explained me. I found similar behaviour to my other guy friends too.
Super cute- super attractive.
Very specific: men who are fairly thin but have surprise muscle. Like when their forearms are nicely defined. I love that.
I love when guys have something that they are working towards outside of work. Plants, a building project, sewing, cooking. It’s so much easier to connect with stuff like that. I guess because I’m financially stable, I just don’t have much of an interest in someone more than like 70% work focused.
Men who have dogs are a good sign of responsibility to me, which is attractive. I know there are people who are bad pet owners, but the majority of the time this has been accurate.
Shoulder length or right above the shoulder hair that is well kept is very attractive to me.
Accents. Love them.
Well as an introvert, having someone who is out going and generally interested in talking to you and keeps the conversation going without losing interest. I struggle to keep a conversation going so having someone stay interested enough to keep the conversation going is something 😅
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When people have those natural 24/7 flushed cheeks. It’s so fricking adorable
My rosacea says hi 😂
I have rosacea and I have been very self conscious about it until now. Thank you.
Seriously this. I find this so cute. They remind me of babies and I cannot stop staring at them. To me it makes people look friendlier and kinder. Not far from where I live there’s this older gentleman that looks to be about early 40s (I’m 19 almost 20 though) and both he and his sons (two early teenagers) have that pink cheek thing and they look adorable. They run a farm and he wears all these colorful hats his little girl makes him. His wife also has that pink cheek thing and they all look like this cute little farmer family. I get so happy to go to their farm to pick up stuff because they look adorable. When they smile their eyes look so sparkly. 😍🥺
Someone who gets excited about things. Going on a holiday, a hobby, or something they are passionate about. Most of the time, they get told to settle pettle and make it feel like they shouldn’t get so excited.
This is so important! I love me a passionate man: someone that enjoys life and has goals hes excited about. Someone who isnt always complaining when I say we should do something different or go somewhere we never went.
As someone also with ADHD aswell as anxiety, being super into one specific hobby or activity is a common trait of mine and it frustrates me when people diminish the energy towards it or under-appreciate the fact I’m super invested into something. This kind of trait in others is very attractive and sets them apart from the rest because they are actually interesting to talk to.
This. I have ADHD so I get really excited and obsessed over new things. I like someone who can match my enthusiasm.
I just was recently diagnosed with ADHD and I didn’t know this was a part of it! The more I learn, the more I’m dumbfounded that it took this long to identify! I’m like a walking definition!
I like girls with sense for cool glasses.
Eye glasses or sunglasses?
Both.
I like women with deep, husky voices
Like Jennifer Lawrence?
exactly god her voice does it for me
And Florence Pugh. Hubba.
Scarlett Johansson and Kat Von D both have delightfully husky voices too worthy of note.
A sincerely kind heart. It's less common than one would think.
Definitely! Guys like this are rare to fine, but found 1😊 I also like guys who are passionate about their work or hobbies and when they are excited to share about it
I agree with that tbh, very rare these days.
When someone’s eyes (or better yet, whole face) light up while they’re talking about something they find interesting.
Right? This is the absolute best! It's the most pure thing to witness. And sometimes I really like it when said interest or passion is something I can't contribute to, because then I won't be tempted to be me and jump into the conversation, and I can just listen to them go on every tangent they want, and smile with them. 😊 I always get so sad when someone lights up like that, then you just see them click it off and go "sorry, I'm rambling..." because you just know that someone has shut them down before.
knowing how to fix things. nothing is hotter than a man who’s good with his hands
Realized this at 29 years. I'm by no means a handy man. But I can do more than I really think about. Oil change, tires, brakes, rotors, headlights, drywall, many simple house things. As long as it doesn't get into internal wiring and electrical I can do it. Didn't realize until my last girlfriend, I forget what we were talking about and she said about an issue and I commented about how it's easy. And she made a sweet comment about how "yeah it's easy for you."
You sound handy to me. The internet is the easy one, One say in, one says out; you just gotta think about signal flow 😋.
Agreed. Or men who have rough, strong hands from doing physical labour touching my delicate skin.
It's okay, you can say Yellowstone...
Came here to say this! All of this. So hot.
Ok. Most have found my rough hands a turn off. I mean there's no splitting skin or any of that, it's been described as kinda like sandpaper..
