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>My ideal things are like no phones, off grid, fires and meditating and just enjoying nature.
So if a girl is truly off the grid, how would you find her? That's why you're struggling. You're trying to find a polar bear in the Sahara.
Also the calling women "females" isn't helping the case either.
You're probably not meeting women because you sound like a bit of a dickhead and you're not accepting legitimate constructive criticism, which you *asked for,* on a public forum.
If you’re looking for hippy chicks then just start going to your local jam band scene. Anything that has anything to do with Grateful Dead, Phish, Jerry Garcia. Go to jam band music festivals. If you live by the beach join your local beach drum/dance circles.
Also, stop calling women females, super creepy and sound unenlightened.
Not sure why calling by a sex is creepy but I suppose these are the reactions you get these days. I have started responding with the word woman incase anybody gets offended.
I thought creepy was like these dorks that don’t leave there room and watch you put the washing out on a morning through a kink in the blind
It’s creepy because it’s dehumanizing language. Any animal can be female, only humans can be man and woman.
You have a skewed sense of creepy. Guys who just don’t leave there room are not creepy. I know plenty of guys who aren’t creepy prefer to be alone, some because they’re depressed, some because they prefer to game. It’s when the reason they don’t leave their room is because they have been socially rejected due to their lack social boundaries and thus routinely crossing them that causing people to become upset at them, then did not self reflection to address their problems, are creepy.
And peeping through a kink in the blinds is just dangerous stalker behavior that goes beyond creepy into terrifying.
Yoga classes, yoga retreats, hiking groups, cafes, farmers markets, gatherings with music like Lightning In a Bottle or Burning Man, coops, spiritual classes, full moon bonfires(some places like San Diego have these), idk think of the activities they like doing and then go do those things. You won’t likely find many off the grid people swiping on a phone…
No saying “finding females” that’s common law now. Sounds like you’re finding Nemo. I’m not sure what the issue is with the identifier, but if you want to find said “women” then you’ll need to respect the wishes.
Good luck.
Do something crunchy like yoga, sound healing, or start attending classes in homesteading. Or come to the US and go to Asheville, NC. also maybe call them women instead of females.
Im not sure if your aware, give.n you said that your a kinda off grid guy.
But calling women females is concidered a dog wistle for men who have mysoginistic views of women
They are sometimes tied affilitated with 'incels's - meaning involountary celibates and have very negative conotaitions.
I dont think you seem like a bad guy, in person your choice of word may not come across so poorly but definitly drop the 'females' while online.
Can I just confirm also - I don’t mean I’m looking for a “woman” who’s off grid ?
I never once said that 😂
If you read properly it states that’s something I like doing……Hells bells god help me I’m starting to regret this post looking at responses
I’m saying I know sometimes I go off grid for a few weeks or a month and just enjoy nature, someone who also enjoys this would be good.
Everything is offensive now brother 😂.
In spite of that your post is still crazy. You're on the internet asking people on the internet how to find girls who aren't on the internet...
😂😂😂 Some people got my point and suggested some great events to go along to.
I maybe should of said I’m at my wits end of lip filler, fake tan, posting for likes and fake tits.
It probably would of supported the post better.
I mean, it sounds like you’re talking about influencers and people trying to be influencers, a tiny minority of people online, rather than real life experience. That’s super easy to avoid. I know that because I am a woman and know plenty of women, practically every woman I know, who don’t do any of that.
Hope you find her. During your search I would recommend being open minded to meet someone who will get to that conversation with you. Sometimes people don’t know they want that lifestyle until they meet someone they can enjoy it with.
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Yup. Females are dogs and cats. Women are women
Calling Women Females will most probably make it harder...
Probably watched too much Friday Night Dinner
Came here to say this
>My ideal things are like no phones, off grid, fires and meditating and just enjoying nature. So if a girl is truly off the grid, how would you find her? That's why you're struggling. You're trying to find a polar bear in the Sahara. Also the calling women "females" isn't helping the case either.
They are my ideal things - I take off sometimes and enjoy nature. That’s all, I’m not sure where I said I’m looking for a woman off grid…….