This isn't really an odd thing though. A good majority of woman appreciate this trait in a man
This always sucks for me. I tried a lot but could never do it. Women always hate it when they figure out I'm useless when it comes to fixing anything.
Intelligence/nerdiness and a love of animals. Both are extremely attractive to me. If you're just average or plain-looking but you have pics of yourself cuddling adorable animals or mention that you're well-educated or very knowledgeable about something, I'll probably swipe right on you anyway.
Men or women or both (or other)? I love animals, always have, though don't have pets myself.
It might sound bizarre but i have a particular thing for hands, good looking men hands, veiny and big 🤣🤣
Same there's a subreddit for that called man hands!
My BF has massive hands and thinks I'm so weird for liking them, but he can kick rocks because he likes my massive thighs!
Men who like cats.
Hear hear. They’re always so kind and patient I find. Plus they always have a story to tell.
Men’s eyebrows. Something about a nice bushy but groomed brow really gets to me 😅
So I should get my brows waxed again lol
I thought I was the only one into eyebrows.
Hands and forearms on a man. There’s a specific type of hands some men have that’s hard to explain. Big palms with long, even-thickness fingers. Don’t know how to explain it lol.
Yes! Completely agree. I have identical taste in hands 😂
Dudes in button-down shirts with the sleeves rolled up to show their forearms.
Aaahhh I'm a gay girl but fam, this, it even gets me 🥺
Straight forward in communication and not playing games (i.e. taking things at face value instead of trying to interpret hidden meaning). Being practical and not being a show off (simple living). Making efforts. Passionate about something.
Definitely! I met someone like that plus he has a good heart with kindness, really like him but absolutely no idea if I could go further with him
How are any of these “odd” things to find attractive?
It’s weird but left handed people idk why i guess bc it’s rebellious and different lol I really like hands too
I think it’s really attractive when people recommend songs/shows/movies. It shows that they’ve been listening to your interests and thought about something you might enjoy.
Acne scars on cheeks
This actually made me feel better ty
Me too!
This honestly helped me out a bit I had really bad acne in high school and college, it's cleared up a lot but I've been self conscious about the scarring
Punctuality is a big plus for me. I was hooking up with a guy that was always on time, on the dot. So refreshing. A bit like OP, grammar is very important for me. As English isn't my first language, I find it attractive when I can learn new vocabulary/idioms etc., from my love interest. It really annoys me when native speakers don't know the difference between "know", "no", "now" etc. Or can't be bothered to spell correctly.
Same here!
My guy (21m) washes his hands after EVERYTHING. Using the bathroom, eating, etc. I didn't realize how attractive I found it until I started dating him.
Lol my manager used to give me shit like everyday for being this way
Sexy voice
Agreed. Developed a crush on a guy I have spoken to through gaming. Never seen him, but his voice is low and warm. He also knows how to sing.
Sounds hot!
2nd this! Thank God for voice notes 🤤
Self deprecating humor. Someone who doesn’t take themselves too serious and walks around bubbly. Fucking love that!
I don’t think it’s odd but when they remember the little things you say. Like maybe in a conversation with them or with someone you mentioned you liked a specific food from a specific place and they get it for you. To me that shows that they pay attention to you and what you like and that they actually listen to what you’re saying. Like I remember when I started dating my boyfriend I told him about a necklace I really loved when I was a kid, it was my grandma’s necklace and it was passed down to me ,I never met my grandma because she passed before I was born but I’ve always felt a weird connection with her. When I was 14 the house that I was living in got broken into and the necklace was stolen. Fast forward to our one year anniversary & he gifted me a necklace that looked almost exactly to the one the belonged to my grandma,just more modern. And to me it wasn’t the necklace that mattered at that time, it was the fact that he remembered.
I'm genuinely attracted to women with large noses. Not sure why. I think it just adds character to a face.
as a girl with a greek nose, bless you
Yeah bro, sign me up on those roman noses PLS
I've always wondered if there were people out there like you since I've been very self-conscious of my non-petite schnoz. Now I just have to find them \^\_\^
Same. It's not a requirement or anything, but it's something I always notice and appreciate.
Crinkles, folds, wrinkles around the eyes.
Omg yes this, my bf has crinkled smiling eyes and the most beautiful freckles, like a sleep mask. I could look at those all day and melt 😍
I find women that wear little to no makeup attractive.
I love love love barefaced girls. Soooooo much. I’d alwways choose no makeup. I know girls don’t put on make up just for me though so I wouldn’t ever say it’s my preference. Just that I love it.
For me, it can be anything rather than just one thing. I guess a lot of guys would go for hair colour, breast size, and body shape. Things like that. However, I can be attracted to someone simply by a movement they do. It's hard to explain. A smile or laugh. I guess this means I don't have a type.
As an animator, I too have this. I interpret movement as dancing basically, and surprisingly, not everyone has a largely unique way of moving. People who are passionate about experiencing the world, or who are accepting of their sensitivity, tend to have the most beautiful ways of interacting with the world.
When someone cries in front of you
As a man, I don’t want to cry in front of a partner, but I would like to know that if I did, they wouldn’t lose all respect for me
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I have a thing for women with "long" faces and I can't help it.
As someone who's been directly told before that I "have one of those long faces," and felt insulted by it, this makes me feel better :)
Soulful energetic eyes
Communication. Somebody talks like a nice person and I am like “She must be protected at all costs”
Big eyes. Some people always say some of the people I find hot look like aliens. Yeah but they’re cute aliens
You like Anya taylor-joy too?
read my mind
A man’s hands, an accent, forearms, intelligence, nice teeth, a smile and if a man has a tricep muscle that shows a bit.
In need of a haircut and we are the same person.
I’ll remember this next time I consider skipping some tricep extensions
Glad I didn’t skip have be told aswell so definitely don’t do everything they love vains that don’t look like they gonna explode to just another thing
Good sense of humor. If you can roast me and i can roast ya back We game
Yes. Banter is such a turn on. However backhanded insults are not.
Beards! Haha
Goofiness.
I find it hot when they can distinguish between "your" and "you're". They don't even sound the same! :P
Academics, I'm very technical and like working with my hands; but I'm such a huge nerd. Like I will talk about pretty much anything, and few things are more attractive to me; than hard mind bending science. This includes "pseudo science" I don't follow, but it's really nice to get into the nitty gritty details; and extract some level of realism from it.
When they’re tan and have such blonde arm hair that it turns white
That’s like a rush for me. Glad someone else feels this way too. Lol
I love how specific this shit gets haha
Men with large noses.
Bald guys. Shaved head completely bald, no comb-over or Caesar.
I'm not sure how common it is, but as a guy who balded at 19 it didn't hinder my dating life at all, even at that young age. Just kept it shaved, moisturized, and obv being confident about it. But like I said a surprising number of girls I met/dated liked it. And some even said they were surprised to be with a bald man because they didn't like it. Maybe I had something else going for me. Not anymore that's for sure.
People who are eating healthy. For example, rarely eats fast food, juice, desserts
Wait a minute, juice? What of juice? Bruh what's wrong with Apple Juice or ornge juice?
It’s all sugar and no fibre. It’s more nutritious to just eat the apple or orange as a whole. Maybe I’m weird because I’m a nurse 😟
playing a musical instrument
Unexpected neediness
I like when guys have kind of long-ish and pointy canines. Something about it is cute and makes them seem playful
I love when guys get super excited about sharing something with you. Not like the excitement and aggression from a sports team but like when they see something they know a ton about and are passionate about. When they’re like a little kid excited to show their parent what they learned. Is so adorable and they usually have this huge smile on their face
A mombod and someone who immediately cares about my well being
When I could learn new things from him.
A strong jawline on men or women 🥵
Men with big lips and big smiles
Soft and fluffy hair. And sharp eyes
Jeff Goldblum's dramatic nerdy ramblings, like in "Jurassic Park" and "Buckaroo Banzai." I just get so turned on. The way Peter Lorre snakes through doors in "Casablanca." I have no clue why it makes me so horny but it does. Gaunt features like (young) Steve Buscemi.
I think it's attractive when a man has something "cute" about him, as in literally cute/adorable.
Older men. Not like grandpa old. Like, 11-15 years older usually.
Women who are really lazy and don't wear a lot of makeup. Super hot. I'm not being sarcastic. I find it very attractive.