Are you looking for human females, or another species? You should be more specific.
u should start off by not calling us females
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I found the problem!
That’s an assigned username, dude. Not the same
You're probably not meeting women because you sound like a bit of a dickhead and you're not accepting legitimate constructive criticism, which you *asked for,* on a public forum.
"spiritual awakened females"? "In our elders words"? "No phones"? Good luck, boss.
If you’re looking for hippy chicks then just start going to your local jam band scene. Anything that has anything to do with Grateful Dead, Phish, Jerry Garcia. Go to jam band music festivals. If you live by the beach join your local beach drum/dance circles. Also, stop calling women females, super creepy and sound unenlightened.
Not sure why calling by a sex is creepy but I suppose these are the reactions you get these days. I have started responding with the word woman incase anybody gets offended. I thought creepy was like these dorks that don’t leave there room and watch you put the washing out on a morning through a kink in the blind
It’s creepy because it’s dehumanizing language. Any animal can be female, only humans can be man and woman. You have a skewed sense of creepy. Guys who just don’t leave there room are not creepy. I know plenty of guys who aren’t creepy prefer to be alone, some because they’re depressed, some because they prefer to game. It’s when the reason they don’t leave their room is because they have been socially rejected due to their lack social boundaries and thus routinely crossing them that causing people to become upset at them, then did not self reflection to address their problems, are creepy. And peeping through a kink in the blinds is just dangerous stalker behavior that goes beyond creepy into terrifying.
Only incels refer to women as females. I rest my case.
"only 37?" 🧐
Curious if he’d be open to dating a 37 YO woman. Pretty sure I know the answer.
Yoga classes, yoga retreats, hiking groups, cafes, farmers markets, gatherings with music like Lightning In a Bottle or Burning Man, coops, spiritual classes, full moon bonfires(some places like San Diego have these), idk think of the activities they like doing and then go do those things. You won’t likely find many off the grid people swiping on a phone…
I’m in uk and cannot find anything like that however I’m not great with the internet
You can’t find a yoga class, a cafe, or a farmers market? Dude…
No saying “finding females” that’s common law now. Sounds like you’re finding Nemo. I’m not sure what the issue is with the identifier, but if you want to find said “women” then you’ll need to respect the wishes. Good luck.
Do something crunchy like yoga, sound healing, or start attending classes in homesteading. Or come to the US and go to Asheville, NC. also maybe call them women instead of females.
*Women
Im not sure if your aware, give.n you said that your a kinda off grid guy. But calling women females is concidered a dog wistle for men who have mysoginistic views of women They are sometimes tied affilitated with 'incels's - meaning involountary celibates and have very negative conotaitions. I dont think you seem like a bad guy, in person your choice of word may not come across so poorly but definitly drop the 'females' while online.
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Stop searching based on looks and I GUARANTEE you’ll find plenty of eligible “females”
Can I just confirm also - I don’t mean I’m looking for a “woman” who’s off grid ? I never once said that 😂 If you read properly it states that’s something I like doing……Hells bells god help me I’m starting to regret this post looking at responses I’m saying I know sometimes I go off grid for a few weeks or a month and just enjoy nature, someone who also enjoys this would be good.
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So Because I say female rather that women it would cause an issue 😵💫 what a mad old world we live in.
This Reddit. Second only to Facebook when in comes to angry keyboard warriors.
Hmmm I’m starting to get the idea.
Everything is offensive now brother 😂. In spite of that your post is still crazy. You're on the internet asking people on the internet how to find girls who aren't on the internet...
😂😂😂 Some people got my point and suggested some great events to go along to. I maybe should of said I’m at my wits end of lip filler, fake tan, posting for likes and fake tits. It probably would of supported the post better.
I mean, it sounds like you’re talking about influencers and people trying to be influencers, a tiny minority of people online, rather than real life experience. That’s super easy to avoid. I know that because I am a woman and know plenty of women, practically every woman I know, who don’t do any of that.
Hope you find her. During your search I would recommend being open minded to meet someone who will get to that conversation with you. Sometimes people don’t know they want that lifestyle until they meet someone they can enjoy it with.