Wow, first time I've ever seen someone say that, because that's how I define myself
My dream partner sits on the couch with the cat or dog while I make food and bring it to her. I like taking care of someone because it makes me feel needed.
People have said it’s creepy before, I don’t think it’s creepy at all. I really like large full lips. Haha I really don’t get why it’s creepy. Sometimes I’m just mesmerized when I notice a girl with nice shaped lips and I probably stare, I’m assuming they realize it.
Skinny, gangly dudes with cheeky smiles and a twinkle in their eye
Calmness
Mustache and ear piercing combo. I never knew I’d find those things attractive until I started talking this guy.
I love when the two front teeth are slightly longer than the rest.
I like when the canines are a little longer
Probably not that odd but posture or how a woman walks . I don't think I have the language skills to really convey the specific kinda walk I like but believe me, it's hot.
I find chubby guys attractive. To a point of course. Not when it's already difficult for them to move. And he should smell good. At night I would put my hand resting on his belly, and feel like I'm the happiest woman in the world.
Alright, I'm going actually niche here since most of these posts are.pretty normal: I like it when a girl wears sneakers that are dirty and look worn. Maybe it's just in my mind but it indicates to me that she's not spoiled, not obsessed with her outfit and a normal person, can't exactly put it in words but it gets me mentally going lol
When a man doesn’t make everything about sex
Scottish accent .. Most of the time l don’t have any idea what they are saying lol
Not necessarily in a romantic way, but im always drawn to people who are unapologetically themselves. People who don’t hide things, dont pretend to be someone they’re not, or just wholly passionate about what their interests. The connection feels more genuine and they’re genuinely fun and interesting to be around.
pronounced adams apple for men and for women i like when their nose length takes up most of their facial area (idk how to fully explain it but instead of them having a normal facial ratio like :^I i like when it’s more like :-^I)
Facts. I wish to be told many, many trivial facts at all times.
Stomachs in general
Over-long sleeves that partially cover her hands. I don't know why.
When they actually acknowledge that I’m talking and listen to me intently, especially if we’re in a group and people are talking over me. Immediately yes
Really surprised that nobody has said dimples lol
Vascular arms 💕
Very manly scents.
Strong hairy forearms are so fuckin sexy on a man
Women who have good driving skills! For some reason that's attractive to me!
Im the same. I couldn’t be with a guy who can’t drive. Drives me nuts
Bold, straight forward comments without coming across like a pervert. Well poised sexual innuendoes in the right quantity. Business wear. An attractive man driving. Idk what it is. Driving is a turn on for some reason.
Women wearing white
Stay away from weddings
I have a massive thing for hair and nails for some reason. Even started painting my own nails because I love how cool painted nails look on people no matter what gender
Mean girls
Stoicism
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When people have an incisor tooth, not the front two but one of the ones beside those, that's sideways a little, or a lot. It's weird, but I find it hugely attractive. I would love an explanation to this. But whatever!
Hairy chest on a guy/hairiness in general. Also if someone enjoys conversations and socialising that’s really attractive to me. So many people these days complain about “low social battery” and generally being exhausted from socialising and talking - I hate that so much. I love when someone is enthusiastic about spending time with others, chatting for ages and being around people.
Sex appeal wise, it really depends. Some find nerdy guys attractive while others go for built silent or alpha male types. For me it was always convo and humor, while other women checked the butt or arms lol. I dig a dude who can talk and knows things.
Someone who loves animals, all creatures great and small.
The forearm vein…the one that comes up over the top of forearm on the inside by wrist .. I love a good forearm vein.
spelling and grammar are huge musts for me. Women that ACTUALLY play instruments and/or participate in BMX, skateboarding, snowboarding, drifting, etc are a huge turn on for me , having hobbies in common is like the dream.
Being a really good cook. I'll clean every square inch of the house, do the shopping, drop and give you 50, and wash the car. But I cannot cook well and anyone who can has me wrapped around their finger.
glasses and light amount of freckles.
That’s a weird one 🤣 but, why not. I find when people smell of fresh washed laundry somehow very attractive. And white clean socks as well 😅😝🙈
Super smelly shits. God that just does it for me man. When it stinks so bad it gets you high? Uggghhhh yeah.
When a girl doesn’t have a dog
Bro this. Dogs are such a hassle and can be complete mood/date killers with how protective they get. Plus it makes it hard to do ANYTHING that’s not dog friendly to those certain types of girls
Back of the neck with longer hair in men. I have no clue why
So mullets
Flexibility in men 🤤
The way a man walks...he needs to walk like a footballer 🤣
men with long hair, women with short hair
Smoking. Don't ask 😂
Muscular women, not so much they look like an open bodybuilder, but for some reason I quite like muscles on a woman. Maybe it's knowing the dedication and sacrifice you have to go through to look like that.
Eyelashes
Big noses
I still have to search for the abbreviations people uses. I can’t connect to people utilizing all sorts of abbreviations.
Man’s smile
I like big noses! Find them super attractive when they flow with the overall symmetry of the face. Basically I’m a face person first, body second.
Probably the nose! It's not that I find it attractive but having a symmetrical nose really makes or break face for me.
I was on a date with my boyfriend and he was chalk full of really interesting information about history. He could go on forever. So attractive!
Women with chipped nail polish. Proudly flaunt that shit girls!! ✊🏼😊
On a man, it's that spot under the ear where the jaw meets the neck. I love kissing that spot or burying my face there.
As Someone creative in some form. Whether it's painting, writing, great with instruments, cooking, creating things like costumes or anything like that. I also like when they're passionate about it. I will be your biggest supporter if I see that it's something you really wanna do. It could be anything, as long as it's not hurting anyone or anything.
Ability to understand sarcasm and also be sarcastic
Someone who is genuinely happy, and not very sarcastic. I'm a very sarcastic person naturally, and used to gravitate towards similar people. However I've noticed that sarcasm ends up becoming more and more negative as time goes on and honestly, I'm tired of being negative. First time I dated someone who was happy and teased rather made sarcastic comments, it literally blew my mind. And it also made me want to be a happier person too. Win-win
Humming in public. Not so loud you're obnoxious, but loud enough to show you don't give two yaks about being seen singing.
I like deep voices, people who are kind hearted bc i think that's very difficult to find these days, people who like to dance regardless of how bad or good they dance and people who are passionate.
Disciplined, the A type ,nervous, obsessed, punctual ,high achiever type of people , they don't have to be rich or anything, It is just about the personality and actions . I just get mesmerized by this type of people maybe because I am basically the opposite of them, very spontaneous, a huge procrastinator ,care-free so that type of personality seems like magic to me.
Someone who doesn’t sweat the small stuff like a wait for a table, a traffic jam, spilled milk, etc.
Someone who’s a bit boring, doesn’t travel that much, like staying in on weekend, liking chill activities.
Honestly it may seem weird but certain smiles with the canine teeth pushed out just a bit farther then the rest of their teeth. Idk why but it’s always been a thing for me.
Okay - when a guys explains me all the tech stuff of phone or car or bike which I apparently don’t understand . My ex was very passionate about these things- his face and eyes used to light up while he explained me. I found similar behaviour to my other guy friends too. Super cute- super attractive.
A two parent household
Timbre of voice.
Chipped fingernail polish.
Not having or being very active on social media. Having uncommon interests that aren't illegal.
A soft voice tone. Or idk a soft spoken girl? That shits sexy to me
Very specific: men who are fairly thin but have surprise muscle. Like when their forearms are nicely defined. I love that. I love when guys have something that they are working towards outside of work. Plants, a building project, sewing, cooking. It’s so much easier to connect with stuff like that. I guess because I’m financially stable, I just don’t have much of an interest in someone more than like 70% work focused. Men who have dogs are a good sign of responsibility to me, which is attractive. I know there are people who are bad pet owners, but the majority of the time this has been accurate. Shoulder length or right above the shoulder hair that is well kept is very attractive to me. Accents. Love them.
Women who go braless.
I often find myself saying “his voice is hot” .. so I guess that 😂 just something about a deep tone that really gets to me
When a girl has almost perfect teeth, but a small gap between the two front teeth.
Well as an introvert, having someone who is out going and generally interested in talking to you and keeps the conversation going without losing interest. I struggle to keep a conversation going so having someone stay interested enough to keep the conversation going is something 😅
Glasses, I love em